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[quote author=deal_ordea link=topic=622755.msg7903061#msg7903061 date=1300036963]From women who want to use their body to play games, to those women who have decided that life is easier when you have multiple guys you can date and have pay for meels regularly. From chics who think that they are the Holy Grail for manhood to the chics who are so mentally unstable that they project their feers onto everything. From the women who preach chastity while jerking the other guy off under the table to the women who love to say "it's just intimacy". I've always felt it was a raw deal when the "guys" talk down on women, or when they say "**** them and forget them". But anymore, I am starting to feel like thats exactly what should be done. Run your game on them before they can finish running their game on you. Go in for the intimacy and get out as fast as you can afterward. Don't think of the woman as another person, think of her as a hole to be plugged for awhile.

Give me reason not to feel this way, honestly, I don't want to be the typical guy using a chic for her body, but I find myself starting to believe that mentality.[/quote]Have u pulsed and think why Some girls behave like that? Could it be that some of them have been used and let down by 9ja men in the passed?

ekist:
HI AM JOE 30YS A GODFAERING , AESY GOING, GOODLUKING, HANDSOME, AND RESPECTFUL YOUNGMAN,AM 5.6 HIGHT. CHOCOLATE COLOUR, STOUT IN BODY, SINGLE. I NEED A WOMAN BITWEEN 25 TO 50 FOR A GOOD RELASHIP, I LIVE IN P/H CITY. AND THIS IS MY NUMBER, 08169743317 OR MAIL ME josephmulanij@yahoo.com.

Fake!!

Odunnu:
that answers my 'about to ask' question.
I still think there's kurukere movement sha

Don't trust him, he is pretending to be a foreigner just for a catch. He knows exactly what he is doing. This is the oldest trick in the book.

@ekist

What is the name of the hotel u work for? Any physical address ? Its very easy to check that out b4 anybody take u seriously.


Here u said u live in PH https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-622112.0.html but in ur post here u claimed to be living in GENEVA

deekseen:
Mr. Justwise, did you apply, passed preliminary screening and not get a physical address to reach us?
If your work on Nairaland is to fault what people do here, then you are right on point.
Wish you the best of luck.

I know u are educated enough reading from ur post but God!! why don't u use that brain for something positive?

Where on earth did u get the idea that one need to pass preliminary screening before him/her will be given the physical address of a company? A company without a name, no contact address and u expect any normal human being to take u seriously? What is wrong with some us Nigerians? Why do we keep letting ourselves down?

@kindmanfrancis

Very cheap scam, some of you Nigerians are shameless. How much have u made from that useless e-book?

Alepaye:
The company's name is Barez Enterprises and it is based in PH.

If you are representing a genuine company then give pple their address and where to download the application form. Its very wrong to ask pple to send their personal details to a mobile phone, they don't know anything abt the job or the company.
You make ur post look like a big scam.

@Alepaye

The company got no name and address?

tatiana009:
One needs to prepare for everything in life, even the worst. Even if the wife makes a good income, the fact still remains that the if the family income is reduced to 1 things can be really difficult especially depending on the number of kids. Suddenly instead of contributing maybe half, she'll be doing everything, rent, school fees, feeding, e.t.c let me tell you ask any woman who had to raise her kids alone, its not easy. My mother raised 5 kids alone with no help from anywhere, o boy i wouldn't wish that on anybody . Apart from the will issue, if the husband has a terminal illness or anything like that legally she'll be able to make the decisions concerning his health as opposed to 1 Uncle stepping in. In this age we need to do our best to protect ourselves and our families legally, don't wait until it happens to you, you need to learn to prevent things getting that bad especially women in Africa cos a lot of times women are the victims. Here's the thing, if they are in Nigeria he has nothing to fear financial wise in case of a divorce yet everything to gain in other scenarios by ensuring that his family will be protected.

I know that, my mum raised 6 of us without any help from anybody, i'm the last one and my dady dead when i was so little and my mum did it all. If she wasn't strong and independen't enough then when my daddy died she would have given up and left us to die of hunger. The only thing that kept her going is the love she has for us and not what my daddy had, my uncles took all the land and what have u but my mum still brought us all on her own. She is the nearest thing to God for me

tatiana009:
The legal standing here has nothing to do with divorce, if you know any widow or have heard of the tials a lot of Nigerian widows go through you would realise that it would be silly for any woman not to want a court marriage. That is the only thing that will protect her and her children in case God forbids anything bad happens. No woman wants to think of the worst happening to her husband, but 1 needs to be responsible especially because of the kids. You don't want a situation where by the husband dies or is incapacitated and the in-laws come in take everything and even some wicked ones will not even give anything for the kids upkeep. Its like taking an insurance policy, you don't want bad things to ever happen but you need to be responsible and protect yourselves and your loved ones. If she dosen't trust anyone here, its not the guy but usually the in-laws and I can't blame her, you'll be surprised how they'll change sometimes

We are talking about extreme cases here, this is not always the norms, why would the woman be in a marriage where everything is depend on the husband, if she works, have her own source of income then she wouldn't worry about what the inlaws are after. She doesn't need any legal standing to open bank accounts for her kids during her marriage where money will be paid in for the kids.

@tituso

Very cheap Con, no company name, no address, just a useless mobile phone number. Some Nigerians are just wicked

@ tomisteve

The company got no name or address? How can any genuine company ask pple to send their details to a mobile phone number?

Rubbish

tatiana009:
Actually if its in Nigeria, a woman dosen't really have much to gain financially in case of a divorce so I doubt that is a main reason, nothing like getting half of his assets here, she would even be lucky to get child support which by the way is not usually enforced. The major benefits of a court marriage here is for the woman to have a legal standing in case of her husband's demise or another wife wahala

. .and what does legal standing got to do with love? If the hubby decide to walk out of the marriage, will her legal standing force the man to stay?
If there is nothing to gain by neither party, why then do pple insist on court marriage?

Dyt:
Na cos of jst 6digits u com ere com dey shout?
Mtchew
[b]your mates drops ova 10digits[/b]m sure u made er feel u had all d moni in d world
dunno wen small bois lyk u ll eva grow
SCRAM

Why don't she go and work for that 10digits? Why must she go around with her begging plate asking for 6digits?
I'm up for guys helping their gfs and looking after them BUT i hate it when girls throw figures around EVEN when they NEVER EVER saw or had such money in their lfe b4. Do you still wonder why [b]S[/b]ome sees women as their personal property?

Beync:
God bless u dr!
people r so ignorant of the importance of court wedding in this era

Sis. .i have to disagree with u here, pple are using court marriage as an insurance now, they can afford to walk out of the marriage without any effort to work things out with their partner knowing fully well what they stand to gain (If the man/woman is rich).

I will only go for court marriage IF both of us want it, not one person insisting on it.

Shady2009:
COURT MARRIAGE BECAUSE SHE WILL[b] HAVE FULL RIGHT TO CONTROL your ASSETS IN CASE ANYTHING HAPPENS TO YOU AND FOR SECURITY REASONS

[/b]

Thats the point there,

Coolabbie:
Im sure she's being wary of her in-laws. I see nothing wrong in it, so let her proceed.

Yes but i will be wary of any lady who insist on court marriage

datingange:
It's real. You don't have delay.
Gud luck.

Only a fool like you will fall for this

If this job is for Qatar Airways why are u asking pple to send their number to gmail?

Whoever want to verify this should visit their website and NOT sending an email and number to you.

@Plutus

Only a fool like you will send his or her personal details to that mobile phone number. Shame on everyone of u using job to con pple.

lovemoi2:
[/b] Only an Idi!ot will send his/her pesonal info to a mobile number!! I mean a sim card in nigeria is barely $1. A thief that can't even afford to open a cheap website

They are taking advantage of vulnerable and desperate job seekers. Its really a wicked act.

tundemike:
@justwise,if you know you dont have good thing to do with your phone sell it ok,dt is wot u will be doing and all your mate wil leave u n go

Wats ur company's name and address? You obviously can't answer that

Which company is that? No name, no address and u want pple to send their personal details to faceless individual?

@pslng

Your company got no physical address or website?

deekseen:
Your identity on the internet isn't safe, you know. If i wanted e-mails and personal infos for scam and other online theft, trust me, i[b] wouldn't come here and risk being followed.[/b]If you feel you cannot give out your info just because you think it'll be used for criminal acts, then don't.

This is one of the ways of getting pple's personal ID as well, no matter how u try to explain it away, u can still be followed without coming here to do it. No serious company recruit through yahoo email address and mobile phone number. Why not give pple ur company's website address or physical address?

@ fib consul

What are u going to do with all these personal details that u are requesting for? ( Surely not for a job) Is it for targetted scam emails? Identity crime? Selling it to a third party for other form of ID fraud? A company with no web address, no physical address, just a mobile phone number.

@ fib consul

What are u going to do with all these personal details that u are requesting for? ( Surely not for a job) Is it for targetted scam emails? Identity crime? Selling it to a third party for other form of ID fraud? A company with no web address, no physical address, just a mobile phone number.

@ fib consul

What are u going to do with all these personal details that u are requesting for? ( Surely not for a job) Is it for targetted scam emails? Identity crime? Selling it to a third party for other form of ID fraud? A company with no web address, no physical address, just a mobile phone number.