₦airaland Forum

mukina2:
softly softly people no fighting . .

No wahala.

Odunnu:
Shut up your mouth before I help (now,i'm seriously angry. I'm nt joking)
[b]I ask you again,is there any direct post from Justwise to Efe in section of ths forum?why do you keep suggesting he's got something for her?are you so stewpid you cant decipher when somebody is brockering peace?[/b]Dont drag us into your lovelife. Ths is the 'joke section' and lets leave it at that. You should be ashamed of yourself going by the thrash you spewed up there.

Ask him again.

brabus:
I believe home can mean many things to many people, and home does not need to be singular or a place at all.  We could create a wonderful world if we could all love, accept and respect one another. If we were all willing to work to save the things that, we love and believe in. I believe in Nigeria! I have realized that only the committed citizen can force the enthronement of good governance. No one else will or can do it. It is the man who suffers that knows where the pain is and he has the onus to seek remedy. As our people say, you cannot go to a funeral and cry more than the bereaved.A generation which ignores history has no past — and no future.

Nigeria is home by default to many of us but, that is bound to change with time in some cases, many pple leave Nigeria to other countries for so many reasons, some end up establishing 'home' there, that doesn't mean that they hate Nigeria or look down on Nigeria. Moving back to Nigeria after living overseas is a personal choice. Condeming pple who refused to move back doesn't make any sense. Home to my is where i feel at home, could be Nigeria or outside Nigeria. Alot of pple outside Nigeria help families back home, creat jobs back home, one doesn't need to live in Nigeria to be able to contribute meaningfully to the development of that country. Each time issue like this comes up, some pple start playing 'Home v Abroad game' You don't have to be living and suffering in Nigeria to be counted as a good or patriotic Nigerian.

[quote author=invisible! link=topic=549292.msg7135039#msg7135039 date=1289646924]For those who moved legally, have good jobs and are caring for their families who cared for him during his younger years, there will be no problem. The problem is the negative picture we paint of ourselves in our greed to look for the easy way out. I wonder how many Americans who will run from their countries to stay here all because he wants to find a 'home' in Lagos.The bottom line is money, our attempts to seek out easy wealth which most times lead to crime when we cannot legitimately acquire enough to satisfy our need. If most Nigerians are suffering, it is as a direct result of their understanding about life, have it ever occured to you that staying in naija is also a choice, or that some people cannot take some dehumanizing treatments meted out to Nigerians abroad despite the money involved. Stripping women for toto, sorry total search is one of such.As to why Nigerians marry whites, clearly for economic reasons. Those you mentioned may be affluent but the vast majority do so for social security. The white man will never trust, like you and for you to love the whites to the extent of marrying them is regrettable. For those of them that marry our girls, check surname of the girl and you will understand.The save Nigeria group may have its own agendas so is no reason to conclude we are suffering. Its not the 10 billion dollars remitted that worries me, its the trillions lost to foreign govts as taxes and rates. Its the lost opportunites and brain drain tht should frighten us more.[/quote]Who are you to tell anybody who to marry or fall inlove with? If you want to marry and associate with only Nigerians then that is ur choice, you can't speak for other Nigerians. The world is a global vilage, one is allowed to live, marry whoever he or she wishes, its completely nonsense for some dark age human beings to make some silly comments about it.

Studio CFR:
Let me also repeat dis to u JUSTWISE
Go and marry her and leave me alone.
Abi na she send u?
@B4U, i see u dear lol
Thanks alot.

Will she be ur second victim?

[quote author=B4U,IWAZ link=topic=547429.msg7134912#msg7134912 date=1289645556]IGNORANT AND PRESTENTIOUS SOULS

See as then dey talk like better people as if na dem after all the horrible things she said to studio, dem no go do much more than what studio did.

Dont mind them studio.
I kinda like the way you dey answer to dem yeye questions.[/quote]B4 you start jumping in and out of points, let me repeat this again to you, IT IS WRONG TO BRING PRIVATE MATTERS TO A PUBLIC FORUM.

I don't care who does it 1st but as a grown up man, he should have known better and keep some certain info to himself.

REAL TRUTH:
Everybody can't stay or live in Nigeria,,,,It would be very silly,wicked and heartless of me to assume that because Nigeria is Ok for me,,,therefore, it should be oaky for everyone else. Its also silly and an act of foolish and blind patriotism for me to assume that Nigeria is the best place for all Nigerians to be in order for them to achieve their life dreams. Its good enough to say the country has the potential to be better than what it is or has been all along,,,,but untapped potentials are just not sufficient enough. The truth is ,,,if Nigeria is not working for you,,and you have the means as long as its a legitimate one get out of the country. But if you think the country is treating you fine,,,,then good luck and stay back. Too many avoidable things are wrong with Nigeria,,so mere patriotic statement can not fix it,,,even our political leaders know this. If things were very okay in Nigeria,,,there would not be groups like Save Nigeria Group. However, anybody wants to talk down on Nigerians abroad,,,for a group of people sending down atleast $10Billion to an economy yearly,,,,that is quite substantial and commendable. As far as I know presently,, most people re suffering in Nigeria,,,it takes pretence not to admit this fact.Even our political leaders children do not even resides in the country,,,many wealthy Nigerians(criminals or not) have their funds outside the country because they themselves re not commited to the country. Why do we have the Akunyili's daughters getting married to white Americans? Why MKO ABIOLA DAUGHTER(An Havard graduate getting married to a white?? Why is OBJ son(Muyiwa married to Bahamians and living his life in the US?? Even Adenuga's first son too refused to resides in Nigeria.I read an interview by Dayo Adeneye last year,,,he said all his siblings ,,,except himself don't live in Nigeria.The truth is that there lots of Nigerians doing pretty well abroad(Particularly in the US),,,don't know else where though,,,

Good points.

brabus:
I'm a NAIJA 4 LIFE
Education plays a key role in scaling these mountains. [b]Does education mean graduating, landing up in fat paying jobs or flying off to distant lands for greener pastures?“[/b]If you are truly educated, the suffering of every individual will hurt you as if it is your own suffering.”
There is no second thought of the unique and central role of education in realizing a free, fair and confident society. The problems we are facing in our nation look immense. We have to transform our country by creating a knowledge-based society. We may not always be able to build the future for our youth – but we should build our youth to face the future. We should not produce just job seekers – we should instead, produce job creators.
_____@ Invincible - Leave them! We all know what waits them in the end. I've got bunch of them around me.
Anyone of my mates out there who can dare me should come on board, I'm MADE!!!Naija Rules

You are obviously still living in the past, education did not only open the door for anybody to live in Nigeria, one can decide to migrate to anypart of the world, Home Is Where You Feel At Home, could be Nigeria, US or UK, that doesn't mean that one hate Nigeria or will be unable to help to improve things in Nigeria. Stop misleading urself, we all know Nigeria.

Studio CFR:
Ok she called me a thief and dat i was asking her for money to get a visa.
She called me a yahoo and dat everybody knows me as a fraudster

Hhmm
There was a day she even said i will die a nobody.
All cuz i refused to dance to her music.

Now what will u do if somebody say all dat to u?

. . .be man enough to keep private matters private?

Odunnu:
Dont mind him. Didnt I tel you he acts senile?

. . . yup u did point that out.

Studio CFR:
@justwise

Is she your sister?

I don't know her from Adam, inside or outside NL.

That said, i don't need to know her to voice my opinion.

Studio CFR:
@JUSTWISE

I have nothing to say to u.

go and marry her.

@ODUNNU. . why will i attack u for airing your opinion? Ok did u see where she attacked me first on dis same thread??
Check the other page before dis incase u no see am for dis page. When she threatened to destroy me on phone,
I thought it was a joke.

Did she turn down ur marriage for 'visa' proposal b4?

Odunnu:
You prolly dnt knw Stud.He's such a foolish and childish boy.
Watch him attack me for saying it the way it is

I don't know him, just noticed his post here for the first time. Not nice to be honest, whatever happens outside NL should remain outside NL.

Studio CFR:
No i didnt collect nothing from her cuz all the vanities she bin wan send me, i can afford them all.

lol

Sorry I don't believe you, you are probably saying all this about her cos the relationship did not work out, calling her all sorts of names and telling the whole Nlders what went on is just wrong.

Its very immature to bring private issues to public forum, be a bigger man and zip it up.

buzugee:
kano or jos ? i am a christian. makes no sense moving to the muslim part of the country those guys are fiercely traditional while i am not.

As a patriotic Nigerian, who goes through hard time in white man country, u should be able to move to any city in Nigeria and live happily ever

buzugee:
the only reason is because of the population density. its just way too many people in a little space. what is it ? 20 million people in lagos ? that will drive me crazy

Why not move to Kano, Jos or Imo? Not part of Nigeria?

buzugee:
yes i do. police in naija only want bribe. they dont mess with you like that. they even coyly let you know that they want money. they only start messing with you if you dont look powerful and yet you dey do shakara but throughout all the wahala, you have this inner confidence that you can defuse the situation if you pull out money. american white popo on the other hand ? you are completely at their mercy. whatever they want to happen to you will happen to you. if they want you locked up because they cant stand the sight of your black azzzzz, they will always come up with something. at worst they will give you a ticket for something. lil crack in your windshield, some light is not working well, your window is tinted etc etc. they know how to find something. it is their job to play the public. they are the predators and we are the prey

So why then did u refused to move to Nigeria and prefer cape town or Gambia?

buzugee:
a respectable looking man will never be disrespected by nigerian police. they know who to mess with. they are not that silly. and even if the police is silly enough to want to mess with a distinguished looking man, all he needs is bribe. in yankee on the other hand its a different kettle of fish. they mess with you cuz you are black. you cant bribe your way out of it. does not matter how distinguished you look either. all they see is black

Honestly i don't know what some of you smoke, Do you know anything about Nigeria system at all?

cap28:
please don't start !!! since when did tribalism equate to racism?  you people have come again with this nonsense!!

no igbo, yoruba or itsekiri  man is treated shabbily when he is in abuja, kano or kaduna  - you better get it right okay
what we have in nigeria is a group of elites who are predominantly from the north who have hijacked the resources of nigeria for their own personal means that is not the same thing as an entire system which has been set up to destroy an entire race of people. please get your analysis and facts right!!!!

When are u moving back to Nigeria?

[quote author=mr.official link=topic=549292.msg7132835#msg7132835 date=1289606938]^^ You don't make sense to me. You've been operated in the UK. I cannot be at your posts.[/quote]Yea thats what happens when u see everything as black and white.

buzugee:
you know you are a special case so you dont need to contribute to these debates. you and all ya family including your mama and papa ran out of nigeria so basically you dont have anything to go back for. all your family is abroad. that is a good situation to be in abroad. but on a side note, when the white popos pull ya dad over and handcuff him and talk to him any kind of way, do you feel like stabbing them ?

So Nigerian police or immigration officers wecome you with green white green?

[quote author=mr.official link=topic=549292.msg7132811#msg7132811 date=1289606512]The whites have been a big problem to Africa, and up til now, It's still the same. Africa will keep crawling, 'cos almost every black man wants to migrate. *prepared food*

Where are the people that will join hands in building the nation? all don ja![/quote]Keep blaming the whiteman for our problems, u still wonder why we can't move on?

cap28:
thats your choice but i hope you know that the tide is turning fast in the US - foreclosures are on the increase and thousands of americans are loosing their jobs daily, what happens when you cant get a job?

So job is everywhere in Nigeria? How many graduates are jobless in Nigeria?

amor4ce:
I don't think anybody here has condemned those living outside the shores of Nigeria and that would be unfairly generalizing. The vitriol (if you see it as such) is being directed at those who abandon their fatherland.

@bidemi12, WYSIWYG - what you see is what you get.

How do you mean by abandon?

[quote author=invisible! link=topic=549292.msg7132206#msg7132206 date=1289599797]I will never leave naija, unless in a coffin. The type of opportunities I jam everyday is surprising. My tap root is digging deeper into naija and making it impossible to leave. For those outside, goodluck.[/quote]Have you been forced to leave b4?

Redman44:
People need to ask themselves these question:
Have I really achieved my dreams abroad?
[b]The bitter truth is that 85% of Nigerians who moved abroad [ including the ones born in Europe and North America ] are not finding things easy. A good number of them have come to realize that though they have solid infrastructure all around them and have access to food and good healthcare, they are not really fulfilled. They can't boast of having quality savings in their bank account and only live on their wages. Though most Nigerians in Europe and America have access to a lot of opportunities, only about 25% are making good use of them. No one would love to come and wash his or her dirty linen on Nairaland. However, we all know where the shoe pinches us
On the other hand, a few Nigerians are doing well in their spheres of influence . These are the ones that are entrepreneurs or are in the academia or are brilliant professionals. I have also observed that many Nigerians abroad are not interested in acquiring technical skills in Plumbing, Electricals and wiring, roofing, painting etc. Artisans make a lot of money abroad but many Nigerians are ignorant of these technical careers.  The issue of having 'legal status' is hampering the progress of many Nigerians abroad and we are generally not supportive of one another  [/b] Are you fulfilling your dreams abroad?

Seriously where did some of you get these figures u throw around anytime issues like this comes up? How many Nigerians living 'outside' Nigeria do you know? Yes Somalia is 'abroad' too

chiegemba:
my mouth kill me ke? abeg talk jor wen i suppose come visit u. . . . no change topic

anytime

[quote author=invisible! link=topic=549292.msg7132128#msg7132128 date=1289599080]Am wide awake now, come and work in ma plantation?[/quote]Dream on

[quote author=invisible! link=topic=549292.msg7132064#msg7132064 date=1289598491]Used to have an enugu state GF by name Chiegeonu Mbah, I pray it shouldnt be you.[/quote]

Wake up from ur nightmare

chiegemba:
True talk!!! thumbs up. . . . dere r some posts/ thread dat isnt worth replyin sef . . . . its just energy channeled 2wards d wrong direction majorly. . . . hahahaha na true talk my broda. . . i just remember now btw wen i suppose visit sef

ur mouth go kill u,

chiegemba:
@justwise. . . . na wetin i send u go do 4 aboard b dat?

how u carry send me abroad? i follow bush come here oo

[quote author=invisible! link=topic=549292.msg7131876#msg7131876 date=1289596368]See the pretenders, not regretting serving oyibo after your fathers have slaved for him and they bought and enslaved your grand parents. Continue the slavery, wonder why you even bother calling home or coming back.[/quote]. . and ur definition of home is?