₦airaland Forum

HERSLEY:
I am a proud one

Madam, how do you intend to be a feminist?
Hope it's not in the house of a man that paid your bride price?

She is even denying the kids their outright fatherland? Olga, abeg those kids are Nigerians and don't tamper with their mentality o.

glosplendid:
Hmmmmm....that area boi is a CAPITAL IDIOT....how dare him slap his fellow man..for what nah.....and after that yeye toyin lawani will come and say yorubas are culture mannered...ejor crawling on the floor to greet doesn't mean you are well mannered...yesoooo..i know the area boi is a yoruba no doubt

You will remove all doubt from your readers with your comments

czarina:
where

Omnipotent you don't even know where I am. I don catch you today

Western countries don't encounter oil spillage because of the strict safety measures and professionalism deployed by Shell, Agip and the likes. But in Nigeria, these companies become nonchalant because our government doesn't impose fines on them whenever they make these stupid mistakes.


Spillage is suppose to be a grave accident but it is a norm here. Nigeria why?

Aunty Kemi is done with you seyilaw

Aunty Kemi: Is there no one else ? (in Achilles' voice)

czarina:
Wondering how they cope in za oza room They look happy sha, so Wetin concern me?

In your profile, Your location says you are everywhere. Then you should be here too.

Tolexander:
for where?

"Issay lie"

Those couple wouldn't practise that style.

The man's big belly, hitting the woman's big ass from behind, wouldn't make doggy easy.

Chai, See analysis

Na oyinbo unbox am for you? That hand na oyinbo hand o

Gallant backside......( Calling my self back to order)


This is a total abuse of our national corp act of 1976 p27

Forget the price, MTN still delivers quality.

Bring home your girlfriend and let them both meet
"Iya Daniel, this is my girlfriend o"
And she'll be like, Hmmmm, aunty you are lucky to have this gentleman o.

Guys please share views. The track is about to be featured on Youtube.

Lalasticlala....abeg push it up so guys can feel the vibe. Oshey

Ladies and gentlemen, have you listened to the new raving artiste? Sonofadam's Ile Aye is banger. You should listen and keep it on the replay on your playlist....and don't forget to thank me later.




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Talent show for weed challenge I guess.

Fabulocity:
Dear Nigerian guys
There is more to life than sex. Stop this obsession about violating the next hole with your rotten pricks and watch your true potentials manifest, watch sucess, money and breakthrough follow you. Trust me on this one.
Sincerely,
A truly concerned female.

Your case is truly different. Too sick for a small Dr.

The funny thing here is that natural daftness is involved. Okon is one and we have to accept him as part of our society. Westerners brand them people of special needs.

TINALETC3:
It depends, if my man is dat broke and I see hm make efforts to get bak 2 his feet, y nt, I wl do evrytin bt if he relaxes, den, I won't mind making hm do nt jst d cooking bt wash my undies 2, he needs 2 b useful
Tho,may God 4bid it, dnt wnt such

Your prayers are already answered.

Jahblessme:
As usual nairaland resident bingos have started crawling out of their holes to tell you this is normal behaviour and ask you to pray.They are the sort of men your husband is mingling with encouraging him to be a dog like them because they have no self control & believe every man is born with no moral compass.

My dear OP,when he told you he doesn't owe you faithfulness what did you do?were you there looking at him like an olodo or did you defend your union and your beliefs there and then?I will give you small space for shock to settle in but after then what next?

Did you woman up and speak clearly ,sharply and concisely about your expectations to him?

Did you ask him if he doesn't owe you faithfulness are you also free to assume that you do not owe fidelity to him as well?

Did you marry an ancestor that you are a slave to?Your age gap looks like its from 8-10 years-did he pay for your schooling?Do you have a job and contribute to your home?Even if you do not work ,you care for your home and do housework,is that appreciated? I'm asking these questions cos that is what usually gives some people guts to misbehave.When you are helpless and especially have no source of income and they know it.Regardless,no one deserved to be hurt in this manner.

It is a free world and people are free to voice their opinion o but for a man to come out less than two years after marriage to boldly say he doesn't owe you faithfulness,he must feel you are waaay beneath him to be respected.

When you signed the dotted lines you did not sign up to be cheated on,you did not sign up to be exposed to STDs,please relay that to him without apologies.

I find it hard to believe that this man hasn't always been this way.No normal loving partner would be this bold.There are plenty issues lurking,there must be heavy disrespect in other aspects of your marriage ,its just that this one has pained you more than the others.

As you can read i'm not into begging or pampering when you are not at fault ,you should be the one who is begged and pampered after your discovery. If you begin to wail and beg and gnash your teeth,you will continue like this for the rest of your marriage-this is what the bingos will ask you to do to 'save your marriage',thereby putting you at a huge disadvantage and at the mercy of a human being like you(born of a woman just like you).Please learn to stand up for yourself-calm measured discussion ,no huffing and puffing,no begging.Just clear statement of facts.
After this discussion you can now decide your next steps.

Good Luck.

Hmmmm. I think you are bent on destroying this woman's union. Her patience and silence will speak more than you asking her to beat the drum of war. Please prepare to marry her once she get booted out of her home.
What the husband is going through is a faze which he will get over. And that's if the lady didn't complicate things.

vicfuntop:
She is not suppose to try that hard too. I mean your English too is beautiful. I am sorry o

All these mentions for me, I am honored. I will reply you guys when I get home. Nigerians sha, didn't I say I am sorry

The suppose was a mistake alright. It was an honest mistake. Na was o

Hol up.

phintohlar:
hahahahaha.. No be 1 guy go chop d 1 wey u sef chop remain

Check your dm sharpaly o

Evablizin:


Ok i will turn 26 next year 25th march, those who are interested to date and marry should apply

You dey use football age too?

QuickStandard:
I can see Toilet/Mosque, why is there no Church?

Kindly answer. Which church do you suggest they build there? Catholic, Anglican, Redeem, Synagogue, Cherubim, Deeper life, Winners Chapel or cele?

God! When I see these girls, I realize how opposite I was in my secondary school days at Government College Ojo. If principal announce say official school sandal is brown, na that time me and my guys go go alaba dey find black sandals to buy. I only used socks maybe 2 times; during one unusual harmattan cold season. chai.

kennygee:


With the divorce rate these days. Yes I do.

With the kind of comments from men on NL, yes I do.

I saw a post where NL men were insinuating that Nigerian women don't deserve to be cared for and pampered, it made me feel sorry for women who would thank God that they had found "husbands" in these type of men.

Then, how many men really know God. Most men just go to church and some claim to be workers but don't live like Christians should. A man that can't lead you spiritually, what is the goal of your marriage?

I want to Dm. I need you to tell me more about Jesus.

joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef.Lol nairalanders and their funny advices, gone tru many comments about my post. It's funny many Nigerians find it difficult to understand that both women can be commitment phobic, Of I wanna fall in love, get married and have kids,But am so scared of waking up one day, and loathing the man I married. I see a guy I like, we start dating, before I know it, it's just start fizzling out, and am gone without giving the guy a reasonable explanations.Am ok being single for now till I understand my issues. GOD help me

You are a lesbian probably.

Nnemuka:
Broke guys are good in one thing which is sex, that is all they can offer.
Stay because of the sex but if you expect him to marry you, nne you are on a long thing.

The researcher. Lol

Bros na when you go use this your money finish? Try use am abeg.

That's how to be a human. Alhamdulillah for you sir.

mama glow