Romance › Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by jydmak(m): 10:52pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
France president Emmanuel Macron is 25 years younger than his wife and that doesn't stop him from being the president of France. My sister, age is just a number. |
Health › Re: Help!!!! Am I Losing My Sight?? by jydmak(m): 10:25pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
frank417: Go and buy stick fast now that you are still seeing small small common sense u no get |
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Career › Re: Should I Resign My Good Bank Job And Start A Business? by jydmak(m): 7:26am On Jun 02, 2020 |
FivePeas: I think you're being too hasty and would appeal to you not to make a hasty decision that will cause you damage because you sound like someone who's about to react ( from negative reactions ) rather than someone who's about to embark on a well planned action. There's a difference. Trust me I know.
I qualify to give you sound counsel as a business operator and would like to discredit any thoughts of you quitting you job because of your savings.
Let's take it step by step
1. Financial security is important. Can you reduce your monthly expenses and boost your savings so you can save let's say 300k monthly, which in six months gives you an approximate of another 2 Million Naira
2. Start the process of setting up a business while you're still employed. This way you can weigh the options if it's for you or not. And can easily convert your salaries towards the establishment of the business
3. Do not quit your job until you've had a well to Houghton out business plan and have put it into effect. Remember money is just half the equation, the other half the business
4. Be more tolerant rather than being irritated because things aren't working for you from a place of convenience. Start thinking positive thoughts about the positives of your job. I'm sure it can't be all negative. Whatever it's costing you, give yourself the opportunity to reflect and tell yourself giving it six more months for proper planning won't do you harm
5. Get a second accommodation closer to work. So you can shuttle between both ends. Friday home till Sunday. Have you considered this?
6. Get a nanny and if you can afford it, get a driver too and delegate some of the duties with the kids care to them.
7. Give yourself time. Do not jump to the next thing until that so-called " next thing " has been fully constructed while you're still maintaining the one that looks stressful. Words of wisdom |
Politics › Re: Ongoing Construction Of Nsukka Township Stadium In Enugu (Photos) by jydmak(m): 7:09am On Jun 02, 2020 |
FlordFlorez: This is massive. God bless Enugu State. massive indeed  |
Nairaland General › Re: How Do U Quote Someone In Nland by jydmak(m): 7:07am On Jun 02, 2020 |
hummerwise: All u need do is to click on the quote link, and immediately u get inside don't tamper or alter the alrdy made post u clicked... Just move away from the post totally and make ur comment ok |
Business › Re: Sunti Sugar To Retain All 2,400 Staff Despite COVID-19 Challenges by jydmak(m): 1:50pm On May 14, 2020 |
I also enjoyed working with them during the estate construction. |
Crime › Re: Rinji Peter Death: Protest At Hwolshe Community by jydmak(m): 10:20am On May 14, 2020 |
Too bad |
Romance › Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by jydmak(m): 8:05pm On May 12, 2020 |
No o! U are still in ur prime. While u are @ 70 ur first born will be preparing for junior waec. |
Politics › Re: Burglars Break Into National Assembly, Vandalise Reps’ Spokesman's Office by jydmak(m): 8:02pm On May 12, 2020 |
Na Dem dem........if u know u know |
Romance › Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by jydmak(m): 8:14am On Apr 09, 2020 |
[quote author=Tankunland post=88215811]When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.
Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.
I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.
I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.
Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.
and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.
To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.
I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.
To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go. And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.
I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE[/quote ]wetin kill Shola |
Romance › Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by jydmak(m): 4:02pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
MiVida: I recently met a girl in school, she's all I want in a woman, she's too beautiful well mannered BUT, she is making life in school hard for me! I've taken her to my parents already and hers are trying to get to know me which is cool.
But the rate at which this girl monitors me in school is embarrassing! I don't have any female friends cos of her. I had to call a good friend of mine (a girl) this afternoon in front of her to tell the girl to keep her space just because my girlfriend saw me give her a hug! I didn't initiate the hug, the girl called out my name and opened her arms and to avoid being rude, you can't decline a hug and that was why it happened.
My girlfriend insists I don't keep female friends, in fact, she prefers I stay alone in school. I'm getting tired, I getting fed up, she's always monitoring me everywhere and I have a reputation to maintain in school. Now I can't laugh over a girl's joke cos I have a girlfriend and it's not like I have time for her in school as that's the only time I have my little freedom, cos outside school she's always at my place and it's suffocating enough...now she brings this attitude to school... I'm tired and don't know what to do! end the distractive relationship now and you both should focus on your study first. |
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Romance › Re: Vigilante Member Caught Sleeping With His Colleague's Wife In Ogun State by jydmak(m): 6:55pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
[s][/s] Davash222: Is this how they will run our Amotekun Sleeping with colleagues wives and allow herdsmen to slaughter our people. don't involve amotekun in dis. |
Crime › Re: Indian Hemp Farm In Anambra School Discovered By NSCDC by jydmak(m): 6:52pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Dino Melaye Flaunts His Corvette 1977 Model Car by jydmak(m): 6:48pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
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Nairaland General › Re: How To Insert Quote Here! by jydmak(m): 6:47pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
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Nairaland General › Re: How Do You Quote Someone In Ur Nl Comment Abeg? by jydmak(m): 7:11pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ok |
Travel › Re: Things You Must Know Before Traveling To Lagos by jydmak(m): 7:00pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
[color=#990000][/may God bless that your friend]
me I am yet to see any other state I can live in except Lagos. Lagos is the real deal .imagine when I first came to Lagos ...was squatting with a friend ..,,every afternoon I will be seeing big ass yoruba nebors hanging their pant ....I use to love how they roll that big ass....long story short I tested the Adams Apple and my friend sent me parking cos he believed I wasn't focused....that I came to Lagos cos of Yoruba ass. I am wiser now nothing in that ass[/quote] |
Politics › Re: Dele Momodu And Wife, Mobolaji Celebrate 27th Wedding Anniversary (Pictures) by jydmak(m): 2:27pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
The woman no gree old..... still dey ball |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is Npower Payment Under IPPIS Payroll by jydmak(op): 5:23am On Mar 07, 2019 |
Thanks all for ur contributions. I also confirmed it on IPPIS faq, that it is paid through NON REGULAR ALLOWANCE which is approved by Budget Office of the Federation. because they are not PENSONABLE Staff. Thus, not qualify to be enrolled into IPPIS. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Is Npower Payment Under IPPIS Payroll by jydmak(op): 8:00pm On Mar 06, 2019 |
please, I need urgent clarity on where Npower payment is from. Is it also under IPPIS payroll? Any useful information will be appreciated. |
Politics › UPDATES: National Assembly Staff Protest Over Non Payment Of Benefits(PHOTOS) by jydmak(op): 9:57am On Dec 04, 2018*. Modified: 11:39am On Dec 04, 2018 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe Wows In Pleated Skirt by jydmak(m): 1:11pm On Nov 30, 2018 |
ok |
Celebrities › Re: Patience Ozokwor: Daddy Freeze Writes Open Letter Over 'Weavons & Wigs Are Evil' by jydmak(m): 3:49pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
TELL THEM!!!!!!!!!! |
Celebrities › Re: Helen Uzoma, Yemi Alade’s Mother Drunk And Fights In Beer Parlour - Ikem Okuhu by jydmak(m): 1:50pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
pizure or idonbillivit |
Music/Radio › Re: Janet Jackson's "Made For Now" Yoruba Dialet Infused by jydmak(m): 1:39pm On Aug 30, 2018 |
wait for me........ make i watch am first. |
Politics › Re: Dino Melaye On Condolence Visit To Umar Jibril's Family In Abuja (Photos) by jydmak(m): 9:17pm On Mar 30, 2018 |
Dino I saw walking freely at NASS complex yesterday , even cracking jokes. Mtchew yeye!!! |
Politics › Re: Protest In Abuja Over Electricity Over-billing by jydmak(m): 5:07pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
[it's along yaradua express road, lugbe axis]
Where do you know in Abuja?[/quote] |
Education › Re: Government Begins Payment Of University Lecturers' Salary Arrears by jydmak(m): 7:18am On Sep 08, 2017 |
Good for them |
Agriculture › Re: Hardworking Female Farmer Processing Garri (Photos) by jydmak(m): 6:34am On Sep 17, 2016 |
Kudos to u lady! |
Health › Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by jydmak(m): 10:28pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
crush or cut into pieces 3 cloves of GARLIC .Allow it to stay 5 to 10 minutes in order to activate d allini in it. Take with water every morning before breakfast . it works like magic . |