AroOkigbo:

At 30+, most ladies are desperate about settling down.
You never can tell. ..yours maybe too. But you are in love and may not understand me

settling down? That's not an issue... I already engage her... I started dating her when i was 20, and i was in my 300level. I told her after we're both done with school, we get married, she finished her service last year meanwhile i finished mine before her. By the grace of GOD, marriage is december or next year

From what I’m seeing you are not a friend, you are the lady that is involved in the relationship

AroOkigbo:

Forget about all these "age is a number" trenders, most of them are singles. It takes more than love to keep marriage.

am not worried about the age... Tell op

Sammology:
From what I’m seeing you are not a friend, you are the lady that is involved in the relationship

MoodyQueen:
Lol. She's a myopic one.
There are lots of succesful couples out there with huge age difference; female being older.
Tell her to check up on Megan Markle, Brigitte Macron, Shakira, etc who cared not about age.

I am myopic too then.
I like an older man.
I liked Cameron Diaz and Justin Timberlake together. I think it was the first female-older affair that I knew about. Pique and Shakira are beautiful people and seem like their thing would be fun but cannot deal with the Macron own, at all! I also don’t like Meghan and Harry but my dislike of their own is more of an activism thing than it is about their ages. But I would still prise them apart with the Macrons if I could!
I have dated people younger than myself though

MoodyQueen:
Lol. She's a myopic one.

There are lots of succesful couples out there with huge age difference; female being older.

Tell her to check up on Megan Markle, Brigitte Macron, Shakira, etc who cared not about age.

Your examples are not nigerians...give us homebased examples na

Dalby:

That na for France o. We have cultural differences...

what matters in a relationship is love and respect. When this two qualities are there, u will think less of d age difference.

If she is thinking about it that much, then she should be worried.

Age shouldn't be an issue in relationship joor!!

as in she is 17 he is 16.

see wetin dey make front page

canDy4eva:



Guy...

Did you read the story at all

Does your question makes sense to you? You who read it, did you comprehend what you read?

This case is a double edge sword..the lady should pray and follow her mind.

My fiancee is 15yrs older than me. But I love her madly and she loves me too. In fact, I don't doubt my love for her and she doesn't doubt her love for me.

When will people realize age is but a number?

Personally age and tribe is never a problem for me, she should sit him down and have a heart to heart conversation with him so that she will know where she belong instead of assuming

Trayceey:
A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.

One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.

She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.

Please advise her. I will show her your comments

My wife is 4 yrs older than me. We're happily married for 11 yrs and still counting.

Petyprincess:
Wow!! The truth is most ladies like being younger to their partner which I'm inclusive.
I can't date a guy I'm 1 day older than him so i do understand how she feels.

As long as the guy will respect her there shouldn't be a problem bt I'm doubting because most Nigerian horseband always want to feel superior nd authoritative.

So because d lady is older now, d man should gv her due respect abi See no matter d age difference, a man will always be d head, even if the woman is twice his age, the natural leadership acumen of the man, would still Mk him control over d woman. Man is naturally ordained to be d head no matter d age, so don't try to twist the status quo!

Atteraino:
me self my Babe senior me for 3years oh. I be 27 my Babe na 30+...

Modified: Why is the lady trying to withdraw from the relationship, is she not in love with him again... Sometimes we guys, we just talk anyhow... May be the guy never meant what he said cause he was thinking he is her senior

SIMP

OriOko88:

So because d lady is older now, d man should gv her due respect abi See no matter d age difference, a man will always be d head, even if the woman is twice his age, the natural leadership acumen of the man, would still Mk him control over d woman. Man is naturally ordained to be d head no matter d age, so don't try to twist the status quo!

Confuse Simp

Lol, just a year? That's funny oooo. I've dated guys I'm at least 2 years older than and it was great, you'd never even know because I look like I'm 19. I don't mind ooooo. Love and respect are essential things in a relationship.

Petyprincess:
Wow!! The truth is most ladies like being younger to their partner which I'm inclusive.
I can't date a guy I'm 1 day older than him so i do understand how she feels.

As long as the guy will respect her there shouldn't be a problem bt I'm doubting because most Nigerian horseband always want to feel superior nd authoritative.

The guy should respect her or the girl should respect the guy since she's older and that age may want to enter her heas sometimes.

If the girl would put aside the age and let the guy be the head then she can go ahead.

ollie86:

My wife is 4 yrs older than me. We're happily married for 11 yrs and still counting.

Hehehe
damn! Hope this is a lie

chatinent:
When will people realize age is but a number?

Age is not a number, aged women will find it hard to bear children and chances are they won't give birth to healthy babies

I dated a lady 7 years older than me she’s in her late 30s and nothing happen

TheRedpillguy:


Hehehe
damn! Hope this is a lie

how?

(Sips air...... Ssssssuuuu haaaa) lol go and watch the Indian Series Age is just a number and get inspired.... Chai Love, ... By the way, the lady I am dying for is 5 years older than me, mehhhn she still dey give me excuses though but mehhhn I love her so much mehn

TheRedpillguy:

Confuse Simp

Stupidy is now your shadow, its following you everywhere, so stupidity is your legacy!

OriOko88:

Stupidy is now your shadow, its following you everywhere, so stupidity is your legacy!

Really can not take what comes from you seriously.

Police in the US has shot dead another black man in Atlanta. D video is trending on CNN now. USA is another shithole country I swear

Tell your friend to withdraw completely You can ask me why

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