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Enegod: give him time it's too early to start judging him...*but keep your eyes wide open* goodluck

It's one thing to posses a pair of eyes, but seeing with the pair of eyes is another thing.

lostgirl85: Why would you do that?? You would actively call a girl everyday to chat and take her out on dates weekly just for sex!! Damn.....

To think that you are 27 and still think like this is alarming (no disrespect).

A guy will do anything to get into a girls pant (expecially when I'm sure to get into her pants after 3 months and I'm certain I'll always get in when I want).

Besides there are girls I call and chat with virtually everyday and there is no string attached, so imagine what I will do when a pussy is attached.

Let me now put the final name in the coffin.
You want him to add you on fb, so that you can change your relationship status to reveal you are engaged to him.
Apparently, he is already engaged to someone else on his fb, hence he is protecting his own interest to get into your own pant.

I can bet with my life that he sees you as a sex object, nothing more, nothing less.

If you can sit down to think about what you entering into, you won't be here arguing crap with us, have you ever considered the possibility that his mum/family could have a problem with the age. I have heard it times without number that women age faster than men, in this case yours is even exponential.

Like you said he looks like a player to you and he is well established, you will only be demonstrating the apex of all stupidity if you chose to ignore the hand writing on the wall and that will ultimately certify you as a person of the first order.

You are 27 years, an adult, you should be able to determine what's good for you or not and be ready to face the consequence be it good or bad.

The last thing I want to see is you opening a thread 'He dumped me after fucking my pussy like hell'.

PDP AND ACN/CPC are birds of a feather. If PDP had done this ACN would have criticised, likewise the reverse.

In a democracy each party devotes its chief energies to trying to prove that the other party is unfit to rule – and both commonly succeed and are right.

Only one thought, 'she will call me back'.

I'm single and lonely too, can we set up a date.

You are not ready for a relationship, the fact that you are crazy and conscious of it shows that you will be a bad energy to your partner, infact a clingy one.
Get busy with life, build yourself up, work on your goals, develop yourself to the point when you don't need to be in a relationship to be happy

Someone will blame it on the devil.

lostgirl85: To some fb isn't serious but to me it is like you say he could be a whole nother person on there and I wanna know that person b4 I open my legs and 3 months is a lot longer than most women can say considering I'm not a virgin.

If I were him, I'll wait three months, s3x you for another 3 months and use the latter 3 months to discard you (9months of relationship).

Look, everything is wrong with this relationship and the last thread I want to see you create is 'He used and dumped me'.

Why is she showing her backside (she use style get booty sha o)

lostgirl85: but why though? It takes time to get to know a person and sex clouds your judgement.....

Is 3 months is enough to know someone?

lostgirl85: But you seriously believe that after 4 weeks of dating I should meet his mum?

No, just boils down to the tone he used and I assumed it sounded like one who didn't want you to.

everything is going pretty well but initially he told me he was not on fb, when I brung up the subject again he said he doesn't go on there often and was deleting it soon.

He is a liar.

I just know he is hiding something

Since you know, why stay with a secretive man.

so secretive and he has lied once already

You are absolutely correct(based on your post)

he told me when he me he was 27 when I googled him and found out his real age he said it was because he knew I wouldn't give him a second look had I known he was younger.

Another lie (all this early in the relationship, he still has more lies in him.

To be fair he is right I would have said no way all my exes are at least 10 years my senior although he is a lot more mature then them.

Since he is right, why did you choose to be left.

And one last thing he also says that Nigerians don't introduce you to their mum until they know they want to marry you.

Apparently you guys aren't dating with the intent of marriage yet

my2kobo:
1)He can't be trusted, (he is secretive and lies as much as the devil).
2)You are old enough to be married, the earlier you settle for a serious man, the better for you. Even if he doesn't marry 6 years from now, nothing wrong with him.
3)The age issue may still be a big issue (family and other factors, the fact that he is not ready to introduce you to his mum says a lot about that)

My guess is as good as yours, save yourself from future massive heart break now that the danger can still be averted

striktlymi: It is not against any teaching of the catholic church.

Putting a call across to Vatican city.

dubem3: Do you by this, own up to this honourable house that you are infertile?

The Epistle of k2039 Chapter 3
1. I sought k2039, and he answered me; he delivered me from my childlessness.
2. Taste and see that k2039 is good; fruitful is the woman who takes refuge in him.

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Which are you, obviously the other is the guy you are competing with to get a girl.

There is nothing wrong in helping your lover, but do it because you loved them

EOD

I believe firmly that God will NEVER turn his 'back' on them as long as they are sincere in their resolve and do what is right in line with the dictates of 'good' conscience.

Papal didn't teach us this oooo

When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times you looked so long to the closed but we don’t see the one which has been open for us.
There are things you would love to hear that you would never hear from the person you would like to hear them from. But don’t be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from their heart.

Not necessarily true, I can have casual se.x with anybody, just my choice and it has nothing to do with low self esteem or depression. It's safe to assume if the OP was correct that all men who cheat on their wives suffer from depression and low self esteem, which is untrue.

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yellowpawpaw: In seminary u will be examined by qualified doctors to ascertain d true reason why u r there

Someone could be infertile without knowing and also aspire to be a celibate, so are you saying he would still be rejected on that ground. Qualified doctors cannot read my mind to ascertain if I was saying the truth if I deny that I didn't have fore knowledge about my infertility. ROME HERE I COME.

You are not ready for a relationship or marriage until you have developed yourself to the point when you don't need to be in one to be successful.
So, the benefit is that you become a blessing to your partner and if you both see relationship the same way, then she should also be a blessing to you (it has more to do with what you can offer, not what you can get).

bellong: This makes a very good laugh... You can also become the Pope if you aspire well.

Actually, The POPE is the BISHOP OF ROME.

greatgod2012: not you that even wanted 12 children......

Actually, it makes my work easier, I can father 12 kids within 6 years, I just need to sow my seeds into as many women as possible.

Siena: The highlighted part of your post suggests it's only females that suffer infertility issues. But that's not the case - men could also be infertile. So the same issues abound.

Oh, I see, Thanks.

If I was a guy with infertility issues, I will just go to seminary, marriage is not necessary then, it's pointless . I have always admired the office of the bishop of Rome, I'll just make it an ambition.

TO THE YET-TO MARRY(THOSE THAT ARE ALREADY DATING)................... If your fiance/fiancee confesses or opens up to you that he/she is infertile, will you still go ahead and marry him/her?

I will (only reason, I could have been in her shoes if I was also born a female, so it won't be fair to let her go, but she must be active sexually ooooooo), but artificial insemination will be my own option for procreation. I can only adopt after I have given birth to my own kids, not before.

The dumbest of them all have spoken(@ the person who wrote the article)