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RomanceRe: 5 Proven Ways To Make Your Girlfriend Happy by k2039: 12:33am On Jul 13, 2013
For your mind, you don create thread abi
RomanceRe: Is Virginity Still A Dignity? by k2039: 12:31am On Jul 13, 2013
28 views and no reply says a lot about the topic
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Did U Choose Ur Nlands Username? by k2039: 7:12pm On Jul 12, 2013
omiobo: U no dey sleep? OMI- WATER,OBO-MONKEY simple!!!!
gringringringringringringringrin

I thought it had to do with squirting
PoliticsRe: Rivers Crisis: We’ll Sacrifice Our Blood To Uphold The Constitution – Mark by k2039: 6:30pm On Jul 12, 2013
Lordave: I think you'd be very useful to Somalia
*falls from Iroko tree*
LiteratureRe: <<<The Guardians: Rise of the Powers that Be>>> by k2039: 1:50pm On Jul 12, 2013
tellwisdom: Guy go sell your book for bookshop...undecided
Actually, I have a better idea, we just need access to the minister of education (I guess with that NECO, WASSCE and UTME will just be under our arm pit), she will have to endorse his work as a must read for any one studying literature in Nigeria starting from their Senior Secondary School days.

*Money in the bank*
RomanceRe: [27M] I Need Help Before I Become Crazy From Loneliness by k2039:
Caseless, I'm impressed, you have spoken well. Omiobo has also spoken well.


@Op, Dr Myles Munroe once said, 'Knowing all you know about yourself (your mannerism, your body etc), will you date you'.

If I were to be in your shoes, my answer will be a NO.

I do believe in the power of the supernatiral, I believe there are spiritual forces who can alter one's marital and relationship destiny, but in your case all I read is someone who has a low self esteem that's visible to every girl.

I think you need a change in mindset, that's where it all begins. I suggest you start to read books on relationship just to change your thinking, I personally recomend Carlos Xuma and David Deangelo. Just google those names, you should be able to get some of their books from 4shared.com.

Honestly, you need to incorporate a bit of arrogance into you. Once you understand that their is no super human in the world, you life becomes easy with girls. Every single girl, sleeps, eat, pee, fart, poos, in fact does every thing you do, so why should you be scared of any one. You should have the gut to call their bluff if you want to be successful with them.

Be ready to be rejected, that's one price you should be willing to pay, if not you will never approach any lady, the worst scenario is a NO and it does absolutely nothing to you. A girl saying NO to you doesn't reduce you, it just means she doesn't like what she sees, someone else will like you just the way you are. I doubt if there is any guy who has never been turned down by a lady.

I have made up my mind that every failure and set back I experience in life (be it relationship or not) propels me to even succeed the more.

Ultimately,it's not just about dating or marrying the a girl, it's about making a right choice and with the way you are taking relationship, you are likely to make the wrong choice.

The more desperate you are, the higher you chances of making a wrong choice. Trust me age is still on your side, just relax, you wife is on her way, but you have to be prepared for her, she wants a man she can trust to believe in himself.

I have so much to say, but the main problem with you is your self esteem, if you have a healthy self esteem combined with your career success and wealth, you can date almost any girl in the world.

If you commit suicide, you will be surprise that a couple of girls will cry their eyes out for you and a couple will walk past your grave.

You have to learn to be entirely single, you happiness depends on you and not the relationship you enter, just keep working on your career and esteem, the sky will be the limit when you finally make your first break through with girls, I hope you stay faithful to that one.
FamilyRe: Wife Addressing Husband With "Sir"? by k2039: 10:04am On Jul 12, 2013
yellowpawpaw: its more of a cultural thing bc u will still c d same woman addressing every other grown up male as sir. Infact I was always ashamed whenever an elderly person use such title for me.I've talked and talked.found out its inbreed.I hv even joined.there is nothing wrong with it although I've seen some men that super impose it on their wives to do so.
I quite disagree with those who super impose it on their wives, those are who El Guapo discribe as people suffering from low self esteem, which I quite agree with him.

But if a woman solely chose to call her husband Sir, then that's just hpw she wants to address her hubby and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that and I quite agree with you that it's inbreed for some, that's how they address other people.
RomanceRe: Hmmmmmmm...i'm Tired Of 'singlehood' by k2039: 8:18am On Jul 12, 2013
BraideBraide: I tried changing it but it did nt work out.
Send ur mssgs to: mzbraidebraide@gmail.com
Why are you ignoring me, my flight will be landing at 4:45 pm today. How about we ste a date for Saturday (tomorrow).
FamilyRe: Wife Addressing Husband With "Sir"? by k2039: 8:08am On Jul 12, 2013
El Guapo, Do you reside in Nigeria(my guess is that you are outside it shores).
RomanceRe: Playas In D House Please Say Something by k2039: 7:43am On Jul 12, 2013
pc guru: And pple wonder why they get robbed or kidnapped.
It's even still better if he is robbed and his penis was not used for ritual.
Christianity EtcRe: Marriage Advice Plssss by k2039: 7:41am On Jul 12, 2013
RomanceRe: How Do I Make It Work. by k2039: 7:37am On Jul 12, 2013
Cut them loose.
PoliticsRe: Time For SOE In Rivers? by k2039: 7:37am On Jul 12, 2013
I bet that is what he will love to do, deploy soldiers there, but it's pointless since NAS has taken over the house of assembly (where the crisis emanated from)
TravelRe: Never hold a bottle for anyone at the airport by k2039: 7:34am On Jul 12, 2013
MRbrownJAY: forget bottle OR airport, NEVER HOLD ANYTHING FROM A STRANGER ANYWHERE!
EOD

Wait, what did I just watch, some people can be creative ohhh.
PoliticsRe: Rivers Crisis: We’ll Sacrifice Our Blood To Uphold The Constitution – Mark by k2039: 7:33am On Jul 12, 2013
Lordave: things that should be happening then are happening now, by then we would have a free, fair and peaceful election.
This is ridiculous.
RomanceRe: Body Shape Men Really Like by k2039: 7:25am On Jul 12, 2013
MRbrownJAY: BULLSHIT!!!!!!
let us all remember that although its good to be flexible in the bedroom, the main focus is all about satisfaction.
@OP, Any other thing aside from this is pure heresy.


Mynd_44: Everyone has their personal taste
Don't mind the Op, there are some of us that it just doesn't matter whether you are slim, chubby or fat, there are other important criteria to consider, but like MBJ said, it's all about satisfaction, what the essence of doing acrobatics and etc in a football match if you cannot convert it to goals.
FamilyRe: How Many Of You Know Your Parents Age And Date Of Birth? by k2039: 7:24am On Jul 12, 2013
I know the date and hour they were born. If I don't know my parent DOB, who else should I?.
FamilyRe: Wife Addressing Husband With "Sir"? by k2039: 7:18am On Jul 12, 2013
El Guapo: Well, Am not a fan of the 'Sir' concept. Would only see it get braced by some materialistic Nigerian husbands.
You are very funny and I marvel at the way you think in the 21st Century.
How is Sir synonymous to being materialistic. That you are not a fan doesn't mean there is anything wrong with it.

Aint that Silly? ''Sir ve Passed ur meal'' ''Sir u had a Visitor'' ''Sir Can I join In the bed'' Oh!
And it never occured to you that the husband could be addressing the wife as MA also, and if not, if she os comfortable with it, no big deal. All that happens is her happiness in the marriage and if she is happy, it matters less whether she is addressing him as Sir or not.
Besides the age difference between the husband and wife could be massive and it could be the wife's idea to address her husband as Sir because she just doesn't feel comfortable with the age difference.

I wish to enjoy some sort of equality with my wife - equality that'd have defined boundaries. Am not married to a housemaid.
If you want some equality with you wife, if she addresses you as Sir, address her as Ma, no problem, equation is balanced that way.

Nothing beats giving ur wife that reassuring feeling that u're her Husband and her Bestfriend, not her husband and her Boss!
Pointless, my best friend male addresses me as Sir and I address him to back as Sir, that's how we address everyone, we have accustomed our self to it. So does that mean we are each other's boss.

Addressing you husband as Sir just signifies respect and if the husband respond back as Ma it signifies mutual respect.
Haven't you head of husbands addressing their wives as 'mummy wa' and wives responding bac as 'daddy wa'
Whatever works for each family is what they should adopt, that you don't like it doesn't mean is wrong.

For the records, I prefer calling my wife by her name and she also calling me by my name.
PoliticsRe: President Jonathan Cuts Short His Stay In China by k2039: 6:58am On Jul 12, 2013
Mynd_44: ^^
It is just sad. I could count more that 6 key ministers on the news yesterday and I was wondering if they moved the seat of power to China temporarily
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RomanceRe: Any Lady Out There To Marry by k2039: 7:57pm On Jul 11, 2013
SLIDE waxie: dude, someone hacked into ur account? Or u tried ur first sip on alcohol today?

The errors is ur posts are fuckin not u!!!

Werin dey na undecided
More like alcohol, but the errors have been modified.
RomanceRe: Would U Condem A Girl Who Is Not A Virgin? by k2039: 11:02am On Jul 11, 2013
Kirinwa: With virgins you can get them accustomed to your tin but with boreholes,after subsequent drilling their elasticity constant has been jeopardized and when you bring your tin. She will be reading newspaper, pinging and watching TV while you're sweating.
LWKMD gringringringringringringringringringringringringringrin
judebenameh: We are truly living in the days of Noah where righteousness is mocked. U're not a virgin, he doesn't want u, how is dat condemnation? D bitter truth is dat if u lost ur virginity willfully(not by rape), then live with dat lousy choice but don't play d victim and claim dat someone doesn't luv u 4 who u are(if he's a virgin he's well within his right to want a virgin). In d bible, Rahab d prostitute was used of God(so people can change) but so was d VIRGIN Mary. God's standard will never change no matter how "civilized/progressive" we claim to be. God's plan is dat a man and a woman both marry as virgins but here we are, so called christians debating which is better(and on sunday d same "christians" will be dancing thinking dat God is happy with them). For those dat say they prefer non-virgins because they are more experienced, I say: congrats on ur stupid logic - those "experienced" girls were born experienced abi? Those girls were virgins but were defiled by dirty minded men such as urselves. GOD CANNOT BE MOCKED, A MAN REAPS WHAT HE SOWS. For those girls condemning d guy, again I say, if he's a virgin then it's he's right to want a virgin......don't spew trash about him. @op...you did well by telling him d truth and God will honour dat but make sure u don't lie to a nice guy in d future claiming to be a virgin 'cos believe me, u cannot eat ur cake and have it. Dat u lost ur virginity is not d end of d world but don't think things will be d same.....U'll have regrets(if u're normal) but if u've truly repented then God is merciful, u'll marry a great guy. By d way, I prefer a virgin as they tend to have little or no emotional/spiritual baggage to deal with.
I agree with you in all totality, but come to think of it, the only reason why some people are still virgins is because they lacked access to kitty-kat (I know a couple of friends who do) while some are just technically a virgin (hymen sealed, but every other thing have been done even anals).
CelebritiesRe: Please Help!!! I'm Addicted To Celebrities Gists And Entertainment Blogs by k2039: 8:22am On Jul 11, 2013
netbrilliance: Thanks Bro. What steps can i take to break this one cos i really really want to
It begins with your mind. See yourself breaking free in you mind(mental creation precedes physical creation).

Limit the time you spend on the internet.

Always keep yourself busy in other things, the more busy you are, your chances of visiting those blog reduces.

But like I said earlier, it's you commitment/determination/persistence that will ultimately set you free.
RomanceRe: Hmmmmmmm...i'm Tired Of 'singlehood' by k2039: 8:17am On Jul 11, 2013
omiobo: SMH! OP,most of these advisers also need adviser. If one is tired of old garment one finds a way to pull it. Most of the single ladies on nairaland are also not happy with their status. Just be yourself,place yourself where you can be reached and also be friendly.
My boss has spoken. EOD.
RomanceRe: Hmmmmmmm...i'm Tired Of 'singlehood' by k2039: 8:17am On Jul 11, 2013
BraideBraide: Thank you.

All of you sending me Pm, iim sorry I can't read them b'cos I dnt haave the password to the mail.
Our date nko
PoliticsRe: 24hrs Light In Ibadan, How Is Electricity In Your Area? by k2039: 8:16am On Jul 11, 2013
Catastrophic
RomanceRe: 7 Differences Between A Boy And A Man by k2039: 8:11am On Jul 11, 2013
Smartie gurl: I only get to meet boys most times.....looking forward to meeting a MAN. Nice!!
I suggest you appeal to Seun to change your ID from Smartie gurl to Smartie woman/lady. Afterward you can start meeting men because the law of attraction is real, you attract what you are. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

ogugua88: But your name is smartie GURL.
Mynd_44: No mind am. She wants to continues doing what she has been doing and get a different answer
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CelebritiesRe: Denzel Washington Caught Cheating On His Wife For 30 Years? by k2039: 8:07am On Jul 11, 2013
“I live with this man. I see the down part. I see the sad part. I see every part,” Pauletta told the magazine.

“He has and knows he has stability in me as his wife. That’s what gives him strength, regardless if he misuses it. I can’t dwell on that. But I do know that gives him a great platform to go and fly.”
A wife that reasons like this is who I pray for, Oh Lord.
FoodRe: .... by k2039: 8:05am On Jul 11, 2013
I have never seen this o.

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