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Without Christmas there would not be an Easter.-----------(1)

Without Easter there would not be salvation. ------------(2)

Equation 1 and 2 aren't mutually exclusive, equation 2 is dependent on 1 and 2 is dependent on salvation.

So both requirement must be met for salvation, so both are paramount to the christian.
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[color=crap] [size=13pt] Definitely, he will use it at my wedding, that I'm sure of.
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Yomieluv: Sunday's clothing is usually Native,which is not ideal weekdays.

[color=crap] [size=13pt]Last time I checked Friday was still a weekday.
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When I was a kid I put on my best clothes on Sunday, but when I became a man I put away childish clothing.

Actually, I wear my best clothes on daily basis as long as I'm not indoors, life is to short to keep my best in the wardrobe for a particular day, by the way Sunday is just like every other day of the week and I'm not going to church to impress anyone except myself.
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[color=crap] [size=13pt] We are what we repeatedly do. Backing is a habit.
Backing is a program that is written subconsciously into the kid.
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blessedWMN: I would pray bout it n ask her about it

[color=crap] [size=13pt]You expect her to accede to the text.
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[quote author=Mynd_44]Christmas comes during the end of the year when most people will want to go on holiday, it is easier to make a huge deal of it than Easter that falls withing the work year[/quote][color=crap] [size=13pt]Actually, this is the main reason, besides it's a longer break, it runs till the new year.
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[color=crap] [size=13pt] Nigeria is a country where all things are possible.
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[color=crap] [size=13pt]I don't celebrate anything.
Every holiday is just like any other day.
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[color=crap] [size=13pt]Moral of the story;
Don't do the crime, if you can't do the time
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Can someone rephrase the Op's post?, I don't seem to understand what she wrote.
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Crap 101.
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Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along.

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[quote author=Mynd_44]So when she meet him, she would have gained enough experience to thrill him with[/quote][color=crap] [size=13pt]her skills in bed.
Skills come with experience.
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[quote author=Mynd_44]I hate too much talk. If you are atttracted to a girl cos she takes classes serious and she is close to God and the othe BS. If her grades starts dropping, she starts ignoring church and she sleeps around would you still love her?

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Those are circumstances within her control and for that I can leave her. I did explain that earlier, I will only be stupi.d to date a girl who isn't making herself better or building up herself.

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[color=crap] [size=13pt] Eventually, it all boils down to this:
We all see the world the way we are.
Two people can see the same thing differently and still disagree.
If we ask 10 different people for their definition of love, we will get at least 8 different answers.

In closing I agree with every ones post on this thread.

We are all attracted as a result of certain qualities but it's my believe that the greatest love are based on intrinsic values, values that can't be explained.
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[quote author=Mynd_44]But wait ooo. Before you ask someone out(I am not refering to the mofos who chase anything in skirts here), there must be something which draws him/her to you. Something you see in the person that makes you want more and more of that person. At first, it might be that thing and then you find out the person has more qualities that are endearing to you and you keep falling.

If this holds right, then is it not possible that if those qualities suddenly or gradually change, you might fall out of love? If you fall for a man because he is humble and kind, if he stops being humble you might find yourself heting him.

The truth is that we as individuals have what we look for in a the opposite sex. K for example wants booooobs. And some wants intelligence. And most times, we do not know that we want those things in our partner but the sub-concious know s and when one who has those qualities come around, your defences which is built by the same sub-consiousness falls down. That is what you fell in love with. And those are what you can point to.

Thw point that you fall unconditionally is really not true and I mean romantic love here. Even among friends. You find things that draws you to your friends right? If your friends starts acting in ways contrary to what you first saw, won't you pull away?

Some one said "a reason to love gives a reason to hate" which is true because when that thing which you fell in love with goes away, the love goes with it. You can deny this all you want but it holds true.

There is always an object you love in your partner but if you know or discover it or not is left to you.

Do you even wonder why sometimes after being together some people fall out of love? Have you not heard where a man treats his wife bad but she still loves him cos of some other qualities which other people think is crap?

We are attracted to different things and those thing are attract up and keep us bounded or tears us apart.


Eff I said I won't get in this ooo. Now my fingers hurt[/quote][color=crap] [size=13pt]We have a common ground here, I agree with you in totality and in fact my post reflected this.

But if I was attracted to a girl because she has sexy legs, if she has an accident and loses the leg, then what happens?.

What if she develops an ailment and somehow she isn't fully active in bed, what happens?.

I can give several examples on and on, but my point is just that the greatest relationships are the ones which are based on values that cannot be quantified.

I understand we are attracted by certain qualities but when the qualities fade as a result of nature (circumstances beyond our control, what happens to Love?).

I don't mean one should foolishly love though, but if my girlfriend cheats on me or is unwilling to go on with the relationship, I will not hesitate to let her go(those are circumstances within her control).

@ the bolder, where did you obtain your fact, I assume it was an illustration anyway .
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luvmijeje: Tell me first why u luv your current babe and I will gladly answer your question.

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Let me tell you a little story.

I went to a friends room, checked through his phone and I saw this particular girl's picture.
I jokingly told him, I was interested in the girl and I requested he showed me the girl(She was in my department).
When my friend finally showed me, she didn't fit my picture and idea of a girl friend in terms of her body shape, size etc.

But after a while I got attracted to her(I kept seeing her in the dept.).

I remembered my friend asked me a question when I told him I'm beginning to love this girl, he asked me why the attraction now since I told him I wasn't attracted to the girl earlier?.

That question took me days to figure it out.

After clear and deep though I realized I was fascinated about how studious she was, that marked the beginning of my attraction towards her and the more I found out about her afterwards the more I was attracted by her personality.

So to answer your question, she is smart, prioritize, intelligent, devoted to God and she is beautiful(I never thought she was when I first saw her though).

But in spite of all this qualities, my attraction and love for her is greater, Honestly I can't figure out why I'm so crazy about her because there are girls who have same qualities as her and there are others who are way better but of course I'm not attracted to them.

I figure out that if my love was based on the qualities I found out, they will be superficial, there is something greater that I can't explain because if her beauty fades, if something happens to her intellect medically(God forbid), I will still love her. [/size][/color]

holahmihdeh: And it isn't about being dominated by one partner.

[color=crap] [size=13pt] Unfortunately someone will always dominate.
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nikkypearl: The baby girl is Titis second child and King Wasiu's 38th child.

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[quote author=Mynd_44]Who cares about that? I would rather wish she is making good of herself and making herself a better human than worry about her intimate habits[/quote][color=crap] [size=13pt]She could be making herself in bed(for her future husband )
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luvmijeje: What are the probability of her meeting someone else that has the same attributes as his current boo.
Arguably God himself love us with a reason not to talk of us-human.

[color=crap] [size=13pt]A simple question dear.

Why do you love your boo?.
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[color=crap] [size=13pt] I hope someone isn't having s.ex with her.

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[quote author=uj_sizzle]all she can see is that he's got some real nice attributes. But there are other people who also have what he's got and a whole not more! But do u see her going to love them instead? Nope she still stays with him and no one else.
My point is the reasons aren't why she must love him neither are they why she must choose to remain with him.[/quote][color=crap] [size=13pt]I agree with you.
The greatest love are unconditional, the partners realize the attraction they feel for each other is greater that their reasons for wanting to be together.
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sexkillz: [color=#000030]The answer is No.

You cannot love without a reason. If you insist you can love without a reason, then it is possible to love every person that approaches you for a relationship. The reason for love, is that reason that differentiates him/her from all others.

Without that reason, he/she is just like every other person you come across. [/color]

[color=crap] [size=13pt] I assume the Op's girlfriend has a reason, she just doesn't know.

This brings me to the crux of the point where we have always disagreed.
If I have a reason to love a girl, then that's the same reason not to love her(My love is only valid when the reasons are met).
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[color=crap] [size=13pt] Ultimately, it depends on you and the girl, if you both love each other, go for it. There is absolutely nothing wrong.
Also let your friend know, you not asking for his approval, you just updating him since he is your friend.
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[color=crap] [size=13pt] I laugh in greek.
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[color=crap] [size=13pt] I doubt if he is dead?, probably in coma.
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