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True love exist but only in the hearts of d few, finding them is like going through the eyes of a needle,but when u do, it's like open heaven

They have done their bits according to their might

Pics though , but what can anyone say but to wish them Happy Married life.

@poster

We don't win in all cases,

In every relationship, be sure that, it's either it breaks or it leads to alter, but wat hurts most is the way and manner we break up.

How many would you want to take revenge at??

That people don't love u back the way u do is not the end of d world, jus be happy that the love grows in your heart

Don't shut ur doors completely, but let ur experience be a teacher/guide

You have jus learnt something u never knew.       Take heart ok.

@poster

Good for you, for trying to run faster than your legs

Becus u buy her biscuit at a supermaket means a pay back time

Naa guys like u dey teach us girls sense

@ OJbee

Thank you for taking all the bitterness and raving away form my me

@poster
Good that u hv d nerve to apologise

Was wondering if u are one of the pple who think because they hv a dangling somewhere down there, so feels right to rubbish women.

A lil patient would have confirm ur fears, but alas u decide to name a child b4 it was born

I don't know how and when visiting one became having sex and to even know you are the one that called, habaaa

anyway can't say much.

@Becky45

A word is enough for the wise

Most pple have said it all here, only u knows what is good for you
But my worry is that u are not willing to marry this guy and neither is he willing. so what else do u want from him

U are enjoying the flirting, pls do not let it ruin what you have and if you kwn you don't really love your finace, be sure to walk out now that it is not too late.

We don't want another Thread .: AM CHEATING ON MY HUSBAND" Pls what do i do?
"Make the Hay while the Sun shine.

@ poster

I got ur drift even though some people here will refuse to accept the reality of life

But u see d twist of life is that it doesn't often give u exactly what you want

You are here not criticising but wondering why certain set of pple u did mention hv the guts toasting, (the truth people can be gutsy) this shouldn't have given u concern but rather ignore them, also as much as u dont redicule anyone in so doing., shits are bound to happen and always regardless.

I know myself and know my limmit of expectations in things, and its irking when some pple dont kwn,
I have been in ur shoes more often than not, (u hv a driver, an okada man asking to marry or date u jus becus of ur friendliness with them)

NL, to those raising eyebrows, how many of you at ur level of education will descend low going for may be an orange seller or house girl and if u are a lady , may be for a mechanic or shoe mender?. either for date or marriage(lets be realistic)
No condition is permanent yes, but would that make us not to hv standard again??

Why will an okada man wake up and probably think he can marry me and make me a wife? (becus he has balls inbtween his twoo legs) aran't nonsense.

So dear i feel your pain, be jovial to them, accommodating , and when they try to take ur simplicity for a ride, ask them to kiss ur ass. simple.

You can't force Love,, hard. If it's not there, it will never never be there

Love is better nurtured b4 delving into it, but in his case he didn't and hence married on compassionate ground.

For those who ask he shld try and let it grow, mmmmmmmmmmmm seems hard

@poster

The mistake u ever made was accepting to marry her due to pressure
I honestly do not kwn what to say here as you are d one getting ur fingers burnt

It is  a choice only u can make, either living miserable in marriage for the rest of ur life or opting for the divorce (which is against God) but then we have done a lot that is against God in our lives.

Let it be an open heart talk between two of u, lay ur cards on d table (the good, bad and ugly side of living 2geda unhappily) for her to see if she wants to live the rest of her life with a man who wont show her love (am sure her happiness also matters to her) it wont be easy for her though but for me, will rather go my way (Will find love someday)

Finally if  divorce becomes the option, the upkeep of d child shld be ur sole responsibility (dont forget this)

NOTE::
Girls should pls help themselves to be helped, the reality usually sets in after the minutes of enjoyment/passion has elapsed,  insist on condom and where not, be sure u work with safe period. These things can always be avoided if we try to apply caution, better still there are other preventive measures.

And for guys, u pple can do better esp when u kwn u are not ready to put a woman in the house, insist also in d use of condom, because when the eyes starts bleeding with tears, it also affects d nose.

A stich in time they say saves Nine.

Can see lots of guys condeming this, the same guys that will reject women and deny the pregancy when a gf finds herself in this situation, What other option do u leave them with??

Yes abortion is totally wrong and unacceptable, we all kwn that without doubt

But no one wished to find herself in this situation and not a case that one should glorify on, it often happens by accident and ignorance.

@poster
Am wondering y u feel u can get the answer u so desire
Do you have a sister? i bet she is not exclusive of this? ask her to tell you what it feels like, ur gf can also be of help, helping u the fix d puzzels where it possible

In totally, it's an awful experience, the trauma always stick on

But if God forgives, who are we to condem

Some guys are gettin biased here

The girl has not really said much to be criticised or crucified.

May be some of u are far from understanding that little things matters in a relationship, buying ur girl gift once in a while is not demanding for Judas head on a platter of gold, it's only being romantic, it could be a pen, musn't neccessary be sometin too expensive

@Poster

It's either d guy is sting, or not the giving type, my ex- is the type that appreciate women dotting and showering him gift, guess also a gold digger (or only a crime when a woman asked)

Since u love him, let that love be ur guide but as much as u are not loving stupidly if u kwn wat i mean.
Thats doesn't stop u from giving when u also can, u are only teaching him what he has refused to learn.

In all,let truth be told irrespective of who is concern here, Giving gifts is only being romantic. i cherish liitle things i get from pple rather than pearls or precious stone i bought myself, doesnt make anyone here a gold digger. Jus spices that keeps the relationship going and sweet.

@ poster

I sensed that since u guys didn't break up but only lost contact and hence met again, u can never refute the urge to go down that road again when it comes calling, so posing danger to what u already have at hand.

If am the girl, i won't even opt staying with u cus jealousy with drive me to death.

I understand how much u are willing to help, but any other option will be better than having her stay in ur house.

Truth be told,u can't resist the urge when it comes knocking, so it's better u avoid that now, try arranging a place of her own if u have the money to, otherwise a way out is possible, What if u were never there

Wish all yaa a Happy Birthday and g8er things in return

Will God ever hear our prayers , our cry in a state of quagmire, to wipe away the generation of the present leaders and give us a new re-birth, new hope.

We have failed leaders, but lets all hope that the generations of our children children will not go through what we are going today,

Lets hope that one day a wind of change will blow and CHANGE will come

And a reedemer will emerge to salvage us from CORRUPTION that has found it's root in the heart ofour leaders.

PHCN, does that name exist anymore?? the more you look, the less you see

Bloody network

Moderators,please kindly help me delete those trash

Nollywood Rules for Me.

Violated
Rattle snake
Crime to christ
Reloaded
                         Jus the few

Hollywood those days

Woman of substance
Home alone
Passenger 57
Who will take care of my children
Desperate Housewives

Nollywood Rules for Me.

Violated
Rattle snake
Crime to christ
Reloaded
                         Jus the few

Hollywood those days

Woman of substance
Home alone
Passenger 57
Who will take care of my children
Desperate Housewives

Nollywood Rules for Me.

Violated
Rattle snake
Crime to christ
Reloaded
Jus the few

Hollywood those days

Woman of substance
Home alone
Passenger 57
Who will take care of my children
Desperate Housewives

Okada riders are a menace to our major highways and they must be ban

Coming later than expected though,

The loss is more than the gain, and 90% of d riders are very reckless

SOmetimes its hard on which to avoid,cars on highway,abi okada's.

People will obviously get use to it, come to think of it, what of when there was no okada

Uncle Fash, biko ban them without thinking twice

Not so religious but there are things i don't doubt

Got two txt regarding this, the first one alarmed me

I did pray shaa eventhough i slept off half way, Chei devil @ work

Well, God will not forsake us nor our love ones

Waiting patiently for round two of the flight

Anyone has an idea which stadium?

Hope they fight to finish

Shameless He-goats

Naija a country where money and power rules the citizenry

Showdown of shame, , What pple can do for power,

Where has our dignity gone to?? we throw every caution to the wind all for quest of power and money


And when all these things are gone, what legacy are we leaving behind us? Can we be remembered by our good did?, What history are we making for ourselves and our generations?


Must we all be in power? and must we all be rich? only in a country where the two matters. people get extremist to get what they want

Let them take a cue from House of commons where Ministers resign their appointment honourably, to them good name is better than gold nor silver.

Gbenga Daniel and Alausa should go and die in shame

A lengend

A Hero

An Icon

Mighty one
thats what You are


Your name, music will forever live you

Angels don't die, they live on, You are an angel sent in mankind

If tears, anguish, sorrow, pain could bring the dead back, the tears of the world would have brought u back MJ

Keep resting, Keep sleeping In peace

Forever you will be missed and remembered

I can go on and on lighting candle for you

Still hard to believe you are gone

You are g8ly missed by the whole world

Not sure anyone has been celebrated like u.

Continue to Rest In The Lord.

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THE LEGACY LIVES ON FOREVER EVENTHOUGH YOU ARE DEAD

WE WILL BE REMEMBERED BY OUR GOOD WORK, WE REEMEMBER YOU MJ

CONTINUALLY REST IN PEACE

Jus another subtle way of tellin u NO, Yes sometimes we can like people but obviously not for dating,that could be the reason ,

@adec234

Thanks so much, i do appreciate and bliv the guy must have sorted himself out as have not heard from him since then.

Now another challenge is that of UNN

Pls has anyone in the house been able to print the form and at what time can one be able to do that, my cousin is getting fustrated and time is running out.

Anyone with news should pls PM me (UNIVERSITY OF NIGERIA NSUKA)

@Poster

We all hv deformities, physically or by character

What you make urself is how people will see you and take u for

Take a walk, a tour round the city u live in, u will find out that there are people that will wish to be in your shoe.

It's human to feel the way u do, but then be produ of who God has made you

And be appreciative of who u are regardless, there are other inner beauties that will make a man appreciate you

so dear girl,please don't allow that make you feel less of who u are and who God has made u.

Holding memories does not mean we have not forgotten and moved on

What really makes it that special the fact that it's the first time i guess??

Otherwise, we have been disvirgined on and on ever after.


For me, am not dwelling on it, yes once in a while i do remember.,