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Annita19, why is it the all the pictures I see of you are of different women?

Interesting. . Chopped my whole hair last year october it has grown quite alot but can't seem to get products that can maintain my curls. . Any products I get just dry my hair out and it can become a very dry and frizzy. I have tried all sorts for my hair and the only thing that ever works was proline hair softener for men but they have stopped making it.

I use to use pink hair oil when I had perm but it is no use to my natural hair so now I just go on Youtube to get natural hair care info.

Trac do you know any natural hair products that maintain softness and curls?

I tried shea butter no use. .

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=754284

I think this one is new. It's good to put fine girls on here

Someone forgot thionaslim instead they put up bush rats.

Good!

OYINBOGOJU:
Its not a crisis

Its just a inner wish which only few could speak it out.

Yes, but the doctors call what you are experiencing "mid-life crisis". It's the time were you start notices gray hairs and you start been depressed about getting old and not been abled to do what you use to do. Many at this time tend to get new hair cut and wardrobe even a new woman(by this I mean a very very young woman).

Good Girl:
I mentioned Nigerian because she mentioned that her aunties, relatives, blah blah blah would always tell her to go back home to get a husband and the poster I was responding to was also suggesting that the lady should go to Naija. 

It is not by force. It is just a suggestion for Pete's sake! 

But if she is still fixated on one race, then she can knock herself out. 

Whether her aunties, relatives, blah, blah wants her to go back home to marry is not the issue here. She wants a black man from any background who is hardworking etc etc. She does not find other races attractive because if she did she would have been married by now. If you are going to advice, advice within the criteria she is looking for.

Aww, mid-life crisis?

^Fool, gerrout!

Ah, kabba. .I hate you!

Buggu ma. .

I have seen two pictures of annita19, two pictures of two different people. If she is anyone of those girls she is not bad looking. .

*walks in, walks out*

Rubbish!!

Chief, no matter what, nothing could be said to justify using kids to make ends meet, that is what is child chlld labor . . .as a parent, you invited the kids into the world and it is your duty as a parent to take care of that child and to provide for them, but if you can allow that child to be the one to provide for you, then, you could as well, allow that child to make the necessary decision in the house . . . .it does not take just being bigger than the kids to be the parents, it takes more than that.

nothing could justify using your kids to make ends meet.

It has nothing to do with where i reside, it has to do with the fact that nothing and no matter where people reside, it is not a good idea to make kids be the bread winner of that home . . . .In Nigeria, people that are serious and dont wanna see their kids lives in poverty will do all it takes  . . . . and not just say cos their parents raised them in poverty means they could do same.

Fine as a parent it is your duty to bring up these children and provide for them but my point is how can you provide when there is nothing to provide and the only means of providing is to do this? You said that if parents cannot bring up children they should not have children and I asked how easy is it for women to have family planning? How does the government support these parents if they know they cannot take care of any children. .
Someone mentioned that these children are children of illiterates and children of single parents which I have mentioned and people living in poverty plus we should not forget that these children might possibly be orphans living with family members or people who cannot afford to take care of them and their only possible means of survival is this. Someone also mentioned that it is laughable to think that these children's parents are home lazying off while their children are providing which is true because it's not necessarily the case. How can illiterates possibly know what condoms are or birth controls? When in deep poverty, people would work as a unit(the whole) to provide for the family and I also believe that these children are not just being left on their own to hawk in the streets the likelihood is that they are in a market place with older members. I have seen young teenagers hawk in the streets on their own but many choose to do that because that is the only way they can buy food to eat each day. I do not approve of this but we have to understand that in poverty these sort of things will happen unless the government finds a way to help it's people. The government needs to give every woman or couple an access to family planning where they can be be educated on how to plan parenthood. There are thousands of promiscuous young people who get pregnant and not been abled to take care of their children, family planning should made for everyone. There are women who are been violated everyday in Africa but because of our mentality abortion is illegal in many parts and you talk of planning parenthood? How can you plan parenthood when you are not given a choice. You say planning parenthood but if a pregnant violation victim does not want to have the child many will  say "abomination" but still abandon the woman or see her as an outcast.  There is so much work that needs to be done and this has to start from the top.

Take the riots that happened in the UK, many blame the government but I blame the useless parents that did not bring their children up right. The past government has given this youths and their parents every thing they need, free everything. I understand that the new government made changes that affected some people but why should cutting EMA's affect you? Why would you get paid for education? Is education not for your benefit? It's a disgrace. They talk of how hard it is but what about other children in other places? Having no place to sleep? Food to eat?

See, here I blame the parents but for Africa I cannot blame the parents when the government has not stepped to do anything about everything.

Many are sat behind screens type-screaming "child abuse, child abuse" but I want to know, WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT?

Yes its child labour . . . . .so what are we collectively going to do about it to make a difference?

I ask myself the same thing. .

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=471000


This guy is fine wella. .

Hoodrat:
HELP!!!! im starting to get unwanted email from nairaland scammers seeking for my help in moving out trunk full of money in libya and senegal this is getting boring. This is not what im expecting from posting my pictures on this thread.

Why you post your pictures?

Good Girl:
Her happiness cannot be pegged on her marrying a Nigerian. That is probably the mistake she's been making over the years and I will [/i]discourage her. Just glance at what the males on this forum have been typing about her. Do you seriously think they are capable of making ANYBODY happy, let alone the OP? Just be honest with yourself! Can any form of happiness emanate from those venom-speaking men who just lash out at a woman for the simple reason that she's 40 and unmarried (like she chose to be in that situation in the first place)?

ZE, about white guys not having "sweet priks" as you've put it; do not underestimate your opponent. I've also heard that the white boys have their own strengths in the art of love-making. _{I repeat, I've heard}. They are not as lousy as you'd want to believe. It's all in your head. There are many things which give pleasure to a woman beyond "priks" and the white boys do not hesitate to explore those options. That [i]Black Men are Good in Bed saying should not get into your head; it's a myth that fellas need to stop spreading because it inflates the egos of the lousy lays.

I still insist that the lady should try out dating other races or other African nationalities. She should avoid jerks.

The Op did not say she wanted a Nigerian man but a black man. .Or, is black man now Nigerian man? She does not want men from other races, is it by force?

Fhemmy, I cannot type a long post now will have to reply to this post fully tomorrow.

I asked to find out where you reside because I wanted to know(if you live in the western world) if you are planning on moving back to Africa with  the education you have received to better it.  I have seen loads of people say such and such but spend their whole lives living and dying in a country without leaving any useful thing behind. You mentioned legacy, what will your legacy be? Contribution in bettering Africa?

Maybe the agent accident pulled his tie with something heavy and the more he tried to break free the tighter it became. I need to see the pictures of his office for more evidence.

Two of uda? Me?

You sick? wetin infect you?

Desola:
Death to Nigeria!

lol

It does get creepy though especially when you ignore their number they call you with a different number and you tell him you are not interested but they still insist on a date and when you say you live far away they tell you they will pay a hotel for you. . Rubbish, and many of these men are Africans.

Men need to start learning that. Creeps. .

There are rare women who leave men lusting or wanting them for ages whether with someone or not.

^loool

@Op, do I know your other ID or have you come across me before?


@OAM4J's questions. .

Dammytex, you fine but wetin wrong with you eyelids? Na stye you get?

dammytex:
kai! e pain me sha,

Reading through this thread, I can see that the ladies are finer than us in this section according to posters.

In fact, now i hate nayah, roki and anita19.

I wish I could give them ten-ten tribal marks each.

Ahahaha

Am I the only on who thinks opnus deii is HAWT?!?

@OP, my aunty(beautiful, hardworking single mother) found a very nice man on a dating site. I have met him(hard working, divorced with two children) and he is a very lovely man(Nigerian).

She met him on E harmony.co.uk you should try there.

Lax75:
Interesting stuff. Lots of cool pics and interesting folks.

Why your bottom lip so red? You kin drink pomo?

^Talk to me when that stick is out. . Rubbish!

[quote author=Czar-Chris link=topic=747507.msg9045876#msg9045876 date=1314782006]I've seen a situation wher this guy beats his babe black and blue every once in a while, that day will be the day the girl will(after the beating of course) go to the arket and cook a wonderfully delicious meal for the guy with her own money oo . Its really sick, you treat a girl with respect your a MUGU, you treat her like a piece of trash then your the man. I once had a girl who told my friend that I was a very wicked guy, why? Because I don't lay a finger on her when she goes wrong, dat I give her the silence treatment and to her that's worst than beating (considering my martial arts history I felt I was protecting her)[/quote]Rofl. .

It's totally a sign of a good wife and good living. Some women are so troublesome, the husband never adds weight cos of d stress

What about the women? Is it the sign of a good husband and good living?