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You fit date man long distance. . . you nor fit find 'companies of spousal records' with your 'long distance' tentacles?
IF ANY MAN CAN FOOL A NIGERIAN BABE. . . .EVEN A VILLAGE ONE THAT HAS NEVER SEEN 'LEHGUS'. . . . IN THIS DAY AND AGE. . . SHE MUST BE. . . .A. . . .$%*@!

You are not a 'marriage' material for the simple FACT THAT YOU ARE 'SLOW'!
No insult intended. . . just the BASIC FACT!


Look ehn?
We all know Nairaland has long gone to the dogs.
To open thread nor to by force o?

O da bo!

*anybarry wey quote me come back for this thread. . . .may EBOLA choose him or her as it's next spouse. . . AMEN*

>>>>>>>>>exits thread>>>>>>>>

chaircover:
Very weird;

Trado marriage with no one from his family in attendance? . . .Very difficult to beleive

and why doesnt he want to discuss things with you? What does he have to hide?

something must have started the alarm bells ringing to made your folks decide to do backgound checks this mans marital status

You may have had a lucky escape

Are you for real 'chair'?
The man may have been THE ONE TO HAVE HAD A LUCKY ESCAPE!
This OP na STALKER o!
She wan go meet the 'ex-wife' for 'CLOSURE'?
This woman is living in a wonderland o.
Na real ALICE!
Long distance relationship. . . .and planning marriage?
She nor even go live with/observe the man for real courtship for ONE SOLID MONTH?
Has she ever taken the man to see her parents or siblings FOR A SIMPLE INTRODUCTION?
Abi na for Facebook dem wan TANDA TILL DEATH DO THEM PART?


What kind of relationship is that?
Women are fond of blaming men for being emotional and financial DUPES.
Wetin this OP call herself. . . potential victim or BAIT?

Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeehn!
Thank my H-AGNOSTIC Gawd for the kain parents wey born me.

duwop:
I don't understand your predisposition to insults. However, thank out of d question.

Where is the insult in what I wrote?
I only asked you some questions based on your HIGHLY IRRATIONAL ORIGINAL POST.
I only asked you if you are DESPERATE OR STOOPID?
I did not insult you. I was soooooooooooo tempted to though.
Believe you me. . .you should have seen what I wrote before I toned it down.
That was the REAL INSULT.
But I chose to temper justice with mercy.

Please, whatever angle you choose to look at this from. . . you left out the most important angle.
THIS MAN BELONGS TO MANY OTHER WOMEN.
Stop deceiving yourself!

I raised d issue with him and he is not responsive.

Did you read what you wrote on NL?
What other proof do you need?
When he abandons you at the shrine or altar of matrimony. . . you will call him a wicked man.
MEN ARE NEVER TRUTHFUL TO EMOTIONALLY-FRAGILE WOMEN LIKE YOU. . . .because THEY FEAR THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR DEGENERATE/PSCHOTIC LEVELS OF DESPERATION FOR MARRIAGE AT ALL COSTS!


The handwriting is on the wall. . . but you have REFUSED to read the message.
The reasons men take women like you for rides is because YOU WILL NEVER ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE NOT WANTED. . . .
You choose to dig in EVEN WHEN YOU HAVE ALL THE PROOF YOU NEED!

NO MAN IN AFRICA HAS ONLY ONE GIRLFRIEND BEFORE OR AFTER MARRIAGE. . . unless he is IMPOTENT!

Please, respect yourself! It may save your life!

So my question now is how do I get spousal information...do companies keep this info?I would like to contact the ex wife/wife to find out what really happened so I can get some closure and keep it moving.

I am really ashamed for you!

Is this a matter of DESPERATION or STOOPIDITY?

The difference between a BOYFRIEND and a HUSBAND. . . before marriage.

And the difference between a HUSBAND and a SUGAR-DADDY. . . .after marriage!

To survive in AFRICA. . .SHE MUST BE AN ASHAWO!

Period!

I loooooooooove it!
Lewinsky kor. . . . BELINKSY ni!!!!

Meet my maternal grand parents and all their children!!!!

SPOT MY MOM. . . with her glasses!
Marriage gooooooooooooooooood ooooooooooooooooooooooooh!!!!!

SAMBARRY:
You're right that's why I said I am trying hard not to laugh. But seriously this trend of violence is becoming something else.its either husband beats pregnant woman to death or woman castrates husband. Kilode

Just as I cannot condone violence on women by men. . . there is ABSOLUTELY no justification for this kind of behavior.
Even if he beats her for a hobby. . . she has a choice to LEAVE!
Simple.

This is sheer wickedness.
May she die in pieces after she finds no peace in live or death!
Amen!!!!

SAMBARRY:
Lol. I am trying not to laugh
kanwulia attention needed here

Nne.
This nor be laughing matter o.
E nor funny at all.
I see the title of the thread waka pass jeje.

This kain behavior from women dey make me shame to be called a woman gaaaaaaaaan!
Very barbaric!

USSSSSSSSELESSNESS in human form!
Blessed art the abandoned fruits of the womb and blokos balls!
MUCHECHECHECHECHE!!!!

So happy more women are growing the same nerves of steel to ABANDON their kids JUST LIKE THE MEN ARE COMFORTABLE DOING ALL OVER AFRICA!!!

Make the children become community property!
Kudos to the school authorities.


Yoruba men na waya o!
The Igbo ones are busy running KIDNAPPING rings with GRANDMAS to and fro UK to Nigeria.

Hmmmmmm!
Orishi Orishi!

Na which kain mama be dat wey son dey beat?
From which tribe?
No be de kain mama wey I get sha!
Just try ya luck. Simple.

Nmeri17:
lerrus hear what madame kanwulia has to say

You already know my stance and stand on issues like this.
It is a FREE world you know!
I don't taya for these kain topics abeg!
Praise my H-AGNOSTIC Gawd for busy schedules offline! Shioooooor!


I have NEVER kept just one man in my life since I was born!
Say who DIE?
Abi I be VIRGIN MARIA wey phock only HOLY GOAT to born one kweh-kweh "savior"?
Tufia to the KWA-KWA!

Abeg make the OP solve im wahala jor! I nor send!
Back to my TV!

Good morrrrring America!!! Na who jump White House fence today?

All these WAZOBIA marriages don taya me sef!

Kidnappers of the EAST!
Kidnapper must born kidnapper abi?
Dem wan use the pikin for ritual ni?

What tribe of MONKEYS is he from?

Because they have low self-esteem!

Stillfire:
You have said it alllllllllllllllllllll!
I wanted to reply the rubbish OP statements and following ones, but I won't waste a single brain cell on it. Too much productive energy would be wasted doing that.

Not worth serious consideration for real.
EBOLA don comot for Nigeria carry some people brains waka go I swear!

neoapocalypse:
Jisos!!! Carlotti the harlotti , is that your erm , erm ( clears throat ) in the profile picture ? Chai your husband dey enjoy o.

Back to topic after drooling all over kanwulia's profile picture - The thing is a lot of guys would gladly fcck a wrinkled puccy for a green card , you can't blame them either as it assures a better future than what is obtainable here

All mine.
NO SHAKING!

Callfubu:
You kidding right? Haven't you heard of our girls' sexcapades in Italy? When they sleep with dogs and other animals just for money, hmm u never see anything o

True!
But compared to the men sh a. . . . .

Chillisauce:
You never see anything. Dem go chop am finish, use lacasara wash am down

Come here follow us type tufiakwa

Mu Han Han Han Han

LACASARA ooooooooo

Not many NIGERIAN or AFRICAN women would stoop this low!
Imagine eating an OLD ROTTEN TOTO for papers!
TUFIAKWA!!!!

Primitive concerns for PRIMITIVE PEOPLE!

So you forgot the for better FOR WORST part of marriage ni?
Abeg grow up and stop dreaming like a child!
Do you really expect things to always stay the same in relationships?

If your partner changes. . . . . CHANGE TOO!
Never give more than you receive in ANY LEVEL OF ANY RELATIONSHIP!

Abeg grow up!

Thanks in advance!

Ogun State abi?
All things IMPOSSIBLE become VERRRRY POSSIBLE!!!

Twa!!!!

soulglo:
Does he have to be jobless to do it? I feel like if she felt he was an invalid before he lost the job then she should keep feeling that way. A woman who has made a man feel like chores are beneath him as a man should not dare open her mouth to complain simply because he lost his job. He was the useless before and still useless now

At least he can be pardoned if he is gainfully-employed!
But to be making mouth with no JOB?
What an INSULT ON INJURY!!!!!
He should be SLAPPED!!!!

If the man is JOBLESS, he needs to wash his own DAMN clothes!
Even if he were "King Solomon"?

He needs to respect himself! PERIOD!
A jobless man or WOMAN. . . .should learn to hide "face" and nyansh. . . .or learn to eat SHYTE!

It is called "humility"!

This is good news!
NO NEED TO WAIT FOR ONE YEYE Mr."WONG" with diseases!
It is becoming a woman's world!
Glad I am alive to witness this!
Who wants to "MEN"STRUATE for more than 20 years?
I really do not know what that your DANE GOD of BLOOODY SACRIFICES was thinking o!

Who wants to wear tampons for more than 10 years plus THE SCOURGE OF FIBROID TUMORS as "extra love" from una religious babalawo Gods?

THANK YOU APPLE!!!!
THANK YOU FACEBOOK!!!!

All diz BLOOOOOOOOODS we have been SHIARRRRRRING must stop!
Say NO to stinking pooohsie!!!!!

*sssssshai. . . . . .time for my sweeeeeeeet job o jare*

You cannot change the goal-posts of marriage EVEN ONE SECOND after the matrimonial championship matches have begun!
With all due disrespect. . . .
You sir. . . . .are FRANKLY AN AZZZZZZE!
Next time, don't get carried away by the "sweeeeeet smell" of a poohsie. . . .and ALWAYS look in your shopping-basket before you make your final purchases on ANY GOOD!
Do not complain when you have arrived home with a ROTTEN YAM TUBER!

You paid for it!
Now, eat it like that or go back to "The Market"!

ASIS!!!!! BABY!!!!

The best marriages are contract marriages!
Strictly business!
No need to deceive yourselves with some occult, fake "biblical or koranic" shytty vows!
No need to forsake all others!
AMEN!!!!

In poverty-stricken 10th-world countries like Nigeria of course!

The reason socio-economically AGGRESSIVE women DIE single in UNCIVILIZED parts of the world!

Because men always love women who can EAT their SHYTE!
Make dem come try their luck for my side!
Blokos go shrink and run go hide h-inside dem anusez by force ke!
Even Viagra-gra nor go work o! African/Nigerian men generally cannot relate with "aggressive" women like of course. . . .unless they have taken a lot of IGBO and COCAINE salad!

Because an AFRICAN PEHNIS can only rise when it sees a toto with low self-esteem!
To be sexxxxxxxy and desirable, you must act like a "MUMU-SUPERIOR"!

Awon "Ogas-On-Top" in matters of domestic, international and global generational abuse!

Check all RELIGIOUS fairytale books like the bible and koran. . .

All strong women with voices were either DELILAHS, JEZEBELS or "feet-washers" for the HOMO-JESUS in some "bible" for the mentally-handicapped. . . . .OR AISHAS for PEDOPHILIC, SHRIVELLED BLOKOSES for some OLD HE-GOAT PROPHET MOHAMMED whose burantashi stopped working with mature poohsies of his own generation in some nauseating, virgin-crazy koranic "hog-wash"!

Shiooooooooooor!!!!!!

Life is about SACRIFICES!
Personal sacrifices.
You do not need any form of validation from ANY one.

If you are above age"TATTY". . . Please, this might be your LAST chance o!
Nor wind waist like Shakira to do Shakara abeggggi!!!

It depends on which would give you f2f be utmost peace!
Depends on the individual circumstance!
All about preserving THE BEST of your emotional material, mental, physical and spiritual well-being!