DarkRebel69: Is this a season for unbridled emotional outbursts? Eh? Why, is it that time of the month?
You were the one who referred to children as "chopped loads in trash bags". If I came off as "abusive" as you claim, then it's only because you came off as a cold-blooded sociopath (which you are by the way).
On the contrary, any girl that ends up on my bed should feel quite fortunate. I'm quite the patient and thorough lover.
Go to bed already, madam. You are already firing blanks. Goodnight.
Nitey.
Enjoy this thread of children who wished to run away from THE REAL PSYCHO-PARENTS.
viktohmarkz: I had my fill when I was 8-9yrs can't really remember,my mum treated me like I was a pain in the ass,so I decided it was enough and I had to leave,I wrote a letter stating the day I would execute my plans buh unknown to me I forgot to put it back in a safe place,my mum found it and gave it to my sis to read,when I came back home my sis told me of what happened buh assured me nothing was gonna happen,I was given the biggest meat that evening and I felt like everything was back at its place, but lo and behold by midnight I was given the beating of my little life,I cried so hard that I prayed for my dad to Coman carry me (may his soul rest) the thought of running away from home has never crossed my mind till date.
See wickedness? Nigerian parents are PSYCHOS I swear!
buskie13: mine was not a good one at all,I was living with my brother and his wife,my brother is the type that doesn't work around, he comes once in a while from his offshore job,man I was left with the wife and 3 kids,to make matters worse,there's not a day I do something wrong that I don't get insults, battering of all kind I get from the wife,to make matters worse was when I was caught browsing a pornographic website using her phone,I begged and begged so she doesn't phone my elder brother that I would obey any of her command, she never answered my plea ,that was how I was reported, the whole house heard of it,from my dad,mum and everyone and I'm the last born,my elder brother came back from work few weeks later to come and beat me ,man you need to see how he kicked my stomach,my head and my chest because i was kneeling and begging him to have mercy on me,so I felt so devastated and confused, they were the most disturbing part of my life because everyone was looking at me disgustingly like I did sh*t in my pants,I was even praying to die,but God never answered that prayer,until I finally left the house ,and I can say I'm living fine since I left,my parents forgave me,the only sin I know my brother and his wife still think I committed was browsing a porn site at night with the wife's phone which I knew it was a teenage stuff,and I laugh when I remember all the memories, we just hope God never allow us to get into bad situations that would make us think otherwise, a lot of people lost their lives already, I'm still grateful to my elder brother everything he did(and still doing) for me
DarkRebel69: I had to help you reason since you wouldn't–or rather couldn't–do it yourself.
You are 1 MAJOR reason why women should have abortions, so as not to replicate genetic disasters.
You are abusive and chauvinistic. You are the kind that blackmails females after sleeping with them like your FELLOW NL scammers. Any girl unfortunate to end in your bed only has a life/death time of regrets.
DarkRebel69: If what you are trying to hint at is that I am Coogar, hence your allusion to "The scammer", then sorry, you are terribly wide of the mark. Last time I checked, Coogar was effusively pro-abortion. Also, Darkrebel–in his former incarnations–was a popular figure in the rap section on Nairaland and occasionally bantered with Coogar on so many Hip-hop/Rap related issues; Coogar also downvoted Darkrebel on so many rap battles, so unless I have a split personality disorder, then your indirect accusation is outrightly möronic.
You are not that bright, KarishikaExtra. You know that, don't you? Go suck a dick, will ya?
Hmmmm! Na who ask for all this explanation oooooooh? Na only 1 scammer dey NL?
DarkRebel69: Because only women suffer the consequences of abortions? Take this for example: A woman has had multiple abortions and suffers complications, she gets married at some later date, but she is unable to bear children due to the complications. Now, does the choice of her actions not affect her husband who is probably none the wiser about her antecedents?
Not my business! You carry the topic on your pillow and sleep on it. No wake up o.
DarkRebel69: Being apathetic to matters of life and death only bolsters my claim of you being a psychopath sociopath. Dear, you are not meant to be apathetic to such issues. If your definition of being apathetic meant a reticence of speech then it would have being better. But your apathy takes the form of thought-less and carefree speech, which is insensitively callous.
I am not a humanitarian. I care for myself and my family alone most times. So you see, I'm somewhat selfish, but are't we all are? Murder–especially of babies–, and crimes against children are what bother me most.
If I had the means I would open a "world wide shelter".
I'm not a believer of God. At least not in the God or gods of organized religions. I believe in the possibility of a god or gods or supernatural entity or entities, but I also believe in the impossibility of a god or gods or a supernatural entity or entities. I don't have to be religious before I speak against MURDER. I only have to be humanist, which I am.
If you are a BOY or MAN, you are not qualified to discuss abortion topics. Save your time and seek your level of understanding prior to using your fingers.
butterflyl1on: Nigeria has a problem with information gathering and keeping.
The point if this thread as a pro lifer which I am is to sample opinions and discuss these opinions to see if this is the ONLY option we have as a people or as women. Is abortion the best and final option in rape related pregnancies? Is that the last option in unprepared pregnancies which a lot term as UNWANTED?
is the problem the baby in the womb or the assailant or the woman herself who is carrying the baby? Is it her support group or lack of one? Does counselling work? Can it work?
How hard are we willing to push for life or do we do easily resign to death?
You are a pro lifer? Are you the first or last on NL? If you are a MAN, you have absolutely no business discussing abortion topics because YOU can NEVER understand how it affects girls or women.
You are simply not qualified to discuss it. Simple. Please exit YOUR thread quietly.
butterflyl1on: I want to believe you are older than Darkrebel especially since you already said you have worked in an abortion clinic some 30 years ago so I would take a wild guess to assume you are in your 50s.
Show some tact please.
What kind of tact do you want again? The reason I tell you your discussion is STALE. It is over 500 years old. Please, show some originality that befits your “young brain”.
butterflyl1on: My mind is relaxed. I am simply appalled at the cold manner you make your comments as if nothing matters and life is worth less than a roll of tissue paper to you.
Abortion is still a worldwide problem. In fact it is getting out of hand.
In China alone due to mass abortions and the 1 child rule everyone now has become insensitive to life and would flush as many as they can down toilets and even have them run over by vehicles if that would reduce 2 to 1
So, Africa is not part of the “pie chart”? E go pass China own ke!
Sorry, abortion topics are stale to me. Nothing warm about it.
What is your POINT besides having a discussion? We have read you. What next?
DarkRebel69: Is it a requirement that I have to make my point without calling names? Besides, your name is KanwuliaExtra. Are you KarashikaExtra? KarashikaExtra does have a nice ring to it though. Hehe.
My bad, psychopaths are usually intelligent, methodical, and less impulsive. I think I might have misdiagnosed you. You fit the bill of a low-functioning sociopath more than you do a high-functioning psychopath.
Whatever! Open your own “fatherless baby home” and I will give you lots of unwanted babies with AIDS to molest and sell into sex slavery.
I guess abortions do pose some mental health issues. It has already been mentioned on this thread. If this was a census then the speed with which we got the first one should let you have an idea of how the others would follow.
Women generally feel emotionally drained and terrible psychologically after abortions or even a little later on in life if such abortions caused them some physical damage internally.
The mental issues occur with ANY decisions made concerning a pregnancy.
Any woman will have severe mental issues ANYWAY you look at it.
1. Abortion 2. Giving up your “UNWANTED BABY”. 3. Carrying an unwanted pregnancy and raising a child in BASTARDOM.
A hard choice for ANY WOMAN TO make.
Thanks our stars for the era of BABY MAMAS and DADAS!
I love the new generation of women. Having a fatherless baby home is in VOGUE now.
OP! Abortion nor dey reign again o. Welcome to “BABY MAMA” era.
DarkRebel69: . . . . And I'm certain many of us get naseous and squeamish about the sight of blood–Well, unless you're a psychopath like KarashikaExra.
The point I'm trying to make is, I think abortion comes easy to many people . . . . .
Even in cases of rape, the mother could have the child and then place him or her in a mother-less home.
You cannot make your point without calling names?
I don pass that stage abeg. Who is sounding more like a Psychopath now? Go to any motherless/fatherless baby home and see the level of physical and sexual abuse the children go through. Abortion will be “mercy-killing” to you!
You drop your own unwanted baby in a fatherless baby home ke! Set a good example.
DarkRebel69: You seem like a potential murderer. I see the subtle signs of psychopathy and cold-bloodedness in you. I would sooner have Anthony Casey baby-sit my kids before I have them entrusted in your care.
No worries. I am very apathetic to these kinds of topics. Why worry about what you can’t control?
If you are such a humanitarian, why not open a world wide shelter and take in all the abandoned babies you may probably traffick to the highest bidders for slavery or rituals?
Thou protest to much abeg!
Blame your super murderer God. In his own image and likeness abi?
butterflyl1on: in a nutshell, the level of abortion incidents you have been exposed to has toughened you up so based on this, the life of a fetus means nothing to you. ( that is me paraphrasing you).
Not only the level of abortion incidents but life in general.
This topic can only appeal to teenagers and under-20s who need the exposure and education. I have spent 10+ years on NL and abortion topics have been super-thrashed.
If you are trying to lecture anyone above 30 or 40 in this day and age, you are wasting your time.
Oh please. My first job was in an abortion clinic. I am way past the “traumatizing” phases of life.
That was almost 30 years ago.
Tons of thrash bags with chopped up fetuses. You wan show me video of something wey I do see LIVE?
You nefa see anything o. I don see TAYA, and IMMUNE to the ways of the world. I really don’t give a hoot. Not here to save the world. Abeg, many prophets preach the same messages. Hopefully, those who the matter concern go listen.
I am not an activist for any aspect of humanity. Not my consine.
Welcome to marriage in Africa! Nigerian men na waya!!!! You have to CARRY A STROOOOOOONG LIVER to date or marry a Nigerian man I swear. Dem fit send you go insane asylum o. Kai!!!! Restless blokos na sin o.
Over to the younger babes! Una go “LOOK FOR JOHNNY” taya ke!!!!!
Tell me about it. Like it is easy for those who had the abortions? Anyway you look at it, it is a life changer with many sleepless days and nights. Lots of repentance, grief and regrets.
If you keep the child nko? Without love or support, the child will feel the “unwantedness” with a great potential for emotional, verbal and physical abuse.
Then imagine having to choose between killing your unborn child or giving it up.
Simply a game of survival.
MEN should be PREGNANT TOO! Then they can preach as LOUD as they do!
butterflyl1on: Opinions are always personal to those who have them.
You say you do not care about emotions. That is your opinion but there are many who do care and that is what this thread is all about. Everyone sharing their own personal opinions without trying to shout down on the other.
Each respecting the opinion of the other while we discuss.
Fine then.
Hope all those commenting are “abortion/murder” free.
butterflyl1on: This is not a religious discussion. This is a social discussion based on a presence or a lack of empathy. Kindly keep religion aside. My OP never indicated religion or a religious opinion anywhere. Thank you
Lack of empathy for who? My interest comes first.
You keep emotions aside o. This is not an emotional topic.