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Politics › Re: Allow Married Underage Girls To Vote - National Assembly To INEC by kapelvej: 3:50pm On Dec 21, 2020
Shame. Paedophiles as law makers
Education › Re: Katsina Govt Bans Whatsapp Groups In Schools & Prohibits Facebook Among Workers by kapelvej: 8:22pm On Dec 09, 2020
Backward ever. Forward never
Family › Re: I Feel So Suicidal Because Of My Marriage. by kapelvej: 12:06pm On Dec 08, 2020
JERRY1925:
U contemplating suicide without even telling us what the problem is.
Is it your wife coming home or chats with her ex that's ur problem?
I really don't get.

Last I checked every woman get problem.

Fact Is, u should not be thinking of suicide because I am sure u read the handwriting on the wall before marriage.
Exactly my thoughts
Family › Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by kapelvej: 2:12pm On Dec 06, 2020
JONSYN7154:
The truth is that if you can endure women's repugnant character you won't regret your marriage.

Marriage is all about enduring each other's character.

if you have tough enduring skin you'll have a PERFECT marriage.
wrong. marriage is to be enjoyed not endured. Compatibility and value system is all that is needed to avoid all these talk of endurance. Love is even overrated
Family › Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by kapelvej: 2:09pm On Dec 06, 2020
emkz:
I regretted mine, not necessarily for what she did but for my inability to follow my instincts about her which could have prevented the calamity. We were not married but things had been done towards that like introduction and trad before kasala burst. I was happy kasala burst before we went farther.

For anyone who wants to get married, by all means do so...but marry for the right reasons. You first need to understand yourself and your own limitations. If your aim is to have children, perhaps a contractual arrangement suffices. Unfortunately, many marriages today are not different from service contracts: I will provide shelter, food and security while you provide pussy when I want it and how I want it, and you must not provide it to someone else. Or I am marrying you because society expects and would respect me to be married as it shows I am responsible.

The Dutch Prime Minister is single.

Or I'd marry you only because I love you. These are wrong reasons to be married. For a potential spouse, look at compatibility, companionship, communication, character and charisma. Exude these qualities yourself and you shall find it in your potential partner. Love will fade, the butterflies in your stomach shall die, your partner shall irritate you, what then would hold your marriage?

The stories of wayward men and women are told everyday on this forum. Don't let them deter you. There are very good men and women from very good homes who are responsible to be wifed or husbanded. I know this because all my sisters have been married for years and no one has come to report that they have issues with them.

Don't go looking for a wife. Develop yourself and have the values of someone husbandable, creation will link you to your spouse.

In closing, my question to you is:

Why exactly do you want to get married? Are you truly convinced of the answer you give yourself?
You said it all. You are blessed. The part I liked best is "I regretted mine, not necessarily for what she did but for my inability to follow my instincts about her which could have prevented the calamity".
When reading what you wrote it felt like I sent you to help me write my experience. I thought I was the one writting.
Politics › Re: Naira V Dollar: How True Is This Statement by kapelvej: 12:14pm On Dec 06, 2020
Sirfrederick:
You can easily make $1 in the US than N500 in Nigeria.
The only sensible person has spoken. What does it take to make a dollar and 500 naira. 5oo naira is like 4 hours job for those earning 30k a month.
Politics › Where Is Festus Keyamo by kapelvej(op): 12:50pm On Dec 04, 2020
I am just wondering. No body has heard from Festus Keyamo for sometime. He has not been very vocal in defending the government like he used. Has he seen something strange about this administration ?.
Family › Re: The Stupidest Thing I Have Ever Seen. by kapelvej: 8:40pm On Oct 08, 2020
Why crime section?
Pets › Re: Meet My Indoor Rottweiler - Khal Drogo by kapelvej: 4:37pm On Sep 30, 2020
My brother it is a good story you have up there but remember that a Rotweilller is always a Rotweiller
Politics › Re: Naira Is More Valuable Than Dollar And Pound. Ignorance Is Killing Us. Wake Up! by kapelvej: 8:08am On Sep 24, 2020
rottennaija:
This is really interesting and there is truth in it.
Zero truth. The question is this , what does it take to make 500 naira and what does it take to make 1 dollar
Family › Re: Beware Of This Number 09028643208!!!! by kapelvej: 10:05pm On Sep 23, 2020
Hello please are you very sure of this information because I had a chat with this guy sometimes ago. He assured me he was genuine
Christianity Etc › Re: I'm Beginning To Reason With Jehovah Witness On Their Stand Concerning Trinity by kapelvej: 7:44pm On Sep 21, 2020
Peacefullove:
No enlightenment for you
E pain am
Christianity Etc › Re: I'm Beginning To Reason With Jehovah Witness On Their Stand Concerning Trinity by kapelvej: 3:18pm On Sep 21, 2020
DappaD:
Are Psalm 82:6 & John 10:34-35 in your Bible or do you just want to constitute a nuisance?
e pain am
Christianity Etc › Re: I'm Beginning To Reason With Jehovah Witness On Their Stand Concerning Trinity by kapelvej: 3:04pm On Sep 21, 2020
Peacefullove:
It pains you that Bible said humans are GODS ?
grin cheesy ;DE pain am
Christianity Etc › Re: I'm Beginning To Reason With Jehovah Witness On Their Stand Concerning Trinity by kapelvej: 7:17pm On Sep 20, 2020
Peacefullove:
and humans are GODS too . Says the bible

If u can't learn to draw the line... That's your problem .
E pain am. grin grin cheesy.
Christianity Etc › Re: I'm Beginning To Reason With Jehovah Witness On Their Stand Concerning Trinity by kapelvej: 12:36am On Sep 20, 2020
Im not a JW but this Trinity stuff is somehow.You can never win an argument on Trinity with a JW,they seems to have alot to back up their argument.
christianity is not by big words and arguement. In the beginning was the word and the word was God
Family › Re: Addicted To Masturbating Because His Wife Denying Him His Right. Contemplating A by kapelvej: 11:53pm On Sep 19, 2020
Most men go through this. The problem is that some women do this to men that they know are faithful. A woman that knows she has a randy husband dont dare this
Family › Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by kapelvej: 6:55pm On Sep 19, 2020
Please ask both of them why they abandoned you and teated you with same hate equally
Politics › Re: Edo Election: APC In Large Margin Lead In Edo North by kapelvej: 5:25pm On Sep 19, 2020
elantraceey:
Out of 1036 registered voters, 936 came out to vote? That's totally unbelievable. We demand a video of the counting process.
remember Bornu. Remember Kanu. Buhari scored 96 percent of those votes there. We screamed then, nobody listened
Politics › Re: Obaseki Vs Ize-iyamu: Who Takes The Day? by kapelvej: 12:26pm On Sep 19, 2020
Ize-Iyamu
Sports › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo's Five Best International Goals by kapelvej: 8:54am On Sep 09, 2020
Goalnaldo:
Goalnaldo=Goatnaldo. I don't fan nonsense cheesy grin
grin grin mee too bro. I don't fan nonsense
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by kapelvej: 9:58am On Sep 06, 2020
fatus:
its da bomb
please where are you watching it from. Not on Netflix
Sports › Re: TB Joshua Warns Messi Against Leaving Barcelona by kapelvej: 10:39pm On Sep 02, 2020
faithful2911:
I don't know if I should laugh or just pretend.

Baba abeg give us 2sure odd na cool
Now that you're diverting into sports.

https://zeratech.com.ng/look.jpg
2 odds grin grin grin
Education › PDF Books by kapelvej(op): 2:16pm On Sep 02, 2020
Please all.
Do any one know that website were I can print PDF books. Please
Sports › Re: Luis Suarez Edges Closer To Juventus Move by kapelvej: 11:12am On Sep 02, 2020
Denique:
Bringing CR7 into the discourse in the first place shows you acknowledge the threat he poses to your own goat.

The City win, even though expected at the time, is still a shock to you because they won against a team with A PLAYMAKER- something your goat lacked against Roma, Liverpool and most recently Bayern. I hope he takes some playmaking lessons from THE GOAT before his move to City is finalised?!

Should we talk about the Roma and Liverpool games? An earlier lead given awayhuh
The CR7 we both know will rather pick an injury than lose the second leg of the games.

Rest assured if CR7 is conceding 8 goals in a one legged game, he is replying twice the number in that SAME match followed by a retribution in seasons to come.

Now, this is what being THE GOAT is about! And like I said, "we anticipate your Asun magic at Anfield next season..."

A GOAT, I Stan!!
God bless you.That is all I have to say.CR7 is the real goat. Wins wars on his own
Politics › Re: Orji Uzor Kalu Visits Babangida In Minna (Photos) by kapelvej: 6:42pm On Aug 31, 2020
techmo:
grin

Kingsley Moghalu 2019 ..lost
Oby Ezekwesili 2019 ... Ran away and lost

.
Ran away and list cheesy grin grin some of una mouth too bad
Sports › Re: Barcelona Must Pay €14 Million To Terminate Luis Suarez Contract by kapelvej: 3:33pm On Aug 30, 2020
OkikiOluwa1:
Bought this space for spiritual attack


Yes attacks on dullard Barca and Messi fans who doesn't know that Messi has erred and should respect Barca by seeing out his contract.
If you quote me without sense, I ll make sure you turn to Messi's houseboy and he ll use you like Barca is using him. He drag you around when you want to leave as Barca is dragging him. Try me
grin grin bought the space all to attack the midget?
Sports › Re: What Is Your Greatest Football Moment? by kapelvej: 10:50pm On Aug 29, 2020
When Barca and Messi was beaten 8-2 by Bayern
Romance › Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by kapelvej: 11:51pm On Aug 28, 2020
Some one that gave you money. Guy you get mind ohh. You are supposed to help without asking our opinion
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi Follows Just Four Clubs On Twitter Including Chelsea And Man City by kapelvej: 4:56pm On Aug 28, 2020
RapistOnBail:
This overhyped dwarf should join QPR and save us all these BS!
Exactly
Politics › Re: INEC Chairman, Yakubu, Meets With Oba Of Benin Over Edo Elections (Photos) by kapelvej: 7:51pm On Aug 27, 2020
jerseyboy:
Edo no be Lagos. Oba be warned.
Don't be silly. Drink with Billy
Food › Re: Rice Becoming Unaffordable In Kano - Residents Cry Out by kapelvej: 5:21pm On Aug 26, 2020
What about all the rice they are planning to export ? I thought agricultural revolution is doing wonders

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