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slimfit1:
It means nothing even a lizard would do the same.

Mogadishuu:
The op is now an elder because he just shared an experience of his for we the single guys. Background check isn't just about her WhatsApp or Facebook... Go to her area, ask about her.
In the olden days, that's what our parents did. They made research into the family they intend having a union with

And as a woman/man if you were raised by a single parent endeavor to go for counceling before wedding

You see that area check is the final solution. The area people can always tell you all the koko

Pecoleee345:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6653469/another-marriage-crash

So over last weekend.... I called family meeting my mum, elder brother and I went to my wife parents house... her family members were present.

They wanted to resolve things between us but no one gave a Bleep about me....they asked her to speak and she said alot of things both truth and lies.

I was lambasted from both sides and I let them finished properly before dropping the bomb......I looked into her eyes straight up and told her am divorcing you.

They were all stunned.... they were now interested in my side of the story.

I decided not to say anything.....am not the type that bad mouth people to score points or look good (my ex-wife is very good at that)....I just told her family to demand the truth from her.

My advice to young men.

1. Make sure u know the background of the lady u wanna get involved with....the way of life etc.

The mistake I made was not evaluating her background...... We came from completely different backgrounds....eg where she comes from people talking crazy and shouting at one another isn't a big deal but me it was a Taboo infact in my parents' house u can't talk with high tones for normal discussions.

2. See forget love and looks...... Make sure you know the main reason she wants to marry you.

I know she loves me but she had another motive which is am meant to give her everything she wants in Life.... She had that mind set of her responsibilities is totally dependent on me.

She told me she can only spare or borrow me money towards doing anything in the house but it is my duty to provide anything she wants even the riddicules ones.

3. For your peace of mind stay away from most ladies raised by single mothers because most her poison to hate men right from teens by their mother.

They are mostly insecure....they believe all men cheat and can never trust.
Comes with mad jealousy

They mostly have anger issue.... they will tell you I don't take shit... trying to show they are strong and can't take what their mother took despite you not doing any shit.....they want to have say in everything just to show you are equal.

They are always quick to be on the defensive
Just to mention a few

I once told my wife am not like your father when I couldn't take the policing, sneaking and threat anymore.

See as a man no one gives a shit about you..... people are sympathetic towards the female and expect you to take whatever she throws at you but you need your peace of mind.
The society has made it possible for women to get away with lot of things.

If you found a woman you want to marry please put love aside and get to really know her background well......cohabit with her for 6month......lastly even if you don't have money, please borrow and go for comprehensive medical check up with her.... (check your sperm count and the state of her womb) please.

Yes you are right. Love does not answer anything. Character and upbringing is everything.

Emmypure:
The have deceived this 70 years old man, now he is wandering like a ghost in anambra confused

nor let ghosts slap you ohhhhh

Rugaria:
No, it's like the one you built at your hometown..

BKayy:
Aboki e shock you?
We've passed the era of hiding behind igbo language to spill bile. Nowadays, Igbo Language doesn't translate to being igbo but what comes out of the person's mouth.
Goodluck in your disguise Megida

megida

SLAP44:
Alhaji, what are you saying again?

bolaayenimo:
APC should add to Ayade's height

why is this guy still crying. he is now the president

November1857:
In your little Aboki mind ! Who is more yahoo than the Nigerian politicians,

Hypocrised every where...

little aboki mind

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys I leave alone and I don't know how to cook soup but can cook stew and others so I called my ex girlfriend yesterday and she is married last year so she came we went to market and buy food stuffs and she cooked for me. I want to know if is wrong for a married lady to do that?

Why asking if it wrong. If you watch football or eat lunch do you ask if it is wrong . If your future wife does it for her ex do you think it is wrong

Your pastor should have advised you to be with your husband in his church n

Every body dey deny

I think the OP is conv´cerned about betrayal or loyalty. In all honesty it is not fair for friendship to accept what our friends rejected. However, OP you know you can not still determine who you your friend dates. It is her life. If she does not see your friendship as superior over who she dates, then you have to accept her choice and continue being her friend or you can choose to opt out of that kind of friendship without sacrifice.

If you like politics, Amaechi and Wike were the best of friends, but today, they are the worse of enemies due to choice and indescretions

Hi. Thanks. But this doesn't work any longer

Obaseki been destroying everywhere he sets his foot on since 1872.

VlamesIffect:
Like say na so e easy.

so you respect it to be easy ?. What a poor mindset. Is it even easy in your country of birth.

holarmz:
Actually I intended to study medical course but due to the Nigeria factor, the admission isn't forthcoming.
I now intend to apply to apply to noun to study mathematics and computer science and further later as their admission is easier.

Pls how efficient is the national open University when it's comes to academics and studying?
What's other advice can you give me

you can actually study medicine or the mathematics for free overseas. Instead of letting this dream killer called Nigeria finish your dream.

SQLmastar:
Sen. Abaribe is the only Savoir in ipok land.
Abaribe is greater than Ojukwu
He is greater than Obj
He is greater than Buharii
He is greater than Trump!

Dirkcoyt:
How can I send money to Venezuela without Moneygram and westernunion cause these two are not in the persons location and I’m looking for an online app without the need to go to the bank .

try transferwise

Buhari is simply . First to comment. I dedicate this to all those kids that Buhari and Nigeria starved to death during the civil war. And to all those that have suffered the injustice of Nigeria- from kidnapping to rape to avoidable death, to nepotism etc

Barbiturate:
Within a year, I've applied for 188 jobs on LinkedIn. Some I was called for test and interviews, some I was never called. None of them gave me a job. There are some I applied via mail, not LinkedIn "easy apply"......so it should be over 200.

The last one was with a Yoruba company in Lagos. I applied via LinkedIn. I passed through 3 interview processes. The 4th was with the MD/CEO( Yoruba aged and titled man). He practically told me I am omo ibo(ibo man) and that I don't have the passport.

I'm officially done searching for jobs!!!
I'm throwing in the towel!

very sad. But try and make it 200. It is Always good to round off things. Just try 12 more. Don't give up. I respect your tenacity already

ReeLoaDead:
I don’t even laugh at Gunners any more because it will be like making fun of an individual with a disability

olatade:
70% of the earth is covered by water The rest 30% is covered by N'Golo Kanté.

HonNL:
@ngrPresident

all are notherners

[quote author=ThEGodFaThEr102 post=102112486]Afonjas have a thing for Igbo women and Femi Fani Kayode knows this.

The rate at which my Yoruba brothers are abandoning our Yoruba women for Igbo women leaves room for worries.

This Ndigbo ehn.......their women are very very fair and beautiful unlike our awon Òmò Wobe tout of girls from Iragbiji town who will not waste any time to break bottle on your head once you approach them to toast.

Na wah o! Let me sharpally go and find my own fair Igbo lady before this my Afonja brothers carry all of them finish.[/quote

Nbote:
Now am an IT consultant and an Entrepreneur who desperately wants to leave dis country for the same of my children

Canada is on their knees begging people like you. Just do it bro

olamide0147:
Before any of his puppet quote me I want you to know there's no way you can be a pastor and keeps fuckin with those crazy guys destroying the country and it fuckin obvious a real and God's chosen will never involved with so many Nigerian demons

sincerely I agree with you. This yahaha Bello that killed and killed and killed to become a governor.

Hello,
Please ypu can do both. Do not throw opportunities away. You can start both, just be focus and determined. You can even employ someone to continue with the business while you continue with the navy. You never can tell. I am speaking from experience bro

Northern republic of Nigeria

Please does any one knows the link for me to download MS WORD for free.
Thanks