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XAUTrader4L:
Looks like the bull market wants to resume. Gold broke out from its 5 years consolidation in 2019 and experienced analysts speculate it could run for the next 10 years or so like it did before 2011 which the fundamentals support, but ofcourse it wont just run straight in a line there would be corrections and consolidations. Gold closed the week with a bearish inside bar after making a higher high, i expect a pullback next before continue higher. 30th November seems more likely to be the ICL(intermmediate cycle low). Seasons greetings everyone.

Very apt analysis...Gold is still bearish @ the moment and only a break of the channel to the upside will confirm the bull run. I will wait for monday close to see what that inside bar does..

IYANGBALI:
Mtcheeeeeew the wife is not even beautiful and she looks holder than him

RIP English

Dude how old r you.

ubunja:
yes a man can be Provider and Pussy-Tearer all-in-1. Easy. Just meet women where the wet pussy goes. Meaning where Women go to for Lust, meet them there. learn to start your relationships from the Friends With Benefits and the Booty Calls side.

That's a whole another Miseducation in itself. But here's the gist of it: Find a girl who gets wet for you. Initiate a friends with benefits or a Booty Call situation. Fvck her till she catches feelings for you. Then date her.
I'm sure you've heard how many women complain how they start casual sex things with a guy then end up falling for the guy and the guy doesn't feel the same way and he dumps them? This is the door you enter. And it has a lot of benefits for you as a man.

that's a banger...

Benna cliques...

SmartyPants:
As I said, you're a child.

I'd advise that you open your eyes and grow up sooner rather that later.

Dumbpanty

zoghys:
Type with your brain intact, and you will understand. Why are you trying to be smart with such a sensitive subject, that can alter the cause of someone's life and career. Abeg, change your moniker to dumbpant

@ dumbpant

SmartyPants:
You're a child.

You are a Simp man...Learn to listen to both parties before you judge. It's obvious the girl was lying and the guy scammed her too by not paying his own part of the bargain. Dont try to act like you an hero to women.

francisbarrack:
Thumb up... Love doesnt exist. Make ur money n u gonna c them begging to b with U.

Women n money 5&6.

Glaswegian:
NNPC pays peanut. NNPC is not in the top 15 highest paying oil companies in Nigeria, except at senior management level.

Even the GT guys that were recruited in the last recruitments are disappointed at what they saw �. Some are complaining already. I know one that want to quit. NNPC entry level pay is less than N250k per month.

Many friends I know r disappointed with this NNPC offer. DPR pays better thou

ednut1:
What do people gain in posting rubbish. Graduate trainee in shell earns over 1m naira. Those senior postions earn more than 4m a month. Oga abeg carry fake news commot here

The salaries know follow...maybe na contract staff..

Better keep your money and dont invest in her...all this our girls must get sense by force. Let her go the bank and get capital or meet an investor ...wont she pay returns on investment. We Nigerian guys are allowing our women run over us like rag...is it not CardiB "I dont cook i dont clean" crooner to our ladies that just bought her husband Offset a Lamborghini from her money. If i would advice you man, pause the engagement drill her further before you make final commitment.

Bitcoinking2020:
I strongly believe only one set of remales are not on the liabilities list and those are your wives. By the time you marry a woman, she has actual value to you because she will give you kids and take care of your home. but you see these slay mama With bone straight hair and lashes? BIG LIABILITIES. these slay mamas come out of their houses everyday looking for a victim of their emotional scam. they have eyes on three sets of men,
1, The rich guys
2, The very handsome guys
3, The famous guys

Those are the three specs of every single slay queen, and if they set their eyes on you and you fall into any of this category as a guy then you're in trouble as they will come after you in their own (fish brain) way of fishing!

Now, what do these slay queens have to offer you? nothing but sexxxxxxx. after sex they waste your time, money and make you distracted from the relevant things that defines you as a man. they wont in any way add value to your life, they will make your life hell with drama and drain you of all you have and if you're not lucky you will go back to square zero!

For your own sanity as a guy, dont waste your time with a girl you're not willing to marry. after one or two months propose to her and allow her actually have value in your life. dont spend years wasting your hard earned money on girls or allow them keep disturbing your life and making you distracted all in the name of (fineboy) when in reality they add no value to your life. women are the biggest distractions on earth, dont be fooled into their games because you fall into their "spec" category. me I no dey ever look them for face because I no need liabilities for my life, dont worry when I want to marry I will notice one of you females ,as for now if its konjii there are a thousand ways to kill it without being in a liability triangle called "relationship".

my opinion anyway, do you believe girls are liabilities to men outside the marriage setting?

You are right...men need to understand that time is of great essence...why date wen you dont see a future with that person...like they say time is money.

I knew this day will come...its crystal clear MBA is just another ponzi scheme feasting on the gullibility of Nigerians...take from Peter to pay paul investment

WallStreetfx:
GBPAUd analysis looking for buying opportunity.

So easy.. if life were this easy everybody for don blow oo . Why not wait for a confirmation first .cos I feel that pair is still bearish @ the moment except a strong rejection is formed @ monday close.

GOD no go shame us oo...see ride wey OP upload dey wound everybody for mouth . If na Lexus him upload nko. Chai

Na wa oo...seems 1.6m has a different meaning

200k

EXOUSIAng:
I don't think he is talking about Hyundai as a brand.
That car is gone na, its obviously second body, and looking at it, it looks like the body was really messed up before the respray, not forgetting that the painter did a very terrible job. If na me buy that car e go still sitdown for workshop small before I drive am

Nairaland Autos with their overpriced vehicles...if we really look at the prices they quote here ehn...person no go buy car oo.

OP na only you sabi money...why are you changing the price up and down.

NwaAmaikpe:



He should not incur the wrath of God by doing this; how can anyone say the sound of the gospel is noise to him?
Shebi, if God makes his next 4 generations to suffer from irreversible deafness they will say that God has started.

But the devil can sha give us ingenious ways of shutting out the word of God.
Back in the days when I was an unbeliever before I eventually gave my life to Christ and finally backslided, there was this Jehovah Witness couple that would never let me be.

Every Sunday they'd stroll into my parlor to share the goodnews. Out of civility, I'd listen to them and even offer them refreshments till the day one lady who had just been recently widowed finally agreed to visit me after 2months of non-stop follow-up. We were just about to start "egwu jigida" when my JW friends knocked.

I mumuishly opened the door and they ended up making my new convert their new convert.
That was the begining of my sworn enmity with the JW sect and till this day, whenever they come visiting, I ensure I have porn playing on the TV.

It hasn't always had the scarecrow effect on them because it has helped me convert at least eight JW ladies to my bedmates.

It was after tasting a Jehovah Witness woman that I understood why they say that paradise is here on earth.

you a comedian man

Jimmyson:
That's small cash...it is not up to 5m naira. I sprayed 5.2m last week @ my ex girlfriend marriage. If you have up to 10 billions, you can do give away of 10m and spray more than 5m. The more you spend money, the more you get. Givers never lack. If you have 5naira, give your fellow man 2 naira and use 3 naira for yourself. You will be shocked to see double of that money in the same week. Givers never got broke!

I tell you bro....the more you spend the more you get.. money you shuld be scared of us

ethicallyright:
In my two decades of living in this world as a Nigerian, I have known only four Nigerian First ladies.

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Late Stella Obasanjo was a pretty face and a very beautiful woman physically. I don't know much about her contribution to government but I remember my mum loved her (of course pretty women admire each other). Towards the end of 2005 , 5 years old me watched her funeral service on TV and looked at my mum cry. Her funeral and "Joy Joy Joy" music video by Destined Kids are the only TV scenes I can recall from that year. I think Stella failed as a first lady and feminist to teach young women to be comfortable in their skins and not alter their bodies to keep a womanizer attached. She's my second best first lady.

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Turai Yaradua was first lady around the time I just started secondary school. I remember things like the 7-point agenda of her husband who was short-lived (Good people leave fast). Turai was a power broker, a one-woman cabal and later married her academically sound daughters with huge industrial potentials as 3rd and 4th wives to men older than the Late Yaradua. Not a good role model to young African girls at an epoch in human civilization where girls are breaking records in various industries. She ranks 4th and last according to my judgement.

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Aisha Buhari is a very pretty woman, one of the prettiest first ladies in the world without cosmetic enhancements. However, her points dropped as she is also the only first lady who engaged in brutal physical fights and destruction of properties at the government house. It is unethical for the wife of the president to be caught fighting , throwing harmful objects and breaking house appliances on camera. She is not a good role model for young women and young marriages in a period where humanity is United in the fight against domestic violence. She ranks third based on my assessment.

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Dame Patience Jonathan ranks first and is on top because she continued her job as a permanent secretary despite her husband's affluence which makes her an inspiration to young women and families where both wife and husband must be breadwinners. She was real, was confident in her physicality and sympathized with victims of humanitarian crises. Her famous "THERE IS GOD O" exclamation is gold and reminds listeners of what a mother should be and what a mother's love is.

Sad thing is that she married a clueless man who neglected his own people. Kudos to President Buhari for working hard to restore NIGERIA's place in the league of Sane climes.

You started well but ended badly

baralatie:
so
as of now .........

Op! you problem is not sex denial in marriage.....

your problem statement is where is the love and how to either restart or reengineer or rebuild a hurtened couple

the two of you need to see a marriage counselor very fast

and they your mind ready to hear things as in things that will shake you

Which Yeye marriage counselor..woman is weaponzing sex and you saying counselor..Truth is they are not sexually compatible and the Op is scared to show her the exit door. If that woman meets a hot guy now bet you she will cooperate... ppl dont understand women love sex more than men.

some50686:
To answer some of your questions.

sorry for the late response, been very busy with work.
For those bashing me for doing laundry, it not like i was physically washing clothes. I only put the cloth in the washing machine

one thing am sure of is she is nothing cheating, i just believe the problems are deeper than they seem. she had complained one time that she is beginning to see me as a roommate and not a lover, I told her I would try to be romantic. And i did try to become more romantic. During our honey moon she was the one always even asking for it, She always wanted it and was always in the mood. This issue of sex denial started let say 4 months after our wedding, initially it wasn't this way. I noticed she gradually began to withdraw sexually. When i try to tickle her at night, she would just push me aside and even go to another room to sleep. She didnt conceive immediately we got married and our inlaws were curious and were asking me question. I now use to blackmail her with pregnancy that how would she get pregnant if we dont have sex often. This made her ease off for a while as soon as she conceived. The whole sex denial grew worst in the last one year. I also noticed sometimes when ever we are having sex she refuses to kiss me even when i make attempt to kiss her, its like i disgust her. She also sometimes reminds me of things i do that annoy her when she finally allows me make love.

Well i dont knw if I am the first person to deflower her, she insisted she was a virgin, but i doubt this, what i can say for a fact is she isnt cheating on me. I would say my sex game is average. I tried to peform MouthAction with her ones and she refused and to be honest am not a fan of it, so i dint push further. And she does come most times we have sex.

I would say yes, the issue much be deeper than it looks, we are both working class couples. I know traffic stress can be stressing. But the truth is even the days i initiate sex are not days she goes to work. She earns pretty well,(300k) although i earn more than her. When we started our latest quarrel, she doesn't greet me any more or even cook for me. Although i noticed this morning she came to the room i now sleep in, and picked the bedsheet and clothes. The last time we had quarreled when she told me to go meet the maid she also said she earns well and i cant starve her financially. I just think she doesnt love me or respect me enough. Truth was i never tried to starve her then, i was totally shocked by that statement. She has said alot of shocking and hateful stuff to me which do hurt me, but i just controlled myself and push them aside. I believe a man is the driver of a home, if the marriage fails or works he is responsible, divorce is on the table but it is the last resort. I personally wont consider this, except my wife cheats on me. I believe a man should be wiser and be patient with as lady are always emotional. The issue now is am the one dying in silence. I have eating outside now for like a week.

She also has her good sides, in the sense that even though am the bread winner and provide for the house, whenever there is need for her to support financially she plays this role without hesitation. she is also a good mum to her son. There was a time i embarked on a project that held all my funds, I asked her to drop some money for a things she did without hesitation.



The spiritual side of things is the most confusing, we both come from spiritually strong backgrounds, although this my wife reads bible daily even pushes both of us to pray and night. I normally remind her that why has she always disregarded that part of the bible that talks about sex between couples. She always stylishly avoids the discussion. These days i have refused to go with her to church, it doesnt make any sense. Why should i be pretending to be happy when we are not obeying the scriptures.

No we did not have sex before marraige, she insisted on no sex before marriage, the best we did was smooch a couples of time nothing more.

One reason I dont trust any woman who says no sex before marriage...80% of the time they are damaged goods . Op, you are the cause of your predicament, you sealed your fate the day you agreed on a no sex deal. Anyway the only option on your card now is to be brutal, stop doing gentle man women love harsh men. Tell her if she's not having sex she can walk away and you go look for who will give you sex. Be firm n stand your ground. Bliv me you will see changes Asap. Anyway as you follow this advice dont forget to also swallow some redpill. Understand women psychology n you will enjoy your marriage . Goodluck.

adaksbullet:
mine nl fans, how his u all do your zaddy his back!!!!!!!!!!

wahala for who his not no me o


becos cat his travel, nl his turn house of rats but guss whot?? prof adaksbullet his backkkkkkkkkkkk

Dis yeye guy wey sabi murder english

confirmedniggae:
When it comes to money in relationship ,it is like most women don't joke with their money or is my girlfriend stingy or just an ingrate ?

This is the conversation between the two of us and I think it is definitely over between us !

Or am I taking this too far ?

Infact you ve really gone far ...see as small girl use you dey shine, somebody you shuld have just called over and give her the 5K owned instead of this many long boring chats.

choblak:
Yea baby

Baby ke

Put price

omo e be like say Gays don they fall in this thread to support their own..

Geld:
You don leave Ashawo thread come here wan cause Commotion

This Op go hear am...him don bring him leg out

zubimete:
Summary please

I encourage you to read that article, it's worth it.