₦airaland Forum

folake4u:
Lol.

There are lot of companies that pay N1m and above in naira. It depends on the role, Naz.

I deliberatly ignored this comment initially but seeing it again, I don't want to pass at the opportunity of calling that bros a village man again.

You need to come to Lagos and get into corporate to understand how a million naira salary is quite possible.

You have to be a loser to live like this.

If they told some of you guys to delay marriage for 2 years you'd be crying, but here you are complaining about the same thing you've always wanted.

You people are not real.

one thing I find interesting about Lagos, Ogun and Oyo is that there are hardly any hills.

I am from ondo state, and every where is hilly. You can't see the next town even if you climb a hill.

It's mind blowing for me.

I have always had this in mind.

You would realize that there are more young widows that widowers, either young or old, out there.

A lot of men believe if they are not working too hard that they are not productive. Some of them who have easy lives deliberately make it hard just to please the society.

I don't really care about them because they are fools but I hate it when I see a young person and they tell me their dad is dead.

They die and create problems for people like us who hustling with sense.

Young men! Take care of yourselves!

GistMedia0:
As a father, would you do this for your grown daughter?

Yes.

This woman is tall.

Paystack:
Because whogohost us also depending on those service you don't want to use.

They're simply retailers..

But I don't believe your story since namecheap don't sell .ng domains which you claim to buy only from Nigerian host

@bassdow


What do you have to say about this?

You people want to end software engineers by force.

tensazangetsu20:
Sociology is a useless degree

The guy is in the first stage of grief. Denial.

It's is better to study fine arts or theatre art than that sociology

Jeezuzpick:
"Hate" is such a strong word. Are you even supposed to hate a fellow human being?

yes.

fuckingAyaya:
he no really send u

I no send you and his papa too.

I hate this guy but he is telling the truth.

For some reasons, South east people love flyovers.

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 month now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us,as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that she is actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend,meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.
I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22,i told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together she has bring crying over it since yesterday.
Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me,this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home,one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

You are a mumu man.

Tallesty1:
You think in one direction, just like an average Nigerian.

I will tell you how.

If a woman on nairaland says she won’t marry a broke guy, she gets insulted. Then, the guys move on to another thread and sees different woman saying she’s dating a broke guy, the same people will mock her, saying, ‘I thought women don’t date broke men.’ meanwhile these are two different women with different choices, but because one said something negative, it’s assumed all women feel the same.

This happens with men too. A woman might have a faithful, responsible boyfriend, but when someone posts about useless men online, she joins in saying, ‘Men are useless,’ forgetting that her own boyfriend and even her father and brothers don’t fit that stereotype.

Then there’s the blame game. A woman in Suleja wants me to feel guilty for something a man in Ogun did to her girlfriend, she wants me to feel guilty because somebody somewhere used his girlfriend for rituals just because I’m a man. But when her own boyfriend treats her to shopping and she rewards him will all night sex, she won't bring that pussy for me have some even though ‘what affects one man affects all?

You get my drill?

The problem is negativity bias, we remember and amplify bad things more than good. Then there is this unnecessary gender wars, we've stopped seeing individuals, we treat everyone as representatives of their gender. But notice, we only do this with bad things, never the good.

You are asking who are these people when you know clearly that there are enough people in the world for millions to love you and millions to criticize you.

But one way thinking won't let you see it

I love this.

Sometimes I want us all to stop all these gender war. It used to be gender playful banter but it seems there are institutions that derive joy in promoting and fueling this gender based violence.

The best way to keep being friends with your rich friends is to treat them like they don't have money. Be blind to their money.

This will also work for famous friends too.

If you need financial help, go sort yourself.

Ask yourself, if he no dey alive, you no go survive?

This is another reason not to work for a one man business.

you guys will celebrate everything.