Just typing rubish. If it were America he won't even spent 12hrs with the police with what we saw in that video. Do you even know the meaning of defiling and molesting?
You are very stupid, you are the one typing rubbish and I guess you are Paedophile like him, what is he doing around the little girl, if the little girl was your sister or daughter will you be here saying rubbish, idiot, you are the same with him anyway.
Forthispost: Hello Nairalanders. I need your honest feedback on this issue.
There is this ex of mine I dated for approximately 4 years. During the course of our relationship, I Was totally in my best power not to be the toxic one and never cheated on her but she eventually left with no viable reason. There were times she messed up and I forgave her even while we dated. Close to the time of her graduation from a reputable state university in Nigeria, she started messing up and eventually broke up the relationship. I was pained though but I had to forgive her and move on.
After the break up (which is about 3 years away now) we still talk (greetings on phone) once in a blue moon.
Now the issue at hand is, a male boss of mine requested that I recommend a female staff that matches a particular vacant role in our organisation . Note: This is an internal recruitment and who ever I recommend stand a 95% chance of getting employed ( the other 5% if for village people). The role is an entry role with pay centered around 80k-100k monthly. She currently earns 22k where she works now at at our last conversation. Though she use to be a cool person before her village people entered the relationship. Over three years of not being close as before gives me no clue of the type of person she might have become now. Maybe a scorned woman or a more sensible person. I'm doing far better than when she left me and it's super glaring to her.
The reason why I need advice is this: I work at the same organisation in question and I have no plan to leave soon. I'm trying to avoid a case where she will be the one to facilitate any issue for me at the said work place. Just avoiding anything that will result in regrets.
Update: I forgot to add, she's one of the person I know who suits the role. I don't have sister who matches the role.
I created this new account for just this thread hence the moniker "for this post"
Kindly advice biko. Bashing is allowed.
My guy, if am to advise you I will say don’t try it, don’t recommend her for the job so it doesn’t end with story that touch, some of these ladies are big ingrate, they pretend to be humble when they are broke but the moment they have some money or influence you see the real side of them, she might come into that company and your life will be a living hell, leave her where is currently working, if you don’t have anyone else then let it slide.
drinoayo: President of the Association of Nigeria Theatre Practitioners (ANTP), Adewale Elesho has finally made a statement concerning Baba Ijesha's case of sexual assault and molestation, Igbere TV reports.
In a video posted on social media, the veteran actor thanked everyone who had lent their voices to the case and then proceeded to air his opinion.
Elesho used the opportunity to beg Princes to temper justice with mercy as the case was already getting out of hand considering Baba Ijesha's state of health.
He continued by saying that she should remember the great friendship she had with Baba Ijesha.
The president said that he had to intervene after someone pointed out to him that Baba Ijesha is an actor it is a good reason why he should not be left in his trouble all by himself.
He appealed to the actors behind Princess to think very well about their involvement in the case because no one knows tomorrow.
Elesho also begged the Lagos state commissioner of police to do a thorough investigation and the governor of the state to have mercy as well.
He further made a passionate appeal to everyone concerned in the case to have mercy on Ijesha and Nollywood as a whole.
What is this one begging for, I don’t understand, someone was caught defiling a little girl and you don’t want him to face the law because he is an artiste, can you try this in America, this is stupidity of the highest order, if it was someone else no problem but because he is an artiste they should let it slide abi, artiste my foot
This is the mentality of an average Nigeria politician, selfish and self centered in their thinking, they don’t care about the people just their pockets.
jayboy112233: Sorry I posted this on here. Please i need your sincere advice most especially from the married men and women here.
Can a guy who is earning 80k in Lagos marry with that income?
31yrs and family have started bringing issue of marriage. Citing the advantages of early marriage and disadvantages of late marriage, that it's not good to have your kids in secondary school @60yrs when you should be relaxing.
You don’t need to have millions to get married, it’s all about finding the right and understanding wife and with the little you have you are good to go, so long you have a supportive wife, if you’re waiting to get millions before marriage you might wait for a long time. But anyway don’t allow anyone to pressurize you into marriage, let it be by your own decision and timing.
I met this lady long time ago before I got married to my wife and we were in love back then. She refused me when I actually proposed to her and I moved on afterward but each time we were together, our love was quite evident in the air which became noticeable to people around us.
Eventually, I got married and we distant ourselves for the sake of both of us and then, we reduced our phone talks but we were still friends
And now, each time we were opportune to talk on phone, the feelings keep coming back. It is irresistible! The day we eventually met, we almost make out but we got ourselves under control miraculously and we distant again for a while. The truth is I can't stop talking to her at least we don't even do that often as before. What is wrong with me? i need help! What do I do?
I can relate, you guys bonded well before and it’s not always easy but now oga you’re married, I see no reason why you are still in contact with your ex, it’s totally stupid, what do you expect the more you keep talking to her definitely feelings will start coming back, she rejected you so why are you still friends with her now that you are married. If you continue talking with her you will might end up destroying your marriage, be warned, you are the problem here, cut all contacts and communication with her.
This is very bad, attacking police station, even though we know that Nigeria police are not the best I don’t support such actions and I believe this is the work of Ipob members and their leader Nnamdi Kanu
Studio247: Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.
Several times I spoke to him about it But he will flare up.
And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting. Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.
I don't know
Your man is just full of pride and ego.. he knows exactly what he is doing, he is wicked and selfish
But the biggest form of hypocrisy is to expect people to treat a mad person with the same decency they'd treat a normal person.
Bad is bad but don't forget that mad is mad too. You can house a dog but will you house a hyena?
My friend's maternal aunt who haboured her mad nephew learnt the hard way. She'd feed him and hit the chaplet on his head praying for his restoration. Everyone adviced her to chain him behind the house but she said it was dehumanizing.
Two months later, she didn't wake up because he had sliced out her heart when she was asleep. When asked, he said she was too kind-hearted so he wanted to help preserve the heart.
Moral. Never judge people when they treat mad people in a certain way.
You are not serious, instead of starving her why not take her to a psychiatric hospital for proper care than commit such atrocities, why starve her because she is mentally unstable, this is pure evil.
This is Nigeria for you, slave in their own country, every white man is treated like a God, Lebanese, Chinese and Indians are showing Nigeria hell in their own country and even the government are protecting them .
CSoul: (Created this new account to post for a sister)
Please help advice a sister in confusion.....
Background:
"I reconnected with my old school toaster who always spoke marriage and love. Got serious in 5 months. I've met a lot of people from his end within this period. He shows me off. Introduction was done and wedding date fixed."
Issues: Traditional is barely a week away; yet she's bleeding and scared of the future because of her discoveries:
1. The husband to be has anger issues. Ok, he's all nice and good when in good mood. But once something triggers him, all hell is let loose. The trigger can be a simple missing his call(while at work/meeting). No amount of sweet talk or explanations calms him down.
2. The shocker is that he cheats/has a fuckmate living nearby. She discovered this with evidence from their chats and hasn't been herself. The chat is detailed description of their exploits right up to the present and future plans how they'll continue after he's married. (From same chat, the other lady is aware he's getting married. He tried denying it; when it didn't work he started making excuses/begging he'll change.
3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.
She's scared of the future and yet feels stuck as court marriage is done already, most preparations have been done(publicity and most of other physical arrangements), both for the traditional and wedding.
Kindly give your mature advice; she'll be reading every bit of it. (Admin kindly push to front page)
Wow this is serious, firstly how come you are just discovering he has anger issues,this is very serious or you thought he will change and secondly he is cheating which is too bad, if I were you I will call off the wedding regardless of the pressure, don’t let anyone sweet talk you into getting married to such guy, this is marriage we are talking about not relationship, once you are in it becomes very difficult to get out. Secondly he is planning to continue cheating on you even after marriage this is a serious issue, and he can use his anger to cause domestic violence in the home, these are red flag, run for your life before it’s too late my dear.forget all this he will change, I don’t condemn people but this is your life and happiness we are talking about.
Juliusmalema: Useless outrage...There is no Outrage.
His condition is a representative of country's flag he designed.
How is green white green cloth a design for heaven's sake? A piece of cloth for that matter?
Tunde Ednut should change his condition since he is more concerned..
Nonsense and stupid flag.
Look out the foolish words coming out of your mouth, condemning the work someone did for his country,how do most country flags looks like or is he the problem of the country, which one have you done for your country since you know better. Nonsense
saphiere: Media personality Bodmas Kemepadei has taken to the media space to appreciate his wife for standing by him for over 11 years and still loving him regardless of his flaws, WonderTV media reports.
He uses the medium also to advise women not to leave their partners because of infidelity. Rather the should share their men with other women.
He wrote: So we still have foolish men like this, if he doesn’t have anything reasonable to say he should just keep quiet rather than trying to promote adulterous lifestyle and sexual promiscuity
Amotolongbo: These comments are nonsense and unnecessary.
Can he also allow this kinda comment to be written on his own card?
Private schools are the proprietors’ business and no one will stand watching and allow his business to be spoilt by a silly person.
The school has principal and proprietor. If any student is rude or disrespectful, why not reporting the student to the proprietor or teacher who will find a way of reaching out to the parent?
Pass the right and truthful comment on the academic performance of the student and leave the moral part for the principal to handle. The fact is that a good parent doesn’t need waiting for the comment on the report card before knowing how well his/her child is behaving in school. Regular visiting and/or contacting the class teacher on phone gives the parent the knowledge of the child’s behavior in school. This will bring about a prompt correction and not having to wait till the end of the term.
This kinda silly comment can have a way of affecting the students’ future if one is not careful. Which employer will see this kind of report card later in the future and employ the child having such comment by his/her class teacher?
What are you trying to say, why do we have such section on the report card, it’s it for pleasing the parents or students, I don’t see anything wrong in what the teacher did so long he or she is saying nothing but the truth, most proprietors are only concerned about their business and profit and nothing more so they do everything to please students and parents and that’s why discipline is lacking in our schools today. So if a child is stubborn and disrespectful you expect the teacher to comment that he is respectful and calm abi, you guys are not serious in defending the school. And what you don’t know is that some students pretend to be cool at home before their parents but when they are out there they are something else.
They asked you to open your bank app, and you happily did knowing very well you have 288k balance.
Pls what do you expect from the hungry cops? May be they will demand for your acc number so they credit your account with another 288k abi?
You get sense at all so, so he should play with his life because of money, they can kill him if he refuse because some police men are evil, He did the right thing
JackDaAlienz: When i travelled to Russia to study medicine I was 23 years when I meet a very beautiful Russian girl named Yulia She was 17 turning to 18.
I loved this girl with all my heart and she was so in love with me. Infact she loved me too much. I was her first black boyfriend We dated for 2 years Then we broke up because I needed some space. We still became very close friends after the break up. Until she got a new boyfriend. She called me crying and telling me that she has not loved any guy in this life more than me. But she doesn't know what to do about this rich guy who wants her. I told her to go ahead, that if he can give her the life she always dreamed of living.
She clearly want this guy because of his money. Her new boyfriend is very rich and me I wasn't financially strong then. Her boyfriend knows I'm her ex, so he forced her to block me everywhere. We haven't talked since 3 years
I moved on like nothing happened Now I'm back in Nigeria It's been 3 years now But here is the problem No matter how hard I try to forget her It doesn't work I still get flashbacks of our love, romance and all the good times we had. No matter how hard I try, I just can't forget her.
I got into a new relationship which ended shortly because the girl I was dating said I was still in love with my ex. That I talk about my ex more than I talk about her. And it's true, I unknowingly bring up my ex in our discussion. How do I get over my ex of 3 years. I sometimes cry at night thinking about her It's so weird, I have never had this kind of bond with a girl.
How can I remove her from my mind It's like I'm spiritually tied to this girl
I understand your situation man, it’s not easy to move on especially when you guys bonded so well and besides you were the one who ask for a breakup and that was your mistake and you are already regretting it ever since, but there is nothing you can do in such situation because she might have move on with her life, it’s a lesson to learn from, you just have to move on with your life else you may end up being depressed and suicidal thoughts might start creeping in
Eddodoh: Can u do this job? Is it advisable to continue wit dis job?
I am stuck & afraid to quit. I am a graduate but decided to take dis job early last year when nothing was forthcoming.
Work where u earn 12k, n most times u don't get to collect d amount complete. U collect 3k or 5k after deduction of shorts & I.O.U. cos u don't even get paid at d end of d month.
Salary is usually not paid at d end of month but second month. Maybe mid or towards ending of d other month. Bills piling up & always broke. 1year + on d job but nothing to show for it.
Work from Monday to Sunday. Resume b4 8am & close by 8:30pm or 9pm.
It's being very challenging & I felt I should share to get some advice.
My guy pls look for something else, teaching jobs are everywhere and it pays better than what you are earning there.look for a teaching job and start from there
Catfishing: I got to know this young, handsome guy sometime last month. Two visits in the space of 3 weeks and he was all over me.
But I wanted him as a friend and nothing more. The nigga is 5 yrs younger than me
On Monday he came visiting, we talked, laughed and had good time (no sex) then he proffessed his love for me, and I told him same thing: I don't believe in love blah blah blah.
I asked him for money and he gave me 4k. Today I called him and told him that I wanna travel to see my fams that he should give me 5k. But he sent 3k, and I thanked him.
Later, he blocked me on all available network......what went wrong? Why will he do such?
Insults and bashing are expected.
You ain’t interested in a relationship and you are already asking for money..do you take him for a fool, if you are not interested in anything serious then you shouldn’t be asking for such things except for serious issues.
Kobicove: The CBN acted in the best interest of the country by restricting he use of crypto...anyone who is not happy with the decision can go and jump in the lagoon!
That’s because you are not into crypto business my guy, they acted for their own selfish interests and jealousy not because they care about the citizens
blamingthedevil: Good One ...in sane developed country, there is nothing free. It is only in Nigeria , we want everything free at the same time development and progress.
God Bless President Buhari God Bless Federal Republic of Nigeria
Shut your smelling mouth, what are they using the tax for, you are supporting corrupt government, the revenue will not be used to develop anything
Sermwell: I have over time realised that I find it difficult to give larger amount of money in church. Most times I struggle to give #50 or even #20 as offerings in church. But I have always find it easy to give large sums to persons in need in and outside the church.
Quite recently, a brother accosted me in church with some challenges about his wife's childbirth in the hospital, I went with him and paid off 45k to discharge them. Aside him, I have given up to 100k (if not more) to persons in need this month alone.
But I struggle so hard to give larger sums in church. Even today, I gave #40 as offering in church when I actually have larger denominations in my wallet.
Funny enough, on my way out of the church today, I met my school mate and we went to my house together, although he didn't state categorically that he's in need, but he told me how he has been out of job for 3 months now. After the visit, I gave him 10k from the same wallet I gave #40 as offering in church today.
My question is, what could possibly be wrong with my giving in church? Is it trust issues or I consider it better to give to persons instead of the church?? Is anything wrong with my style of giving??
I need answers please!!
I think you have to strike the balance, giving to people is very good and God wants that and blesses for that, but there is a clear distinction between giving to people and giving to the house of God, how the church uses the money shouldn’t be your major reason for not wanting to give in the church, remember you are giving to God and not man, so it’s not smartness or wisdom with the way you are going.learn to strike the balance because it’s replete in scripture about giving in the house of God God and the needy
Hi guys, this message is for those who are experience in crypto market and airdrop update,pls if you can share a good airdrop group on the comment section so I can join I will be grateful, thanks in advance.
Crime / Re: Baba Ijesha: Adewale Elesho Begs Princess To 'Have Mercy' (Video) by Karozy: 7:30am On May 21, 2021 
