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robosky02:
3.The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.
4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife.
5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satano will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

1 Corinthians 7:3–5

how does this apply

yes I agree. Based on my own understanding during those particular fasting hours e.g 6am to 6pm is when u can stay apart. But b.4 or after those hours u can go ahead N hav sex. Thats my bliv N dats what I practice. This goes a long way in discouraging xtra marital sex especially wen the fasting days are long.

Bisjosh:
Set a camera in the room.

He would remove his clothes once you are not around

I 110% agreee.

nativedoctor:
My wife is a banker and I'm self employed. At times when I close early,I go to the market and buy foodstuff. I even call her from the market to confirm the quantity to buy. It removes the stress of doing the shopping from her busy schedule. I don't even see anything wrong in doing the cooking. After all she's my wife and the home is ours.

my dear bros thats so so luvly and caring.Your case is exactly like me N my hubby, honestly when ever he does that he brightens my day, he makes me want to love him more. Atimes he goes as far as making mostly dinner and even bathing or 2 luvly kids before I get back home becos the earliest time I get back home is 6:00pm.It really makes me feel how much he loves N cares about me.

It looks very very inviting am sure. Just come to Jos N enjoy sweet veges.

theoneJabulani:
No offense but if I was yahweh, I would do a better job as God

pls elaborate, what u mean by this statement.

lilyqueen:
This story is fiction

My dear I agree with you. In addition, how come some one that is or that had stayed overseas cannot write a good english. He kept on using present for past. Abeg I don't believe the post.

Tank God I come from a family of eight( and to the Glory of God am the last child.

My dear poster, I think what you should be asking yourself is WHAT IS GOD SAYING about your action? Is he pleased with what u did? I pray God will grant u the grace to stay away from sex outside marriage. AMEN

Bros shine your eye, left to me she is a cheat and the ealier u brake up and start a better relationship, the better for u.

shoyemiayodeji:
I rebuke poverty.

You should rebuke your statement instead. How has taking care of your children or helping your wife become poverty? Be sides you don't know what he is passing thru. As for me, it is 110% safer for him to be with them than to drop them with a frnd or relation and will not be having peace of mind.

The Mother to this child is a disgrace to both mother and Womanhood. For the child, may God fullfil his purpose.

May their souls rest in perfect peace. As for the mother/wife, may our faithful Lord give her the Grace to bear this loss.Amen.

ForFun:
Who will stay with the kids. Is the big question

How about trying any of this options (1) Drop them in the saloon together with her and tell her you've got alot of runnings to do in town and will not want to inconvenience the kids.(2) Look for a frnd or relation that is in picture of the surprise and either drop them with the person or the person should pls come and stay with them in the house while the house is getting fix for the event.Note that you are not to stay with your wife in the saloon, u just need to drop her, get back home because your attention will be needed to put things together for the event, then she should let u knw when she is done then you go and pick her. Any more question?

ForFun:
@yomibabe contacted me, i want to get my cake from her/him

Please help with simple yet nice cake concepts

In addition to this and other surprises you intend giving her, you can try this.Stop her from making her hair anytime soon and u can tell her there is a particular hair style you want her to carry then on the day of the event, you can drive her to the saloon, while she is away from the house then you can cotinue fixing the house for the event. You could make the saloonist delay the hair making just to keep her away from the house. Insist on coming to pick her once she is done. After picking her from the saloon you can then branch a boutic with her and tell her you have been eyeing a dinner gown in the shop and so you want her to try it(but make sure you've done an ealier survey)pick the gown she luvs most in the shop then drive her home at list even if the house is not fully set 80-90% would have been done.All the best.

CaseyBlee:
Feb 6

You wasted time picking make up items and so I came out before you. Am Febuary 5 th.

Accept my sympathy. But am so sorry my questions and views might sound silly. How did she die? Is it old age, accident, brief illness or what. I think you should pray about it. If she still appears to you try to listen to her. Its possible she did not die at God appointed time and she is trying to pass a message to you. So just be prayerful so that God will reveal to you on the right action to take. Because if her spirit is appaering with a negetive intention the same prayer will vindicate you. All the best my dear.

This is crazy.

Nice one and you are 100% right.

I luv this. Indeed the guymost be very very rich.check out the fresh flowers used to decorate the truck

Hernyolar:
Hmmmm...
Apologising and sober mood won't put food on the table or make money fall from the sky...
For the sake of your sanity, go to your folks house..tell them you came to rest a bit.
A baby is on it's way and I tell you, they are quite expensive to cater for..
Above all...remember your baby is precious, so take each day as it comes...Don't worry about anything.
All the best

I 100 and 1% agree with u. In addition, while in ur parents home, you can even continue attending to your clients without him knowing what u get then start up a secrate savings for u and the baby. But make sure u don't go back into being the head of your home again. Pls allow ur hubby to be a MAN but make sure you pray for him all the time and in all u do becos with God all things are possible and without God, U are no where. It is well !

Okijajuju1:
My Wife..


My Wife is always going to be my next of kin.

When my kids comes, my Wife will still be my primary next of kin.



Why would i entrust my estate into the care of a minor when my wife is there?

God bless you bros. You just said it just the way my hubby keeps trying to conveince some of his frnds. Just as am his next of kin so he is mine and our first Son is always the next and the simple reason is because we do everything together,I mean we go thru both sweet and hard times together even without the kids knowing whtz up. Thank God we are were we are because we've been standing together, for each other and by each other.

With a loud voice and THANKS to GOD number 10.

AdimGreat:
This is so sad.

Any woman that goes through the labour room and comes out with her baby/ies should never cease to thank God. It's a miracle.

May God console the family she left behind and the lil ones.

My dear indeed child Labour is a miracle. One of my frnds will always say " women die for a min, then come back to life again" but unfurtunately some don't get to come back again. May her soul rest in perfect peace with the LORD and may God keep the boys.

Godmother:
My hubby is 9 years older than I am and, though age is not maturity, in his case he is so mature and I can get away with quite a lot of things . Things that a younger guy will throw tantrums over

Oh my God, I luv this trend. You are very right my dear. My hubby is 12yrs older and I always get away with alot of things.The Sweetest of all is that he has a very wonderful structure that makes him look much more younger than his age. Being an only child to his parent he does not just treat me like a wife he treats me like his favourite kid sister and if not for our kids, alot of people think we are siblings.So for me the age gap is PERFECT.

The picture is quite touching but I feel instead of saying " I made mum late" its better to say MUM DIED FOR ME TO LIVE.

Me and Hubby are so proud of this wonderful gift of life that Almighty God has blessed us with. Pls meet our Luvly boys Jesse and Jedidiah

With or without baby shower, the labour pains will not change. I think women need to be very careful this days on how they show case their pregnancies. The enemy is all over, any thing could happen especially in the spirit world. I feel rather than announcing ur self to the enemy, just keep to your peace and pray for a safe delivery.

Madam nails, I hope u knw you are to maintain 100% body cleanliness b.4 and after delivery to avoid infection for both u and the baby.let me even ask you, do u scrub ur body very well when taking your bath? How well do you wash your private part with this disgusting thing called yanga? Pls, do the right thing and make sure u don't infect this innocent child else ..........!

Happy birthday. Me and my luvly family pray with u that may the years you have ahead be grater and better than the 1's you've left behind. Many more years.

OH my God, with a BIG and a very loud YES. I will marry him over, over, and over............. .......again and again. We are married for 7yrs.

Oken4real you are very correct. To add up to your post the writter is being too too childish. Infact madam writter if you are not your hubbys own pls tell me whose own are you?

Its not possible. In fact from experience this little misunderstandings have strengthen our luv. It has a way of spiecing the marriage. Just make sure it is well managed i.e no one must knw(especially ur children), it must not last 24hrs(find a way of talking it out), you both must do your usaul daily devotion together(morning N night). Note that in most cases I accept to play the fool and let him be the King just for the sake of peace. Guess what? When ever I go this way he becomes very guilty especially when he is at fault and the next thing is that he will start finding a way of saying sorry either directly or indirectly.