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Compatibility. Once you can tolerate each other's excesses then your relationship will work. Compliment each other and have a common goal. Be each other's support system

Why not. What were you expecting to happen before

All these people are already made na. So people like Efe and Ttt didn't come for this their yeye audition

She is fat and proud. Expressing herself

It shows that police is your friend

hopexter:
Even if. Two months is too early to start love making. She just put to bed.

aha, after 6 weeks, they should game on. Me sef na 4weeks

hopexter:
Maybe it's Omugwo

for two month? Thank God my mom get shame. Highest na 3 weeks with abeg o

ecclize:
you go like sex no be small

don't you like it?

Sluacoast:
Maybe she's probably coming for a long visitation to see her child and grandkids. Her next coming would takes lot of month or years since she has stayed a while in her daughter house

i can't stay in my son's house like that o, unless I'm sick

Give her a long tight hug and assure her that everything will be fine

Why is she spending 2 month s

Educative

First of all, forgive yourself and then your dad. Try to be happy and focus on your studies. Give yourself time to heal. Its ok to feel sad now but time heals very wound

LewsTherin:
Not at all. Like hundreds of Kung Fu movies teach us, when the student is ready, the master will appear.

Just kidding.

But jokes aside, there is so much I have learned from my 16 years. If I tried to start writing, it will just lead to bored reading. But you have given me a lead, and I will run with it.



Fortunately, she isn't the garrulous type. I am an introvert and so is she. The problem isn't her talking too much. The challenge we face is in no one talking at all! So we have to make conscious efforts to raise topics for discussion. Talk about the kids, talk about the business, talk about the guy we saw crossing the road in funny shoes, anything. It also doesn't help that we have widely different interests. But we try to find something to talk about.

If by talking non stop you mean nagging, fortunately for me, she doesn't nag. I have made it clear to her though that the easiest way to put a man's back up is to nag and complain unceasingly. She's a good woman. She does her best. On my part, I do my best to keep her from needing to complain.




Considering that we run a business together, I fully understand if and when she's tired from a stressful day. Mostly because I'll be stressed myself. That's what restaurants were created for. Any day we realise that no one is going to have the strength to do any cooking, we stop by some joint or the other and get take out.

There is more to this though. We decided before we got married that we will have no live-in help in our home. (my wish, by the way). So we tend to share chores. Early in the morning, while she's bathing the kids, I make breakfast and pack the kids lunches. Many evenings, I do dinner while she prepares the kids for bed. It's not cast in stone. Sometimes we choose to have what only she can prepare. I help where I can.

But if she is just feeling lazy about cooking, well, I'm a good cook myself. She also tends to cook in bulk and freeze it. So it can be as easy as bringing a pack of soup out and making eba. Or stew and I prepare yam or potatoes or something. And where I can't be bothered either, there's take out. Dominoes. Suya and garri. Bread and sardines. Boli and groundnuts. Options art plenteous. There is no need to make a big deal out of it.



Now this one is a big deal. it can be a deal breaker if not handled properly. But we discussed this before we got married. Long and short, we decided that any issues concerning her family, she deals with it. Any issue concerning mine, I deal with it. But being the man of the house, it is almost always from my family that issues can arise. That's kind of like an African thing. So I set boundaries right from our dating days. If you have an issue with my lady, take it through me. If you think you can straight up bully her because she married your brother or son or whatever, be ready for my banana to fall on you. No joke. Within our first year, I head to tear eye for my elder sister. She didn't act out of malice, and I understand that. But she made my wife cry needlessly.

I guess I am fortunate in that my family is made up of basically sensible people in the first place. Her family respects me as well. So....



Like with in-laws, we discussed this well before we got married. Heck we discussed quite a lot. 8 weeks of premarital counselling will bring up almost every possible issue in marriage and give us time to discus and agree and how to address these issues.

First off, there is no "my money", "her money", "your money" and what have you. We have "our money". We have a joint account for savings and major expenses. At first she ran the budget but over time it became clear I was better at that, so I run the budget now. The bulk of our money lies in accounts in my name - to which she has access to the debit cards and knows the PINs. For mobile apps, my finger print, her finger print can unlock the phone and the apps. We also discuss every expenditure with each other before making it - at least as much as we can. So far, the only time we have money issues is when there is a general shortage of funds in the first place. It then is no longer a thing of who spends for what but more of what do we have to spend for what. The kinds are the biggest expense anyways so.....


I hope this helps.

beautiful piece. You guys are really matured. God bless your union with more wisdom and understanding.

Noble profession

Her hips is something else. I love curvy babes

seelawd:
which one is mumu button poverty don virus ur brain

so you don't know what it means to press one's mumu button with reckless abandon? Ignorance don virus your brain

adaezeh126:
am interested

pm me please

The question is not about wether or not she is a runs girl? That is her personal life. The question is did the pastor rape her?

Open up to someone . just to be in a safe place

Very fake news

Sunday rice for lala

Pressing of mumu button activated
God bless all the virtuous women

For a change, an actor not all those waka pass actresses wey dey buy house like cloth

That's unfair

She is adorable

TheGuyNextDoor:
In fact, I didn't like that idea before but now, I will even advice that any man getting married to "non-virgin" to get her pregnant before planning wedding....

haba bros, fear God

Please you guys should surround her with love and affection. This is not the time to be judgmental. She will fine