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Reelmii:
and when u try to advice them,, they see u are their enemy of progress

I try to understand them..... Imagine born without a silver spoon, no good or proper education is there was even any at all..,. You become of age, you cant get a decent girl and job opportunities are very limited and you have no fire in you then you see someone you know with same background as yours but he has a benz or so, built house for his parents and having girls he never would have had.....
DO YOU REALLY THINK YOU CAN EXPLAIN TO THEM ABOUT CONSEQUENCES AND REPERCUSSIONS?
AT THAT MOMENT THEIR SOUL IS LOST AND CAN DO ANYTHING FOR MONEY

Sirchiboy:
...
Really,
Things dey happen ooo.
So this your story fear me I swear

Go Asaba and see what those Okpanam boys are doing.... These things have been legalized and normalized...
You didnt see the guy with two male CHILD that driiled a hole through their back spine and brought out their intestines as tails in his shrine? He did it when those few days old kids were alive.
It was on the news some years back

Sirchiboy:
...
Wait how the money come.
Is it through ghana must go or it will fall from up

I know of one 19 year old child at Asaba then, He was told to buy a 🗡️ or knife... Then cut any part of the body..... So he cut his lap the baba kept the knife in his shrine. A snake came around 6am the next day and he was told to carefully put it in a bag.... Every 4-5 days exactly 7.8m naira oooo is found there. But the injury never heals. ITS SCARY ABI? When he spoke about it boldly if you know how many boys who met him and did the same thing... Hmmmmmn inshort he has like 30 boys and each with his own head.. I heard one 16 year old guy in his crew get close to 30m..... See things are happening oo

Queengee:
really so what's the way forward

You resigned YOURSELF without the companies knowledge so its only right you pay yourself the pension without the companies knowledge

Reelmii:
the only thing i want to understand is..why the baba wey get the power no kill somebody so that he can make himself rich.....why is he allowing people to kill people just to make them rich....

Because if i get power to make people rich its only logical that i make myself and family rich before i use the power for outsiders

Its simple even the baba de fear the CONSEQUENCES. He wont even do for his kids no matter how poor, Most youths nowadays dont even understand the meaning of CONSEQUENCES...... They just want to feel among

adefitim:
Welcome to Christiandom

Welcome to religion.. Christianity is very different, Most pastors now use 90% old testaments and are really scared of what the new testament says. I guess they should be called Elijians, mosesians, jobians, Elishains etc. Hence Jesus warned beWARE of wolves in sheep clothes... The problem is the underrating of the words BEWARE.... ABEG IF YOU WAN ENTER COMPOUND AND YOU SEE THE SIGN BEWARE OF WILD DOGS. YOU GO ENTER?

onuman:
Crazy son of a bitch includes whoever strives to have territories of people who would otherwise want to live independently without him in one dysfunctional country.

I HAVE TRIED WEED, ALCOHOL EVEN WENT AS FAR AS TAKING THINGS ON THINGS BUT I CAN'T COMPREHEND WHAT YOU WROTE.

PLEASE USE PIDGIN

MzansiCoolio:
We're also good at winning Grammy's and giving you heart attacks at AFCON 🇿🇦🏆

What are you doing on nairaland.... Anyways Your girlfriends, wives, mothers and daughters would always be deekmatized by naija men. You guys are weird sha... And Something i have noticed about SA is that you guys are so UGLY like why? If not for you women who are meals to naija men, I swear i would have believed we actually evolved from APES

Chully01:
Don't try it.
You will give birth to that child if you do

HMMMN PROPHETESS

KanuSE:
I want to believe breeds are different and the US ones appear bigger...IMO. You can't compare really....

ITS THE BREED, BROILERS COME IN ALMOST 6 VARIETIES BUT WHEN YOU ARE NOT AN EXPERT THEY WOULD SELL ANYONE FOR YOU. FIRST IS TO IDENTIFY THE SEX LIKE M/F. THE GOOD BREEDS ARE SCARCE IN NAIJA AND EVEN IF YOU GET IT, A LOT OF VACCINES ARE NEEDED. THERE ARE EVEN BROILERS THAT LAY EGGS, REALLY LARGE ONES AND MOST EGGS HAVE MULTIPLE YOKES. DURATION TO FULL MATURITY IS LESS THAN 3 MONTHS FOR THE FEMALE AND BY 4-5 MONTHS FOR THE MALES AND THEY CAN WEIGH UP TO 15K

Difrent:
Everyone means well for the country.
If we are really looking for change then its absurd that we are looking for change among members of the same gang in different parties.
We are not really ready to make changes.....we are only paying lip service to It.

Just leave them..... Their eyes go soon neat. People when suppose come together, start and register a new party then oust as many of these Cabals, Them de there de wait for Messiah.... Same rogues different party

Chrisrare:
the kind of things that amazes poor people...

I AM ERASING YOUR NAME FROM PEOPLE GOING TO HEAVEN. LMAOOOOOOO

Righteousness2:
Terrorists sympathizers what do you Have to say?
Journalist by day! Terrorists by Nite.
When ISRAEL STRIKES them, you begin to scream " INNOCENT CIVILIANS".

These are people giving you figures of innocent civilians killed.

One thing I Love about " the Apple of God's eyes" , is that they are Focused on their assignment and hitting the targets.

They are not carried away by noise and propagandas here and there

Victory upon Victory upon Victory to ISRAEL.
GOD BLESS ISRAEL.

We the real CHRISTIANS dont give a damn if terrorist are uncovered or killed. We forbid the slaughter of DEFENCELESS kids, women and Men....
And whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name welcomes me. But if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a large millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.

We would forever CONDEMN these acts from a nation who forbids our SAVIOUR.

Whatsoever you do to the LEAST of my brethren that you do unto me.

Akpan107:
You're simply ignorant sir/ma.

Hamas terrorist from Gaza attacked Israel on 7th Oct 2023 killing over 1,200 innocent civilian in less than 12 Hours.

Took over 240 hostage,, and also promised to attack Israel again and again...

For me, Israel must continue the war to rescue the innocent civilian taken by the terrorist and eliminate all the hamas terrorist from Gaza.

DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT TAKES TO KILL 1200 HUMANS IN 12 HOURS? AND KIDNAP 240 HOSTAGES?
LMFAO...... YOU ARE JUST LIKE HAMAS.,. STUPID MOSLEMS/CHRISTIANS BRAINWASHED.
FIRSTLY ISREAL FORBIDS CHRISTIANS, IF YOU PREACH ABOUT JESUS IN ISREAL TO AN UNDERAGE...THATS 8-10 YEARS THEN AN ADULT WHO REPORTS YOU, YOU GET 2-3 YEARS IMPRISONMENT.
LEAVE PROPAGANDA ALONE AND FOCUS ON THE GOSPEL OF CHRIST.
IF YOU NOR SEE WETIN DE HAPPEN CALL ME A MAD MAN.

Imka:
HAMAS was actually created in part by Israel itself. While it may sound like a conspiracy theory, it’s actually a well-documented, open secret that Israel has helped finance and prop up Hamas for years.

“Netanyahu’s strategy was to prevent the option of two states, so he made Hamas into his closest partner. Openly Hamas is an enemy. Covertly, it’s an ally.”

YOUR BRAIN DE FUNCTION.... YOU TRIED SHA.
BUT TRY GO BACK TO THE ORIGIN I SWEAR YOU GO SEE SAY THESE PEOPLE ARE NOT FIGHTING FOR ANY SACRED LAND NOR GOD. I FEEL SORRY FOR CHRISTIANITY.
SHEY YOU DE CLOSE TO YOUR PAPA? NA HIM WISDOM YOU GET. IF NA YOUR MAMA, YOU GET SISTER?

tctrills:
Oga please get an education. A 5 secs google check would have saved you from embarrassing yourself. Less than 1% the population of Gaza is christian.

AND AGAIN... NOW I SEE WHY OUR RELIGIOUS, DIABOLIC, RUTHLESS CHARLATANS KEEPS MILKING NIGERIANS DRY. I DONT BLAME THEM ANYMORE, WHEN YOU RULE OVER PEOPLE WITHOUT KNOWLEDGE IT BECOMES EASY FOR THE DEVIL TO LURE YOU... THATS NO CHALLENGE NOR CONTEST. OGA JESUS GO FROWN UNTOP ISREAL MATTERS BECAUSE AT THE END NA MONEY, RESOURCES AND CONTROL MAKE THIS WAR START.... I CAN BET YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHY THAT STATE ISREAL WAS FORMED IN 1945. GOOGLE MTCHEEEW...

Beigalodesigns:
Here again with ur lies all in attempt to gain CHRISTAINS sympathy but guess what you are on ur own

OK
SEE GAZA NA WHERE THE CHRISTIANS FROM FOR THEIR PALESTINIAN OPPRESSION TO, THEN THE MOSLEMS WHEN DE THERE NOR GET ISSUE WITH CHRISTIANS BUT GUESS WHO GET PROBLEM WITH THAT? THE EXTREMIST.. THEM DE CALL THOSE MOSLEMS COLLABORATORS.. THE SAME LACK OF KNOWLEDGE WHEN HAMAS FOOT SOLDIERS GET NA THE SAME YOU GET. THEM FEEL SAY ALL CHRISTIANS DE SUPPORT ISREAL BUT SEEING IT NOW HAMAS MIGHT NOT BE WRONG.... SEE CHRISTIANS HAILING THE MURDER AND GENOCIDE OF KIDS AND DEFENCELESS WOMEN AND MEN. FORGETTING THEY ARE PEACE LOVING MOSLEMS AND CHRISTIANS.

tctrills:
Oga please get an education. A 5 secs google check would have saved you from embarrassing yourself. Less than 1% the population of Gaza is christian.

OF COURSE GOOGLE WOULD BE YOUR SOURCE... SMH.
YOU KNOW WHY? YOU LACK KNOWLEDGE AS OUR SAVIOR WOULD SAY, WE GO CONTINUE TO DE SUFFER BECAUSE WE LACK KNOWLEDGE.

Beigalodesigns:
Mumu which one is "killing CHRISTAIN doctors"ALL WE KNOW IS ISREAL IS DEALING WITH UR TERRORIST BROTHERS, stop tagging CHRISTAINS in ur post trying to gain cheap sympathy from CHRISTAIN because we've had our own share of ur wickedness and jihadic violence here in Nigeria so at this juncture we don't care if IDF kill Hamas children or even the foetus, pregnant woman etc,

WELL SAY HELLO TO A REAL CHRISTIAN FROM THE SOUTH SOUTH. TOUCHEE

monex:
The bolded is untrue. Persecution of Christians is Gaza led most Palestinian Christians to flee Gaza. Christians in Gaza today are less than 0.2%.

There are more Christians in West Bank than Gaza

Could be now..... And i also think thats what
the mainstream media would like to indicate.. you know why? it would annoy CHRISTIANS world wide and hence Condemnation of their evil agenda. Doctors without border thinks otherwise same with Al Jazeera.
My own na say make them find HAMAS when bomb them then kill them, Make them leave the Kids alone. The same Isreal when de assassinate Most of the CHRISTIAN doctor when come abi another IDF de?

Righteousness2:
The Largest Functioning terror hide out you mean.

OGA SHUT UP.... OLODO REPETE, YOU GO CU STILL NOR GET SENSE. MAJORITY OF GAZA POPULATION ARE CHRISTIANS. MUMU, YOU KNOW HOW LONG THEM DON DE CRUCIFY CHRISTIANS? WHT THEM NOR ENTER OTHER REGIONS WHEN THE REAL MOSLEMS DE? ONLY GAZA, OR YOU THINK SAY GAZA NA PALESTINE IN A WHOLE? THEM DE KILL KIDS AND WOMEN THE REAL HAMAS DE SYRIA, IRAN, LEBANON AND WELTHY ONES DE SAUDI.... DE PREACH YOUR IGNORANT GENOCIDAL GOSPEL UP AND DOWN.

masterflowx:
Super wealthy family that had uncountable assets and million of dollars in accounts just die like chicken.
Life is a misery!

WHY DONT YOU GUYS SAY THE SAME THING WHEN A VERY POOR MAN DIES?
THIS KIND OF MINDSET NA MINDSET OF A MAN WITHOUT AMBITION.
DUST WE ALL CAME AND DUST WE SHALL RETURN....... THAT NOR MEAN SAY MAKE WE DE USE OUR TIME DE CALCULATE ANOTHER MAN MONEY AND TRAGEDY.

immortalcrown:
Waste of time and resources. The car is stronger and more durable in its original form.

You are creative. But you use your creativity wrongly.

If he is really proud of what he did, then he needs deliverance

TRUE!!!!! WHAT I CAN SAY ABOUT KALU IS THAT HE IS VERY GOOD WHEN IT COMES TO BUSINESS, E GET THAT EAGLE EYES BUT!!!!!!!! STILL TELL US HOW YOU HELPED VARIOUS POLITICIANS INVEST NIGERIANS EMBEZZLED MONEY TOO. HE WAS LIKE THE GOTO GUY WHEN YOU WANT TO INVEST STOLEN MONEY. THATS HOW HE CLINCHED THE GOVERNOR'S SEAT.

jubrilELsudan:
YOU DEY FVCK THE SELLER?

NA E BABE JARE... 600 KE,....

larryUG:
Baba, I spent close to a million for my baby stuff.
What you need to understand is that baby things are generally very costly. Secondly, escalation has taken a toll on the prices of things . It seems a lot of people have not taken into account the effect of the naira losing value in the economy
I gave my wife 350K initially but she bought wasnt substantial.
She added her money and i gave her additional.
BEd alone is 170k-200k depending on the quality. Breast pump (for when your baby my not have the mum around) is 50k in the market. just these 2 items have taken 220-250K out of your 400K. now talk about feeding bottles, diapers, clothes (there are several types your baby will need), Powder/soaps, baby oils, shoes, other stuff, wardrobe alone for kids na 120K. Haba

1 million?... Its obvious you were played. Your case even worse pass the OP

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

LET ME MAKE IT EASY FOR YOU.... THERE IS JUST ONE PROBLEM HERE. YOU ARE LIKE A TORTOISE WHILE COMMON SENSE IS LIKE A CHEETAH.

illicit:
U let it happen

YOU ARE A BASTAR*D..... WHO GAVE YOU THE RIGHT TO CALL SOMEONE'S DAUGHTER, SHORT, UGLY, SMELLING AND IRRITATING? NA YOU RAISE AM? YOU FEED AM OR PAY HER FEES? NA THAT HIGHNESS GO CARRY YOU GO MEET THE MOST HIGH. ANIMAL

SORRY NA OP I BE WAN QUOTE...

CapitalBank:
It’s for personal use not business. Thank you.

NOR LET THEM DECIEVE YOU TOO MODERN FOR 25M... ITS WHEN YOU GET TO THE ROOFING LEVEL, THAT'S WHEN YOU HAVE REALLY BEGUN. MATERIALS ARE JUST TOO EXPENSIVE THE POP ALONE WOULD TAKE 5-7M IF DONE PROPERLY. IF NOT WHEN RAIN FALLS EVERYTHING WOULD TURN TO SHIT AND NOT PADDED WELL THE NOISE FROM THE RAINFALL AND VARIOUS LEAKAGES WOULD FRUSTRATE YOU. 40M STANDARD BUNGALOW

ikeno:
Oga, show love by buying a big of rice and share to both families it will not prevent you from getting things you will need for your baby. Beside, she will be the one to come and do umugwo for you baby

THIS OP, I DE SHAME FOR AM... FIRST TO EVEN BRING THIS KIND YEYE FAMILY MATTER COME PUBLIC AND TWO NA SAY ITS JUST 50K FOR BAG OF RICE, E NOR KNOW SAY E MARRY THE HOUSE BABY....I HAVE 1.7... I HAVE BUDGETED 400K FOR BABY THINGS.... INSECURE MAN WHEN FEEL SAY E NA DISCIPLINED AND STRATEGIC GURU.
SHE HAS ELDER ONE WHO CANNOT BUY ANYTHING FOR THEIR MOTHER.. HOW IMM TAKE KNOW? THIS NA VERY LOW LEVEL OF THINKING..... JUST IMAGINE...... RICE..... ABEG MAKE UNA ASK AM WETIN E FEEL SAY PEOPLE WHEN GET DOGS DE FEED THEIR DOGS.. BAG OF RICE WHEN FIT NOR REACH ONE MONTH TO FEED 5 HEALTHY DOGS. I NOR GET SAVINGS SELF... I MEAN ZERO NAIRA FOR MY OPAY BUT THOSE DOGS GO CHOP RICE AND MEAT TOMORROW....
THIS OP NA JUST SHAMELESS MAN


MODIFIED
E EVEN TALK SAY E NOR GO BUY FOR E OWN MAMA....
HMMMMMMN....

Candidlady:
Men and their stupid entitleMENt MENtality

Ihave seen people build houses or even leave the country without their parents knowing


Yaro you are just a friend!! Get that into your shallow brain

So you fed him... Must we know.. Ubanka


Atleast he invited you.. You should be grateful..

No.... A friend is ride or die, why he is hurt is because he would have done anything for that same guy. He just found out the guy has no love for him and Envy's him. When people envy you they become very secretive about their affairs and relations with you.
The loser here is the friend....

Nor vex i just see say you be lady....

you nor go understand sha

Putinofrussia:
I believe you are Osu.
Well,let me burst your bubble.
The great Yoruba race founded Benin and Lagos.


Oba Eweka 1 of Benin and all subsequent Obas of Benin were Yoruba.
The first king of Lagos was a Yoruba man from Benin who met the Aworis who were also Yorubas.

History cannot be twisted because you want to cheat the Ogiamien family who fortunately,has evidence with them.

Yoruba founded (Oba of ) Benin ....... Ogiamien of Benin..

https://www.google.com/amp/s/guardian.ng/features/ogiso-and-ogiamien-are-aborigine-binis-while-oba-of-benin-is-of-yoruba-descent-high-chief-esotericist-monday-wehere/amp





High Chief Esotericist Monday Wehere, JP explained further: “What is today known as Benin Kingdom started as Igodomigodo nine centuries ago. It was founded by Ogiso Igodo and it existed for 300 years before King Orominyan of Ife invaded Benin. During that invasion, Orominyan fought without any success. Before then, Orominyan came to Benin with a strategy. He brought a large number of Yoruba men into Benin long before the proper expedition. These men went into relationships with our daughters who started having children for them. By the time Orominyan came to attack Benin in 11th Century, the number of the Yoruba-born children was high. In spite of this, however, he still failed in his attack.

When Orominyan was returning to Ile-Ife without achieving his aim, as one of the strategies they invented, he deliberately impregnated a princess, the daughter of an “Enigie” – duke or king in Benin under the then Ogiso. The princess’ name was Elimide. He left her behind before returning to Ife. It was Princess Elimide that gave birth to the first Oba of Benin, Oba Eweka 1, who, after becoming an adult, was invited back to Ile-Ife, alongside other children they had secretly produced through our daughters without our knowing their game-plan.

Up till today, they still live in a place called Yoruba Quarters in Benin City. It was at that Ile-Ife meeting, which had Eweka in attendance that these children were told the reasons they were given birth to in Benin, that it was Oba Orominyan’s desire to use them to overthrow the then Ogiso Erebo and his dynasty, which was then known as Igodomigodo. They were all made to swear to an oath never to betray Eweka, who was to become the Oba of Benin, if they eventually succeeded.

Expectedly, this particular war was protracted as many people died on both sides. The carnage was much. It was, however, difficult for the then Ogiso to use extra force, as he felt his grandchildren were being used in the war. He kept saying the children being used by the Oba to prosecute his war were children of Benin daughters, even though they were now supporting their father’s side to fight the Ogiso.

It was at this point a truce was called. As there were no victor and no vanquished, Ogiso Erebo was told there was no way this large number of children born by Benin women for Yoruba men could be repatriated, since they had already been integrated into the heart of Igodomigodo. He was told the only way to maintain peace was for him to divide Igodomigodo into two kingdoms. Let the oba take a part, while he would hold on to the other part.

Well benin is 2054 years as of Today and its the oldest kingdom in the world it was even benin settlers that named it EKO
Well if you say so... So indirectly lagos is older than benin city? Hmmmmn
Wetin be OSU?