₦airaland Forum

tsdarkside:
if jonathan did well,we wouldnt have voted for buhari....we had no other choice...

and our biggest fear is to vote another jonathan again that has no balls and want to please everybody...

we rather stick to what we know.....

How many ball does this one have? Is he equally not trying to please all his people to the detriment of the Unity of this Country? Truly 'I am for nobody and I am for everybody MY FOOT"

eyinjuege:
I'm sure if any of your family member comes to stay in your house for a long period of time, your wife will start raising her nose.

You can also invite your mother to come and spend a couple of weeks, and let your bro in law know you're expecting visitors, so he'll have to excuse you for a while.

Let's see how long your wife can tolerate your mother or any of your siblings.

But be ready for Fuji house of commotion to unfold

This is it!!! Op just invite a family member of yours.. your mother will do a good job in reformatting the young man's life even without talking. Only him will pack out by himself. When Mum is done with her job and is gone, change locks and warn your wife not to invite anyone home. You and your wife should stay without a visitor for like 6months. This will enable you people bond more and give each of you boldness to standup to any intruding family member in the future.



I don too talk... E don do for here.

okirewaju:
I agree with you that he's wrong in that area but how do one tell his brother in law to leave his house?

In situations where your life and that of your family members is threatened, then you can tell an irresponsible brother in law to leave. Who knows the caliber of people he brings to the house in their absence and what those people are capable of doing. He should send the guy packing and heavens WILL NOT fall. Do unto others what you want others to do to you. If you want to be treated nicely, then endeavor to put up a nice behavior. You don't need to be perfect but just try to put up a nice behavior when you're in people's home.

In this case, Op you're brother in law has by his attitude put himself up for possible eviction. I don't think your brother would disrespect you to the extent of bringing ladies to your house or even having the guts to remove your clothes from your own wardrobe. Haba!!! that guy has no respect for you and does not deserve pity from you too. He feels that since you married his younger sister, then probably he seniors you as well. I doubt he will behave like that in his Senior sister's place so you sef MAN up. But my main concerns in this case is your SON. Yes SON. I pray the boy is not negatively influenced. Watch out for your boy. You can even travel with your family, change locks and let him get the message.

Op I will tell you this " leave your brother alone" If he says he wants to take care of his children himself, then step aside and believe me he will do it very well. It will be difficult for him at start but he will cope. He just needs his Mother in Law to be close and take care of the tender girl for sometime, then when the girl grows up to say 6-12months he can register her in a creche. Note the he still needs to have fond memories of his late wife, that's why he wants the kids around. He wants to still see the link between him and his late wife and this will heal him faster and always want to strive harder for the success of his kids. Fathers equally make good parents..

You can assist in your own little way but don't interfere unnecessarily. RIP to his late wife

FortuneTeller:
Ok Nancy the white lady.Take your classless fat rolls and head out. Attend to your black husband you are paying for. Never address the op again with your mess. Get to stepping!!!

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Madam its obvious Nancy was referring to the guy who's walking out of his marriage and seeking for another lady from south south or whatever location he put up there. She wasn't referring to the op and am sure the Op understood that. Anyway to the Op, I would just advice you to rest now for the sake of the baby, pray for yourself tell God to turn around things to your favor. Let's hope that when the baby comes, Dadee will step up his game. He might be overwhelmed by more sense of responsibility when the baby comes. Am crossing my finger for you on that.

Hmmnn am not surprised at the comments from some people here. It's just to tell mothers to do more work in grooming the male children.

Now to the guys that don't see anything wrong in what the bil did, I want to ask: If your uncle(your father's brother) visits say for a weekend and he barges into your parent's room without knocking and your dear mum(yes your lovely mother) was stark naked and your father brushed aside her grievances, will you be happy with that your uncle for not knocking before entering his brother's room. If your father goes mute over the case because his brother whom he grew up with is concerned, will you be happy.... Remember mum is an outsider because brothers are involved here(your uncle). Does she have right to be angry?

It seems no one noticed the man who took her hand to the altar i.e father. Seems the man is not a Nigerian. It could be she's a half caste afterall.

Happy Married life....

More stories are coming out now. Its glaring that this man killed his wife. Being caught with a child out of wedlock and your wife not over reacting you started getting insecure that she is also cheating in retaliation. Hmmnn. Now I ask if your wife had killed you when she realized you cheated on her, would your family and the public spare her life NO..... The more reason your life should not be spared. Just look at all the incoherent lies you've been spewing......

Imagine going through your wife's contact and calling up people just to embarrass them. Insecurity at its peak!!!!!

Suspected wife killer has child outside wedlock – Victim’s family
The family of late Ronke Shonde (nee Bewaji) has reacted to the allegations levelled against her by her husband, Lekan.

The first and only surviving child of the family, Bolatito Bewaji, told PUNCH Metro on Tuesday that Lekan allegedly killed her sister due to jealousy and insecurity.

She said the problem started when Ronke discovered that her husband had a child outside wedlock, which affected their marriage.

Bolatito said her sister had endured a long period of domestic abuse, adding that sometime in December 2015, she almost packed out of his house.

PUNCH Metro had reported how Lekan, a dockworker in the Apapa area of Lagos State, allegedly killed Ronke, his wife of eight years, at their home in the Idimu-Egbeda area last Thursday.

The matter was reported at the Idimu Police Division.

Lekan, who spoke to our correspondent while in hiding, had claimed that his late wife was unfaithful to him, adding that he caught her discussing her sexual escapades with a lover on the telephone.

On Monday, the 51-year-old Abeokuta, Ogun State indigene, submitted himself to the police.

Bolatito, who spoke at the family house on Ogunsiji Close, Allen Avenue, Ikeja, however, said her sister would not have died if she had listened when she (Bolatito) and their mother begged her to leave the house after a series of abuse.

She said, “The first case of abuse which I can remember happened sometime in 2012. The most recent was in December 2015, when we were still mourning the death of my brother. My mother was in the house with them when he started to verbally assault her. It was getting heated and my mum had to immediately leave the house. My mum called me and I went to a police station closest to the house. The policemen there said I could not report the case since I was not the victim.”

She said she went to her sister’s house, but her husband refused to let her go, which created a scene on their street.

“My mother said I must make sure she packed her belongings. I started begging her to follow me, and she stood up and went ahead of me. But as I stepped out, I discovered that she had gone back. When I returned to their house, I found her in bed.

“I called her and said, ‘my sister, do you want to die? We don’t want to lose you. We just lost our second born. I know you are a loving person and you care about your family, but you have to quit this marriage.’ At this point, she (Ronke) started crying,” Bolatito added.

It was learnt that a pastor on the street and the landlady of the house came out to intervene and beg on behalf of Lekan, who was also pleading and saying it was the devil’s handiwork.

Bolatito said her mother insisted she followed them back or she signed an undertaking at a police station that whatever happened to her, the family would not be involved.

She said her sister’s latest problem started after a woman turned up in their home with a child.

She explained that Lekan, who was caught unawares by the visit, started begging his wife for forgiveness.

Bolatito said, “My sister called me and said her husband had a child outside wedlock. She said somebody brought the child to the house and said her husband was the father. She was shattered by that news and from that time, she started keeping to herself.

“Lekan asked her to forgive him, saying it was the devil’s handiwork. He would kneel and beg in the kitchen and bathroom. He promised to do a DNA test to know if the child was truly his own, but he didn’t do it. He started sending people to beg her. But she decided to stop talking to him.”

On the infidelity accusation, Bolatito said her sister never had any relationship out of wedlock, saying the relationship between Ronke and the manager in question was professional.

She also said Lekan did not buy her two cars as he claimed.

“She has been struggling to raise N70,000 to change the gearbox of her car. My sister would sometimes ask me for money for her chi
She has been struggling to raise N70,000 to change the gearbox of her car. My sister would sometimes ask me for money for her children’s school fees and other things, but he (Lekan) would check her account and ask who sent the money and they would start fighting over it.

“Since we lost our brother, the two of us became close and we promised to stay together to take care of our mum. But now, see what he has done to our family,” she added.

Another family member, who asked not to be named, said when Ronke refused to take any action on the child born out of wedlock, her husband checked her phones to know if she was dating another person in retaliation.

He said aside from the general manager that the suspect mentioned, he had accused her of dating at least three other people in her office.

He said, “He would pick her phone and would query her on numbers not in her contact, he would ask who it was and why he was calling. Before she got her job, whenever she was going for an interview, he would commission a motorcyclist to trail her and check if she actually went for the interview or not.

“If she told him she was going to see a friend, she would call that friend some minutes later and said he could not reach his wife on her mobile phone and would like to talk to her through the friend’s phone; just to check if she was there.

“At another time, he started waiting for her at the gate at night to see who would drop her at the gate.

“It got to a point that he sent friendship request to all her male friends on Facebook and got their contacts and started calling them and harassing them. The man is insecure and jealous.”

The family member described the late Ronke as a loving woman who cared for her family and died because she refused to leave her family.

He said, “Ronke was a loving person. The only thing that mattered to her was her family and her children. Even when things were bad, she would call her sister to borrow money to pay rent or pay the children’s school fees.”

Meanwhile, our correspondent gathered that the family were already making plans to bury the 36-year-old, as the police await the result of the autopsy.

The police spokesperson, SP Dolapo Badmos, said investigations were ongoing.

Please can some one that has already gotten send the agreement template to my email address....kaynee3@gmail.com

Good afternoon mothers in the house. I sprinkle baby dust on everyone here.
Jumayin you sent me a pm and I have replied it. You can send me the message now

Please where is your location for inspection

WOW am encouraged by what am reading here. Op I want to lose my post pregnancy fat especially my tummy but I want to know can I start right away cos baby is 6.5 months almost 7 or do I wait till I wean him. Also can broccoli be used too in place of spinach. In place of sit ups what oda exercise can tackle tummy fat. Thanx. You are doing a nice job here

@CRAZIEBONE::::
I can see you quoted the author of Every woman in your earlier post as a woman when you talked about father-baby bonding stuff. The author of dat wonderful book is a MAN and a gynaecologist/ obstetrician not a woman as earlier stated by you.

stan4b:
Funny. Bros, wen she told me, it took me more dan a month b4 I could bliv her.

Hmmnnn is someone sharing d same feeling with me that the Op is actually the lady that committed this act? This Op is not a man but a lady. Anyway dats not important. Pls try and make peace with God and continue your life but you may never be a happy woman again in your entire life when ever you remember your past actions until you confess which will make matters worse so you are in a fix!!. How will you approach God when you have such secret in your mind.

Hi ladies. Its a weekend and I wish you all a blissful weekend

Yeahhhhhh!!!!!! So good to be back online. Missed dis thread. Oya efibori show!

2009 Model

Is it only me? But Iyanya looks bleached. Check out those knuckles!!! So horrible.

Good Boi: If FGCs were private schools, it would be one the most expensive schools in the country. The thing is FGC offers high quality education at extremely low fees. In the secondary I attended school, FGC, we have excess facilities for every every subject both the ones no one was studying, large area of land...With proper financial back up fgcs can take on any of the top colleges in the country e.g rainbow college

You are so correct. FGGC babes are always so intelligent everywhere you meet them and yes there is always the swag and pride because most of them have "beauty and brains"

Our Pro-Unitate(Unitate) FGGC Ikot Obio Itong. North South East West come for shelter to learn and play and love. WOW I just love this thread. I rep FGGC Ik. Obio Itong. I hail all of you o. I am of the 99 set. One of the very bestest thing my parents did for me is to send me to FGGC. The first day in JSS1 till SS3 I was in the Dormitory so I had full experience. ProUnitate all the way no Dulling!!!!!!

Rukemi291: There is always an attraction to a fellow 'Pro Unitate';
we usually respect with 'senior', 'sister';
we are super intelligent and observant.

chop knuckles

You can say that again!! We FGGC babes rock!! You can easily spot one- always has high IQ. Pro Unitate. @ Udoka 4th dec is here already, I wish you a Supernatural childbirth. You've been thru a lot and you deserve a 'painless' birth. By painless I mean pain but less of it. You will be out of labour in less time. To other Dec mums and Jan, I wish you all smooth delivery. I rejoice with all nursing mothers. It is well with us all.

ipio: Hi all, I have not posted here before, hope am welcome. Thank u all for the good work u are all doinf here, God bless you all.
pls does anyone here knows where I can get Tea Tree Oil in Abuja? Awaiting your response pls

Ipio there is Tea tree Oil in H-Medix pharmacy in Garki II behind Jevinik Restuarant but they open these days by 5pm because of some issues with FCDA, but you can check their bigger shop @ Wuse II by Amigos Supermarket. I equally saw Tea Tree Oil in GNC pharmacy and Health Plus in Ceddi Plaza @ Central area. If you are bouyant enough you can get the GNC brand

ChineloSA common honiepie's comment is far from sarcasm. I think she was suprised at the positive effect of d drugs. She even went on to say that instead of harmful bleaching creams used by most ladies the supplement you used is better. I am suprised that you can get such good benefits from iron supplmts and I can try them although in a reduced dosage. It is well with you ride on.

Pink22: Spotting

Please check progesterone, if low, supplement sharp sharp to avoid stories that touch o. It is well with you. ECHALA congrats am hapi for you. You will carry to full term.

There is a muslim family I know of that have been TTC for 6years now. The man has even gone for introduction for second wife sef. My pregnant church friend who works wid the man introduced the him to the Vitality Vit E posted here by me and just yestde after church program I was informed the man's wife is now pregnant after just a month of taking it and after 6years ttc. So please if you got the Vit E dont miss anydose o. It help me and others I know of. Now I just wonder whether the man will still go ahead and marry second wife. To God alone be the glory.

Hello ladies. Hope we are okay. I feel bad now seeing all this juicy info on progesterone supplement to prevent miscarriage. It makes me feel I would have preventd d miscarriage if I had dis knowledge but nothing spoil sha. Now I am better informed and love dis thread so much. Today is 31st, Prayer mood activated.