₦airaland Forum

Hammyaladin:
. You foolish donkey didn't u see where I said helped moved money?


Are you blind. Don't you do your research? Was it your spirit that was held in the UK for money laundry?

Slaves will always be behind their masters. #Breakthechain

As much as i feel this whole conversation highly irrelevant, seems your brain is starving so lemme help choke it,
According to report 2005, terrywaya was arrested in uk for money laundering BUT he got bailed, no court prosecution which signifies not guilty.
it is better to be a slave with voice than be a dog, oga stop barking.

Hammyaladin:
ok. Who was the system when it happened? Chai. No mention me again.

moomoo, if my memory serve me right terrywayya is a london based business man, he as never being indicted of any corruption case in nigeria. terrywaya as never vyed of hold any public office before so how is he part of the system.
public servants are the reason the system in failing therefore junk of blame & criticism goes to them. sir next time just shut up, ok

Hammyaladin:
lol. He should have come out and say "Nigerians are suffering under president buhari" under he's government life is hard and things are costly in the market.

"And then he'll also add "my dad was n is a thief too. He is part of Nigerias problem"

But he didn't... He chose to talk about a stone under a podium and his loyal dogs started wagging their tale. Shame.


May we have better citizens and better politicians. This i pray. Peace brother

I don't know the evidence you have, buh i think you are wasting much of your time on nairaland, when efcc doors are open to you.
Lets even feign dumb n agree kidwaya father is the face of nigeria corruption ... whose fault, did buhari not promise to stop corruption , if thieves are feeding fat do you blame the thieves or hold the system/govt responsible.
Kidwaya as contributed his quota what have you ever done, just shut up already

Dapinski:
Is Kidwayya's dad not one of those who directly contributed to get Nigeria where she is today?

Kidwayya is still benefitting from the corruption and shameful sleaze attached to his family name.

He should hide his face in shame rather than be forming good governance warrior.

At this point we as a people need to start being selfish about our collective interest ... if we gonna waste time & energy lets use it on discussions that will benefit the populace and take the country forward ... with the present state of the nation talking about kidwaya father is highl irrelevant, one of the main mantra of buhari/apc govt is to end corruption so if some thieves are still having a feed day .. it signifies the govt is not sincere and unworthy of our mandate.
Except you have evidence to incriminate kidwaya or his father, he has every right to speak for the voiceless. if kidwaya despite all the comfort could speak for us(masses) you should be ashame of yourself for trying to derail such a noble course. it hurt to see people you are fighting be the ones stabbing you ... maybe nigerians deserve the suffering sef

Hammyaladin:
the fool u are worshipping is complaining about a Goddammed stone. Do you get it? We all want good for Nigeria but children whose father's stole the country dry should have some Shamw. We can't just forget about the messenger and take the message.

Complaining about useless and insignificant Things like stone is irresponsible and I can't help if you find it Worthy of ranting about.

worshipping ke! can someone borrow this boy a dictionary ... something very obvious how did it not occur to you kidwaya was just using the "stone" as a ploy to postulate the terrible state of the country, a whole gaint of africa and they can't even arrange a perfect podium for the number one citizen it shows nigeria is in the hands of the most incompetent leaders.
In 2022 national grid is still collapsing, govt can't get electricity right, refinery impossible ... common podium dem no fit set am right.. CAN'T THIS GOVT JUST GET ONE THING RIGHT shameful

Hammyaladin:
Why r we dump in this country??.

Kid way, whose father stole and nearly bleeded Nigeria with money laundry is the wan having a say in Nigeria's downtime??


We are not ready for change!

This is one major problem i have with nigerians, thing are getting worse for the common man, naturally one who expect people suffering to be the one protesting & challenging the govt buh they are silent busy watching tiktok videos with cheap data ... now someone who is highly comfortable is speaking up nd an idiot think the best thing to do is eat him up because his father is not righteous
Even if kidwaya dj cuppy establishes a business it will profit him more than anybof his employee, earnings when the govt is hellbent on choking the economy with hyper inflation is like water to a basket.
We voted buhari not kidwaya or davido, if they can even speak for us good buh lets channel our aggression to those we gave our mandate, it is the govt that owe nigerians a better life not dangote or any business man

pocohantas:
The story doesn’t add up. Why would a woman choose to scale a fence by that time of the night because of sim card? Nah. I would be waiting for the full story.

yehyehyeh ! ... why would a gender consider weak stand at avenues 1am TGIF waiting for lift from strangers despite insecurity in naija

why would a woman pick a man with television over a man with vision. as if anything they do ever make sense

Michelle55:
Only the seller can answer that question unfortunately, he isn't forthcoming with the answers either.
I just weak!

Even if he is forthcoming, will you & i believe him esp. when someone as raised the guard. it would have being more appropriate if the person asking the questions is interested & willing to buy, then drills & inspections can follow.
pocohantas asking the questions is she willing & ready to go inspect cos i'm curious as to how she intends to mark/validate correctly

Mariangeles:
There’s one who’s a nairalander.

She absorbed her brother, but not totally.

Czarina21:
Like you said, 'different strokes for different folks'.
As for the 6 out of 10, she knows you're worth more. He-he, you won't know it but it'll get to 9 out of 10 (based on things we do for love )
But your money is your money, though, I agree.
As for the pleasuring, I'd prefer staying shacked even well into the 80s, can't imagine living with someone I can't flirt around the house with... It would be so boring.

A wise chinese man once said, all women are witches, so i'll give in to that probability
You are only admitting cos i am not your BF, if i say your man's money is his money now,in all honesty would you have agreed
Have you ever walk into your old folks kissing or romancing, that is most horrific and gross experience to share in life, sex @ 80yrs i feel like puking already, pls give ur life to christ

Czarina21:
There are couples who tell each other EVERYTHING, from petty gimmicks to extra-marital affairs [b]that almost [/b]happened.
There are couples who have long term pleasure.
As for boundaries, when you get into a relationship no matter how stable or superficial it may be, boundaries will be crossed.

I am not disputing there are no such couples, remember different strokes for different folks, human are diverse in nature what works for me might not work for you, however the most important thing is to identify what works for you then .. just do it.
i can tell my woman anything as well, and just like you xpressed xtra marital affairs that Almost happened, buh all the ones that happened nko ... @least we agreed on sumtin kindly note pleasure is a short term feeling while companionship brings long term bonding, its will get to a time in a marriage sex/pleasure no go shark una again, then existing love & companionship is what carries una cross the bridge. now that you agreed there is boundaries, i think crossing boundaries is inevitable.
Lastly, i see money as representation of "Forbiden apple" in our present world, restricted access sounds shallow so therefore if i am worth 10 i show my woman i am worth 6, thats my contingency plan for uncertainty/surprises its nothing personal

MYHUBBY:
an idiot is an idiot, you're a kid with boring life. go get a life

K

Czarina21:
If what you do with your money is your business, then you shouldn't have gotten married. I believe a couple should be open with each other. I won't feel comfortable with a man I can't tell my income and the things I do with the money, likewise the man.
'How you lay your bed is how you sleep in it', well you're right, sir. But these rules fly out of the window when the right person comes along, you simply make the bed for the sake of pleasure, no rules, no boundaries.

something about your aura however its a different thing to be open its another thing to be in control, as a woman i don't expect you to understand, no be everything man suppose tell woman, if adam had kept secret maybe we for still dey Eden. Even if you tell ur man your salary does it change her money is her money. so ?
Beyond definition any one that have experience "pleasure" know its a short time feeling so what happens when that sensation fades out ...where ever two parties exist there will alway be boundaries, they might not just be conscious enough

MYHUBBY:
kindergarten talk, you're just a dead brain attention seeker


go play with toys kid, don't have time for childish tantrum from one brain dead specimen

Now i can't even differentiate who is talking anymore, my or hubby, alway signify

Czarina21:
Well he can keep it from her, but trust me, she'll eventually find out. And then it's downhill from there.

Don't just conclude like that, please men vary for instance my woman understands whatever i do with my money is my business so far i meet up with my responsibility to her ..... marriage is like bed for men, and its how you lay your bed you will sleep on it. no caps

MYHUBBY:
is Olofo your dad surname? you're fond of using his name but do not bring the poor man to ridicule when I'm pointing out your senselessness



I'm not that civil alaye, caution your dumbness

Finally, he gives the phone to his wife gud riddance

MYHUBBY:
Op if you need advise, don't read from this maad fellow, he has a low IQ, do not allowed dumbass like him to destroy your home



since she's not discriminately doing this then it's not yet a problem, she's your financial principle since you lack one


only a foolish man use capital to help people, I was once like you and it took me from Grace to Grass before I got up again, meanwhile the people I helped then are the one mocking me and those that advise me to take caution are those that stay back


you give to people out of your gains/profit not from money meant for wealth building, she's on the right track



start to generate more income and you will see her relax a little. she doesn't want to go back to default

where in the article did you see him talk about using his capital to help people, or you just had to force that narrative to conjure irrelevant point.
If OP could maintain being successful & generous simultaneously before meeting his wife, who is the wife to sudden become financial headmaster, on a more curious note with all the wife rationale & prudence how come her husband is still richer than her.
Oga carry ur A for apple teaching commot for here, lets see the woman build her own wealth if she sabi that much

pocohantas:
Painfully so. But then, people should learn to put themselves first. Once physical violence enters, it is hard to stop o.

Speaking of people putting themselves 1st .... is that not the true representation of Nigerians or is the corruption in our system not evidence enough. Maina did nothing wrong beyond putting himself, buhari is in london and 1st lady is on honey moon in dubia when nigerians are wailing and someone still thinks nigerians don't put themselves 1st, marriage is different
When pastor says "for better for worst" what do couples think "worst" means ... marriage is an institution that strives on oneness & sacrifice. Teacher don't teach us nonsense, people should go back to love, love should be the essence of marriage not NEEDS.


Jamb question: can one put him/herself 1st without being self centered or greedy.

Just few days ago cococandy & co. witches were chanting breaking byiers on int'l women day. the comparison is there for anyone to deduct

Philistine:
Your leaders ; Afenifere and Obasanjo have been emotionally bullied by igbos to support their ambition. When jakande was the Governor,most of ythe stalls presently owned by igbos was owned by Yorubas,but today they have taken over all your major markets.what else are you arguing about ?

who controls the major market dey sha get head oya mention the omo uhna name naw

Philistine:
By Alpha males, I mean controlling the commerce in your region, buying up the real estates in your region, controlling the emotions of your political leaders and the Yoruba masses by bullying you to support their presidential ambition. If igbos are in the frontline position in APC today, they would have never supported your ambition. Remember how they insulted you when they were in control under Gej.

ALOL !! who regulates ladipo, oshodi & Alaba int'l, to whom are levy tickets & dues from those market remitted. between the tax payer & tax collector who controls who
I live in a lagos and i stand to be corrected with stats, there is no local govt in lagos today that an igbos own more properties than the yorubas.
i don't see any igbo man holding any strategic position in the present administration, if igbos are influencial & controlling our political leaders why have they not secure Nnamdi kanu release abi you need update about sunday igboho how can you be controlling & bulling then still be running to int'l bodies, for what then
Using the history of nigeria as a guide from pre-colonial till date, igbos don't have a good supportive record, did you know buhari 1st aligned with the east it ended sour, when Gej won 2011 do you also know he had less vote from the east, hence why the N & Sw were the highest beneficiary of GEj govt. learn
Even the business augment East claim is there personal talent, in nigeria of today on richest business mogul editions you will still find an hausa & yoruba man before an igbo

Philistine:
Stop bragging about the achievement of your older generation. I get am before no be property! Most Yorubas of this generation are weak and docile, which is in sharp contrast to igbos that are mostly Alpha males. I am neither igbo or Yoruba, but I am talking from experience both online and offline. Yorubas of this generation do not have a dominant character.

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Can you please buttress with a political stances, like what did you see and by alpha do you mean beating of chest

FreedomfromtheT:
I think his simple message is that for equity sake, power should shift to the South and if South, it should for the same equity go to the Southeast. Any group clamouring for power to shift to the South but not Southeast, is at best being hypocritical. My message is that all Southerners should therefore bury the hatchet and join hands to ensure it goes to the Southeast. Thank you

i got his message but the paramount question whether from south east or south west does it guarantee good governance, does tribe or region gurantee anything judging from our past choice
when i hear the east talk about marginalisation i ask, is there any law that forbids an igbo man from contesting just like any other nigerian, or must it be under pdp or apc moghalu is an igboman if his tribesmen decided to vote pdp( hausa party) and apc (yoruba party) over him how is it marginalization. If the east felt they are marginalize then they should reason beyond pdp & apc, they are free to inaugurate a party and shoot there shot with nigerians, let every tribe contest, so far inec as not stop any region. IF what the east are waiting for is an unoppose general election then they aint ready yet.

gidgiddy:
True

I don't understand how any South Westerner can want power to go to the SW in 2023 when he knows fully well that the SW have had their 8 years with Obasanjo?

You want what will amount to a 'third term' in this democratic dispensation when your comerades in the South like the SS, have had only one term, and the SE has had nothing?

That is greed. Rather than power to go to the SW, let it stay in the North. At least that way, we know it didn't come down South at all

Hope you know in all the north as being the major beneficiary of power from military to civilian govt, so how in the world is it fair for power to stay in the north atiku,sambo yardua, buhari = 25yrs. its presposterous how you can over look that
south west has only produced obasanjo & osibanjo cummulative of 16yrs .. so how is fair for north to remain power and unfair for southwest to vye for power.

PrinceOfLagos:
When I say that 2023 is the turn of the south east people, some Tinubu useless and cursed urchins will call me IPOB or IGBO...

In all fairness, it is the turn of the south east people to produce the next president in 2023. but if Tinubu won't let that happen, then let the North retain power.

I will not support Tinubu because I'm Yoruba , No, I hate greed.

Lets not forget from that north, Atiku and sambo enjoyed 8yrs & 6yrs as VP respectivey if we add that up with yaraduah & buhari tenure 3yrs with 8yrs that is 25.
From the south, obasanjo had 8yrs and osibanjo enjoying 8yrs sum up gives 16.
i keep saying it yoruba as worst set of humans to have as tribesmen.. on which grounds is the north preferrable judging from the numbers of years north have being at the elms of affairs.
if not hypocrisy why will it be Ok for north that had 25yrs to retain power over south that had 16yrs in all, adeyanju is just a bastard looking for what to eat.

Olunmercy56:
truth to be told, how could a married woman be sleeping with another man? Because of lack of accommodation? I understand her but what is bad is not good, why not somewhere else or beg for help. it's not the end of the world. Now hidden secret is out, how would the husband feel now?

A man that left his wife & kids without setting her up for substainance can go to hell with his broken heart.
Easier said than done, you think its easy to be homeless in a country like naija. surviving the day is hard how much more nite, do you what the eye of homeless gurlz see on street every night, or you think its easy getting help in naija of today. the woman did wrong buh her husband sef no do right