₦airaland Forum

SilentQueen:
I said what I said

Doesnt matter where truth dey, it is what it is

SilentQueen:
We now live in a world where the younger ones are now even more exposed and spoilt than we the elders!

Where there is no shame and guilty conscience anymore

Yeah but we will not underestimate the facts that some men are peodophile and perverts who exposed our little girls to all these sexual activeness at young age

Men are the problem of the world

who spent more time with the children between a school and parent, moving forward who spent more time with the children between a mother and father,
whoever spends more time with the children groom them, the truth is mothers of this generation are epitom of FAILURE, owu iya gbon lomo'ran.
Most nigerian gurl are codely or open olosho and these are mothers of tomorrow ... what does the world expect.

siofra:
With the recent happenings from domestic violence to child grooming, please it's time for us to ensure very strict measures to protect our females from these evil monsters in our society claiming to be men.

Look at that Chrisland girl. It is obvious she was groomed or sexually molested by an uncle in her family or teacher at school. Or even a neighbour.

According to research 80% of Nigerian men are molesters and sexual predators and 99.999% of nairaland males active in the romance section are pedophiles.

Please protect the females around you from these 80% and 99.999% of evil Nigerian men. I'm speaking from experience. Thank you.

why not go look @ the chrisland girl social media pages, maybe mosdii is right

Cmanforall:
It's a possibility for it to be money, but you don't rule out other things especially during campaign seasons. Posters from printing companies or from a contractor can be delivered in Ghana Must Go bag . As well as other things

Yeah, such rule out would apply maybe if it were to be a P.A, driver or some loyalist. Buh whenever you see a whole political aspirant sitting 1cm from a ghana must go it as to be money, those people i sabi there way

Romanoff:
Counselling nko?

Counselling sounds more like it, in as much it is from family elders or religious leaders with pedegree.

Romanoff:
Therapy.

There's a communication lapse between you two.

There's probably lack of fulfillment on her part. She's also probably not happy with something in your marriage that she is not talking about.

Don't listen to those telling you to divorce her.

Most are children.

Lets not decieve ourselves, therapy is not for the race cos most of us are raised in a ghetto way. recommending a therapy to a black man is like asking a white man to go see a pastor

PaulOtl:
A one-time deputy Senate President's first son once told me brazenly, and I quote;
" Mehn, I remember the day my dad came back home in the night with two Ghana-must-go bags in the car , and when the driver brought it into the house, I saw it was filled with new money "
" It was like 100 million naira inside. Then my dad gave my mum part of it the next day and told her to got to Dubai for shopping and buy things for the house, for herself and the kids. Then, she went and bought gold and expensive curtains, and other things."

Did you just read what I just revealed above? I can swear on my head that it happened. He and I were close friends ( he was like my second closest friend, cuz I taught him some cool stuff back then, and we were in a rap group)
So, this money in bag didn't start today and wouldn't end today. And their kids even know of their corruption, but they feel it's survival of the fittest. They get carried away by the affluence and supposedly good life.

You forgot to tag Cmanforall

Cmanforall:
Other things can be in a 'Ghana Must Go' bag as I earlier stated. Don't be myopic

Ofcus other things can be in a "Ghana Must Go" bag when it is campaign/election off season.
like i said why is it only during campaign season we see our politicians. share preference for a bag as cheap as ghana must go. stop feigning dumb

Cmanforall:
It could also be his posters. It could be his campaign T-shirts, stickers etc.

Why would some people think all 'Ghana Must Go' bags is cash once a politician is involved?

Or is this a way to dent him and equate this to 'Bullion van'?

its because we were not born yesteday, why not ask yourself why is it only during campaign periods we see politicians moving around with ghana must go

if apc/amaechi decides to post a picture with three ghana must behind how that justapose dent to his imag or is he a saint?

JaneYave:
Life business is a serious business . How can teenagers be left without monitoring and even out of the country? This is where the school got it wrong. For crying out loud, can't the school at least make a statement? Meanwhile, the school is responsible for any life entrusted in her care.It is as serious as that.
I always say this, some parents have left their kids to the world so if you are taking your ward to a school where they will mix up, be sure to do your homework well. There is nothing unimaginable that these spoilt children wouldn't do. Parents, be warned. Do not pay high school fees to receive a damaged child.

You mean the school should have hired vigilances to watch over some underage kids in a room bearly overnight, like seriously are kids of that age even suppose to have a clue of what sex means not to talk of how its done.
Whatever we saw in that video is as a result of irresponsible and poor parenting, its the primary responsibility of the parent to invibe morals into a child , why blame the school or are we gonna pretend most of this schools dare not discipline or cane these kids without a 21st century mom rushing down to fight the teacher dirty n even post on SM.
where did those kids learn whatever they know from, why would kids even have a camera phone, at a 5yr old child birthday party parent will be pushing there kids to dance naira marley songs ... all in the name of woke we have lost almost everything

cococandy:
Please shut up
Xtupid

I guess all that matter is reactions, condemnation, the dog must get the bad name at the negligience of every other meaningful steps ...
what he said made apt sense, the major challenge most times this teenage gurlz don't trust there parent/guidances enough to comfy in them or maybe the reception is not good enough.
chasing the goat away "everytime" naa stress not the solution, alot of parent shy away from sex education, my dad & i tried so much on my lil sister then such that boyz do tell her this as to be your big bro OT in play, its all about who get to the female child mind 1st.

coco rest ijn & eric says happy easter

dominique:
Couldn't have said it better

Quite a number of loopholes in his story some of which have been highlighted by other posters. He's definitely being economical with the truth. The lady might be lying too

between a man and woman, one would go the extra mile to get empathy ..

BRATISLAVA:
is that you, spurned not good-looking ex-husband?

Yeah, just checking to see if havent lost whats left of ur womb, abortion freak ex wife

seniorgozman:
I didn’t take sides with anyone, I just pointed out lies in his statement and I stand to be challenged, no government hospital will conduct abortion on you unless it's life threatening. I know the hospital in question.

In nigeria anything can happen forget protocols, sometimes patient are admitted without following due process, if she knows one high staff there anything can happen besides many things happen in govt hospital that are off records @least that one i get 1st hand experience. only vouch for weytin you use ur eye confirm

JovialJune:
You said the truth, but my problem is, did all her deeds justify his constant beatings? cos I don't understand the relevance of the nonsense and obvious lies he came to spew.

what evidence did you see that made you justapose the man is liein, someone came out to clarify his name does not have to make sense to you cos what you feel is irrelevant, i think its time the accuser present her evidences.

LilMissFavvy:
Does this guy look like someone who can open a pharmacy and poultry business for his babe? Plus plenty other financial commitments? Liar*

This guy in his frustration* of being dumped*, is out to ruin the girls chances of ever finding a suitor that's why he lays emphasis on the "abortion* accusations". According to him she's a pharmacist. Which health practitioner would expose her womb to 3abortions* within 3years when her bride price was paid, introduction done and fiance available?. Since this man is very rich*, why did they date for 8yrs, and wedding plans dragged since 2020 till 2022. There is no truth or correlation in his side of the story.

I thot you've out grown teenage days, naa ur type dey end up with men with just tv and no vision.

seniorgozman:
You can't abort pregnancy in a federal government hospital unless it's critical and can cause You your life, so the guy lied. Its either the girl had a miscarriage or that she suffered some violence that affected the pregnancy to enable a government hospital do abortion for you, the girl is likely saying the truth.
Finally they are both from my place, I will hear from their relatives

The society is built to have empathy for women hence why men hardly speak sef. who believed churchhill then however whats more relieving is that the truth will somehow prevail.

BRATISLAVA:
How could she have sex with this guy, let alone numerous abortions? Did men disappear from the Earth and condoms get so expensive?

i am very sure the man that disvirgined you is not as good looking as that guyz .... my curiousity is why will any reasonable man give so much credence to a gurl that adds no value.

FunNoStrings:
They already do see it as a weapon, which was why the Toyosi girl used it. With their frequent mood swings, their emotions can change at anytime. That's why I tend to be very cautious with them See as these guys enter gbese from small play.

I had a similar experience during youth service. She passed the night in my quarters. In the morning we're playing and throwing pillows. I was only on boxers and she's only wearing her panties. We played for a while and she said she wanted to go. I was like shu, we're still playing. I went and blocked the door, still throwing her pillows. She told me she would shout rape. You need to see as I fly commot from that door as I heard that word — based on who I be, that word and my name can't be in the same sentence. She smiled. For her, she's got a mighty weapon. But that's the beginning of the end of the relationship. I can't have anything to do with someone that trivializes such a strong word.

The mistake these boys made was calling her bluff, thinking that she wouldn't dare play with such strong words. See where it landed them.

Yeah i agreed, buh the big picture is the setback toyosi false alarm will bring on the rape crusade ... when the geniune ones pop up people will be tew skeptical.
for instance the medical doctor SOS tweet in kaduna abuja train incident was trivialize into cruise cos of stupid things youths do to cloutchase on social media, there seems to be no limit and that itself is a challenge

PassingShot:
Osinbajo will be taught a classic political lesson.

Well maybe, what most you tew blind to see is PYO is not even the challenge here, BAT contender is LIFE.
You must agree "history is the compass of politics" .. No kingmaker as ever succeeded in crowning himself" except BAT is not a kingmaker then he will be president.

Speaking of structure, no be people be the structure, if BAT antecedent is worth consideration BETRAYAL seems to be his curse. I can't wait buh Life is waiting for BAT

davodyguy:
Some Yorùbá be looking at you like ghost when you decide not to support Tinubu.

Check out the class of those supporting Tinubu and those for Osinbajo.

All professionals (Accountants, Lawyers, Estate Surveyors, Bankers), Lecturers, CEOs of top companies etc would support Osinbajo, while political jobbers, Agbéró would support Tinubu.

I am Yorùbá and will never ever support Tinubu

Unfortunately for Us, the lower class those agberos,market women , artisans & co are the major differences to win an election.
Most politicians understand grassroots determines election result hence why they are less worried about the elites/socialite, even tho the lower class & middleclass co exist as neighbours there is so much distancing & dis association from lower class such that these people(low class) feel they can only find solace in politicians.
If elections patterns will change anytime soon in nigeria then its in the hands of the "middle class" i.e we need to accept the low class, see how we can infiltriate and reset there brains/minds before the politicians get to them and capitaIize on such loopholes
The lower class are used to hardship & suffering buh the middleclass are we ready to go back to suffering therefore we need to befriend & orientate this class of people

MadamVanessa:



This one music carrier is death and buried, he's trying to resurrect it at all means , so he think licking the mere commissioner asshole will resurrect his death music carrier. Waste of time.


when I say O, you say B, another man say I. Add those letters together, you'll see the man fitted for the job.

Is it only people with "Active careers or achievement" that have right to express "an opinion" ... even if his career is buried, being a living citizen is it not enough. una go just open mouth waaa

Beremx:
seems you were one of the useless boys. Pray your lovely sister isn’t going to fall victim one day.

its all about victimization to you buh i think having a healthy society for both genders is worth more.
Being a rape victim is as bad as being falsely accused, whatever gave toyosi the confident to tweet falsely is what the society as being afraid of for decades. If we aint careful & filter wisely "women will soon see rape as a weapon"

CountVersailles:
Nigerians are a funny lot. When the police don't do their job, they complain. When the police do their job, they still complain. Complaining seems to be part of their life because they always the one in the right. What that girl did was very wrong, and she should be prosecuted for it as deterrent for many girls who think they hold the power to tweet whatever suits them in order to discredit anyone else, man or woman. How can you say you were being RAPED and KIDNAPPED, when none of that was happening at all. Ha! You should go to jail for that, honestly. And for the guys to forcefully restrain her from leaving their house? They should also be prosecuted for that. Some twitter warriors will soon start saying shebi she tweeted that she was fine. Okay, we haff heard. But what happened to that first tweet when she was basically screaming on Twitter that she was being assaulted, raped and kidnapped. We should just go to sleep and forget that she ever tweeted that? Haba! Nigerians!

For acquintances, i don't think that "forcefull restraint" holds water cos of high tendencies of "playing" besides force requires physical contact on the victim however the gurl in her confession as not insinuated anything force so where did that come from, i remember there was a time a female friends visited me, i made fun of her so much that she scattered my sitting room in return i lock my door that she won't go until she arranges everything back ... so will yeye npf also call that forcefull restraint. from toyosi statement kill lo faa forcefull bayii or they just want to sha romp those boyz
The world does not profit when a gurl/woman goes down, from reactions it seems people are more disappointed those boyz didnt rape her cos if rape was the case celebs, activist, socialites & even lagos govt would have been having a filled day.

Magnoliaa:
OK. So this has absolutely nothing to do with me nor this thread nor the dude I've been dragging? Cool. That was what I wanted to establish: You gave me a meaningless mention that has no bearing to nothing. So I am well within my rights to go all on ignoring your hypothetical scenario.

Enjoy the rest of your evening.

ok

AmazonTopaz:
What I have learnt from this is that being a good wife doesn't pay I will continue being a bad wife.
What did this woman not do? She submitted her salary to him as they asked, she refused to divorce him or even separate from him she continued to endure his maltreatment and abuse all in the name of wives must be submissive and call their husbands lord see what it has led to.




Really tragic I pity the kids

i hope you stop using sitbelt tew cos have seen a lot of people wearing sitbelt died in a fatal accident, whats now the essence