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cococandy:
What’s the definition of over educated?

tell us about yourself

Iyaebe:
Good one,hope Lola won't cause fight anymore.

don't worry, she as deactivated her Nland account

pocohantas:
Portable sef get babe and pikin.

where "premium men" like ubi,don jazzy, alexx ekubo, paddy can't even find a sensible gurlfriend

pretydiva:
This guy Is a SIMPle man. Later they would say they don't need a woman in their lives . Now look at him trying hard to come back

Biko Kim, consider him for the sake of the children

One thing you people don't know about, redpill/hard guyz/alpha or whatever is that they are very family oriented, they can't seperate from what they've created.

So yeah! kanye want his wife cos he needs his family, the only way to achieve that is to have kim.
Family is everything, if kids where not involve would kanye go this far

pocohantas:
It is good you put overpower first. Now ask yourself if you can successfully overpower your woman, while delivering slaps and punches. Then go further to insert your penis. The answer you seek is right there.

I once went to a warehouse to buy something and the lady told her boy to take me to their main warehouse. One big, dark and soundproof something that was even further down the street. I told her I won’t go with him! She said he is just 21 and I told her I don’t care! The only way I would have followed him is if he is 14 and be[b]low. A man is a man and any man above 17 [/b]is not innocent to me. Even the ones that look weak, if they grab your wrist in anger, you will struggle to release that hand, that is if you even remove it. Let alone a man on a mission.

A man stronger than you will overpower you and you are here wondering how a man can overpower a woman. Continue wondering. Alice in Wonderland.

every kneel must bow even coconut heads must confess, aunty what took you so long age sha

Acidosis:
The whole idea of separating canopies is senseless and invalidates whatever sort of love you all claim to share. All I see is fake love, insecurities, show-off, Etc. By the way, why do you need the crowd for grandma's burial? Are you going to bury some of them along with Grandma?

Rather than play along , make things go your way. There are 1001 ways to bury the dead.

You are probably just seein things from a narrow point of view, since its not a hall they rented, invites are bound to be sitted scatter under multiple canopies, if you had consider personality differs you will understand why people personalize table & canopy, my kind of guest might not be your kind of guest, imagine church invitees sitting on table where heinekein, glenfiddich fills the table, regardless of how you feel, class applies and you can't tell me what you will do for close clique is the same you will for mo gbo mo yaa.
If i am coming to your party as a close friend i expect preferential treatment buh not on same table with strangers ..@least lets not rub it in

about 5yrs ago she bought me byc pant & singlet , not even the original buh i appreciated it, sure it is still in one of my bags

BRATISLAVA:
Now that your fantasy has been wrecked, what else will you come up with?

Is that all you can manage? Smileys where it hurts?

Bore off.

my dear wind down you are flying solo my fantasy indeed pele o barbie the destroyer
when it hurt do your kind of men cry, i would av prescribe you join beautiful people buh birds of a feather is a huge embargo

BRATISLAVA:
Your posts are senseless, because you do not know me and they don't have any application whatsoever. I don't even understand where you're coming from. All your fantasy doesn't even make sense.

If you're so empty you think everyone else is like you, that is fine.

Return to Oblivion, King of Broken Relationships.

are you sure your own fantasy make sense, need i remind you that you don't know me tew

From "angry broken boy" to "KING of broken relationship" my dear kii lo rii

Kobojunkie:
1. Where do you get these claims of yours from?

2. Interesting claim regarding abandonment and divorce there. So, you are saying woman who have been abandoned to raise their ward without support if any kind from the other partner are in a better position than those divorced women simply because , according to you, " the marriage remains valid and there is an open entry for reconciliation unlike divorce". How many of the 10s of millions of abandoned mothers Nigeria has recorded in the last decade alone see their current condition the way you describe here?

Isn't that kind of an awfully wicked claim to make?

Many of our mothers raised us alone and are struggling with one illness or another as a result of having to carry all that load alone without so much as a penny from anyone and you think they ought instead to rejoice because in some phantom delusion your existence operates on, their marriage certificate is still valid even though the other partner and Helper is no where to be seen.?

Na here Natty go say " Tufiakwa".

I got my claim from experience or do you think you are talking to one of your indomie generation ... marriages have being having issues/complications since time memorial while we were growing up couples seek counsell from elders/uncles & spiritual heads for counsell, no matter how complicated they tend to resolve & find a way around it buh today what do we have, kids advising kids on social media, blind leading the blind, we justify saying its a digital age. did you see deji adeyanju outburst on FP, i started sharing that mindset 3days when i saw somethings online

O boy speak for yourself, because your mom raised you alone so automatically everybody is raised by a single mom, to even think that is what you are building your arguement on shows you are a waste of my time. goodbye

Kobojunkie:
So, abandonments, of which Nigeria records droves of them per year, are not failures but recorfd of divorce handled in courts in the UK/US are instead indicators of failure?
Most of you know of at least 2 people who were raised in some of these abandoned marriages and how particular mothers were forced into life of single motherhood almost over night as a result. Yet you think divorce in more saner climes is much worse.

I continue to say it, the foolishness of our ancestors is still that which drives many of you even today.

it hard to make sense of whatever you are trying so hard to postulate, we all know divorce was never an option in nigeria until social westernization came and feminist came along, and if you must learn abandonment & divorce are to different things, except you want to convince me coma and death are the same.
In a case of abandonment, the marriage remains valid and there is an open entry for reconciliation unlike divorce, if we aint talking records then you might as well take your arguement to a beer parlour, the countries you call saner climes is where a woman weds a cat, men wed men and anything goes. maybe you should re define saner climes

BRATISLAVA:
What exactly do you know about my relationship status? Or are you that pained about my comment that you need to find imaginary things about my relationship status to post to discredit the comment?

You that is an advocate of damaged and broken homes, what are you here for? You sound too embittered to have made any headway in a relationship. Angry broken boy.

what is there to know about a nonexistent relationship, what is headway in r/ship compared to a bliss in marriage moomoo because guys are alway telling you lemme put the head only you feel you have headway a in r/ship



sorry dearie a comment that lacks merit needs no "discredit".

BRATISLAVA:
Even if you see a billion things he's doing wrong, you will only be interested in imagining what she could've been doing wrong because your sole interest in relationships is to see the evil in women and the sainthood of the man.

Reverse the genders in her story and tell us what you would really have to say.

The husband is a manipulative, lying, cheat with no respect for his home. Meanwhile you can focus on her imaginary nagging. Ignore his blatant BS as much as possible.

To the OP:

Never lose yourself over a marriage or a man. I can't understand women who kick out family and friends to focus on their husbands and children only. Yes, you have a responsibility to them, but you also should have a life outside them. Your life doesn't revolve around marriage and children only. Don't stop working to please a man, because you will only have a life of regrets afterwards.

Link up with friends and family and let them help you get footing in a job, networking, etc.

see who is dishing advise, someone that can not even keep a mere B f/Gf r/ship successfully... awon da bii mo se daa ! yorubas will say; awon a baa ni dá maa ba eni de bè
amazingbaby we av seen ur sistas here help you crash ur home buh sadly that is where there support ends. cococandy is feign perfect home, perfect husband, the house wey una no follow her reach you decide to throw ur own home away, welcome to OYO

Biglittlelois:
In your attempt to be smart by quarter, you woefully seem dumb

Buhari is a man of the olden days that you claim are wise, who is presently destroying the country on a per second basis,

The world, a sane world, is UK and US cos it is a functioning society

Are you trying to glorify Buhari and diss the west? Cos your incoherent blabber/postulations doesnt make sense.

When its comes to marriages, what is sane about the uk and US, why should a country rich in culture & values like nigeria give all that up to be like a failed US/Uk or should we just discard there divorce ratings
i dunno what to call it or maybe Inferiority complex is why nigerians don't even know there are things to emulated & there things you discard, naa everything bad nigerians wan copy MTheads

pocohantas:
Lol. [b]I wonder why he suddenly went quiey. [/b]Shey he said he won’t give up? Werey somebody.

Before you turn to a wanderer, yomi is a logical being that understands when a case is ongoing or on trial you keep mute, support is not only by noise, aunty waa even if he reserves his comment that is not "giveup" he is only been learned ... he has made his point, what next? even mad people rest poco what is you

If you notice a gurl is after you for money, make her believe you have more of it buh don't give her, holdon as much as possible, if she is serious about chopping your money naa she herself go initiate sex, to her sex will unlock your wallet from there play along nd enjoy while it last.
Lenny22 you started on the wrong foot, she unlocked your wallet already without a password, no hassel. its best you move on

SeaTrade:
He has nothing to post except Kemi as his achievement na,what else?
A person who doesn't like posting on social media wouldn't post his fiancee.
He likes to post,he just don't have anything worthwhile to post except his saviour Kemi

ALOL !! i think it is time NL males pick one day in a year to be nice, ... it will go along way convincing the gurlz

elonmuskbaby:
IMAGINE! see someone trying to age shame another person as if it's not a natural process to grow older doesn't even know the difference between HER AND ARE

you're indeed an incoherent and immature teenager

These is not about old shaming anyone but a total recall for the truth which state "there is time for everything" that a 60yr old man write jamb & gain admission into university alongside is grand kids does not negate "time for everything" the old man is a student buh can't live like a student,
I understand sometimes we are faced with uncontrollable factors but however we must tell the younger ones the truth " make haye while the sunshine.
Motivational speech as now become something my generation use to cover up there laziness & mistakes .. *what will be will be*

pocohantas:
Women of good quality and standing would find worthy men, whether as morning, afternoon or evening newspapers.

The men you meet in your 20s, would be very different from the ones you meet in your 30s, provided you work on yourself and blend into the right crowd.

That is why I hate when some ladies start pity parties. There are men you appeal to. I know redpillers would hate this, but there are men who love evening newspapers. As in, that is their spec.

Now look at her fiancé, tell me which of these alfa males can measure up to him. I dare say a young girl in her 20s cannot get this guy. Where una wan take meet? For Coldstone? Wetin una go dey discuss? This is not some misdirected ancestor like Ned.

Ladies should focus on the men that matter. The men doing the marrying are not in the Romance section ranting every other day. Don’t allow these small boys that dare not put on generator before 7pm get to you.

Congrats to her…

Emphasis on "Good" ... its not a question of finding men, it about what kind of men would settle for a evening newspaper or a grandma ..
a woman in are 40's upward is most definitely going to attract older men/widower/divorcee and alhaji ... so aunty calm down and stop bragging about someone being a 2nd choice, however you chose to justify ur life make hayes while the sunshines stands



With the current fuel sacarcity, even men dey off gen b4 10pm, how will you know when its somebody son footing the bills

For me it is balance diet

okpanachil:
Maybe you should research about the strides he made in public service.
Peter is the only Governor since 1999 who moves around freely and without security.He has no corruption cases against him( forget that claim of N250m in his convoy,it's hog wash, Peter even wrote to the IG then to investigate it and it was bunkum).

He may not have all the solutions to Nigerias current problems but he is still the best amongst the options we have.

During his reign as Governor,only Fashola came close. Go figure.

I don't know how you came about fashola cummin 2nd and asides making a name for himself, his strides seems to have benefitted him more than it did to people of anambra .... what should we make of that

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/10/peter-obi-a-complete-profile/


i have no intention to make this about peter obi, my point is that its time we as electorates start to look beyond, sanwo olu parks to buy bolli, he is humble i will vote for him, when last as anyone seen fayose fry ankara all those are antics by politicians PRO to sway gullible nigerians.

noblestan:
If simplicity was a person, then it's peter obi

when will you people learn, how does simplicity solve nigeria problem, was jonathan not simple enough. Mr integrity even made so much sense buh where as it landed us.
All these I like him because he is gentle or he is simple talk should be saved for trash, personal trait don't guarantee effeciency, candidate portfolios in public service should be the valid conversation

pocohantas:
I’ll give you an illustration;

I had this colleague, very religious, supportive and emotional. She was dating this other colleague and every time they had issues- the unit bore the brunt. We couldn’t understand why the guy was taking time to wife such a beautiful thing.

Then one day she had to stay at my place. In her time with me, I was faced with the laziest and nastiest being I have ever come across. This lady would tie her used menstrual pads and keep them in a corner, waiting for when she had time to burn them. She doesn’t take off her makeup and wig until midnight when the other party is almost dozing off. Her cooking was nothing to write home about. If you even say make you do small pre-intimacy, you would be met with layers of girdle, very tight bra and thick undershorts. You can't differentiate between the clothes she has worn and the neat ones. I had to sit her down for a talk.

2) I have also met nice guys that had various flaws from hygiene, to pettiness, to inconsistency, stinginess… etc

No one passes on a good thing over and over. If multiple women and men keep leaving you to marry someone else, someone you have deluded yourself is even below you, then you might need to return to the drawing board. Every failed relationship or marriage is a call for self-reflection.

The bad thing about supposedly nice people is, they already believe they are one of the best out there. They think we are the ones that are privileged to have them. They think you can never find someone else like them. So they rarely change or restrategize, they just sit there, ever ready to tell you how people do not deserve/appreciate their kind.

Eeyah! seems like a perfect introduction for those yet to meet you a whole poco wrong ke world wil rather end aunty i know mfm hotlines

with the kind of attendees @ his birthday, i won't mind borrowing 10m from lapo if i had such friends cos ROI is guaranteed. may God give us beta clique

LilMissFavvy:
Don't be surprised at their level of reasoning, they are foolish*illiterates. They don't know that these rich women have the money and can procreate even in old age. Ini-edo said she has frozen her eggs. At her age she definitely hasn't reached menopause, yet she's already freezing them for far future use.

Gud point thanks to men research & inventions, do you actually think nursing a child @ old age is childs play.
As much as it possible to secure admission into the university at any age, it is not a cool experience for old students

pocohantas:
You are the one being PERSISTENTLY FOOLISH if you do not see the fact that the page you got that from is a fake one. Obviously run by a fellow redpiller who thinks we are all as dull as his teammates.

This was her 4 hours ago.

If that was her 4hours ago, does this mean she just woke up to the trauma of what greenwood did to her 4months ago only dstv should load that long.
Is these truly about DV or just a decoy, just like other cases time will tell, however men need to realize women actions 90% of times are premeditated, the bitch as spoken

pocohantas:
When people sell such new things, I conclude something is wrong.

When people sell their mattress without the bedframe, the mattress is the problem. They are not relocating to anywhere.

Anything Hisense and nonfrost, I dey run from am. The big one wey I buy for my mama, e nearly give her high bp. Hisense is not by LG, that is a marketing lie.

what kind of child decides to buy for her mother what will give her post BP tori olohun, smh!

if we dey ask God for omo, dear couples be clarifying pls