₦airaland Forum

Magnoliaa:
I am still waiting for your response. And here, why should Mr A feel entitled to Lady B's attention and that he deserves more? Is he dating Lady B? Because I don't get why he'll be feeling bothered over whom she decided to give this so-called attention to.

@bolded, Mr. B is the one feeling somehow over the lack of attention, what has Mr. A's emotional thoughts got to do with anything? Does he know Mr. B before? Why should he feel anything?

And where do I fit in into all these precisely?

The trio are just neighbours nothing more, however mr B got to know about mr A cos Lady B in her dilusion is alway trying to use mr A opinion to emasculate Mr B whenever her armory fails, mr A is a diick anyways
You come in as a JUDGE if you want,... is Mr A assumption/opinion about Mr B admissible and on what grounds.

incases where ladyB uses mr A outburst against mr B ... should it be considered valid??

Magnoliaa:
Who is lady B? Who is Mr. B? Who is Mr. A? What do they all have to do with my comment that you initially quoted?

pele, face ur studies

Magnoliaa:
Instance of?

If laby B gives more of her attention to Mr b than Mr A feels he deserve, what do you think would most likely be Mr A emotional thoughts towards Mr B

Magnoliaa:
I am a bitter feminist. You think I am in a relationship?

Even if I was, how does dragging a troll mean giving all the attention I should be giving him to another guy?

It's a real wa o.

your exhibition is one of the major problems wannabe feminist have, like i said it just an instance, an harmless one why so worked up

Magnoliaa:
Welcome, village member. I see you have come again. Who is Chris? Who am I giving attention to? I was putting a troll in its place and you think this response correlates to...what?

its just an instance hence "chris', nothing emphatic and like i said just an instance

Magnoliaa:
And small boys get whooped in the ass, dear.

If he cannot respect himself, I'll drag him to hell and back and teach him to always jump and pass my moniker next time for the sake of that self.

Yiimu, what do you feel chris would think about any 'guy' getting all the attention he feels he should be the one getting from you just curious

omenkaLives:
No one can tell me those vandals aren't affiliated directly or indirectly to PDP.

This, and terrorism, are the weapons they hope would force the hand of Nigerians into doing away with APC. But I've got news for them; come rain come shine, PDP is going NOWHERE close to Aso Rock in 2023, period!!

The culprits can't be far from those that stand to benefit financially, vandalization means funds disbursement for repair definitely some people will be smiling to the bank.
As much as i don't trust pdp i don't see how power outage benefit them infact with all challenges rocking naija presently any opposition need not do any other than just campaign ... APC is worst than a mistake

Vinnie2000:
I need someone to give me a good answer!
And the Moderators that always push her rape post to FP with Alacrity needs to think twice! A foreigner visiting Nairaland may start thinking Nigerian men are all Rapists! Saphiere is indirectly calling Nigeria a RAPISTS PRODUCING COUNTRY! Weldone, ma! To the Mods, don't delete dis post! Lets make a change for good!

You don't need a good whatever neither does anyone owe you an explanation, however the answer you seek awaits you in a REALITY CHECK.
I am a man and i'm not perturbed by what NL feminist thinks because the goal of Rape Crusade outweighs anyones frivolous feelings in as much as "ALL" is not implied infact let's paste it in the sky #SAYNOTORAPE.

subsidywise18:
Well, we can have every state generating its power, but at the end, so long as tarrifs are kept below the cost of production, the power plants won't make enough profit to keep running.

That's what the paper is essentially saying.

And it is not that paper. There are articles that say the same thing all over the web.

At the end, whether you like it or not, 24 hour power is something we pay for, not something we wish government finds imaginary money for.

Stop sounding like C O P is determine by stock market or int'l index, i know to a larger extent that "cost of productions" are regulated & responsive to NERC & govt policies which implies we are dealing with controllable factors, what we need is efficiency,transparency and coordination. Even if we sell nigeria to meet up with real cost of production, the glaring insincerity on paths of phcn/govt will still lead us to darkness.
Are you even business oriented @ all, as an entrepreneur its on you to raise capital, afterall nobody force you and the standard of service rendered is what determine charges, you can't provide an average service and tell customer to subscribe premium that you will later use the income to upscale your service. haba maybe phcn should learn from likes of dstv & shoprite. if you invest enough you will earn more than enough

subsidywise18:
Well, this paper linked below can give you a good idea of the problem

LIQUIDITY CRUNCH POWER SECTOR

All i can see is articulated excuses which does not negate trillions of naira as being spent yet no slight improvement, even the six challenges enlisted in rainbow depicts inefficiencies, zero transparency and lack of coordination.
I don't even wanna drag this any further, the solution is for every state to generate its own power, by now we should be more dependant on hydroplants buh about 77% consumer are on GFPP, about 40% nigerians don't have access to electricity and even the 60% sef are still dependent on national grid in this jet age.
We can't afford one standard refinery we can't build enough hydroplants then one begin to wonder if the cost is infinite or our leaders just lack transparency. is there no actual cost

subsidywise18:
We pay below what it costs to produce power in this country.

Even now, not everyone pays the same money for power. Depending on your band, if you live in an area that gets over 18 hours a day, you pay more per kwh than someone who lives in a lower band.

The lack of transparency is a byproduct of the fact that we are not paying the power sector the kind of tarrifs they should be charging.

I still can't deduce why you think nigerians are paying less for darkness ... can you give an insight of the direct cost, and the prime cost incured is paid to ??
It is a common knowledge that consumers bill should be base on utility, even if we live in same compound our utility can never be the same cos gadget differs & schedule varies. ofcus a customer that enjoy light more should pay more base on utility, not estimates but what i will never understand is nigerians paying more for darkness.
The lack of transparency is a deriative of the corruption ongoing between phcn & the govt, if GEJ & Buhari have spent over 1.1trn+ on power if it is now enough how much is ideal? so we can sell nigeria to fund it

QuinModah:
it will not power your iron but we have solar inverter fridge but you can on the fridge during the 11 am- 4pm

Can you imagine ! after spending 2m i go still dey do 11am - 4pm shift, 2m inverter just to watch dstv, fan & charge phone .. ati gbo

subsidywise18:
The harsh truth is, until the power sector is allowed to operate profitably, it will not make enough money to fix things to a point where we can have power 24/7

It does not matter who is in power or what laws are passed, whether we decentralize the grid, or move power from concurrent list, to the 500 list.....so long as we pay for power below what it costs to produce it, we cannot have 24 hour power.

Like seriously, even of you don't have a clue of what people are paying, hmm ! wa sha ti ma gbo crazy/estimated bills
is it not govt policies that is escalating the cost of production, why should people continue to bear the burden when reviews & transparency can rectify things

UyaiIncomparabl:
He will bounce back. This isn't the end, Will, trust me. You did what you hadta do for your wifey. Strong man.

Potatoes can potate.

Asides from what goes on in the other room thats if Augustina allows it, i am curious what as the has so called wifey done for him in this whole will vs the world saga.
Ever wondered why samson with that power could not survive just one olosho buh solomon with just maturity handled thousands of women cos women are ready made downfall to strong men what a woman need is a Mature man.

27Pushing30:
Can they use pictures of Boris Johnson’s flying over the place ?
NO

BUT ignorant Nigerians are defending this disrespectful action.

Smh

Nigerians and indeed Africans have ZERO pride

Does the unfortunate buhari in aso VALUE the life of nigerians. do you even are a clue of number of people that die cos of insecurity per day.
If you earnestly expect nigerians to defend a man that deos not value the lives of citizens he sworn to protect then head must be paining you.

magnoliaa
palema007

una weldone

UyaiIncomparabl:
I am telling you the truth, you are telling me stories. I may just pretend to make you feel you passed the benchmark, but when I am done with you, so dumping you like a hot pot.

i guess this is the part where i stop arguing with iron ladies, i just play along and smile on sheepily. have a nice day madam

Magnoliaa:
Well this is what it means to be broke too, unless you feel the dictionary is lying. Being broke is a state of being, so why should any guy get mad over his own identity?

Seem i have you where i want you, one corner ! one corner in all those definitions where is broke certified as a synonym for boyz.
If i where you i will be more worried why the dictionary attributes slut solely to women, besides a noun is just a true representation of people identity, so if i call your name why are you angry, e.g if i call you ella and your name is not ella highest you go correct me, i expect the same when i call you a slut not vawulence.
Broke is an adjective which is a projection of users opinion or assumption ... using an adjective as an identity is a molestation/violation of english principles maybe that why guyz get mad o wrong naw

Magnoliaa:
You will get a reasonable response from me when you tell me why men who sleep around slut-shame women.

Is that not the meaning of slut, or do you feel the dictionary lied, whoring is a profession so why should any gurl feel ashame over her own trademark.

UyaiIncomparabl:
You can't try all these with me.

Yiimu! I like hearing those words and those ones that say "i don't do shit" ALOL !
Lemme guess, the only hard part of you will be the "high fence" you built ... sha know some men are climbers while some can afford a ladder

Icepresh:
I would marry the one that loves me
Cheat on her with the one I love

tew much sense no go kill you. nice one comrade

Tonytonex:
so you mean if you no like a woman, just because say she love you, you ko just marry her abi?

Marry a woman that as proven to love you more. " More" is the keyword no be say you as a man no go love her tew

tolajay:
Abeg, use your ink as you please.

May I ask what you mean by "challenge". So, we're on the same page.

i no fit o, buhari don say make we dey manage

By " challenge" i meant gurls that prove difficult to get, some men love the chase,
by challenge i also meant gurls that would go as far as setting standards for the man, either by words or accomplishments

Nebes:
From my experience and learning, love is not equal to respect.
A man's love for a woman softens him towards her. But if you rely on a woman's love, don't be surprised when she scolds and disrespects you even while confessing her love for you.

infact i think Love outweighs respect, which is why i insinuated earlier women carry a deficit on love matters cos a woman's sacrificial love is reserved for her offsprings.
if my fate relies on a woman's love to come 1st, then i will be looking out for signs that depict sincerity on her part, thats a enough assurance for me to gamble on.
From my own experience, it is almost impossible for a woman to love a man more than he does and not 'respect & cherish him.

tolajay:
Intrinsically, women are unable to love (in the context of amorous relationship).

They simply mirror and respond to acts and words of love from their male chasers. Sad truth!

Look around, who does most of chasing in a relationship? Who does most of the giving?

In fact, structurally (actually biologically) women are the receivers...pun. Mind you, the man is often pleased to be the giver (intrinsically and egotistically), all things being equal.

Spiritually, there's a reason the Bible commanded men to love their wives. Because it knew that women can only respond to love (they can't give). However, the response of the woman is meant to be submission. Read Ephesians 5.

The woman's love is wrapped in her submission.

This is the sequence: Man submits to Christ (as Christ submitted to God) > Man loves his wife (as Christ loves the church and died for it) > Wife submits to man (as Christ submitted to God). It therefore tells you that everyone in the family is submitted to Christ either directly or by proxy. Submission is actually both ways and all rounder in the Christian family.

When these scriptural commandments are obeyed to the latter, no storm or satan can break the family.

I have noticed that it is easier for a man who truly loves a woman to tell say "I love you" than it is for the woman.

Do you know it's harder for a woman to stay in a love-less relationship than it is for man to keep up with an obstinate woman?

Summary 1: It's the man's responsibility to LOVE.

Summary 2: Christ is the premise for a happy life and a successful marriage. God instituted marriage and it can't be operated with mere human psychology or theology. Jesus is the way!

woof ! if i had seen your comment i for no waste my hard earn ink
Buh i have heard guyz say they love "challenges".. so i'm like can a woman give respect and still give challenge or how does it work

Nebes:
As a guy, I've chosen to marry the woman I love. For me, a woman's love does not mean much. In the long run, what men crave is honor and respect, while women seek for love and security.

Bro you are entitled to your opinion and respect your decision buh consider this a chit chat. based on the popular scripture in the bible[b] "22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands" [/b]while "25 Husbands, love your wives,"
For years it bugged my mind why the word "submit" was used instead of love, a quote like "women love your husband and husband love your wife could have made perfect sense buh with time i got to realize a woman can't love a man, highest is respect cos a woman's love is subtly reserved for her offsprings. what this literally means is that, women carry a deficit towards men but the good signs to look out for is; "if she respect you well enough thats her own true love"
As a man its not your job to love a woman, its a conditional responsibility, a man's love can be ascribed as "REWARD therefore as a man it is best to marry a woman that loves(respect) you more, @least that will alway cover up for the deficit in her nature.

Acidosis:
I don't have a problem with keeping friends of the opposite sex as a married man or woman. The distance between you and your spouse and the excuse of incompatibility are the main issues here and not your friendship with the opposite sex. I see this a lot and wonder why people just love to deceive themselves.

Cheating is a deliberate act. Friendship or no friendship, you're never always going to be with people of the same sex. You will meet fine men and women, you will meet good public speakers, great writers, excellent political analysts. Okay fine, they speak better than your spouse, so what next?? Open your pyant??

You cannot tell people to cut off communication with the opposite sex because you're now married, please. That's a sign of irresponsibility, evidence of total lack of self-control and a red flag.

The excuses you sort of gave yourself are the issues. Establish the kind of communication you have with those friends with your spouse and you'll be fine. If you don't have sensible things in common to talk about, simply gossip and make stup!d jokes. Life is not that serious.

i think her excuses her valid cos even with the best form of compatability matched something will always be missing ...
"flow" & "connection" between two people can not be forced cos they depend highly on "personality". Even if the hubby tries to crack her up and spice up things it only a matter of time before he goes back to default.
I think the best solution here is what OP as done step by step and i hope she stays contented instead of looking for that man in her hubby.

aidameoryou:
But which made man wan keep nkechi for payroll

Wey the attraction,
No nice killer shape
^{No big nyash} or breast,
Not even very beautiful face.

So what could be the attraction

i almost concur buh did you just say NO big yansh ukwu wey ishilove see mutter God when, same yansh wey make pocohantas chant God why
In africa and as far as blacks are concern, ukwu is a tourist attraction pls never underestimate yansh again

LilMissFavvy:
Too bad. Was he truly a golddigger* aiming for her money?

Her money from where, for a B- list actress how much she dey collect, that politician guy bought her the venza stop being naive girls like nkechi live on bankroll from sugars & runz.

Naughtysex:
I don't think thermo cool is number 1 sir
I remembered when i bought my deep freezer MIDEA, i was skeptical about it because i went for thermo cool (believing to be the best) but the dealer boy boy called me aside and said "no waste your money, buy that MIDEA, you will pray for me later" he said people love buying well known name products without them knowing that they are many unpopular products that are far better
To short the story, i bought the MIDEA and believe me, i have never regretted it for once since 2018 and still counting
You can ask around from people who have used MIDEA products, especially the deep freezer.

Midea is a good product @least i can tell from the AC in my friend's office & home buh it has no proven "rating" yet and see ehn, you can get luck with any product, there are people who bought scanfrost nd enjoyed it but when it comes to overall ratings & review then you just have to give it to thermo. there are other good products but i doubt if they are far better .. how long does ur midea fridge defrost

odimbannamdi:
In hindsight, I agree that 24hours is not bad at all.

Regarding the emboldened; First of all, you should understand that, whether Nigerians like it or not, technology is tending towards energy-efficiency and massive reduction of energy consumption. Reduction tops the list of waste management. Newer referigerators use this model, and, sadly, it hardly supports longer frost hours for referigerators. That is why most inverter referigerators freeze very fast, but don't retain it for too long.

Also, like I said earlier, even if your refrigerator can retain frost for 1week, there will be a period that PHCN will not provide light for 2weeks. Woe betides you if you do not have means of alternative power like gen or inverter.

Here is what i think, even tho the world is tending towards low energy efficiency i think ... specification in accordance to country standard should be one major consideration when buying anything.
There are many good car products in the market buh nigeria prefer toyota cos the design suite nigeria/nigerians. Putting all factors into consideration what a nigerian customer needs is a fridge that frozes for long in absence power supply, low energy is secondary utility/bonus. however i get you sha, koko is money

oloet:
Inverter is cheaper in the long run, start with lithium battery chemistry and have peace of mind

On a norm,inverter is suppose to be cheaper buh with the overwhelming rate of fake battery in the market the sustenance cost no be here. However inverter is good especially for those that can maintain it