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There is no absolute or exclusive response or action to be taken when it gets to issues like this.There is always a peculiarity for each and every occasion as per dating someone with a love-child.
First thing first,is the baby father an ex that is alive,well and still seeing the mother(lady u seem to be interested in)?

Is the relationiship totally severed?

Is the lady ready to let go off some issues regarding her baby(some always put the baby first).Why this is germaine is cos u may not regard or notice this xter @ the first instance,but definately as times goes on and the relationship gets deeper,this erstwhile negligible act,WILL definately have a BIG role to play in your relationship.

Does your family accept her and/or her own family too doesnt see you as someone who's come to "sow" yet another love seed.

We can go and on about how if it us in this or that "role" we would have done this or that,the most salient and tangible action you must take is within you.

It is not unprecendented to date someone with a child,but the complication that comes with it could be almost crazy.It is a mountaineuos barrier,but it's surmountable.

Come to think of it,every relationship has its cross,the question is, are you ready to carry this one?

mystikal:
if we had lost our last two matches, the Gist could easily have been, Capt Cesc has never won a match.

Let the Gunners be ecstatic, It could have been worse

Abi now,wonder whats wrong with emphasizing Fab's good tiding so far.If it's been otherwise,it would have been EMPHATICALLY stated.

The victory is good but i pray we can just simply grind out result like this against the smaller teams.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=196574.msg3162095#msg3162095 date=1228070548]Imagine! Let me leave you people to your wonderful delusions. I tire!
Out of 2 matches? Kai!
Let us see in the next one month now! Ah ahn, stop counting your eggs before they hatch.[/quote]These 2 matches that have been won are already hatched eggs dearie.

atiku07:
this is the most shambolic chelsea team i have ever seen in my life.

I think de time is now to comment on scholari tatics. why would he have to bring out two strong midfielders for some shitty players. the importance of mike obi has been clearly highlighted now. What a catastrophic coach he is, that he is so determined to destrroy into pieces de reputation we had built for almost 4 years.

oga phil this is no portugal abeg i can see why he was fired by the portugese pfa. infact his appointment needs to be questioned peter keyon got alot of answer to give Oga movich just watch ya back some morons are going to suck u dry

CHELSEA TILL I DIE

Scolari was not fired.He resigned to take up the Chelsea job.Kindly check your facts bro!

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=196574.msg3162051#msg3162051 date=1228070077]How many matches has he been Captain in?
You people never cease to amaze me.[/quote]2 and still counting,

I bet if he's lost the 2 matches,u scumwats will be the first to make that a reference point.

Pls someone feel me in on how Song faired jare,

i cant even bring myself to watch the match,but monitoring match via phone calls is even worse than watching it.

I love the victory over the chavs but i pray for CONSISTENCY.

Can anyone tell me who was our best man on the pitch?

One more thing!Captain Fab is yet to lose any match

everything on nairaland has changed!

2 great matches comin up 2mr and no one is here to discuss that

All the best to Arsenal though

thanks dawg!Now go back to your african kings/javalove thingy.All the best yeah

But me i dey feel diamomd,bangin and talkin 2 u all @ d same time.They all cued up on my itune!

@tosin

u r just a cae

tosinadeda:
smurf ure learning fast o!!!!
only prob is that u dnt kiss after an insult okk

u r just a case,whats crackin dude?pls kindly go to the projectfame thread and respond to my question there pls

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so in all these,pls who was evicted today pls?

@muki

Leave 'em to their scuffles,it's negligible!

"Last year was special circumstances for us because we were really unlucky in the final part of the season,” said Wenger. “Maybe this year will be the opposite where we can come back stronger after a not so good start."

Wenger on 2mr's match!

My prayer too!

tkb417:
even if thats my prayer, wont a win or draw help ur course this season. a loss will be catastrophic. 6 games at what time of the season it shouldnt happen o

i agree but a win against Chelsea can do a lotta magic. That could bring about the much needed revival

There is nothing that can be more catasrophic for Arsenal FC again than what we've already witnessed mon ami.Relegation?? Losin all the matches left of the season?Fabregas leaving before the opening of the transfer window??Nothing can happen again as per our team that we are not prepared for.We are currently @ our lowest ebb psychological and i say it once again,there is no where else to fall when you reach the bottom.A lotta guys here have shut down their emotional side to the game,the more reason you see less of vituperation.

Come what may though,we are hopelessly devouts!

tkb417:
Things to share
For those thinking losing 5 games in the league automatically means youre out of the race, its a lie
All Arsenal need to do is not to lose any game again

United at one time or the other have lost 4,5 6 games in a season and yet they still won the league. Blackbrun lost 7 and won the league. Even Arsenal 10 years ago despite losing 6 games won the league.

so the title race is still up for grabs for everybody.
keep the title race open by beating Chelsea tmr.
Its doable.

Go GO Gunners!!!

Guess you are just praying and wishing @ the same time that we draw or win tmr so the gap btw Man u and Chelsea will thus be reduced.It's all good!

Back to your references,the problem this season is not just about losing 5 games.It is about incapable personnels in most depts.It is about lack of fighting spirit.It is about a team losing matches that were erstwhile a stroll in the pack.Last 2 seasons,just as it was last season,Arsenal was losing matches due to ill-luck and lost chances,this season we are losing matches we have no reason to lose due to our insipid,lack lustre, and lethargic performances.A United team did a come back last season as a result of its fighting spirit and large team,Arsenal lacks both.

Oh yeah?

U tellin me am telepathic or what?

Well its great to know someone somewhere cld be finkin exactly the way u thinkin,or so it seems!

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Schalke 0 - 2 Manchester C.

Yet another pointer to EPL's dominance over tele-match Bore-them's liga  burden's liga bundesliga

Dayo repent now for the kingdom of EPL's is @ hand!

;d

nice car and great price too

It's Official!

Babeisme is the 1ST LADY OF THE AUTO SECTION.

Anyone second that?

All the best ma'am

mystikal:
I'm all for the RVP/Vela Partnership upfront

Me think Vela and Persie are quite similar in style and too one legged to pair in front.Both left footed players and both drop in2 the middle far too much.I do not like giraffe Bendtenr @ all but i still think he's the only player in the attack right now that can  give us that aerial presence we need till Manu gets back.

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mukina2:
Gilberto is crazy The speech is funny obama reproduced in his own way

our yes we can campaign paid off, kay pumping where are you

why did ya'll post pics unfair na

Captain Fabtastic

"It is a great honour for me to captain one of the biggest clubs in the world,” said Fabregas. “It is a proud moment. I know it's a big responsibility but together with my team-mates, I know we have the spirit and commitment to get back to winning ways and fulfil our potential."

Queen Mukinaza,am right and remain still a gooner!
Nothing has changed,

Indeed it seems as if the wind of changing blowing everywhere and anywhere has come in Arsenal's direction.The question now is no longer if Fab is a worthy candidate but if he can lead the team in this tumultuos time without losing his head.From what i have seem of Cesc,hes as passionate as they can get,but this time in a bridled form,unlike Billie.

Cesc can only get better,unlike Billie who's already in his twilight.

Now to today's match,heard Nasri and Diaby are out,so who is left in the team now??

I pray we scaled through and wish Cesc a winning start to his reign.Do i hear an AMEN?

rasputinn:
At least Arsene got it right this time around, I feel personally vindicated.I bet u,Cesc woulda left in Jan if the arm band was given to yet anutha oui oui(apologies myself2)as there's no other player better suited for the job,even the players like & respect him more than any other member of the team I dare say.The feeling of exasperation wc he had will now fade away & the Fab4 of last season is about to be unleashed.However it's not yet uhuru as this good move by AW is not an end in itself but a means to the end of restoring confidence to the team to churn out good results & restore the respect,glory & honour of Arsenal which presently are @ their lowest ebbs.So for Arsene,it's one good step down,@ least 3 more to go in January

True talk!

Prediction for tmr!

Gallas to be booed all through and Cesc to be hailed with every touch.I pray Gallas wouldnt use the opportunity to score an own goal too

Emperoh:
Debo
What do you expect us to do?
If its possible, we'll borrow you guys some players to execute the job at the bridge
At least Johnny Evans is more productive than Silvestre

Its not about who wears the arm band
Confidence at the Emirates is at its lowest ebb
Somebody need to make this youn team believe in themselves and re-enact
the unenviable feats of last season at least.

Lets see with Tuesday night's Champion's League, what comes to be of it.

It may not totally be germaine to the progressiveness of the team,but it surely does have a role to play.When you have a captain that rather than bring out the best out of you via advice,talk and look down @ you,definately your spirit and morale dwindle and ebb.

I wish Captain Fab all the best,but i think the captainship was more of a bid to tie him down to the club.

Whatever way, ALL THE BEST

Morning fellow gooners.Hope u r copin well with this distratrous start to our season?Some have termed it a glitch in the matrix,Debosky n Nateev were even all about semantics and choice of word to describe this precipice,but no matter what it is,there is no phrase that aptly catch this tumultous time as the following "he who failed to plan,planned to fail!

Like other team in the whole world,we were opportuned to gird our loins during the pre-season,not by buying the experienced players hoopla rife in the media,but firstly by securing and keeping the core of last season's team.Flamini,Hleb and to a reasonable extent Gliberto,shouldnt have left.After this should we have added one or two to complement these near-hero of last season.

Wenger had never got it all wrong in one swoop,in one season!

But even at that,is this present team the worst Wenger has ever had?NO.

There had been games this season in which  you could see the potential and flair of the team.Against the toons,Blackburn,Bolton and esp Manchester United,this same team seem to have reached the pinnacle and struck the right note together.Which brings me to the question,what is WRONG then?

Is it psychological?Is it physical(exhaustion @ the start of the season?)?,Is it spiritual(this is laughable init?),Is the absence of a match-winner,is it shortage of personnels?Is it that the panacea to our champagne football has finally been found?Is it senility and senescence creeping in managerially?

Questions and more questions play in my mind now that i hope and wish someone could provide the appropriate answer to me.

Now to where we are!Our darling team is now the whipping team amongst the BIG4.Every team could just stroll in and hand us defeat without fear and with such ease of calculating 1+1.Yesterday finally confirmed to me that we do not have any SOUL in that team.Now dnt tell me the presence of Billie the goon would have changed anything has opined here by some scummies.Someone even posted that a team that has Gallas wouldnt conceed 3 goals in a match.What a deluded soul?Was Gallas not on the field the day our lily-livered neighbors scored 4 goals?Oops,am digressing, This team lacks mental and physical strength to fight back and last the whole season.They are not just up to and for it.The failings and failure of the past seem to have caught up with them.No stride,no guile,no more champagne football.It is disheartening,shattering and emotional exhausting.


There is no where else to fall when you reach the bottom,and that is where we are right now,albeit psychologically.

OH LORD,let this cup passeth us over!


Still loving my lads,still will visit the emirate,still a gooner!

Still gunners 4 life,

Goldman08:
Arsenal queen lol



@Mustay
You are right about what you just said,to be honest with UGallas has not been role leader in the Arsenal teams,ever since the game we played against Birmingham,i have dislike that guy, He is a f***ing bastard and he should be sold to the spanish or Italian liga or better off stay at home watching his television set.

Yeah i am serious about the Mukinazaaa queenship!

As per Gallas,whilst growin up,my mom never ceased to tell me that too much of everything is not good.I think Gallas has just got too much of passion,albeit unbridled,for what he does which is the game of football.If hes done this as one out of many players we have,it may not have been this sensational,but as the leader of the team and eldest amongst many young players,its simply a career harakiri.

He can't redeem himself IMO

Just imagine a Bush passing the buck around for the failure of his admnistration,it's distratrous.

I am impressed really!

Its no longer a man's world as you have just gone a notch higher than the stereotype

Big Ups!

Goldman08:
William Gallas is likely to have played his last game for Arsenal after he was stripped of the club captaincy and dropped from the squad to play Manchester City today for criticising his team-mates in an interview while on international duty with France this week. The 31-year-old defender was also fined £180,000, two weeks' wages, by Arsène Wenger when he reported for what he thought would be clear-the-air talks with his manager.

               I think William Gallas deserves to be stripped of the captaincy and even sacked,because it's unfair for him to expose the problem the dressing room are facing, The guy needs to be flogged twenty lashes before sacking him.
    Check this out: http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/sport/football/article1959256.ece#OTC-RSS&ATTR=Football

@Mukina2
Who gave you the idea that William Gallas has been inducted in the squad to face Man City,you won make i flog you twenty lashes as i won flog Gallas too.My Guy take your time ooo!!

shes not a guy but a lady.Arsenal's queen to be precise!

Guess this a season for ressurection!

Darefestus where have u been?

Welcome back man!

dayokanu:
Ronaldo is a Big game Flop. cest fini How can the "best player in the world be outclassed in Games against Brazil, Germany, Italy and France?
No one needs a superstar to play Hull City, Kazakhstan and Fulham The Chris Eagles and Fletcher of this world can handle that. Teams need Big players for Big games like against AC Milan, barca, Germany, Italy and co

In the game against Brazil he wanted to intentionally break the Brazilian defenders leg and Held Marcelo by the throat

Cristiano Ronaldive is a disgrace. The most overrated diving, sulking, disloyal, kicking, prostitute using, strangeling disgrace ever to play the game. Messi is a superster. Ronaldive is scum.

This is the funniest piece and drivel have read in a while.I have a simple question though,if you win your so called "classics" of a match and fail to win against the so called small teams,guess you will still a champion init?

@rasputin n crackles

lol.I think Dcikhead's sarcasm is just lost on both of u.Now hes succeeded in pullin ur legs!or so it seems.

I think the implosion i envisaged with Gallas unruly behaviour and cacophonous rant has just begun.The condiments for it are all prepared by no other than Arsene himself but that is over-flogging a dead horse.

This perceived implosion could prolly culminate in an explosion i.e departure of what's left of this carcass called Arsenal or could just jolt the remaining players back to their senses and make them add that extra needed to see the season through.

Whoever is made captain now has a lot to do,and i hope Wenger will read the mood of the other players before choosing the new leader.Yeah a leader,and not a person filled with conceit and peremptory indiscretion.

I wish the lads all the best and i am sure somewhere in all these they can salvage something,as any thing contrary to this could just precipitate an unmitigated confidence-demise  for some of the young players.

Does all this controversy signify an obsequies for my darling team this season?the answer to that will start unfolding frm today's match!

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y'all need to borrow gut

, Fake fabrics,u lose color after one wash!

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[quote author=A-40 link=topic=196574.msg3115727#msg3115727 date=1227231220]When you don't fortify your squad so you would have some peace of mind what do you expect?i always said it that Arsene is the architect of his misfortune when you sell three DMF's and refuse to bring in a single replacement this is what your ass would get i think Arsenal fans have been really patient we do need to start winning trophies quickly or Arsene's policy would have been an exercise in futility.Its too late to cry now though lets back this team and support them till the wheels fall off[/quote]The condiments for perdition are all ready! An uncouthed skipper,indiscplined follower,injury to major player,off-form of the heart beat of the team et al.When Cesc was sayin it never rained,it poured yesterday,it never really sank in until Bullie Billie let slip of the restiveness in the dressing room.It will be eskimoic in hell if we survive this.