Go with the flow, i mean start with how was your day, u will be amazed u end up talking about politics or something like that.

i love men with their ear pierced, but to honest the don´t fit every one

i think my whole skin but specially my legs

@ ima1, My friend , if the guy can´t focus on you alone, that means he is not committed. Don´t get me wrong, we all look at other people but all the same , do u look at other guys whenyou are with your man ? if not, well u don´have to put up with that.

my friend i am sorry to say that it looks like an STD to me, even if u haven´t penetrated a woman u can get it if u have been playing with ur penis in a woman vagina, i think u better see a doctor asap because ur condition can get worst

I doubt it

obviously a man that cheats and a man that expects a woman to be his servant, also if the way is a cheapo that a turn off (don´t get me wrong he doesnt have to pay for everything but he can´t be expecting his girl to alway pay)

Why are girls so eager for money? If you have a girl and you are rich, once your situation changes she goes after other guys. Isn't this so?

Well i have always asked myself that but i guess it depends on which side of the world u are, i think in naija women have more concern about money but for this yankee we don´t.

I let go cause he got married

what can u do when yur BF likes touching u in public,

hey yall gast 2 help me out with this ish.my boyfriend iz like practiclly evrything u want in a guy wivout the things u dnt want, but hey 1 problem it seems like its when we go out 2 some public place or sumfin iz when he knows he wants 2 strt feeling all cuddly nd stuff, hav toldhim before that i dnt like it but i dnt know if he can help it or stuff but mehn it gets soo irritating when he starts.had a big fyt with him ova this before but he still doesnt get ma drift, hey guys and babes out there yall gotta help me out here.because d friends i have r blinded bout his charm nd evrything nd r like woww yu shuld be lucky that hez all ova u nd stuff, but they dnt get it, i dnt like it when ma booo touches me in public, he enjoyz it,

Well dump him, I mean u say he has everything u want except one thing, that one thing is the most important thing , abi? If u don´t like to be touched in public, and he doesn´t seem to get that, then I can´t see him repcting anything else. Is ur body girl, caring doesn´t mean u have to share.

Hey what ya'll gotta say bout this? Girls tend to fall over for rough guys who "won't" treat them like ladies. it might be hard to believe but the right combo of "rudeness" and "cockiness" would keep a girl asking for more! im not saying a guy should generally start behaving crazy but gifts,flowers,2 much affection and your girl would run away! am i right girls?

hahaha, that´s the funniest thing I have ever heard, the girls that run after such guys, are either ugly in the inside or really have self steam problems. When a girl knows she can get the best, why should she be running after a looser?

I am K and i am last

well he must be smart, he most like sports, and love working out. But above all, he has to be a REAL Christian.

I feel u ooh, that´s true. Is better to honest than to keep fooling yourself.

well first get a self esteem then look for a woman, being if a woman is ugly to u that doesn´t mean she is ugly to the rest of the guys.

mmm, perfect man, taller than me. God fearing, and not a player. If he is cute that is a plus . But if i can be head over hills for him that means that´s the man for me.

@Nameless,  Baby girl, your post moved me, in the sense that I can´t judge but, all the same if u ask, this is wrong. First of all, I don´t know why he is calling himself a Pastor. I think he is taking advantage because u are knew in Christ and u don´t know much about how God works, but besides God, girl u need to see things the way they are ok?The man is married, and unfurtunatly that means he won´t leave his wife no matter what, that´s why he is not having sex with u, because he thinks this is a small sin, something that he can repent. But let me tell u something, don´t let this man confuse u, everything that comes from God gives u peace and joy and u can do it in public, but the things that make u doubt or be ashame, babe, that doesn´t come from God. I strongly suggest that u start reading the Bible so u will know what God is really about, also u should tell some one about this issue, nad I mean ur parents, or any other adult. Things can get pretty bad here, we are not talking about something that will just go away on its own. Who knows how many girls he is doing that to.
Please open ur eyes and see. How can u be comfortable at a Church knowing that the pastor is doing evil things?
If u ask God to forgive u for this , he will, cause nothing can separate u from the love of God, so if that man tries to brain wash u, girl don´t listen to him.
Get a roomate or something but don´t be alone, I think u are vulnerable at this point, and u need support.
I´ve never offered anyone in nairaland this, but if u nee to talk to someone, I am ready to listen, ok?
my e-mail is kembricha@yahoo.com. Feel free, ok?
Take good care of urself. And be smart.

what is that thing a guy would have to do for a lad to convince her that he really cares about her and wants her for real.  i want to know because it kills when girls say all guys are the same.

well first of all, he shouldn't talk that much, as in trying to hard to let me know that he cares, i don´t  want him calling ma house everyday. and, the most important thing he shouldn't tell me he loves me when he just met me.  

what kind of women are u asking out hon

So much has been said and done against playboys. But it is time to do them some justice. Despite all the dissings meted out to them, there is something playboys possess which other men do not have, and that is that they make the best husbands and lovers. They are patient with women, romantic, are caring, and can always be there for their women. And most of all, they respect their partners. For the wife, it is love at all times, while they merely give the physical stuff to the other women. In fact, at the end of the day, the average playboy comes out to be a better man.

U right, the only thing is that they are never committed to a woman, and that is a very comfortable position.

oya girl, that´s where i learned ma own http://www.ngex.com/personalities/babawilly/dictionary/pidgina.htm

Girl, Abeg for the sake of whatever you appreciate the most, come back to sense and let the guy go, I am telling u oo. I've gone through that. But really, what works for me is all the energy I will spend crying on ma pillow, I rather use to do better things like taking care of maself , u don't need a man to be happy.

hell no, why should I? , sleeping with him won't make me any sexier, smarter, or important

well this is according to my experience
Love is like a kiss
smoother than a rose
and better than gold.
love is like a deep breath
it gives you life any time you inhale
and it kills you when somebody takes it away
Although you took my heart,
the feelings deep inside,
that love still remain,
that love was never yours
it always belonged to God.
Boy, please don´t get me wrong
I was in love with you,
but who can ever keep
something that wasn´t meant to be?
I´ll keep you in my prayers,
although i´m not in yours
i´ll keep you in my thoughts
even tough she is now in yours.
I beg just look at me
and please make u understand
you tried to break my heart
by doing shakara.
Before i walk away
lastly i want to say,
if a dey see you again
be expecting just a smile
the love that makes me stand
the one you´ll never understand
the love that comes from God
that love a call my own
that one was never yours
Now please
leave me alone,
I´m ready to move on

@dennylove, babe is call Latin America. to be specific Mexico, we don get black guys in here, so mexicans de chase naija men , hahahaha. Honestly I pity them

i think the problem is not the fact that u kissed, is what comes after it, and I don´t mean sex, I mean the feelings that come after the kiss.

I am 22 and ma height is 5´9