₦airaland Forum

BTT:
Your wife was right.

When we all get married, don't they tell us that our inlaws are our new parents?

What's your wife's last name today? What is the last name of all of you so called siblings.

Forget all these (Nairaland) people urging you to demean your wife's position. It is your family. Too, as the eldest, you are creating a precedence, which is totally wrong. You should let your siblings, and extended family at large, know that you and your wife are inseparable.

Last July I buried my mum, when it was time for the family picture, all of us and our spouses came in, except our youngest brother's fiance, who I politely told off. (Thank God I did, because today they have broken up).

Does nothing African about it. It is the right thing to do and your wife was right about that. How she expresses her dissatisfaction is totally up to her.

And I think you should start listening to your wife - she'll save you from pressing the self-destruct button.

on point

Ruleboi:
Seriously it was never caused any serious quarrel between us. To be factual, I just felt let down she felt offended afterwards. I mean, that was not the first picture we took on the day. We had taken several others with her in it. I felt if she had just taken it as what it is as soon as she was told,then she wouldn't have felt bad about it at all. Your stance and hers just made me realise some people could attach unrelated meanings to things, thereby making the the simplest things seem complex.

man, stop arguing, what "everhopeful" told u is d answer u seek. Read it 5more times and learn from it. Otherwise u r d type that claim right in everything and it may end up affecting ur young home in d long run.

everhopeful:
@op: Your wife seems to me like good woman. I believe that during your traditional wedding, your wife was told that your mother is now her mother and your family is now her family, and it seems your wife wholeheartedly took those words literally, believed this and acted accordingly since you said she has a good relationship with your mother.

Your action just told her the reality and don't be surprised when she actually starts treating your family as different from hers because that was the message you guys clearly passed across: that your mother is not her mother and can never be.

Your home is yet young, so please do not destroy it with carelessness. Your primary interrst shouldn't be about rights or wrong but about the fact that your wife felt hurt by the exclusion, which may have been reduced if she wasn't the only spouse in law as this may otherwiise have reduced the impact of the exclusion.

If really your priority is in making your home work and not on people taking sides, I would advise that you apologise to your wife and let her know you consider her a part of your family. Tell her you naively thought it was just a picture and didn't think she would be hurt.

May God bless and keep your home.

wise words!

honmusa:
My concern about made in Nigeria vehicle is safety and emission standard. Cars is just more than just taking from place to place ,it is the responsibility of the manufacturer to ensure your maximum safety and also to ensure that the environment safety is not compromised as the car is providing its basic function .
Nigeria does not have a strict vehicle standard emission and safety law yet unlike other countries of the world so I won't be surprised if all the basic emission components are missing and so also standard safety modules like abs ,SRS,etc cos a businessman will definitely want to maximise his profit.
I think government need to come in to ensure basic standards are not compromised before all these are rolled out for consumers.

mr know it all



U prolly wiser than federal govt, banks and govt officials that have been using it.
Now that its made in nigeria, u now feel dat d emission standard is not followed, stop assuming, provide evidence that those standards are not obeyed.

Jamesmatic:
Ur fada!

ur dad!

originalmachine:
same way millions of dollars were found under the beds of some Nigerian judges....magu may not be a saint, but I don't take DSS report serious

But neither premium times nor sahara distorters has denied that his rent is 40m na.


If I may ask, are u for or against d judges.

rokiatu:
These celebs only respond to their mean fans and not the kind loving ones that actually like them. No wonder you have some fans trolling just to get attention.

exactly!

Na wa o
Apc, living in a 40m rented house

Who is deceiving who

Jamesmatic:
Bench warmer...

u wan start ur tribalistic hate on this young player abi?





Tell me how many of ur entire village go fit make even QPR bench

opethom:
biafra we know your type

na nigerian b4? Born in watford. Dats hw some of u will say dele ali is nigerian when he chose england over us.


They are nigerians by origin but not by birth and they went ahead to represent d contries they love when we needed them most.

Candycrusher:
When they realized religion is a scam, they censored the word god cos they don't seem to understand why it folds its arms and watch innocents people who went to serve it in church die when it could have protected them.



Meanwhile, owner of MMM be balling like,

Jehovah is ur refuge And u still insult Him.



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Nobody pays to d owner of mmm. He can make money thru d traffic on his site, not that much

ajokebelle:
I even thought she was older than 55

exactly.

obailala:
OBJ

OBJ single-handedly killed and buried Atiku's relevance and credibility.

who is more relevant between the two?


U cant kill some1 more relevant than u. Obj is a falling or may b fallen hero looking for something o hold onto.

Icecomrade:

Give south East Biafra republic and they turn it Technology hub for Africa.


They don't need Crude oil to survive.

just keep quiet abeg.



U guys and afonja people keep taking every issue tribal

Lol

Hardwork pays

Nutase:
thank you sir/ma

u were right

Tolexander:
not everything is recession!

The problem about this recession of a thing is just that, not everybody singing the "recession" song understands what the meaning is all about!

bro d girl u quoted is right, recession is d main reason.
Though some stole. Coming from sm1 dat knows whats happening there

morbeta:
Bro by western I mean western world and not sw

sorry, my bad

morbeta:
Difference btw western soldier and local. One will try hard to save the situation, the other will take sefie and post on Nairaland

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eleko1:
Those Fheads pipu nor go kill us with their fake products.

this prof nebo man dey talk rubbish





Why is it dat wen dey mention ibos na afonja people go carry am for head. Na only una be Nigeria? Amebo, loud mouth, empty vessel wen dey make loud noise

texazzpete:
And you believe him?

what do u mean by that?




Are u trying to say dat traders cannot build those houses or that the owners are not traders?

U probably havent been to onitsha if not u would have seen the kind of turn over those guys make.

I also understand that u feel it's drug money or whatever u think, but i can assure u that not everybody in onitsha does drug or anything illegal. Most of d traders are people of integrity but the bad ones spoil their name.


Note
Business is lucrative, no mater how small a biznes is, once there is high turn over u will b literally amazed by what u will b making in a month.

Nutase:
Op most of your threads celebrate wealth without talking of how this wealth was made --Legitimate or illegitimate.
It's good to celebrate successes but please try to do a little check on the source of the wealth.

but he said they are traders that mainly started as apprentice

Kingbuhari:
only greedy people that like short cut fall for this kind of scam... I have met this ppl many uncountable time , rather they turn around to be my victim, the last one I met said I should go and bring 1m so they can bought the chemical needed to print the dollars, I collected the TP they give me go play baba ijebu, luckily I won that day , they waited for me tired because I told them my uncle kept 10m under my care... always be conscious of urself u will never fall for such

your bad english alone dey greedy. Not only d ones pointed out though

HtwoOw:
This your Uncle's story has kleg

But if it's true, sorry for your loss , never follow anyone anywhere

thomas!



Happy sunday

kilo4sure:
Injury was a problem for her at Liverpool and at Arsenal she has made some good assists even without goals.

ok




I hope our girls can do well outside africa

Hernandez2:
Which club does she play for
U knw nthn abt football so sharrap
Her country is Nigeria no doubt but she plays for Liverpool fc club

she scored 3goals in 9games at liverpool, they then sold her to arsenal where she now has 2goals in 11.

Mojoy88:
Where were you 16 years ago when Lagos was in a big mess? Owing civil servants for months. Where were you when Federal allocation to Lagos ceased?
Lagos is a model other states are ashamed to imitate. Osun is another messy state that almost got economically liberated before nemesis of previous poor governance caught up with them.
Talk about the South-South states, their leaders are skilled in looting common wealth.
So, stop the excuse of Lagos being tge state with the highest IGR as an excuse for your state not doing well because your IGR is not like that of Lagos.
The major difference is that Lagos has a dream while most other states don't.
But watchout for Anambra and Ogun state.

I agree with some of ur points, but lagos is a majorly fortunate state compared to others and thats chiefly due to its location in the con3. It is d inlet and outlet of the con3 due to the sea.
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Most companies in the niger delta prefer to invest and locate their head offices in lagos because it is easier for them to pack up n leave incase of emergency like recession.
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That been said,
Lagos is also very fortunate to have good leaders even though they also steal as exposed by ambode.

sweetgala:
Aregbe is doing a novel job in osun,however he is punching above his weight he has initiated projects that osun can not support financially.

If Aregbe was getting the 13% derivation like delta it would be competing with ogun state for industry .

I've made an effort to address the lack of good governance in delta especially and the fact all the citizenry are content with it

ok bro.
Tnx for ur time

Chanchit:
I remember when i just finished secondary school, I really wanted to work. I got a job at one hair attachnent factory，I was happy when I was posted to a section where the cut papers, those cardboards that has the female models, they told me my job discriptions, part of it was to carry cardboard, easy abi? mehn, before i could carry the whole cardboard to the machine, like three bar don miss from my life span. It was then I looked around, the guys on the job are hefty guys, the machine started looking as if it eould cut my hand. Na so I just step out as if I want to ease my self, I washed my face and the next place I found my self was home, yh, I just resigned under 30mins, I know Im lazy, thank you.

u are not lazy.


U are smart

sweetgala:
Abeg leave this nonsense , do you people ever say the truth

Delta has been looted dry by all its previous governors , rivers and bayelsa are same when are it's citizens going to ask more of it's leaders rather than shout federalism at FG

I dont talk with lousy people.




I only stated facts dat lagos earns well. Even if ambode steals 2times what delta gov steals, he would still perform very well.


Am not saying other States are not stealing but lagos is fortunate to have much more than other states.
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Let ambode go and rule osun state then u will understand. Even Aregbesola would perform well with lagos. Hope u remember his history in lag b4 he went to osun