₦airaland Forum

X0012:
I'm thinking bout wat she might put me through wen she finally get pregnant. Nah to stock house with enough fruits and food be that. I can't be going out at 1 or 2am in the morning cus that

Funny thing; she won’t want any of those things you have at home. You would have to go fetch what she wants in the dead of the night, and you may have to even cross the evil forest on your way to getting it

jeromedee:
Lamentation of a Nyanmiri in Abia.

Good thing corona does not know tribe or religion. Continue laughing till you start burying the old people in your family.

vincentjk:
Oga corona wetin dy occur nao?? I get one banny wen I wan reason this month sef choi

As dem say make we no shake or hug so how I go fit enter her London na??

People dey tink of productive things, na woman punnani dey do you. Get away with you meaningless nonsense!!

Lematin:
Sooner or Later
I pray you know the truth

What a useless and nincompoop creature

I do know the truth you useless disgrace to your ancestry and lineage; your ancestors would spit on you for disgracing them for bowing down to the gods of the white man!

You are a useless fool, nincompoop and a bastard vagabond!!!

God punish you and your lineage there; your entire family from the first man ever in your family to the youngest baby. God punish and destroy all your destinies!!

Bastard foool!!!!

Lematin:
What do you gain now after spitting out this rubbish??

Peace of mind for speaking the truth to you brain washed idiots.

sule1996:
shut up, its about our religion. Why not go and mind ur own business? Mxtchew

There is no sadder sight than an African who has been brainwashed by either Christianity or Islam.

02Kebreal:
Same madness we see every Sunday and no Muslim seems to be complaining.
Who says Islam is not peaceful should take reactions on Nairaland as case study.
Who is always attacking who?

I think Shekau would disagree

PeacenLove2:
This isn't necessary, brother. There is nothing wrong with what was posted here. I have reservations with some of their posts but this is completely harmless and informative for Muslims and whoever wishes to tap. You owe the OP an apology. Live and Let Live, brother.

Yah, you and the OP should continue waiting for my apology till you see your grand children.

Brain washed Africans!

SultanOfAbia:
Banky's Parents Waiting For GrandKids Like..

If Banky and Adesuwa have chosen not to have kids yet, their parents have no other choice but to respect it. They didn’t get married just to provide grand kids for their parents.

Try and have some sense this 2020!

DonFreshmoney:
The teachers be serving the students poison while they loot the raw food to their homes...

You did well Governor... Man inhumanity to man

The problem of Nigeria is not the government but solely the people from whom the members of government are chosen. Same teachers doing this would have the nerve to call the government of the day “corrupt”. What a rotten, corrupt and greedy set of citizens called Nigerians!

Satan66:

If this doesn't clear all doubts that the US is behind this virus then nothing will change your mind.
The US created the virus and sent it to China whom is one of their biggest competition for world domination, now to Iran.

Did they send it to Germany, Italy, Korea, Japan, , the U.K, Vietnam, the Philippines, Belgium, France, Finland, as well as other of their allied friends who have so far recorded cases of the virus??

Make una try dey use sense dey talk after proper research.

Eagleboney:
Civilized dog!
Not all the mumu dogs that full Nigeria

I think the kind of dogs littered across Nigeria speaks volumes about their owners and other persons living in the country

Romanoff:
All those things doesn't take away the rejection now.

He sthould have stated his mission before buying those things na so if she's not in line with his plan, she'd not take the gifts.

Yes as if you were there when they started dating

He should have written it on paper with black or blue pen and she would sign and he would sign too, in the presence of two witnesses.

State mission kee you dia!! As if she is a child. If you don’t have the intention of committing to a guy, then don’t accept his gifts and always object when he wants to spend on you.

All these thieves and hoes!!

Drsayhhidd:
There is something about Catholic that I admire

Are you referring to how they covered up pedophilia and child molestation by their priests and bishops for decades even up to the time of Pope John Paul II??

Continue admiring as if on judgement day God wld ask you if you were catholic, protestant, methodist, anglican, muslim or pagan?

masterflowx:
As we all know, joining the useless party is an automatic ticket to become a saint.


Moreover, there is probability that he won't reason as human being anymore.

So, Mr the rock... choice is yours!

Hope you know there is no difference between APC and PDP; just diff symbols and colours?

joey150:
This "tradition" should be restricted to his palace.

I don't see why anybody should kneel or prostrate to this man outside of his palace. When he flies abroad does anybody kneel or bow to him?

If I didn't know any better I would think they were his slaves. I figure Africans have been enslaving each other long before the white man came.

Its a hotel and it is business, they need his continuous patronage hence the show they put up before the cameras. If you know, you know!

Futuragetty:
We're our own problem. A state government intend to invest in film making and a reasonable person feels it's bad investment.

Be happy for her, so another would be happy for you if you ever get appointed.

You mean a state government intends to steal money by claiming they are investing in film making.

Lets get the facts right.

Nigerians never ready for development; all this na wetin oyibo dey call “window dressing”

Callywood?? Abeg abeg make una no kill me with laugh...

So every state now go get their own “wood”?
Imagine Borno state - Bokowood!

What a joke of a country!

iCauseTrouble:
If it was to be in Nigeria, crusade would have been going on in the place by now

What do you expect from mentally lazy people who attribute every thing to the spiritual.

I have said it times without number, there is the need for proper regulation and sensitization of the public on such deadly or highly inflammable items especially those used at home. But instead of us Nigerians focusing on these issues we are busy with irrelevant issues such as tonto dikeh, bobrisky, tacha, mercy and politicians fighting at the supreme court for personal gains.

Same thing with road accidents; people die, its the will of God; if you manage to survive, its by God’s grace. I wonder how oyibo people who don’t believe in God manage to make their societies and roads safe, sane and secure?

Its not rocket science my people and neither is it divine grace.

eni4real:
Face this case .. Don't be theoretical about it!!!!
Don't bring other scenarios into this!!!

We keep breeding Murderers as wives other the guise of women fury!!!

Let's tackle different cases as independent...
The woman here can file a divorce....

She can do whatever she want but hot water??

What if the man married another wife??

What if the man impregnate another woman

What if the man infect her??

What would she do??

Hire Boko Haram??

That woman is an extremely wicked woman...

And the man is not wicked?? He is a kind and loving man while destroying his home with his cheating escapades.

My final take, her violent actions are not justified and shld be condemned; but that doesn’t exonerate the man from blame cos he also put his wife and his children at the risk of death via STI with his uncontrolled lust for other women.

I rest my case.

victorian:
Very evil and terribly advice to women who's husband cheats.

Why can't she simply walk away from her marriage and end it with divorce?

If I were the husband? As soon as I get well, the marriage is over. Cause my life is at risk if I stay one minute in that house.

I'm gone! It's over!
What rubbish! That's just too far.

And your philandering outside with the possibility of infecting your wife with HIV/AIDS is not “too far” enough right?

Two wrongs don’t make a right but this woman may have just saved herself from untimely death if she has not been infected by her husband already.

eni4real:
Every woman that support this evil don't deserve happiness in life!!!

This is complete wickedness!!
No.wonder some men treat their wives as a non-family member!!!

Can she do this to any of her Family members??

Love is scam!!!!

Gift ooo. What he did is wrong but killing him like this is evil.... She has killed this man already.. May we not buy something that will kill us(Amen) !!

Never date or marry any hot-tempered spouse..

It never end well!!!

I have seen men who due to their philandering outside have infected their wives with HIV/AIDs; women who may have never cheated on them in all 10, 15, 20+ year of marriage. Both die within a few months apart.

This woman may have just saved herself from untimely death.

Albinoworwor:
A scorned woman now she's lost her family
Anything money can buy doesn't freak me...All I have to do is work harder and get it for myself

She may have already lost her home a long time ago due to her husband’s escapades outside. This event just fast forwarded the inevitable.

No surprises here. What do you expect from a country filled with incompetent, greedy and corrupt citizens. A country whose embassies still have Goodluck Jonathan on their website as the current president of Nigeria, five years after he has left office.

Think I am telling lies? Go to the website of the Nigerian embassy in Washington D.C, they still have Rochas Okorocha as the governor of Imo state and Rauf Aregbesola as Osun state governor.

And you are talking about results of elections conducted 20 years ago.

Absolutely no surprises here.

Mikelarteta:
Of what value is it in 2020? Those days are behind us now jare.

With fellows like this, how can a country like Nigeria move forward. Now just imagine there being thousands of him littered across the country.

Etizz:
Lol......egusi soup and she was crying.....what if she eats Yoruba stew?



She go die be DAT oh...

Yoruba stew?? Na straight to emergency unit of the nearest hospital for quick surgery.

Mikelarteta:
Am sure they would have seen the difference between Egusi FC and McDonalds FC KFC.

Fixed

papaejima20199:
This is my first time posting NL , although I've been reading a lot in the last few months . I'll try to be as detailed as possible. I don't even know if I'm asking a question, or advice, or what. I just have to get some things out of my brain.

I’m 36 and my wife is 32. we've been married for 12 years and have two children, twins age 1. I would say happily married. As in, we don't fight, , never any abuse of any kind, no major life disagreements. I love my wife. She is a great mother, a great provider for the family, and we make a great team when it comes to raising our kids. However, she leaves me feeling undesired. Sexually, just intimacy in general, not feeling wanted or desired, missing that flirtatious quality that we all enjoy in a relationship. Our sex life has been on a steady decline, honestly since we got married. Less and less and less every year, and yes, kids make that even more difficult (and provide very easy excuses)

About 2 years ago, I was close to cheating. There was a girl at work that I flirted with often. We started hanging out , and we always seemed to end up talking, touching innocently, flirting, but nothing ever happened between us. The feeling this girl gave me inspired me to tell my wife how I was feeling, what I was missing, etc. I told her how important sex was to me, asked her what I could change, or if she needed to change something. Her response was that she "just didn't really think about it like you do" and that she would try to work on it. Well she didn't work on it, at all.

The flirty girl didn't work with me any more, and I lost that "flame" with her and let it go, and went about life as usual. I've been working a lot of hours over the last six months. I fell into this flirty relationship with one of my coworkers 22 and we just would have a lot of fun with one another. Mad sexual tension. A few months back things happen and she blows me. Its great. Best sex of my life. We set up plans to meet up off work hours and we do.

My coworker is in perfect shape. Its like my perfect woman. I love the way she loves me. She appreciates me, she satisfies me, she matches my sexual drive, and even exceeds it. She is everything I was missing in life, and I'm as happy as I've been in a long time. She is also crazy about me which feels unbelievable. Its been a while since someone has just wanted me to be happy and wanted to please me. I now consider her my girlfriend.

I don't wish to hurt my wife. But I do wish to be happy.

I do not wish for my children to grow up in a home with divorce. I want them to grow up with myself and my wife still being the team we've been so far, doing equal parts to take care of them, and always be there for them.

I realize a lot of what I'm saying are things that can't go together. I want to be with my girlfriend, I don't want to hurt my wife, and I don't want my kids to suffer . I can't have it all. Now I feel stuck

I need help because I can't seem to go through with this alone, and I have no one close enough with the time and level of trust that I can confide in, so I would really appreciate it if you'd offer me some advice.

Thanks for reading

Oga, you never said what else you have done to spice things up between you and your wife aside just talking to her. You need to put in more effort into your marriage and relationship with your wife; take her out, buy her stuff, especially randomly and unexpectedly, play with her, remember how things were before you married her and at the beginning of you marriage, try and go back to that stage and even do more. Then just watch how she would give you things (sexually) and do things to you without even asking.

As for your desire to be with your girlfriend because she gives you happiness sexually, hope you know its only a phase, one that would definitely pass away. What would you do when you get tired of this your girlfriend and having already divorced your wife?

Why divorce a good wife because of sex Something that can be worked upon, revived, improved and made better.

Oga better hold on to your wife and work on your marriage rather than looking for an easy way out

BetterMan247:
bcus dem be white no derogatory names attached but if say dem be African ......
sky go fall

We Africans too hate ourself. I jus tire

Citytrend:
I will even advice Nigerians to take this protest to the streets

You are calling on Nigerians to protest?! Spineless Nigerians na im you dey call to protest? Continue wasting your time