Business › Re: BUA Moves To Crash Cement Price To N3,500 After Meeting Tinubu by Kenosky1: 10:16am On Sep 16, 2023 |
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Family › Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kenosky1: 4:46pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Good evening fellow NL members, My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.
I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating. Her qualities are She can cook She can keep the house clean She can manage resources And she is accommodating to my people In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.
My qualities are I work and earn like about 700k net a month. I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of. I don't drink or smoke I don't keep late night and I am the best friend to her and my kids. Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her. I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her. I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.
My decision between now and December is 1 Avoid asking her for lobe making 2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything 3 when she comes close I avoid her. 4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back
Is there anything more I can do for her? Advice me pls... I don't think you are making the right decision by taking an advice from your father. Who says that gray hair is synonymous with wisdom. A woman who has such a wonderful qualities is definitely not a candidate for divorce. Have a chat with her if possible invite a member of her family that you are close to and have this issue sorted out. You will be shocked to hear that you are not the perfect man that you are making us to believe, |
Autos › Re: SOLD:2008 Foreign Used Mazda 3 For N3.650m by Kenosky1: 9:29pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Tobilo001: You go just dey run your mouth anyhow..have you seen the car in person??...you just come here and leave bitter comment...how about I judge you by saying your life is not in good shape without seeing you No vex bros, just trying to advise and get the car sold. |
Car Talk › Re: Reprogramming After Gear Oil Change V6 by Kenosky1(op): 8:46pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Dozieson: well don't know of other vehicle but for the 2GR engine-U660 gear box, no reset is needed Thank, I have watched several videos on youtube and can't see any reprogramming after oil change. |
Car Talk › Re: Reprogramming After Gear Oil Change V6 by Kenosky1(op): 8:45pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
amstamon: What's your point, like it's advisable to change your oil or not. Cos I don't understand what your point is Do I need to reprogram the vehicle after the oil change? |
Autos › Re: ASK GAZZUZZ by Kenosky1: 4:45pm On Sep 07, 2023 |
I have used my 2009 Toyota Camry V6 engine for 3 years now though the mileage added is about 25,000 miles. Planned to change the gearbox oil but an expert in gearbox repairs and maintenance said that the car will be reprogrammed after changing the oil else the car will develop some fault. I have not heard of such and therefore seeking for advise from my people. Thanks |
Car Talk › Reprogramming After Gear Oil Change V6 by Kenosky1(op): 4:42pm On Sep 07, 2023 |
I have used my 2009 Toyota Camry V6 engine for 3 years now though the mileage added is about 25,000 miles. Planned to change the gearbox oil but an expert in gearbox repairs and maintenance said that the car will be reprogrammed after changing the oil else the car will develop some fault. I have not heard of such and therefore seeking for advise from my people. Thanks |
Autos › Re: SOLD:2008 Foreign Used Mazda 3 For N3.650m by Kenosky1: 7:11pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Leave it at N3m if you want to sell it fast. The car is not in a good shape. |
Autos › Re: Toyota Camry 2000 Tokunbo. by Kenosky1: 9:47am On Aug 31, 2023 |
This ride is clean and the price is moderate. |
Politics › Re: Minister Of Youth: Why Not Professor Imumolen, That Youngest Presidential Candid by Kenosky1: 10:32am On Aug 30, 2023 |
 Nooo, being a presidential candidate of a party that is not well known is not enough to qualify him as the best Youth minister. We would have loved an activist who was involved in the END SARS struggle to occupy such a critical position. The Prof may have spent all his resources in academic pursuit without understanding the age long belief that YOUTH ARE LEADERS OF TOMORROW. |
Car Talk › Re: Could This Be The Reason For High Fuel Consumption? by Kenosky1: 3:20pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
christoranky: I bought 20k fuel just from mile2 to Ikorodu and back to mile2 again.... Before I know it, my tank Don empty. A major reason for high fuel consumption, the oxygen sensor will give the ECU wrong information. More air will be admitted to the engine and invariably more fuel to get the correct air/fuel ratio. |
Car Talk › Re: Could This Be The Reason For High Fuel Consumption? by Kenosky1: 3:18pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
okay |
Car Talk › Re: C-class Mercedes Wagon by Kenosky1: 3:15pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Amadosibina: Good day friends What’s the fuel economy of Mercedes wagon c-class (with compressor) like?
A retired is thinking of buying one Kindly advice Thank you A retired person should be thinking of a Corolla or Honda Civic, the fuel consumption is quite high for a C-Class... 14 MPG. Cost of maintenance is also high unless he is resides at Benin with good mechanic. |
Autos › Re: SOLD! Clean 2011 Toyota Camry Black @PH by Kenosky1: 11:35am On Aug 24, 2023 |
Kingsoul1: Clean 2011 Toyota Camry
Just arrived (New Duty)
Foriegn used
4 cylinder Engine
97k Mileage
Factory AC
Leather seats
Alloy wheels
Contact/WhatsApp:08060436432
Location:Abia state.
Nationwide delivery service Please what is the price? |
Autos › Re: Tokunbo 2005 Toyota Corolla For 4.3m Still Negotiable by Kenosky1: 5:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
fait10: I have 3.8m That's a good price, this is 2005 sef |
Health › Re: I Went To See A Doctor Today Because Of My Illness And This Happened by Kenosky1: 1:05pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dafresh: Yesterday I want to general hospital to see a doctor, he recommended that I should run for test, because it was general hospital so I decided to go and do the test in private laboratory, the test lasted for an hour but going back to see the doctor, the hospital have closed, today being Tuesday I want to see the doctor but the nurses said he doesn't come on Tuesday and I'm seriously sick, doctors in the house please help me. Here is the test result Take a good antibiotics for 7 days and you will be okay, just an infection. |
Politics › Re: ₦5 Billion Palliative To Each State, Who Is Deceiving Who? by Kenosky1: 1:30pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
We have requested that this money should be used to revive our ailing refineries. The governors will simply loot this N5b and the people will continue to get poorer |
Business › Re: Tinubu Receives Petition Against Dangote Over $3.4 Billion Siphoned Through CBN by Kenosky1: 2:11pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
Interesting |
Autos › Re: Toyota Camry 2005 Very Very Neat. by Kenosky1: 2:04pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
xana101: Nothing to fix. Can’t keep more than one car this period. I have a Hyundai Elantra 2016 and a Camry 2005. Want to sell off the Camry right now to a lucky buyer. So neat. Interior and exterior. Ac chilling. Engine and gear perfect. Price 2.4m. Location. Idimu. 08034895737 Is it 4 or 6 cylinder engine? |
Autos › Re: SOLD! Super Clean 2004 Toyota Corolla Toks by Kenosky1: 1:08pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
The cleanest 2004 Corolla I have seen but the price sha  |
Autos › Re: Registered Toyota Camry 2004 by Kenosky1: 12:09pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Converted from Right Hand Drive, any electrical issues with this ride? Interested. |
Autos › Re: Sold out 1.5m Toyota Camry Big Daddy Used by Kenosky1: 4:41pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Herkim: Silver colored body
Air-conditioning is chilling
Automatic gear transmission is working perfectly
4 plug engine is smoking, need repair
Good tyres
Neat interior and exterior No pictures, can't see any form seriousness here |
Autos › Re: SOLD OFF!!! by Kenosky1: 2:45pm On Aug 02, 2023 |
Please what is the mileage? |
Politics › Re: Ministerial Nominee, Joseph Utsev, Told Senate He Started Primary School At 4 by Kenosky1: 4:18pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
OKAY. He must have been a genius.  |
Career › Re: I Failed Job Pre Medical Tests by Kenosky1: 3:20pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
Urbaninspire: I am so depressed at the moment,I passed the first stage, second stage interview,it was a success then I got the invite for the premedical and I failed the medical tests because I have hepatitis,I don't know how hepatitis got into my blood stream,I don't know what to do again,is just 2 much for my head...I need encouragement That is not the end of your life but with determination and hard the future is still bright. Had a similar experience in 2009 after going through 3 stages of job interview with a promising salary of over N2.5m in the oil and gas industry. I have since gotten over it and moved on with my life, got another job and doing well. Sometimes you just have to thank God about the life you have and trust Him for better tomorrow. |
Autos › Re: Mpg Challenge Nigeria by Kenosky1: 11:38am On Jul 31, 2023 |
Grupo: Just bought 20k fuel today. Price per liter here was 595. So that gave me 33.61 liters.
I had small fuel in my tank prior.
I have reset my trip meter. And will give update once the reserve light shows.
Images attached below. Image 1: just before refueling.
Image 2: after refueling. Thanks bros, just want to be sure my Corolla is not having spiritual problem.  |
Autos › Re: SOLD!!! 5 Months Used 2008 Mercedes Benz ML350 @enugu by Kenosky1: 9:05am On Jul 29, 2023 |
Still available, a client will pay N4m. |
Autos › Re: Mpg Challenge Nigeria by Kenosky1: 9:01am On Jul 29, 2023 |
Grupo: I may join the challenge this week. Make I finish my car tune up.
Hopefully the tune up improves things for me.
I am not even asking for too much, I just want to do 300 miles with 40 liters. Guy, how far with the update on the mileage for a full tank on your Corolla. I want to use it to compare with mine. |
Autos › Re: Neat Reg O9 Toyota Corolla For Sale In Abuja by Kenosky1: 9:34am On Jul 27, 2023 |
Dvyne777: No sir Okay, I will still give you a call. |
Romance › Re: Married But In Love With Someone Else by Kenosky1: 3:11pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
I've been married for four years now, and it seems my wife has become a stranger.
We've been having issues from the first year, mostly on different styles of life. I am a guy who loves managing resources and very focused on achievements because I was born with a silver spoon but lost it due to the death of my father, I never wanted to experience the same thing as I did when he died. She on the other hand is comfortable and okay with what she has, not too bothered about achievements.
I've been calling for management of resources for a while but she's the type that grew up in a very comfortable home and knows not how to manage resources.
Another issue on my part is that, she does not really care about how she looks and that's one of the things I care about.
I lost, or should I say resigned from my first job due to pressure and things became hard. I had to sell some of my landed properties so we could survive.
I got another Job and in six months, I made millions. We lived well until I wanted to chase my passion in banking again.
Got back into banking and to cut the story short, I met one lady where I was sent to. I loved her. I wish I had met her first honestly. In a year, she showed me a lot in the kind of woman I wanted. Then I lost my job again, this time because I wanted to go for youth service.
I got back home and I told my wife the game plan. I bought foodstuffs for at least two months and went for camp. In less than a week, my mother called me and was angry why I left my wife and two kids hungry. I exeated camp immediately and came back home. After investigating, I found out she sent the food to her mother who is an associate professor, without telling me and while she knows out conditions.
I got so angry. I wanted her out. I considered things because my second child which she had by force is just 5months. She had the baby because she stopped taking contraceptives because of advice from people that if she has a male child for me, I'll stay. After much, she can't leave, because who will take care of the boy?
Yesterday, she read my messages and discovered I was having an affair and wants to leave. I told the lady off this morning but, I still loved her.
I can't allow that. Even if she does, she has to wait for the boy to be at least a year old. Remember she was the one that wanted this baby, not me. Now she wants to leave the liability for me? And I can't allow my kids to grow with her because I don't want them to learn such lifestyle.
What should I do? Happy for your sincerity and making it easy to advise you. Two wrongs actually cannot make a right but you have committed a grievous offense by having an extramarital affair. This indeed is an abomination before God and has resulted in the destruction of your marriage. All women have one fault or the other, so expect this new lady to display a bad character soon. Please apologize to your wife and show true and genuine repentance, then see your marriage blossom again. |
Autos › Re: Neat Reg O9 Toyota Corolla For Sale In Abuja by Kenosky1: 11:32am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Please can we deal for N3m? |
Autos › Re: Sharp 2008 Honda Civic For Sale by Kenosky1: 9:55pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
wunmi590: 1.250m make I put something unto your own, may be OP go gree...
Engine picture OP Add another 50k to make it 1.3m, cars full everywhere. |