rainmaker12:

You can not tell me that 20mins to chat or 5mins on call out of 24hrs is too much. Even 1hr. If you split the time across the day, he won't complain. I'm sure you go full day without a word. Even if you have exam. You for no chop na because you get exam or project. There's nothing like too busy to communicate, except you are active COMPLETLY for 24hrs..... Anything else na just excuse and the level of importance that person is to you. Chikina

Then you dont know how insecure some guys out there can be. Even that 20mins go unappreciated

wintersnow:


You sure madam...
That's how one of my ex said she was studying for her project the previous night, when she came over to my place the next day, I was going through some funny videos on her phone... Booommmmm a message entered, and I was tempted to read it.. Lo and behold.. "Lisa last night was amazing, I can still fell your pu***y on my D"
Na so I jerjerly go one bar, run like 5 bottles of Heineken, reach house use anger finish her, blocked her number

Just cause one lady messed up, doesnt mean every lady is like that

henryhemon:


Isn't this better? I was so curious to know that a man will nag without signs. The truth was that you didn't like him well enough.....I can give those excuses wen I'm not so into someone but when I'm into someone even airborne I want to hear from her or I will make effort to leave a message across. We 've been there n done that. Truth is if we really care about someone, we will make out time.

Hmm its not easy esp if your partner is not understanding.

Valerie47:
I made out time for him, but I cannot jeopardize my degree exam for him. I was seriously preparing for it and he was busy nagging me instead of supporting me. During that period, my head was filled with so many things and running around, he should have understood, why can't some people just understand? instead he wanted to nag me to death.

Same exact situation. Im in grad school and the guy could not understand that you wont be as free as you would be if you dont have assignments, readings, projects and exams to prepare for. Worse still he was insecure and would conclude that im cheating when all a girl is doing is camping in the library.

Sambisaforest:
Nigerian ladies are very gullible and it is because we guys cannot afford the basic things of life in this country Nigeria. Imagine! From what I understand, I believe what made her fall for the guy is simply because the guy works in a shell company. Had it been it was a normal guy that presented himself as a student or a private school teacher or an office assistant etc she wouldn't have fallen in love at the first place let alone meeting they guy. In short she would not even reply his messages again. Sometimes I don't blame the girls I just blame our government for not making the basic amenities of man common and affordable in my country. A man I mean a real man has to hustle and till the soil fervently before getting the common things that will make you comfortable infact at the long you realise that most Nigerians die during the process of getting these things. To the hustling guys out there just be smart and patient.

Really? Wow! So someone is about to get raped and the only thing you can condemn is her "gold digging" tendencies?

maynia:
Where did the traditional African go to?, the woman who cooked, cleaned, took care of the house and was submissive

Blame God you werent born in a different generation

I think its just their mentality in general, that nurturing a child is the mothers job, while his is to provide. The average man just wants to come home from a day of work and just relax. Mothers on the other hand create a bond with her children right even before birth. Its the little things like bathing your child while they are young that create a bond. Most African men think that bathing their little girls is a taboo.

skallion7:
Who's this massai on NL

I'm not Maasai. Kenya has 43 different tribes. At least learn that.

INVINCIBLECSP:
Good To Meet U Sis

Thanks, and you too

Hehehehe Beey kuja ujionee tena. Aki this obsession with Kenya! Lol

INVINCIBLECSP:
I Kw It Happens In Nigeria. The Recent Post Said So. Pls Are U A Kenyean?

Of course!

Beey:
Their obsession with Kenya is beyond help.You'd think Kenya and Zimbabwe are the only countries in Africa coz they are always sharing news from the two countries.Ushenzi yao haiwezi hata toshea gunia.Wajinga kweli kweli.

Hehehehe umesahau Uganda. Alafu comments nazo are so ignorant you'd think hawajawahi toka Nigeria. Hawa wasee wanafaa kuchapwa sasa. Wanaboo sana.

INVINCIBLECSP:
Now They Are Hiding Their Faces In Shame. What A Pity. Although, It Happened In Kenya But I Won't Be Surprise If It Happens In Nigeria. Kenya And Nigeria Are Always Dragging First

It happens everywhere. Even in your country. We here in Kenya are fortunately decent enough to expose evil rather than sweep it under the rug. Thats why these weird things make the news here.

Beey:
No yours is a real sheat hole.Your Nigeria full of baby factories & fathers impregnating their daughters, is it any better?

Loool Beey wachana na hawa wasee. They seem to be so obsessed with Kenya. Everyday I scroll through this page and never miss seeing the word "Kenya" somewhere, whereas we barely even mention the word "Nigeria" on our news.

Whats with Nigerians' obsession with Kenyan news? Lol leave us alone!

babasolution:



that is exactly their plot,its a scheme to shortchange boys and boost girls so that future adult males will be less empowered and equipped while the future adult females will be well educated and financially empowered to take over control and leadership of Africa from men,just to prove women can be as capable as men which is untrue,its a deliberate sinister plot against males of the present and future,i enjoin boys and men to equip themselves and be serious,strive for success,its a satanic coup against men being plotted systematically and gradually for the near future,men pls wake up

Lol...what bullshit. Satanic coup?

May 25th

And they say homosexuality is natural....damn they cant even procreate without looking for a man smh

saw this guy at a supermarket buying sanitary pads and he was clearly distraught, trying to hide them beneath other products and looking for a counter with the least number of people
Seriously though nothing wrong with it!

raindodger13:
I don't care about europeans or Asians that hate Nigerians but it annoys me when other black people hate us. Then when you go to their social gatherings they play mostly Nigerian music and wear traditional Nigerian clothes and start lying that it came from them.

Lol..hate you? You dont see the spec in your own eye?

Shorter than me, potbellied, stained teeth

Wait, this really angered me. How can a whole 21 year old woman be okay with this? Doesnt Nigeria have functioning human rights systems? Try that sht in my country and women's rights activists will gladly drag your behind to court and wipe the floor with it! Nonsense!

Tallesty1:
Jude, you make sense most times but there is something you keep repeating in your comments that you really need to stop.

All these America did this, America did that doesn't make sense. Stop being fooled by the Media.

If America is feminized as you claim then why did they massively vote for a man who treats women like trash? Someone who believes that it is ok to grab them by their pussy even though his opponent was a woman, a fellow feminist?.

Also, why do every American keep saying that America will be great again? Does that not tell you that something has gone wrong since they started accepting everything?

Now talking about modern feminism in America, 85% of American women want equal rights but fewer than 1 in 5 people want feminism.

In Uk, only 1 in 9 women identify with feminists but 95% of women over there want equal rights.

They embraced it initially but they have seen what it can cause so they're rejecting it, we africans ought to learn from their mistakes.

Like I said initially, you're smart and can win arguments without all this America nonsense.

Check below link if you doubt the starts up there http://www.thefashionglobe.com/feminism-today

Americans didnt massively vote for that guy as you claim. Hillary won the popular vote

When most Africans talk about "feminism" they clearly dont know what it means. I'm a proud feminist and so is my man.

Daboomb:


Let us stop this fallacy that women do ALL the "home Chore/work" whether they work or not.

There is division of labour. Cooking the meal is for women. End of story.

If for example (just an example here so dont start farting), the roof starts leaking after a rain or the Generator breaks down in the middle of the night when there is no public power supply, is it the wife or the husband that takes responsibility for such, even if he has just returned from a grueling day's work? Does he start moaning like a cow about how his office work is preventing him from doing the repair?

That is when you hear tales like: 'Is he not a man'? or 'That is why he is a man'.
Fair enough, it is his responsiblity/chore in the home front and he does it without whinning.

Women should do theirs, like cooking, without whinning as well.
Any wife/woman that feels she cant cook the family meal is USELESS to the family and should move out or be kicked out.
End of story.

BTW: I can cook like mad because l am one of those men that believe that no woman should ever blackmail me with good food!.

But how often does the roof leak or generator need to be fixed? And other excuses like changing the car tyre. I doubt it's as often as cooking and cleaning needs to be done.

I agree with her. So unfair!

NONNYG:
hmm, ok I’m a Mombasan sasa ?

Aaaah kweli?? basi nimefurahi sana kumpata mkenya mwenzangu hapa miongoni mwa wa naija

NONNYG:
Nairobian or Kenyan?

Lol same thing. All Nairobians are Kenyans but not all Kenyans are Nairobians

myk2mic:

thanks a lot for ur time,u r far too kind.just out of curiosity,where are from?

No worries. I am Nairobian.