Xbee007:
Way to go Rwanda!
Did you know Rwanda is one of the fastest growing economy in Africa?
It is neat, progressive and has a very low level of corruption.

But also very repressive on human rights.

Did you know street children are imprisoned? Did you know street hawkers are required to operate market stalls that charge monthly rent that they cant even afford? Did you know the Rwandan government's agricultural policies are discriminative to poor Rwandans?

Amidst the development, there's another negative side.

ofai:


Between Christ and the church who is doing the other a favor?

Now we are derailing...where does Christ and the church come in?

ofai:


See woman logic...Lol...na wa o... So Boaz, David, Ahasaerus were not favours from God to the women who they married?

Going by what the Bible says... "he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God".... the favour was extended to Boaz and David because of the women the married, and not the other way round

ofai:


Keep hyping yourself. Favour? Lol... Important? Yes, but favour? Stop overrating yourselves. Marriage is meant to honor the woman, asides that...men can cohabit with the woman, pump babies out of her, without necessarily marrying her. But then you ladies will be shouting, "marry me properly"....so marriage is actually a favor to the woman from the man.

That said, I want to believe that marriage is complementary. It goes both ways in terms of favor.

Anyway, it is complementary. It was just interesting to hear a man's perspective.

Black women are very beautiful. Let's just ditch the damn weaves and wigs and embrace our gorgeous natural hair.

ofai:


....and the man will favour you directly. Think of Ruth and Boaz...., Esther and king Ahasaerus.... Abigail and David.

Which is better, favour from God or favour from man?

ofai:


That's the reason why the woman was created FOR the man and not vice-versa.

BTW, the woman came FROM the man's body in order to second the man. So without the man, there is no woman.

And that just shows how important women are to men, if God actually had to create us FOR you. So by extension, we ARE doing you a favour.

ofai:


Yes.....but the "FAVOR" part comes from God, not the woman. She is not doing you a favor by marrying you. Shikena.

Well she'll favour you indirectly. Once you find her, God favours you. Without her, no favour from God. Comprende?

Snow87:
Which favour, is it not the same Bible that said that is better for u to dwell on the roof top than being in the same house with a contentious woman? Make them carry their yeye favour go dash dia Papa, we are not interested. since I dump my yeye girlfriend my life never remain the same. At least I can save up to invest, who their favour epp.

Doesnt the same Bible say God during creation said its not good for a man to be alone

Actually he may be right... when God created the world didnt he say, it's not good for a man to be alone.... he didnt say the same about the woman

I didnt know meninists exist!!!

Hehehehe the OP praising women from other races reminded me of this pic. OP I sure hope you dont look like the guy on the right

My biggest regrets are not taking advantage of opportunities that came my way in the past and wasting time with the wrong people/not letting them go early enough

stanech:


No one is saying she should not have a dreams. Goood wives do work right?

Boy, byee. I'm clearly having a difficult time getting you to see the issue here

stanech:


Is raising her to be someones good wife a bad thing?

What is wrong in raising a girl to be a good wife.. Every guy wants to be married to a good wife so whats wrong? No wonder the world is so fvked up. Being a good wife does not stop her from being whatever she wants right.. That is good parenting nothing wrong.

From the onset? From the time theyre 5 years old? How do you raise your daughter to think theyre only destined to be someone's wife? Shouldnt you focus on supporting their dreams, goals and ambition? And raise them with good morals so that they can contribute to a more sane society and be the best version of themselves? And if they choose to get married, youre confident that theyll make a good wife because you raised them well??

And also every girl want to be married to a good hubby too.

stanech:



A tenage boy who was not raised properly could meet a tenage girl at a party and after a few drinks she's fvcked and gets pregnant she may not even know the father because she just met the guy.

The father of the guy may not know what his son did. But in few weeks time the mother of the girl will be looking for an abortion clinic. Ps this is a true story. The girl later died in the process she was just 16.. Till date no one knew the guy.. We should pamper protect and love our women not treat them as men...

Feminists are the true enemies of women. Most of them can't live hapily with a man they are unhappy and wants everyone to be miserable like them . Just like satan.

You havent understood a damn thing

stanech:


Not everyone will be raised up properly. We must always have terrible people living among us. Just one little wrong doing from a little girl can ruin her life forever.. But boys may turn it around and pretend it never happened. That is why we protect the girl child more than the boy..

Joshua is right. But these feminists are crazy

So you also agree with him raising his niece with good morals because "...she will be someone's wife"? To me, and to people disagreeing with him, he's not even raising her well because good morals will help her flourish and succeed in life but rather because she will be somebody's wife. That "somebody's wife" part is what is honestly so insulting!

BluntBoy:


No, societal development is not contingent upon inequality. Without feminism, the world had seen massive development. As a matter of fact, progress has been more contributory to inequality than hostile toward it.

Do you know why the nordic countries have the highest Human Development Index and are generally ranked high in happiness reports? Because of equality policies.

BluntBoy:


No, it doesn't. I don't see how it is retrogressive. Societal progress preceded feminism. Britain was world power long before the enfranchisement of women in the 1920s. Society would develop with or without subjects like sexism. Not that I support sexism but people should stop making it look like societal development is contingent upon equality. Inequality in all its forms has never held society back.

You're joking, right?

stanech:


As a man I tolerate things from women that i cannot even entertain from a man. For intance I dont care who is wrong but I will not tolerate a man hitting a woman! That is protection

And thats what I'm talking about. If that man was raised well as a little boy with good morals, I'm sure the thought of hitting anybody (men included) wouldnt even cross his mind! His parents probably instilled more discipline on his sisters and forgot about him. Thats what I see is so wrong!

stanech:



All I am saying is that all these equality talk is bulshit. Women cant handle equality they should be protected and pampared and loved and cared for.

Most of these feminists are really empty souls that cant get what they want due to bad attitude they get angry over little things i have seen a lot of them they are just empty soulz

Protected from whom? Why not deal with the thing they need to be protected from in the first place.

BluntBoy:


Khady, but there is nothing hateful towards women in AJ's statement.

Yes it's innocent on the surface, and I get that most say this with good intentions, but if you dig deep you'll see that most of these attitudes are retrogressive and prevent development of society on a larger scale.

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stanech:


Yea one of them will be ok. Just one.

If groom a man to be like a woman he will become a woman.

What the hell are you even saying: if groom a man to be like a woman he will become a woman?

Daeylar:
I'm glad they set him straight.
Very disgusting misogynistic statement.


Tying the existence of a woman to a man straight from birth,
He will raise a man as a man, but he cannot raise the niece as a woman, she will be raised as "someone's wife." And will be given values not because it is best for her but because it is what will help her as "someone's wife"




His son is allowed to live like a normal human being he is while he wants to start controlling the niece and train her to be this perfect infallible human being, and as if that isn't bad enough, he doesn't even do this because he feels it is best for "her" as a human being. He does this because she will be "someone's wife."

Very sad statement.

So a son shouldn't have good family morals? Rubbish.
Nothing about family and someone's husband for the son, but see how he centered the whole life of the niece around being "someone's wife".

Sad.

Sad thats whats wrong with African men. And going through the comments on this thread you just feel like puking. Sad they dont even realise it.

God help these well raised daughters under strict parents and the type of men theyre gonna be wives to

oneblackguy:
i don't know what the fuss is all about sef.
fact is, females are more prone to social vices than males and so need stricter monitoring.

the average female child is more prone to sexual molestation and harassment than the average male child.

a female child will find it much easier to get laid than a male child.

so tell me, who needs more protection??
for God's sake, the two can never require the same amount of descipline....never.
it's the duty of the parents to guard female children more securely than males atleast until they turn 18 when they can decide for themselves.

I disagree. Will the females sexually molest and get laid on their own? If they become wayward, chances are a man was involved. My opinion, the boy child needs to be disciplined and taught good morals, just as much as the girl child. If I have a son, God willing, I'm not raising him any different from my daughter. Strict discipline for both.

joeaz58:
I have been thinking lately if babies always cry when they come out of their mothers womb.is it that they cry in their mothers wombor they start when they are out?

LOL..they cry as soon as they are born. Inside the womb, I think they express their feelings through the kicking

More argument:
For instance, sex dolls are not natural,(I havent followed up on this but if its true that they actually do give sexual satisfaction, you still cant argue that they are natural). But due to past experiences some guys prefer them to an actual human. Now if they become the norm and children are born and grow up knowing and believing sex dolls are normal..... ummm it just wouldnt be ok.

Also I dont think there were homosexual relationships in the early times, which proves it isnt natural. If people born a century ago resurrected, they would be really surprised. A century from now, bestiality might be legal, hey its very slowly beginning to be lightly embraced in some western nations..and we think to ourselves thats so disgusting but thats how people slowly begin to embrace and accept it. I dont hate gay people. It's just NOT natural.

AgentOfAllah:


Yes. And now, even you can't unsee that


Also, it might interest you to know that in his book, "Biological Exuberance: Animal Homosexuality and Natural Diversity", author, Bruce Bagemihl, has scientifically documented more than 450 species that express homosexual behaviour.

Video evidence?

Hate is such a strong word. I dont hate. Homosexuality is just unnatural. The mere fact that you cant naturally produce a child from such a relationship proves that. And most gay people talking of wanting children will still look for somebody of the opposite sex to make that happen.

How badly do some people hate their dark skin. I just dont understand. If i were to be recreated, I'd still choose to be black.

Are you sure you're not adopted?