justtoodark:
why do all kenyans have red eyes......??...wetin them dey smoke.....??....cow dung....

Have you seen all Kenyans? Lmao

Geez..she just spoke her preference. You dont have to date her lmao..cant people state what they want in peace?

HerexG:


If the guy had hammered her very well, give her several positions, UnCloth her completely, squeezed and suck the hell out her breast. He would have noticed that the lady is not OK, especially when he handles the breast.

No, communication is the key. So what if they had sex but didnt communicate, dont you think there are other things that he needed to know that he wouldnt have had the chance to find out?

I dont understand what sex before or after marriage has to do with anything.
The issue here is that they didnt take time to communicate and tell each other their secrets before the marriage. Not about sex.

Congrats to Kenyan doctors!

hahahaha

BigIyanga:

Majority of Naija women see marriage as a meal ticket.
Those who dont see it as a poverty alleviation route are minority!
Those who contribute their fair share are outliers!

Cause you allow them to, duh! Thats what contributes to this mentality. I have a friend who's already decided that his future wife wont work. That he doesnt want his child raised by some nanny. That he'll be the provider and she stays at home. Most women have already been fed the idea that their hubbies will provide. Just look into the average African home already raising daughters to be someones wife and home carer!

BigIyanga:

Do you understand what majority means? Do you understand what minority means? Do you understand what outlier means?

No, I dont understand what on earth youre trying to drive across. Please explain

SoapQueen:
I took my time to read all the criticisms from some men. Nice one.

Delusions of grandeur, I must say.

Nigerian men are not interested in marriage yet there are pre-wedding photos at every nook and cranny.

Nigerians girls are hoes, cutlass, this and that, who the hell do they cheat with, themselves?

You keep calling ladies unprintable names, is it not men like you that break the "Almighty bro code" by going for someone else's woman. I remember a dude put up a post last week about waiting for his friend to break up with his girlfriend so he could shoot his shot?

It is getting stale. If you don't want to get married, please don't. Some of you up there are boasting of having 3 side Chics. Who should cast the first stone?

No matter how women try to explain that not all women are the same, some of you chauvinistic lot still try to humiliate womanhood. It is tiresome.

I am proud to say that I have so much more to offer to the world, and it is not my body. Men have wronged many women but you don't hear us whinning and bickering about men being bedswervers.



Last, last. In the bid to please some girl, some of you will still slide into a girl's DM and do everything within your power to get her attention. After that, Una go come here dey form Bruce Lee.

Some men are so judgemental. They dont see the spec in their own eyes

mikejj:
that's what men face in Africa very sad...u marry a woman u marry her people problems palava(PPP)

Yeah its very sad. I'd feel so much pressure if I was an African man. I'd probably wanna marry from another race. I heard on the radio the other day, this man complaining of how he now has to foot the bills for his wife's younger siblings still in school in addition to taking care of his own family. That's not cool. That's why we should fight for feminism because it creates a society where both men and women are expected to equally foot the bill for everything. No man head of the family bullshit. As much as it strokes their ego to be looked up to, it hurts them in the long run.

And on that note, we wont have a society where women are so dependent on men on silly things such as airtime, and men wont be looking down upon us so that the only thing they believe we can bring to the table is *****.

Responsibility.... theyre now the head of a family and have to provide for all needs till forever

Stallion93:
But if eh all they know in Kenya and Other East African countries is Sex and cunninlingus, then why are they better than Nigeria?? Problem is we don't even Have what to know, we just so confused

Because people dont see the spec in their own eyes

1StopRudeness:


In thought as much...

In thought....?

Immoral people everywhere! Keep your immorality to yourself or at least limit it to porn sites. Not everybody needs to know your problems smh

1StopRudeness:


We don't insist on virginity too much...if u want to play the equality...babe kindly go ahead and demand for a male virgin.....u see that one problem with women...u want to impose ur equality ideas on men's decision/opinionand thinking....


Nature has made us different.. physically a man has no difference from being a virgin or not...but there's a difference in women....intact too much difference

Some men want it because a lady that's already having sex could have been with more than 10guys before settling down. That means she has a standard for dick size...dick size is a proplem in the world today because most ladies are not marrying as virgins....
Alot of men have been tricked into marriage with the woman having no womb to begin with....

The risk is too high with non virgins these days..it's like the 90's anymore that even a non virgin is not a bad idea

Now Boys are just ending up with retired prostitutes,
Ending up with babes that have been used by politicians and g-boys....
Ending with babe that have started their sex life with 14inch dick when they don't have more than 6...

U be the judge ..... If u know a lady that's not a virgin and has gone try series of abortion...but some how is a good girl in another way.....and another that's a virgin and also a good girl....which one will u allow ur brother marry if the choice is placed in ur hands by ur brother

Smh

1StopRudeness:


It's not provable anymore.....because these days... ladyies claim they were not born with hymen, some lie they lost it during exercise, some have even disvirgines themswlves with sex toyss but still claim virgin cos a dicckss hasn't entered them....I know paedophillia isn't good...but sometimes I get why the northerners want to marry girls as early as 13 -14yrs.....it's because of all this lies ..girls want to eat their cake and still have it

But why do you insist on female virginity so much? It takes two people to have sex so male virginity should also be equally emphasised upon.

profolaolu:
It obvious the man looses interest in the girl.



Well that is why I laugh at people that says virginity doesn't make good marriage, it is a dump excuse,I have dated virgins and after been disflowered, they become liars,cheats and exhibit some kind of bad behaviors,a girl with her virginity may be bad but when disflowered she will obviously become worst,ask the person that disflowered you or ur wife if I lie,as for me I will rather marry a virgin or stay single,I prefer brand new iPhone X to fairly used or bad used iPhone 3,I have class,it is not negotiable.

But then how would you prove someone is a virgin?

Mtchewwww... take back your stupid cows. Are you yourself a virgin to begin with?

Hehehehe I so miss maths!

No, it's not the man's responsibility. I dont know where this mentality came from. Are women from other races this dependent on their men? I'd rather work hard for my own upkeep. But a lil loving from the guy once in a while isnt so bad

You are seriously confused!

Its true..voted for my friend's baby like thrice

Where can I find a feminist guy like this one? They are sooo attractive

Amen... I so agree... I have a friend who's so obsessed with marriage that all her whatsapp status posts are pictures of celebrity weddings..with the hashtags "aint this so beautiful" and "mommy goals" and "cant wait for my big day"... and she's always attending weddings. Her boyfriend whos also her age seems to be getting tired of it.

I always put mine on airplane mode when I go to sleep

Mine might not seem so embarrassing...
It was a telephone interview thank God, but I was still as nervous as hell. The interviewer asked me what my most significant achievement was TODAY... and i thought she was asking about what i had done since I woke up, so i started narrating all the chores I had done that morning... little did i know she meant what i great thing i had achieved since i was born... i honestly felt so dumb.

Haha true. Fathers should be appreciated as well. Anyway, it's just cause children have a special bond with their mothers

I agree. Ladies, let's strive to be our best. It's not good to just sit back, bear children and remain dependent on the hubby for the rest of our lives.

Wow I admire her.

Checking virginity... wtf? How does somebody even do that? How do you even open your legs for somebody to poke in there apart from when youre about to give birth??

Hard question..... he just better love me, and by love I mean true love and not fake pretending love.
If ur asking about the qualities I'm personally attracted to, he should hold some feminist views, he should be taller than me, hygienic (smells good and stuff), ambitious and of course have the same faith.