₦airaland Forum

DuBLINGreenb:
100k and 200,000 for local Flights economy class, thunder faya these people

Stop passing false information......Just checked now Arik Air, LAG to ABJ is 29k max economy

Maybe his name was mentioned by one of Hushpuppi's group......which would force the federal government to take action in order to save face...

Nairalandmonika:
so what's ur point exactly. I can see u leave in fear but I don't, don't assume everyone is like you.

Lol.............

Nairalandmonika:
If god was even real n I was in is present, he has alot of questions to answer.

Its on niaraland you will be able to make mouth.......I'm sure you can't even look your parents in the eyes.....

SIR0:
The lady keeps begging & crying. Money can be tempting

No one should come and prove HOLY HOLY here on top money matter.

He could pause the wedding plan but cancelling it is proving overrighteousness.

Can you say this if you were in front of God

What a funny world........so we are back to controlling people again.........,

Like twitter , like nairaland

Like they say nothing new under the sun.....we are just going round in a circle...

Just make we pray we don't fall into the circle when it will not favor us

After reading many of the comments above....I now understand why we have the kind of leaders we have..

All honesty and integrity has been lost....see so many lopsided thinking
A lot of the argument people are making here if they are in front of God, can they say these things

foreverdiamonds:
She made a mistake, she probably wanted to play a fast one. i will advise you to forgive her and continue with the marriage.

What mistake...she knew exactly what she was doing.....

The bank called she refused to return the money, fiancee asked, she denied....
This one na international tiff, tiff

SIR0:
And we expect God to forgive us when we find it difficult to forgive others

What are you saying.........

SSpeter:
A friend is calling off his wedding plans because he thinks his girlfriend lacks integrity. They have known for about 3years and he has not complained about her to me or any one.

Problem started when he got a call from the bank pleading with him to tell his girlfriend to reverse/return the excess amount credited to her account when she visited the bank to make a deposit into her account. He called his account officer to investigate the issue. The account officer confirmed that she got excess of what she wanted to deposit and she has moved all the funds to another bank.

She used the guy as her next of kin that was how they could contact him. He called his babe who denied initially but reluctantly agreed when he divulged that the bank contacted him. Dude became angry and paused all wedding plans.

The lady s begging and has cried her eyes out...what do you think? can you compromise integrity...?

I got permission to write about this here incase you think xyz and my friend is a Nairalander!

Good decision.....what values will she teach their children....

No time for long thing............

Even though several individuals from different countries were involved in the scam....he has become the cover page for this scheme.....
This is what happens when you don't know the meaning of keeping a low profile......

Now his disgrace is global

how does this make any sense , you said no boarding . so what will students that don't leave in lagos do.
if you can't make provision for all then keep the schools closed

So many megalomaniacs in this country..............

vikkimimi:
Unfortunately, A woman's words holds no water in this part of the world....she's just there, no freedom to do anything at will, like a fist lady should

What do you mean by this part of the world......
Is Trumps wife (Ivanka) voice been heard anywhere in America....

And also have you even seen the face or heard the voice of the German chancellor's (Angela Merkel) husband before....

They are not elected officials so they have no right to speak or address the nation....

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

Wait, you proposed to someone ...whose birthday date you don't even know...
This is how niggas get killed.......no proper courtship to fully understand and know one another
Now you have seen one trigger and you are running for the fence...............


As for the lady...you accepted his proposal you are about to get married which is a big financial thing...
I would think your focus would be on planning for the engagement, introduction, wedding, honeymoon and even life after the wedding
Instead, you are talking about spending big on birthday.............lol..............that is a big red flag.

even if it is not a scam....it shows she is a lady with misplaced priorities
Op, just run....you have successfully dodged a bullet....go and thank your stars

udopee:
It's very unfortunate nowadays how our ungrateful society has given women negative tags which are unbefitting.
If you are Unmarried: She is irresponsible, not resourcesful and worthless.

Single and successful: She is chasing away all potential suitors..or must being ‘funded’ unholy, not wife-material⁣ (just wondering how many yards of materials will do for her to qualify)

Married: She is her husband’s property and should no longer have anything that vaguely resembles ‘fun’, baby making factory, she shouldn’t be wearing cloths she used to wear when single.⁣ ⁣

Divorced: She can’t keep a man, she is not submissive, the man could no longer endure her⁣. ⁣

Separated: She is out of control. No sane man fit in for her or can tolerate her excesses. ⁣

Widowed: She must have killed her husband….. to take over his assets and properties. ⁣

Tries to get on with life after widowhood: She didn’t mourn her late hubby for long enough. How suspicious? How inappropriate? How unacceptable! ⁣ ⁣

Childless Marriage: She is barren; she must have destroyed her womb through abortions. ⁣ ⁣

Rich and independent: She is a prostitute, she flirts around for money.

Child misbehaves: It is all the mother’s fault because she spoilt him/her, she doesn't know how to train children,

Plays sports: She shouldn’t; she’s a girl. ⁣

Speaks her mind: She is bossy; not a good trait for a woman, she doesn't have proper home training.

Spouse cheats: It’s her fault. She caused him to it, she pushed him to the wall.

Victim of rape: What time was it? Where was she? What was she wearing?. ⁣

"WHY ARE WOMEN BLAMED FOR EVERY WRONG THING AND HARDLY APPRECIATED FOR THE RIGHT ONES? ⁣

Real women that understand what it means to be a woman should own their sense of personal value. Don't let people in the world convince you that the role of a woman is a powerless and useless thing.

Decide to be a complete woman in love with her life and her God. As you become complete in God's Love, you will find yourself more satisfied than you have ever been. You are not relying on anyone for validation or your happiness.

"AFTER ALL, YOU HAVE GOT PRINCIPLES"

#FRESH_DEW
#HEAVENS_DEW

Funny thing is............most of what you wrote, is usually heard from the mouths of other Women.....

Last, last na una dey do una self

SmartPolician:
Everyone should take these words down

A guy goes to work every day with the mindset that when he eventually makes it big that he will make his woman the happiest female on planet Earth

On the other hand, when a woman starts making kobo, she will begin feeling like she doesn't need a man anymore. You will hear terms like Boss lady, core feminist, etc.

Forget it, those people can never think like us

Never!

Gbam..............

Women just like to complain.......
Like men too, don't have things they are blamed for......

All this talk is just an act of manipulation......abeg guys just softly waka pass

At the end of the day, life no get formula....

Just follow your creator's rules and live life to the best of your ability...

CanadaOrBust:
Well, if a poor guy like u marries Linda Ikeji, how won’t it benefit u??

Story...it will not benefit him...she will just turn him to an houseboy.....that what women like to do

That marriage will be torture ....he will be no more than a sperm donor

You have to respect Asari Dokubo....he is on a different level....

He went against govt and when things got heated .....he never ran away and abandon his people...
He has earned the right to say what ever he wants....even though we know na chop money all they find.

But as fr Kanu, You cannot start a war and when things get heated you run and leave your people to face the music....Thats a no, no
Don't start what you cant finish

What is it with David luiz......dem send the guy

Here we go again........thanks a lot David Luiz

O boy....dem one finish Arsenal oooooo

Another injury for arsenal.........Pablo Mari out

Na wa ooo

Players body never acclimatize.

DenreleDave:
My fellow guys, I know how it feels when a lady turns down your request.... I have been in your shoes before and I can tell how its hurts

Nevertheless, don't be bothered because a lady turned you down, what you should focus on is how to improve your self so that when she sees you in the next coming years, she will envy you and want a comeback with you...

Example: I have an ex that I loved so much then.. I did everything to please her and she still fvcked up later... That was 2015... But now, I can't see her naked and get erection.... She Don fat and look less beautiful than b4.....

2ndly, there is this lady I like so much during my ND days, she was in business admin, I was in banking and finance but our lecture hall is beside each other... Very beautiful and nice shape..

Today, I saw her in the bank... I think she is married and she Don fat small... I began to wonder if this is the same lady I trip for then in school.....

So guys, focus on getting better than b4... Don't feel sad bcox she turned u down.... U may see her 3 years later and thank God that u never approached her......

Note: all I'm saying is don't waste ur useful life wanting to please a lady.. Develop ursef and see ladies striving to please you.

Be wise... Focus on ur life rather than shaping ursef for a woman to accept u

Your handle says you are FEMALE..............i'm not understanding

I don't believe...........has 3MB long reach, na the place wey police dey, you come decide say you wan jump...

Then how the police even take stop am......person wey one jump go jump.......this one na either police scam or the bros dey form, so that people go help him case

bigtimemugu:
Gudnoon Nairalanders, I have been working for a company for 35k per month for 12 months no increment. I have been promoted from one position to another without a payrise.

Late may this year my salary was increased to 50k with a whole lots of task, I work Monday to Sunday, 7.am to 7pm some times down to 9pm.

1st week of June a similar company based on recommendations invited me for an interview, they offer to pay me 120k, which I insisted on 150k, finally they agree to pay but when we went to the business place, it is a little beginning business that I have to grow from the scratch in an isolated area. I began to reason if I opt out of my present job and venture into this, how long will this payment last, if the business folds up, where will I start from?

In my present job it might take another 12 months before another increment but I can work there as long as I may wish to work cos it has job security.

Please advice me am confused and I have family with kids.

Bros , I greet ooo.
From my perspective, as we grow in our personal lives, we should also grow in our professional life.

Has your family grows, so should your earnings grow to ensure you and your family are able to leave a good and reasonable life..
Your family is growing and so also the expense of running that family.

From what you wrote your current employment does not show much financial growth. Its not even giving you time to live a life, to have quality time with your children and wife. WHAT KIND OF WORK IS THAT.

Everything in this life is a risk with no guarantee, the talk of job security is an illusion and a trap for your mind.
God is your only guarantee in life. Don't you believe in yourself and your abilities? Note, the current job you are making noise about can end at any time for numerous reasons. Take the opportunities that come your way and make the best use of it. And keep your faith in God that he will see you through.....

For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

Do the proper analysis, on benefits, prospects, and outlook of staying or leaving, and take a prayerful decision.
You can also create safety nets for yourself if you don't still fill comfortable...

Wishing you and your family all the best as you navigate life.

SeverusSnape:
Remove the two first alphabets from "GIANT", that's what Nigeria is.

And add P...to the front...

hopefulLandlord:
Considering they burnt a range rover to cover up the crime I'd say there's more to this than stray bullet and Kareem must've been involved in some deep dirty sheet unless it's a mistaken identity

My thoughts exactly................what kind of thing was he involved in, that they will be ready to burn a range rover just to get him...unless maybe mistaken identity

andyanders:
Exactly my thought. It could be that the money was swapped or given to her by dobblers, unknown to her that they were fake notes.
Maybe she is working for somebody and that should have been the questions thrown to the girl before treating her this way. If the girl knew that she is been armed with fake notes, she wouldn't have had the courage to be dispensing the fake notes through POS, knowing same to be fake.

You know Nigerians, hence it's a young lady, they would want to have her naked so that they can view her unclothedness. I pity her.

This a disgusting narrative....this is how ideologies like racism and tribalism are born.
So its only men that can be guilty of crimes, women most have been connived or fooled into it baaaa....

Oga come off it.........how are we sure she is not even the ring leader, now forming crocodile tears as they usually do.....


These are the days of gender equality, as them for do the men...same should apply to the women.......no one should be involved in crime, both male and female...make all find handwork to do

stupidity of the highest order........