spiceadole:
Yes,there are .

But very few..like 1 in 100.
Your friend needs to do a lot of background checks.
A 35 year old comfortable(even the struggling ones too,their women tend to fend for themselves) Yoruba man may have 3 wives..
1 in Lagos
1 in Akure
1 in Ibadan
And many concubines littered all over the country.

Yet be in Port Harcourt,Owerri,Abuja and be forming single man looking for wife.

You think they called "Yoloba demon" for nothing?
Naaah!

Reminds me of a nollywood movie I saw recently public property

galantjoe:


Everytime people usually unmarried ask this question about courtship. Yes, courtship is good but it can not detect all faults. Check out those failed, they courted more than one year. Yet marriage fails with few years. So Nigerians are pretenders.

I can say as long as courtship doesn't detect all fault, it definitely detects some. V been in relationships n I know when to step out, I personally don't force things to happen in relationship mai no go suffer am in marriage though I know there's no perfect being but I sure do know what I want and can live with in life

sisisioge:
Madam! You've got to speak his language too...when he starts, just totally ignore him. Don't beg, don't cook, don't take the sex, don't frown, speak when spoken to, don't carry face, act like his behaviour is normal, just dey look too. Wtf! Hian!


Una just dey make single hood sweet sotey married friends dey advise person say there is no rush, take your time. Lawd! Where are the good fair people!!!!

My dear, we still got d luxury of time to choose and God will epp us to choose right. Most times I think about my singleness but once I hear, read or see somethings ppl go tru in marriage ehn, I'll look my happy self in d mirror and tell myself my coin hasn't flipped to my side yet ni and will be like Jesu, just gimme my own man gaangaan n not someone else's cos I know how much m enjoying my life filled wt zero worries and one man shld just not come and change my personality for bad/worse/worst all in d name of marriage.

Honestly, atimes I just feel there should be a probation stage in marriage after d courtship for say a max of 3years jare. It's rili well

daddytime:


Lol

Marriage na school wey nobody don ever graduate from.

Will touch on this topic tomorrow. I feel so sorry for op.

She's been blackmailed and having her mind/head messed with deliberately by a narcissist.

It's a mind game.

Reason I asked what their courtship was like but OP ddnt talk on dat. I think this shldnt just start all of a sudden after d wedding tho

goodgirl2409:


We have talked severally but nothing has changed. Every month, he puts up this attitude like 3 three weeks in a month, 1 week, things maybe normal.

O gidi gaaaan o
M afraid u have to learn to enjoy his one week normalcy to the max such dt u will be using its thoughts to stand firm for d next 3 weeks if u rili wanna keep ur marriage but pls, be ur normal self, don't change ur manners... This kind cross off me tho! It's well wt u

sisisioge:
But she could have gotten the house and updated it herself with the thousands she spent buying it. She could have bled him initially without going through all this rigmarole fa

She bought it at an extremely cheap rate even after d husband had updated it

Sorry about this op!
What was courtship wt him like? D u just tell d whole truth here? Do u nag? Ur marriage is too young to start facing this emotional trauma, m sure sumtin is wrong somewhere. Either yes/no, U need a night preferably a midnight to deal with this issue my dear. Wake him, go on ur knees, cry if u want/can, pour out evritin bothering u and let him know how single in marriage u feel wt d way things are. I hope he speaks up

Note: U need to make ursef happy at all times no matter what pls. Remember prayer changes things too

Check fadeyi, u SHOULD get it dia

Sweet Lord, look up to ur son and re-bless this day 30yrs ago he came forth to this world and touch his heart to love himself again and change his story for the best this I pray, Amen.

Happy big 30th birthday to U op. Don't give up!!!

Lilimax:
The same Ighalo way dem dey abuse

I tell u... D guy na beta pikin

Thank you Ighalo

Don't do self medication. Go get HVS test done and take d result to a good doctor. Pele

It happens to me whenever I share my mobile hotspot wt a new fone but thanks to google contact

Seems to me she's started collecting her pension from u but u don't wanto believe yet. Wake up and act fast man!

Ur prices pls

Congrats ahead Of but how would u feel if after u plan to have it wherever u both finally agree and on penetrating, it's as free as expressway? Use ur matrimonial bed n plan a getaway after ur first night man

OP! Ur write up summarises selfishness plus irresponsibility... Ur dad married ur mom to have you without being self centered, ur blood need be tested. #walksaway

I always say a word of prayer for u whenever I stumble on ur kindhearted n generosity posts especially in the education section, u helped lots of nairalanders and it's well appreciated. It's painful we r sending out condolences to u this tym but all is well... RIP man! God rest ur soul #sosad

dingbang:
Every new relationship I enter, I must demand for medical lab receipt of health status.

And what if the person has it but still in the incubation stage? M sure op will still knack b4 he gets married...

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U forgot dt u dunno her destination when u were having an erection so tey u had sex wt her abi? What if she's a ghost? Ur 2 balls there

light101:


Gudmrng, pls help me with the address. Thanks.

best of luck

karlboss:
Are there companies in Nigeria that can produce power oil, kings oil nylon. Ill like to know please

Go-to primepak in ilupeju or Sonnex in Philips junction, ojota inward oregun

light101:


No. It is for packing of bottles.

Then it's not pvc... It's HDP shrink.

light101:
Please who knows where(company) I can buy this material - PVC shrinking nylon in Lagos.

Pls help me drop their contact here.
Thanks

Is it for tamper proof?

tolajay:
Thanks. Okota and Ago no too dey get light.

I love the area though.

Says who oooooo? We dey get light wella

stalwart123:


Is there electricity in Sambisa?

These are 3 phase machineries. How would they be powered.

Boko Haram is more advanced than the FG.

In the video, I saw two generators

BLUEJAYY:
PID in a man?

Nairaland doctors I hail oo!

I don't know exactly why most Nigerians are scared of hospitals though. They prefer drinking all sorts of concoctions and mixtures, only show up when it's become so serious and there's little or nothing that can be done. Then they turn around and blame the clinicians for negligence.

Na wa oo.

I honestly thought op is female. Go to ur doctor @op, it's curable b4 it kills ur motility #peace

Pls, visit ur doctor

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