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Yes we do but not while we are in a salon, we talk about sex and guys when we are hanging out together sipping on some wine.

We talk about, different positions, rhythm, kissing, you know girl talk. Before you ask, we don't talk about our personal relations with our men.

whitebeard:
ladie(s): yes I don't cheat, lol, I have had two gf and I didn't cheat on any...!!

Ok I gotcha.

pinkp:
I just heard this and I want to share it with the world. Wonder shall never end. It's a real life story that happened today in fact, it's happened few minutes ago.


I and my boyfriend started dating like a month ago. Last week, he gave me some cash to do my hair but when I got home, my mum called me that she needed money to sort out some things. So, I couldn't use the money to get new look, I sent the cash to my mum. Also, I couldn't tell my boyfriend bcoz I didnt want it to look like, we just started dating n m burdening him already.


So, d money left on me was for food n transport only. I had no more cash to go to the saloon. When I got home from d bank, I brought out my old weave-on and fixed it. (I sat in front of my large mirror in my room, did all-back hairstyle, fixed d weave-on on it and brushed my hair on d opening in front)


Wen my boyfriend saw d hair, he loved it and I was so happy dat he didn't find out.

I have dis girlfriend which I trusted so much that I told her about it. She loves to go to church like kilode and she was always involve in every youth matter. She also complimented d hair dat no one can know dat it was self made.


Today, my boyfriend whatsapped me that I shud come to his place urgently. Wen I got there, I met my girlfriend there. As soon as she saw me, she started screaming insults at me. She already told my boyfriend what happened b4 I got there. I was so embarrassed and ashamed that I couldn't look at my bf in the eye.


After his long silence, he asked if it was true and I nodded. He then thanked my friend for telling him about it. Afterwards, he told her to get out of his house n to never show her face, that she's done enough in seducing him and trying to make me look bad. He then told me dat it's OK and dat he is not angry at me. But he didn't like d way I couldn't confide in him. He really like d fact dat I did d hair myself and promised to help me open MY OWN SALOON.


My question is:
1. Is it true dat male-friends are more trustworthy dan female-friends?

2. If u are in my shoe right now, wat will u do to ur friend? Because m so furious dat I want beat her into pulp n insult her anywhere I see her. May b I shud go to her place with organized beaters.....

3. Is it really d work of God ? like some say because, If ds one no happen, may b I won't b a Hair saloon n Spa owner by next month.

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1. In some cases yes, in my experiences I trust my male friend with my secrets because women love to gossip.

2. Dump her because she was never your friend and she is jealous of you. I don't understand why people think just because people are at the church faithfully it means that they are a good person, Satan is everywhere especially the church. Going to church doesn't mean you are saved, after all it's only a building.


Being a Christian is all about having a relationship with God and you don't have to go to a building for that. Reading and living by his word and communicating with him through prayer is the way.

3. Your boyfriend has only been with you for a month and he's going to set you up with a salon seems shady to me but who knows.

PS. I think you were right to help your mom I would have done the samething but I would have told my boyfriend about it.

tensazangetsu20:
Then the probability of him having HIV is very high then.

It's not only homosexual who carry the virus, the risk of catching the virus is just as high with a straight female or male, that is why you must be protected.

sorextee:
The way you dress is d way you will be addressed..
Our African parents didn't bring us up to dress like this to the house of the Lord.

Dont let the white pple deceive you..
And besides u cant dress like this to an interview..

The bible says come as you are.

tensazangetsu20:
If something like this happens to my sister, am helping her get a divorce lawyer. Which kind of cursed marriage is that?

He's probably with his male lover.

whitebeard:
Women, always stressing, as a guy I don't, I am also not that kind of guy, I dont cheat on my ladies, I stay loyal.


BTW, op where did u get the pics from..!!?

You don't cheat on your LADIES?

MrBrownJay1:
Why would you say such a thing?! Being a MAN is not foolish, you were simply a Goodman to the WRONG woman. It's unfortunate but NEVER change who you are because of what a Wh0res do.... That's stoopid!

Jut tell her you saw these and bye bye.



Stop writing rubbish online... Hoes ain't suppose to be loyal, they are HOES for Christ sake, what else but cheating and fukcing around do you expect from hoes

LMAO Brilliant!!

Benita27:
It's a long story, was trying to make it brief.
She happened to be our neighbour, while the guy was our next compound neighbour whose mum owned the property they were living in. She rented the shop from the guy's uncle and her house from another of his uncle, so her house and her shop were in proximity but she was working with a company elsewhere. At first she didn't like the guy 'cause he was into this their community youth affairs in his 30s and she's in her 30s too, so I guess she needed someone she'd settle down with and he was pushing for that even though he was jobless. They started dating, but his siblings didn't like her since they see themselves on daily basis, and when she started having problem with the guy as regards to the mismanagement of her fund and cheating, the guy's younger brother beat her up. Real wahala, I was in the middle of the whole thing 'cause they both report themselves to me when they're having mild issues. I'll say she was desperate.
Now, in order for her to get over the whole drama, she had to relocate. So she could stop seeing him and his family members since her house was closer to theirs. And the guy rented back her shop for himself.

I see, but why was the brother beating her, how was it his business? She should have picked up something and smashed his brains in.

Benita27:
Thank you!, I have seen a clear case of a lady being used and dumped. Babe opened a laundry shop, and her fiancé was the one managing it 'cause at the time he wasn't doing anything reasonable which the lady wasn't happy with. She handed the business to him, she cooks and serves him with her money, buy him clothes. But this guy never did a formal introduction of her to his mum and sisters, nor went with her to see her parents but told her he wants to marry her. Time wasn't on her side, the started having misunderstandings 'cause the business money couldn't be accounted for, and she had to use her salary to pay her shop rent when fiancé was running her business for her. The quarrels got worse that she had to end the relationship, removed her things from the stop and relocated. The same shop she left is where her ex fiancé is doing the same laundry business. Who won't say this lady was used and dumped?.

From reading your post it seems to me that the lady was a victim of her own stu.pidity. Why did she leave instead of telling him to leave. She opened a shop and got mad at her boyfriend and left the business for him.
What do you mean by time wasn't on her side?

777philosopher:
OK. in west, east , and southern African countries .it is 98%-100% pure Hebrew Israelite blood. Which is e1b1a haplotype. Nigeria, Ghana, South Africa,Kenya, South Sudan and others are pure Hebrew Israelite Nations. But the black diaspora is mixed with white European blood. Among all of the black diaspora, it is only Haitians and Black Brazilians that still pure Hebrew Israelites. Because the white slave masters did not mix with them much.

You are waaaaaaay off. From what you are saying all Africans are Hebrews and that is so untrue.

luminouz:
Thank u for this!!!! No one is born gay or bi or whatever mehn......its d kinda mental orientation/psychological conditioning u get after exposure to a lesbian or gay partner(most times through sexual abuse) that ultimately makes d victims gay or bi! Am not Sigismund Freud but I opine DAT most victims suffer from Stockholm's syndrome!!!!
Other cases of mental conditioning are mother's tongue or language..... Religion.....cultural values

Wrong!!

777philosopher:
yeah. the black Americans, black Brazilians, and others. But not all of them. only 65% of Black Americans are pure Hebrews-paternal decent from Africa. The rest 35% of black Americans comes from white European slave masters. It also applies to other black diaspora.

I know that all black Americans, black Brazilians and others aren't just like not all west, east, north and south Africans aren't.

Actually not from Africa but Israel.

Seriously, who cares about those people ?

777philosopher:
the true Hebrews are in west, east and southern African countries. But that is not I want to discuss. I would like to know you better

They are also in the diaspora.

777philosopher:
OK, can we talk through email, privately?

About what, who the true Hebrews are? If it's that we can discuss it here because I know who they are.

trinity11:
As at then it is not cheating.

But they are still cheating so what's your complaint?

777philosopher:
I like you, can we become friends?

Yes you can follow me.

Jones4:
Any woman that cheat in marriage is a devil

And the man who cheats on his wife is a fool.

HungerBAD:
Dumb Cheat.

She is now free to move in with her lover,if he will accept her and i hope he the husband has the common sense to do a DNA test on the kids.

Once upon a time,married men use to be good at cheating. But sadly,married women have overtaken men and the fearful part is they see nothing wrong in it.

I blame modernization for this.

This is not fair. Our fathers had decent ladies to choose from when looking for wives,but our generation is stuck with slay queens and pepper dem gang.

"Once upon a time married men use to be good at cheating " and you see nothing wrong with that comment. I guess pay back is a mutha.

777philosopher:
the government must follow the order from the Creator of Heaven and Earth.

What did you want to say to me?

StOla:
Yes I will advise she have her own children. Why will I use my own biological handicap to artificially handicap my spouse? It doesn't have to be actual sexual intercourse. Same with mine too, I don't necessarily have to marry a 2nd wife to have children that are biologically mine.

She can have a sperm donor, but her own eggs must be useful to her. Just as I can have an egg donor or surrogate mum, but my own sperm must be useful to me.

I repeat, if I can have my own children, I must. If she can have her own while I am handicapped, she must.

Rather than having complete aliens as our children when one of us can have his/hers for the family.

CC: khiaa.

Ok, good to know, that's fair.

You have a point.

Olukat:
There's nothing wrong in getting married to a lady that has a child.
Love should be the base of every relationship not circumstances;
I am married with children but also have children that are not biologically mine, I treat them like mine.
I wish I have more resources to take in more kids.

Off topic.

StOla:
I will if I truly love the woman, but on the condition that I will marry a second wife who will have my own children.

I don't have sperm cells for fun. I must reproduce since I am biologically capable.

Adoption has never been an option with me, when I am biologically fit to have my own. If both husband and wife are infertile, then adoption becomes the only choice.

What if you are infertile is it ok that your wife carry another man's child the same way you would impregnate another woman?

iykekelvins:
She a strong woman. Gotta give it to her...

There isn't anything strong about her, she is a ignorant moran with absolutely no morals who doesn't learn from her mistakes.

Those kids are nothing more than a meal ticket for her and her boyfriend.

Trump is about to shut it down and I couldn't be happier.

igborubausa:
do you see I feel superior , in my story ? what makes you think I feel superior ? your inferiority ?

it is just a simple story : at lagos airport, a handsome black man is saying "sister"/ "brother" to a beautiful white lady /a white gay.

I'm glad to see that you are finally being honest and letting the men know that you are a homosexual who prey on men by pretending to be a woman.

I like the crazy 8 position.

igborubausa:
this is your way to treat a white lady , who is in hope of coming to your country ?

so hospitable.

Stay in your own country nobody wants your psychotic azz in Africa.
I don't know why these lame mods won't permanently ban you.

triplec93:
Are you for real? so your criterion for choosing a country for employment is based on the availability of hot boys, at the onset i took you seriously but now it seems you are related to airforce1.

It's that homosexual guy whywhyogun who is obsessed with African men.

IamSINZ:
Happy new month Khiaa redbeans Nlproblemchild oyindidi. Wish y'all the best!

Same to you .