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i just change my email


please resend your dm.

valenti12:
Hello,

If one has an appointment for Visa will the person be needing a separate appointment for legalization?

nope

NOTE:

Please please...

if you want to travel abroad for studies, business etc please please try and learn to build a research and reading habit. If you want somebody to do something for you every time, be ready to be sold or scammed.

You can read this whole thread in one day. I myself have been away and I just started again from page one to make sure I done miss a thing. If you have a question write it out in a note pad before you read through this thread you will find your answer.

If you can't read 112page how will you read your text books of thousand of pages and handle projects + work when you get to poland.


This is a serious time, legalization and visa appointment is driving us nut here, please help yourself by reading cause nobody will have the time to answer your questions.


Please no vex if I'm sounding hash but it the honest truth.

lexdino:
Good morning everyone
I don't know if this makes sense but here is my present predicament.
Please, I got admission for Bsc to a poland using just my WAEC certificate and TOEFL score. Didn't do any legalization, authentication or eligibility letter cos it's quite a long distance from Benin city to Abj.
Can I go for my visa appointment without the legalization, authentication and eligibility letter?
I would be glad if someone answers this question.
Thank you

go and get your documents authenticated moe and mof, get the eligiblity letter @moe. Do your legalization at the embassy if you can get a date or get it done at the embassy on the day of your appointment. Visa fees 80€ , legalization 30€ each.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
This is not alright

Common Lionel Messi..... don't go please.....
Don't worry we will overhaul that shitty defence
We will sell greizmann because he can't fit into our style of play
We will leave Suarez on the bench....we know he is behaving like actor on the pitch..... falling and rolling for every little touch...
Please!

finally you said it's not alright

juliabobly65:
Hello nairalanders, I need your opinions on this matter.

My boyfriend of 3 years who is now my fiancee (we are talking marriage already) is constantly talking to his ex girlfriend (who is now married).

They discuss all manner of things, ranging from how she misses him and wished she had waited for him.

Trouble started when he told her he was planning to settle down (I still wonder why he told her) ever since she's always coming up with pots of lies against me. She claims someone told her so many things about me.

She fabricating lies isn't my major concern because I know once something good is about to happen the devil comes in many ways than one to destroy it.

I've told my man all about my past life and everything in it, recently he accused me of withholding some information of my past. The ex girlfriend had a chat with and told him things I don't even know about.

Nairalanders this lady is married, why is she poke nosing into our affair?? If she loved him that much, why did she marry another man?? Why is my man giving her audience Is he still in love with her I know she's obsessed about me. Her constant chats with him, makes him accuse me of things I've never done in my entire life.

I told him we should suspend the marriage until he's done with his investigation since he doesn't believe me cos he said if he finds out something I did in my past in the future and I didn't tell him it will be a problem.

Admins pls push to front page.

Have you not heard the story of Prince Charles, Princess Diana & Camela.


At the end Princess Diana die and camela the divorcee got married to Prince Charles

You are in Princess Diana shoes when she was alive. The good thing is your marriage is not arranged, you have a personal choice.

Any man that love you won't even have time to chat with an ex.


The end.

Mizflo:
Please I need your advice. I had created this account because I am well known here with my main account because I am always active and I want to remain anonymously.

Am 21 a single mum with 1 girl age 5 , her dad rejected me when I was pregnant he left when I was 4 months pregnant with her .

I had a difficult time growing up , my mum died when I was 8 years and my dad denied me claiming my mum had cheated on him and there’s no way I could be his daughter.

My aunty who was supposed to care for me had never bothered about me , she was always out leaving me in the house all alone without food , whenever I complains she will beat me telling me to go to my mum graveyard to ask her for assistance.

I have suffered in the hand of my aunty she didn’t care about my education if I have managed to complete my primary school till jss2 was thanks to this aunty who was a teacher at my school and a good friend of my mum , she sponsored me , And when I was 14 my aunty landlord kicked her out of the house because of rent arrears she said I am the enemy of progress she cant take me to her boyfriend house because he won’t accept me to stay there that I should go and look for a place , I cried and pleaded with her to take me along with her but she refuse I beg her to show me where my dad is she said he will not accept me because he hated my mum but I beg her to take me to him .

She took me to him it was my first time seeing him I looked just like him with one eye big one small but he insulted the hell out of us saying he will never accept me because my mum was a cheater she had so many boyfriends that I should ask her who my real father is but my aunty insisted that my mum had told her before she passed on that he was my dad even taught I resembled him still he denied and kicked us out like we were dogs I cried and my aunty was angry because of the insult so she left me all alone in the street but later came to me .
Since that day my life situation has worsened because I was forced to stay with different people where I was being abused , my baby dad came as a guardian angel to my life he took care of everything i needed by promising me heaven on Earth I taught he will get me out of my hard situations but I was wrong i find out he was married with kids I was heartbroken because I didn’t want to live the same lifestyle as my mum had lived but history has repeated itself just like my mother had me with a married man but she knew he was married but me I didn’t know , but it was too late for me to moved on because I was already pregnant for him and I didn’t want to abort my baby I have decide to continue the relationship but when I was 4 months pregnant he left me and blocked me from all his contacts , this is the man that has never bothered to asked about his child for 5 years now..

My little girl dont even know her dad the same way I did not know mine until
I was 14 which break my heart anytime I think about it.

My daughter and I are staying with my madam the lady tat I serve her for now 3 years but things here hasn’t been easy for us because my madam children don’t like me they keep accusing of things I don’t do like I stole their money , clothes and many more before my madam was telling them to stop with their bad attitudes towards me but I have noticed that whenever they had accused me she start getting angry with me sometimes we can go days without her not talking to me which I think I have overstayed and I am not longer wanted here I want to leave this house and to go and hustle but I feared for my daughter because I don’t want her to end up like me.

If I leave this house we will be on the street for a long time till I will be able to get somewhere else to stay with her also I don’t think I can give her the best education because if she stay with me she will end up being a teen mother just like I did something I don’t want to happen to her and I came across someone who’s willing to help me by taking care of my daughter to give her the best life something that I have always wanted for her , she promised to take care of her till university and she will give me the money to rent a room and start up business she said she will take things to the right direction like adoption but I don’t know how she will do it because I have no idea that I will have to sign up papers for agreement i have agreed because I think is really a good opportunity for me even taught I have accepted but sometimes I am getting worried about giving her my daughter I am having sleepless nights and thinking all nights.

I am just tired of living this life I didn’t ask to be born my parents created me and now I am suffering from their mistakes something I didn’t consented and I don’t want my daughter to suffer because of my mistake I think giving her up for adoption is a good thing , but I don’t know if I am doing the right things.

please no insult what is your advice for me.

Thanks

reach out to any genuine NGO. there is one called something alliance for women, reach out to the Nigeria women affairs commission. Tell them you need a place to stay with your kind and you need to learn a skill. Tailoring is now selling it will go a long way. It will be Rocky at first but as long as you remain humble and focus (avoid men like covid 19) you will shine. Don't forget to go to school once u stabilize, health tech is cheap. Forget marriage just focus on your self and your daughter. Make up your mind to give her the life you never had.


I wish u the very best in life

frozen70:
That's the same fish brain they use when they want to work on you

who's you, be careful

frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo

just imagine this. Now you see y men treat women like trash. So if you give your guy cash and ask him not to bother about paying you back and wahala enter you now ask him to pay you back, does that make sense. Women with fish brains "they are so many"

jamaicabakare:
Nice one Mr President.

Please do something very fast to stop the killings and maiming in the land

It is too much

free food

Tunjingwu:
So I met my childhood friend yesterday at lekki.
He is still the elegant young man he has always been.

We spoke at length.
Nothing much has changed about him.
He is still very enthusiastic about life. An Engineer who after working with a firm is now on his own. Things are not very rosy but he can still hold his own.

We started talking about family since we all are married abielt for few years.

Here is the gist.....

He is contemplating having a girlfriend.
His wife hardly have sex with him.
Sometimes it takes 2 months for them to make love once. Nothing appears to be the problem other than the wife complaints of tiredness and not being in the mood for almost every time.
They have two kids(twins).

He had come to tell me to either approve or disapprove his strong intention of keeping a lady by the side since he can afford it comfortably.
I felt for him.

I disuaded him though I know how it feels to stay without sex with your wife under the same roof for months.

You pay all the bills yet you don't eat from the goody bag to your test.

Since yesterday, I have been a little worried for him. I do not know whether to call him and advise him to go ahead with his plan but try and be careful.

It's a dicey situation especially when the wife is not ready to change.

life is too short, kindly send her packing so she can go and rest in her father's house

Miracle7998:
Brethren this is the reason I always tell people to always be on alert and be vigilant so that you will know what kind of things the enemy brings to your house, this is a bat that the enemy sent to my home this night around 10:40 pm and glory be to God we killed it.

You have to stand and fight your enemies we are in the last days

My dear in as much i will not ignore the devices of the enemy, I can't help but notice you're a serious fanatic and your type are making Christianity look cheap.

Wallgago na winch
Bat winch
Cricket winch
Owl winch
Bird the sing winch
Old land lady/ Land lord winch.

Are we fighting a physical battle or a spiritual Battle.

My dear how many times in the whole bible did you see Jesus or his fellow slaughter any animal in the name of witchcraft.

when the bat entered you house did it attack you. If a snake enter into your house does that mean the snake is an agent of darkness? A bat can find it way into your house if you left your door or window open. My dear close your door and windows especially at night.


OK now you killed the bat who died ?



We Africans Christians need to wake up

aminusodiq:
goodorning sir... I just mailed you now sir.. Kindly reply

I have a problem with my email. Please Kindly leave your request here.

Thanks a lot for your understanding

papadenzel:
Bros abeg help share the link where you goth this article from.. Na life and death matter abeg

so sorry I just your post now. Here is the link below


https://ec.europa.eu/info/live-work-travel-eu/health/coronavirus-response/travel-and-transportation-during-coronavirus-pandemic/travel-and-eu-during-pandemic_en

abagadingus:
You may not be wrong too. If they do issue same at the Hospital it's all good. But then if you want it without having recourse to running Helter skelter for validation or whether you got the right thing or wrong one it better to be safe than sorry... The same effort it takes to go to the Hospital to get it would amount for the same to be used in locating and going to NPC office... ,

Anyone suitable is good Sha!

Abi, it is better to safe than sorry. I stand with you on this

SILVERLINES:


University of Oxford, Nigeria

Record breaking, we almost produce ours here, just that we were working on a thing or two

no joy

swiz123:
I don't have a problem if kids don't regard their fathers that much probably because of his busy schedules which their tiny heads can't understand.

My real problem is when an adult still think that his father is irrelevant because he doesn't baby-sit them... like WTF!!.... Shouldn't you have outgrown that stupid mindset?..

Most men who thinks that their father is irrelevant because of your silly reason and therefore goes about asslicking their momma are the reason why most marriages are living hell for modern wives.

Most orphans at motherless homes would give everything to have someone who can provide can feed, shelter, clothe and pay their school fees. That momma's love you so much adore isn't a priority to these unfortunate children...

I don't know how old you are, but please, change your mindset from today onwards

God bless you again again. You nalied it

donstan18:
You are referring to your father who didn't teach you anything positive, not our fathers.


It still doesn't change the fact that your parents didn't teach you anything positive.

Below is my proof, a screenshot of your statement on this forum about them.

They failed, ruined and slowed your success, according to you.

Stop forcing our fathers To be like yours!!

thank you dear. I lost my father when I was 6, even though growing up without him made things a bit difficult the memories of those 6years with him are just amazing for me.


It's a shame op father and other fathers failed in their duty

nusdog:
This is the acct no she gave me 2121615215 zenith bank Ayomide Daodu. She claimed it belongs to her friend cos her own account is dormat. As for her own name: I only know her as Sofia. If i can get someone to help get her I will share the rest of what i know of her, including her senior sister's name.

thank God the money was paid into her account you can trace it. Go to the police make your statement, get a police report and take it to zenith bank. Wahala go start na she go call u because them go freeze the account first...

nusdog:
I lost my ATM card during the time so I used POS to transfer it to her. So which will be next step.


PS: Those saying I'm broke. I'm not. This is about my reputation.

pos ? Please is the pos her own or maybe all this mobile pos transfer center or your own ?


I thought you need ATM to operate a pos ? Pardon my ignorance please

what I understand is as long as the money was sent into her account through your account, pos or third party account you can trace it.

NewDelhi:
When it comes to use of cane, belt, etc, they stopped when I was 12-13.

But physical fight continued till 19-20. Generally when a child clocks 14 and above or when puberty sets in he begins to feel he's above flogging. That's why you try to flog some kids and they hold the cane or restrict you from flogging then.. . I don follow my papa fight gidigbo before... E stubborn with him outdated mentality me sef I stubborn with my newage mentality.

From 21 to over 30 years now we just shout at each other on the phone when there's any disagreement.

Generally I think this African idea of flogging or physically assaulting a child is pure stupidity and inhumane. If you raise a child like an animal, then expect him to behave like an animal. Children like that end up being child abusers and wife beaters. There are different ways to correct a child, physical assault shouldn't be an option.

Stop promoting abusive parenting, kids that went through such will also want to use same method on their own kids too and the cycle continues.

Cc stonemasonn

my dear the Africans are better, the Arab, south Americans the muscle their children o. Esp those Arabs. Na just say we the too show ourself

Amanee:
Hi guys, so I just qualified for Sustainable Development Msc in University of Warsaw. Next step is to send the documents to the university within the deadline and get admitted.

Anyone else in my shoes? Please pm so we can rub minds effectively

congrats dear

Lola685:
have you done polish visa interview before or all these is just what you got from surfing the net? cos you not going for interview, you going for submission of documents and when you submit your documents...the consular will ask the duration of your insurance, the type of proof of funds.

Please use your real account first. Me and you never do poland interview before, na learn we dey learn.

No need to form posh for here.

Lola685:
basically, you got your information from the net. I understand the fact that you trying to help people but you not going for USA or Germany that you have to answer questions like who's the mayor of Warsaw or what's your plan for the future. You going to the embassy to submit documents and any questions at all will be based on your documents...if your documents are complete, if you want to submit additional documents, duration of your insurance, original appointment letter..

Oga how many nairaland accounts you get. You open this account on. April this year and all you comments are in reference to my post

U no get work I swear

All this small children sef

nusdog:
I know I let my guards down. So there was this lady who I would call Miss T. She was introduced to me by her senior sister who I knew through a facebook group. Since I told her I needed a girl for a serious relationship, she said she will link me to her younger sister in Akungba, Ondo state.

So, fast forward to when I began speaking with Miss T, she agreed to come to see me in Lagos but complained of not having enough for transport. So due to the recommendation i got that she was a good lady, I sent her N11, 000 as transport.

So after sending her this money, only for her to call me on the eve of the day she was supposed to come. that one of her relative was ill. So I just had this feeling that this was too coincidental to be true.

So I tried to cajole her to return the money since I sensed she was trying to play smart with me. She said no problem. That I can send my account number, which I did. After waiting for 3 days, I chatted her up on whatsapp that I'm yet to see any alert from her. Only for her to tell me she needs money for now.

So I said she is supposed to keep her promise of returning it, after which, she blocked her on whatsapp. I contacted her senior sister who linked us and her response too wasn't satisfactory to me.

So I'm really bitter with how the whole episode played, any chances of me recovering my money? just pained why someone will block me on top of my money. Please help.

go to your bank get a bank statement, head to a police station get a police report take it to the her bank where she has an account and state your complain. All Her account will be block, she will be arrested for deceit and financial fraud, na 6 year she fit spend behind bar if you want wicked am. Thank God the money was paid into a bank

frostmate2:
Hello,

1. It varies from company to company. Some companies will pay you ridiculously high, some others will pay you ridiculously low and others will be in the mid range. Nationality and where you got your degree comes into play here more often than not. A local with same qualification and experience will earn a lot more than a Nigerian from my experience. This might not be the case everywhere.

2. Salary of 4000 dirhams is enough for a single person as long as you don't live extravagantly, make some adjustments here and there. People are doing quite well earning less than that in UAE.

3. Yes they do more often than not. Foreign/western experience as well.

thanks a lot for the information, I'm grateful

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fabianiyobosa:
Stop with the home ties nonsense. I have four friends that got their visas, none of them proved any home ties. Stop scaring people.

uncle somebody ask this question way back. What we can use as home ties. I went online and got this information from quora and thought I should share it.


By the way u don't have to be rude with your response. You & i don't know it all, the most important thing here is for everyone of us to bring our thought together and at the end of the day we all succeed.


Peace

"Ties" to your home country


are the things that connect you to your hometown, homeland, or current place of residence: job, family, owning a house or apartment, financial prospects that you own or will inherit, investments, etc. If you are a prospective student, the interviewing officer may ask about your specific plans or promise of future employment, family or other relationships, educational objectives, grades, long-range plans and career prospects in your home country. Each person's situation is different, of course, and there is no magic explanation or single document, certificate, or letter which can guarantee visa issuance.

MoDuPe19201:
Thank you.

I check this online now


A work permit should be issued within 1 month (only defined vacancies). 

Work permit for factory jobs (no language skills or qualifications) (from 2 months)

In particularly complicated cases it should be issued not later than 2 months from the commencement of the procedure. 

If your commensment date has not pass your document should be valid. Also you agency should be able to rechange your date for you.

As I said contacting them will clear it out


Note: For if you need a polish work permit. Kindly search it out on Google, it can only be done by N agency and will cost $500-600$ for full time work, seasonal work will cost $250-300$.

HenryCavill:
To answer your questions

1. This is very relative and depends on a host of factors.
In my experience with local companies, its largely based on nationality while most multinationals have a pay scale regardless of where you come from and/or studied.
You can look here https://www.thenational.ae/business/money/uae-salary-guide-2020-how-much-should-you-be-earning-1.952299#13
although this is a guide and in reality things don't work like this for a lot of folks.

2. This is strictly based on your lifestyle. There are people who earn 2k or less that are able to save and people who earn 15k plus that are in debt.
Can you have a life on a 4k salary? Short answer is yes.
Would there be enough savings from the 4k? Entirely up to you.


3. See 1 above

thank you so much bless you


Please I'll need more input from every one. Thank you so much