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Romance / Re: Advice Needed by Kidaholic(m): 3:29pm On Jan 02, 2019
That's sad angry Hey, I googled some stuff about dealing with shyness. Hope it helps...

1. Act confidently.
Confidence comes through action, learning, practice, and mastery. Remember when you learned how to ride a bike? It was terrifying at first, but after you just went for it and tried it, you got it, and felt confident. Social confidence works the same way.
Feeling anxious is not the problem; avoiding social interactions is the problem. Eliminate avoidance and you will overcome your anxiety.
2. Engage.
This means participating in small talk in the checkout line and talking to strangers at bars, stores, sporting events, and the gym. Additionally, approach the individuals to whom you are attracted romantically. Talk to them. Ask them to dance. Ask them out on dates.
Life is short. Who cares if you get rejected? There are seven billion people on this planet. You’re not expected to like or be liked by all of them. Take some chances and put yourself out there to meet new people.
3. Try new things, even if they make you anxious.
Join a club, a sports team, or an improv class. Pick up a new project, take on a difficult task at work, or learn a new skill. Do something to get out of your comfort zone.
Part of overcoming shyness is about developing confidence in several areas of your life and not letting anxiety, fear of failure, fear of rejection, or fear of humiliation get in your way. By practicing new activities, you are confronting your fear of the unknown and learning to handle that anxiety more effectively.
4. Talk.
Start practicing giving speeches or presentations and telling jokes or stories at every opportunity. Be more talkative and expressive in all areas of your life. Whether you’re at work, with friends, with strangers, or walking down the street, you can practice talking more openly. Let your voice and your ideas be heard.
Confident people are not preoccupied with whether everyone is going to like what they have to say. They speak their mind because they want to share, engage, and connect with others. You can do this too. Anxiety and shyness are not reasons to stay quiet.
5. Make yourself vulnerable.
A fear of being judged contributes to social anxiety and shyness. The only way to overcome this fear is to make yourself vulnerable. Practice doing this with the people you are close to and can trust. You might realize the more you do it, the closer you feel to others and the more pleasure and meaning you get out of those relationships. This will lead to increased confidence in yourself and in social interactions.
Being vulnerable requires a willingness to let others see the real you. Be proud of who you are. Being genuine and vulnerable is often the quality that others will appreciate the most about you.
6. Practice displaying confident body language.
Make eye contact when talking to someone. Walk with your head held high. Project your voice clearly and effectively. Shake hands. Give hugs. Stay in close proximity to others.
7. Be mindful.
Mindfulness has been defined simply as awareness. Wake up. Be present to all of your thoughts, feelings, sensations, and memories in any given moment. There is no part of your experience that you have to run from, escape, or avoid. Learn to appreciate yourself and the world around you, including those “panicky” thoughts and feelings, and just notice them without judgment.

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Romance / Re: See How Watching Porn Can Make Men Stupid By Scientists by Kidaholic(m): 3:16pm On Jan 02, 2019
SweetBuns:
No wonder some guys here who say they don't need woman I.e they masturbate are very stupid from the things they post here. I'm talking about the Association of Feminist Bashers (AFB)

Stupid men indeed

Shut up!

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TV/Movies / Re: Who Is Your Favorite Character In Game Of Thrones? by Kidaholic(m): 6:19pm On Jan 01, 2019
Obviously, everyone loves Khaleesi but she ain't my favourite character.
I'd pick Tyrion Lannister and Little finger anytime any day grin

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Romance / Re: Konji Go Hold You! What Will You Do If A Female Guest Wears This On Your Wedding by Kidaholic(m): 5:59pm On Jan 01, 2019
TarOrfeek:

Any man who is turned on by this woman..

Check well, that person can mount a cow.

Haba!!!!

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Celebrities / Re: Chioma Toplis Dances In Bikini To Celebrate New Year by Kidaholic(m): 7:54am On Jan 01, 2019
Major reason why Nigerian men don't respect ladies anymore undecided See someone's mother

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Romance / Re: Sexy Slay Mamas Bares Completely Nude For New Year 2019 (photos) by Kidaholic(m): 7:46am On Jan 01, 2019
Op, bring your head ... angry

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Romance / Re: Come In Here;let See The First Selfie Of Year by Kidaholic(m): 7:35am On Jan 01, 2019
*whistles* Hehe, oga Lefulefu come and see oo grin

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Romance / Re: My Apology For 2018 by Kidaholic(m): 7:32am On Jan 01, 2019
I think the world is finally going to be a better place grin

Sports / Re: 'Sterling’s 1-Year-Old Son Strikes The Ball Cleaner Than Iwobi' - Twitter User by Kidaholic(m): 3:19am On Dec 31, 2018
post=74311452:
Oh, we just got to see that we quoted a kid, as his name implies. Sorry kiddo. Happy New year. Bye!
who is this one? Go and sit down jare undecided

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Sports / Re: 'Sterling’s 1-Year-Old Son Strikes The Ball Cleaner Than Iwobi' - Twitter User by Kidaholic(m): 3:14am On Dec 31, 2018
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.....and what is savage about the lame comment?!

Better start listening to Tiwa Savage's song!

Obviously, you're a total ignoramus to football related issues hence you would have known the comment was neither lame nor exaggerated grin

Who's Tiwa Savage? undecided Does she also strike cleaner than Iwobi? grin

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Sports / Re: 'Sterling’s 1-Year-Old Son Strikes The Ball Cleaner Than Iwobi' - Twitter User by Kidaholic(m): 2:23am On Dec 31, 2018
"Sterling’s son strikes the ball cleaner than Iwobi"
Pure savagery!

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Romance / Re: Can You Date Or Marry A Tomboy? by Kidaholic(m): 2:20am On Dec 31, 2018
who be this? undecided Oga go and sleep abeg! stop wasting people's data

Romance / Re: You Take Care Of My Financial Needs, I Give You Sex. See What A Babe Told Me by Kidaholic(m): 1:02am On Dec 31, 2018
undecided I love babes like this, no time to dey waste time grin just straight to the point not those ones that forms "Love" and at the end they will milk you dry undecided

Oga , if you ain't interested send me the digits abeg ma run am... grin

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Romance / Re: 9 Tips On How To Get The Man Of Your Dream In 2019 by Kidaholic(m): 12:35am On Dec 31, 2018
craze no hard to form, na the trekking be the wahala

Dream man? Pwahahaha! To those hoping to find a man that can accommodate your eating habits (eating two HUNGRY man indomie as snack) best of luck oo!! grin
We'll be here, waiting for the goodnews... cheesy

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Romance / Re: Ladies: On The Subject Of Deposit And Go Men by Kidaholic(m): 11:58pm On Dec 30, 2018
ubunja:
I love this new Funmistic. tongue it's sexy when a girl ain't fighting men.
Funmistic call me and get your dick reward. Its waiting.

Oga face front abeg grin she's taken!
Romance / Re: Ladies: On The Subject Of Deposit And Go Men by Kidaholic(m): 11:57pm On Dec 30, 2018
funmisticqueen:
muhahahahahahahahahHaha!!!!!

I agree thAt I am the reincarnation of evil. In fact you can now call me Lilith, Adam's first wife. You and your womb is my next target. I will come for your corruption soon daughter of eve.

Romance / Re: Why Do Many Nigeria Girls Sleeps Like Log Of Wood During Sex? by Kidaholic(m): 8:29pm On Dec 30, 2018
servercodes001:
Your small d¡ck makes them dizzy

O boy! grin grin what is this?

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Romance / Re: For The Ladies by Kidaholic(m): 8:18pm On Dec 30, 2018
The boobs are needing pillar support and the buttocks are no longer comely anymore but rather ‘loosing’, the face has a lot of pimples and holes. Many things have gone wrong. The tummy is out by the day, your local government is beginning to have some kind of mature odour and the armpits are darker. The waist tires are forming with speed

Lwkm! grin

Romance / Re: Women Flock To Shrine Of Native Doctor Who Claims He Can Restore Virginity by Kidaholic(m): 8:14pm On Dec 30, 2018
Zimbabwe, South Africa, Zambia and Kenya grin Fear 'em! Every time sex sex sex... undecided
Romance / Re: Nairalnders Pleaae Judge This, Did I Do Something Wrong? by Kidaholic(m): 11:37pm On Dec 29, 2018
grin grin OK oo! we have heard undecided

Phones / Re: How To Flash Any Phone With 0.0kb On Your Phone by Kidaholic(m): 11:29pm On Dec 29, 2018
Lwkm! It worked oo... Nice one OP grin
Crime / Re: Man Runs Mad After 14 Days Of Dry Fasting And Prayers by Kidaholic(m): 11:24pm On Dec 29, 2018
End time fasting! undecided

Celebrities / Re: Nancy Isime Stuns In Chic Color Combo Outfit by Kidaholic(m): 11:22pm On Dec 29, 2018
Bae' crush! grin
Romance / Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Kidaholic(m): 11:11pm On Dec 29, 2018
angry Oga, come first ...
she wants us to go through the full cycle before anything further Yet she wants monthly stipends?? undecided
And you've already spent over 100k on her, receive sense!

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Romance / Re: Premarital Sēx Is Indisputably A Blessing by Kidaholic(m): 9:59pm On Dec 28, 2018
==>Try knowing the sexual life of your partner before marriage. Girls check if the dick of your partner is funtioning well by hand job at least if the guy can last on hand job for 30mins, then you are lucky and good to go! Don't let him fūck u b4 marriage. If you are in the mood, encourage romance only.

Orisirisi!

Romance / Re: Is This Cheating? by Kidaholic(m): 9:53pm On Dec 28, 2018
Dabble into any plain you so suit as you try to hoodwink the gullible with this stew. To me, you are nothing but a lil baby trying her hands at manipulative manoeuvre for the very first time

Romance / Re: Na By Force To Knack? Lady Curses Boyfriend’s Friend For Saying No To S3x, Read by Kidaholic(m): 9:25pm On Dec 28, 2018
E pain am!

Nairaland / General / Re: What Are The Lessons 2018 Taught You? by Kidaholic(m): 9:13pm On Dec 28, 2018
Love makes you weak! Yea' it keeps you humane but its easily exploited!!
2019 ain't getting broken hearted again!

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Romance / Re: Should I Give My Girlfriend A Phone? by Kidaholic(m): 4:00am On Dec 28, 2018
LaDolceVida:
fellow nightcrawler
Lol, you're sighted. Can't sleep?
Romance / Re: Should I Give My Girlfriend A Phone? by Kidaholic(m): 3:31am On Dec 28, 2018
The first lady is very slim.infact she is so slim that I feel ashamed taking her out I always call her out at night or take her to a very dark area to avoid my friends seeing me.but I love this girl...

This is no love mhen, probably when you start having sex with her you might start feeling distorted, let her go now before it turns sour!
And no, don't give a phone to a lady you ain't sure you've got a future with if you don't wanna feel used! Shalom.

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Romance / Re: What Do Women Really Want? by Kidaholic(m): 9:58pm On Dec 27, 2018
Oluwapanda1:
Give a man Good sex, loyal girl , money to spend and he’s satisfied bro. Try this with the female Counterpart and end up with an even more enraged girl

Really? If that's the case then we should be having less relationship/marriage failures in Nigeria, don't you think undecided
Although it may be suppressed for a moment or so, but over time the urge for more comes alive again grin Humans wants/needs are limitless!
Romance / Re: Wooed her, but She Stays With Two Guys She Doesn't Know: is it pure? by Kidaholic(m): 9:43pm On Dec 27, 2018
She said she stays with two guys she doesn't know...
Lol, In this Modern Era? If you know, you know... grin

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