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i will grow up like u guys suggest,just wanted to make sure that if i go against their wish people agree with me.thanks guys.

i dont understand your comments guys,so what do i do?

a guy that dumps you before,for any reason whatsoever will do it again.
do not destroy the relationship with ur new man.it might not be worth it.
you might still feel emotionally attached to the former but with time it will pass.

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are you kidding or u re serious
if you were the girl i would not mind,but you are the guy.can u be the head of such a relationship? or are you a toyboy

you would have an idea b4 marrying him that he will do that or is already a yahoo boy,or you were just blinded by the material things  he provided during the courtship.
if i find out i will be disappointed but i am not sure what my reaction will be.
if we married,i would only consider if he promised to stop it.
if we are not maried i will keep my distance and let him know i am not comfortable with STOLEN MONEY

hello guys i need replies.thanks

hello Nairaland users
i am a part qualified accountant in london,i have a degree and have about 2 years working experience.i want to find out how to get a job in nigeria.i really want to broaden my horizon and not limit myself only to working in the uk.
do i apply from here or who do i contact?
thanks

hello Nairaland users
i am in a dilemma now,my boyfriend of 2years my parents wont accept him,they keep coming up with one excuse or the other.its been two years now and he says he is not getting any younger.its either they agree or he moves on.
what do i do?i really love him but i don't know what to do about my parents.
i can't get married knowing they don't approve.

Kolomental-Faze

i would say it is definitely up to you,will u feel strongly about her in a few years time? i would say just take your time and see if ur feelings will change.
dont risk the friedship you have with her.

if she feels her clock is ticking,then she will give into pressure from people around her to be married.
she has to think about it properly,when she is 40 he will be 57.can she cope with that?
personally i would say anythng more than 10 years is a no go area.he might be all she needs now,but wont she consider him too old in a few years.

typical!!! tom cruise and katie holmes

agbani

cool kyle
it shows you are a guy,was it ur girlfriend being pressurised to marry someone or ur sister.
either way i think the mothers think they know what is best for their daughters because that was how they got married,i think it is up to the girl to stand up for herself and say she is not intersted in the man and make the parents see reason.
another reason might be if the girl`s parents are not very well to do,this rich guy can capitalise on this fact and offer to spend as much money as possible to convince the parents.
it is up to the girl`s father to make the big decision and say he is not intersted in the suitor`s money,the mothers are somewhat greedy.or dont want their daughters to expire for house

i am still friends with my ex,but i feel guilty when i talk to him sometimes,my current boyfriend does not like the idea.i hope to reduce communication when i get married.what do u think?

i do trust him,its been 2 years now since we started dating and this is the first time its happened or i have known

i confronted him and he said he was doing it for fun or out of boredom.he promised not to do it again.

hello people,
i am in a dilemma,i have the password to my boyfriend`s email,and i just noticed he has been chatting to girls online,telling them he is single,and wants their number to call them.
Pls what do i do?

hello everyone,with all the hype about sex,i was just wondering,what do young people think about more,what their next meal will be or sex?pls answer honestly

wow mohadana
now i am confused which name to give my child.u have given me too many options.thanks for the post.urhobo wado

You have made up your mind abi? Fire on. I just sincerely pray you don't run into problem.

Following your heart without a fallback na wa O. Try as much as possible to let them reason with you. Remember, they are your first family. What does your fiancee's family think about the prospective union? Handle it with good caution for it is a sad reality. Don't let youthful exuberance relegate your objectivity.



thanks kashif for ur reply,its been a year now we are still in the process.at least now they have agreed to meet him.

Reading this thread just makes me feel so bad,i can relate to this very well.i am based in uk and the rest of my family as well.i am in a serious relationship with a guy from another tribe which is no problem to me,  we have decided to spend the rest of our lives together.when i told my parents about this,i was called a disgrace amongst everything else.they threatened not to be involved in it,but i really do not care now,its been a year since i told them and i have made up my mind to marry him regardless of what they say.
it is so sad to know that even parents abroad stil have this perception.

Sitanda,there is no pirated copy.u have to buy original

a man that slaps me can kill beat me,a man that beat me can kill.not worth the trouble

i work in an open plan office,my boss`s desk is behind me,do i do some work or just play on the internet?

i am still a virgin,am 23,u got any problem with dat,mind u i have a serious boyfriend,just dont believe in destroying what i ve waited so long for,

everything,his gentle laugh,to be honest  i miss a lot about him but i just found some1 better.so im cool