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Jibson999:
u get brain, [size=14pt]but sha i get dis barbie wey just gree 4 me lst wik, na yesterday i come remember sey na 14th be val, i no plan 2 call am again[/size]

joe4christ:
[size=25pt] Chai, sey na poverty dey make people provoke for val?
Make una no worry, e go better. [/size]

C'mon shut up dia! Read your signature below!

BREAKING NEWS; Prepare for the coming of christ (The rapture). It's near

If Jesus decides to come on the 14th of february, and you dey on top your girlfriend wey you never marry, wetin you go do? Wetin you go tell Jesus?

aanumama:
I don't really get the hype about the val's day but if it makes sense to people why shouldn't they celebrate

[size=13pt]for me love is meant to be celebrated everyday![/size]

Thank you! Smh at waiting for the 14th of February to show love. . . Absolute absurdity! Crowd mentality that causes more harm than good! Just guess how many kids that will experiment with sex on the 14th, think of how many of them that will get pregnant, and then think of how many of them that will be thinking of an abortion on the 28th of february! All because they thought giving sex is a way of showing love on the 14th! Some cant even wait for that day to come. Think of how many relationships that will be broken on that day alone due to the complications resulting from valentine gifts, valentine outings and what nots!. . . . I tire mehn!

zolzlolz:
Well Seun is making money from those Valentine's Day ads so good for him. [size=13pt]Go boy, get your money![/size]

LMAO! Wetin concern seun? For all he cares, anyone can break their head about valentine and his day. . .

claremont:
Anyone who doesn't celebrate valentine's day shouldn't celebrate Christmas, Easter, Eid'el Kabir, Eid'el Fitri, Eid'el Maloud e.t.c. If you choose to celebrate any of these religiously-themed festivals with the exception of valentine's day, and then label those who do celebrate valentine's day as foolish, stu-pid e.t.c, I think that's a classic definition of sheer hypocrisy.

Wait o! What's this atheist on about? You dont believe in love, so wetin concern you and valentine? You are not religious, so wetin concern you with Christmas, Easter, Eid'el Kabir, Eid'el Fitri, Eid'el Maloud e.t.c? I said it, you are a discombobulated atheist! Abeg park well comot for road make i see better people. . . Hypocritical atheistic mess!

I'm loving ~kills~. His comments make sense. Pls are u same person as sexkills?

Val, huh. No BIG deal, really.

^^^
Yes ma'am/Sir  

And i agree with you, No BIG deal! Especially when majority of guys will start the 15th of February, as broke as Job's turkey! Smh @ Misplaced priorities!

zolzlolz:
talking sense!

La Parisienne:
You probably didn't understand what I said or maybe I wasn't clear enough. Those are things men do and nobody raises an eyebrow, not things I want to do. Lol
Ofcourse I have values and principles, there's no atom of irresponsiblity in me

Hey. But these were your exact words: "I'll like to get advanced degrees, build a good career, make good money, bleep responsibly as much as I want, and then get married at 30." I'm obfuscated!

Who says nobody raises an eyebrow? Is it not women they bleep with? Irresponsibility is a vice. It should NOT be encouraged, you should NOT even dream of living that kind of life! There's more to life than bleeping responsibly. Sensible guys and girls know this, and are cultivating self control to help them deal with the pressures life throws at them. It's their choice. If you make a choice, you stick with it and live with the consequences. All choices have consequences, if there was no consequence, there wont be any need to choose, no need to make a choice! You either choose to be irresponsible or responsible! If a boy chooses to be a fraudster, he enjoys the money for a while and then he'll be caught one day! it's his choice. he made the choice of being fraudulent and looking over his shoulder in fear, every blessed day! Does it mean i should emulate him or be envious of him, because i saw him in a Range Rover Sport Supercharged obviously bought with fraud money? Hell NO! Choices!

It's good you said there is no atom of irresponsibility in you, so why o bloody why, are you in open support of irresponsibility?

TisaBone:
This is a mans world but men do av their own challenges like taking care of the family paying 80% of the bills e.t.c

In America things are different. I know too many single mothers who take care of children AND go to school AND go to work.

Then like everywhere in the world I'm sure, you have the men that are lazy bums who allow their women to bring home the bacon while they sit on their derrieres watching tv and drinking beer all day.

And then you have independent women who do it all by themselves and dont ask any one for ANYTHING, 

 I was watching a documentary on a South African woman, and she said that she knew her husband was cheating. and when he was on the road, she was sure he was not using condoms. then he began to get sick. so she got herself tested, and she was hiv positive. She said she stayed with him because she LOVED him and that secretly, she was glad that he had aquired HIV, because maybe then he would  finally stop cheating. Only he never did.

I dont think life is more difficult for women, I just think that women take entirely too much from men. If they stopped this, then maybe things would be a lot more fair for us. Maybe if we stopped being ruled by our emotions, we could maintain some sort of control in romantic relationships.
  [size=14pt]Anyways, let me conclude this rant. In closing, might I say, that life is not really all that hard for women in particular, its hard for everyone in general, but we as women must not think negatively. If we only choose our men more carefully, then perhaps we could save ourselves some heartache and pain.  Also, I dont believe women have to choose between a career and men. If you truly want both, then you will do BOTH and make it work somehow. Finally, the only way life is unfair to women is if we believe that life is unfair. If you continue to think this way, it is the end before it has even began.[/size]

Your type is very rare!

+1000

pendo89:
^^ LMAO!!  

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That post made me forget what I wanted to post!

Tisa,you made my day!bye

LOL! I completely forgot myself, and the only words i could come up with was "This is serious" That lady needs to have a "Caveat" on her forehead! Chei!

La Parisienne:
@Killz
-Do I have to choose between having a high flying career and having a family? I believe I can have both, it'll take a lot of stress. But a man can easily have both.

-Yeah rich aren't necessary bad. Truth is, it takes a agression and strong will power to make a lot of money. Nice guys don't have the guts to do it.

What is more important to you? Money or Happiness? life is all about choices. You cant have it all, and you know it. Most of the big shots with lots of money are crooks and they made their money from fraudulent means. Tell me why i should get aggressive & fraudulent to make money just to impress a lady? Fcck NO! I wont do that. If my being nice and not too rich is not ok with you, please always feel free to bounce. . . Choices my dear, Choices!

-It's generally accepted in Nigeria that men will always cheat. Even on Nairaland, I hear it a lot. To be honest, I think 80& of married Nigerian men cheat on their wives.

It's not generally accepted. Who's feeding you these fables? Cheating is a vice, and will remain so. Thankfully, you made your statistics 80 percent, which means that the remaining 20% wont cheat on their wives. Not all men cheat! Seriously, you want a super rich nice guy that doesnt cheat? Heee Haw! Set your priorities straight first, then when you have known what you want, it would be easier for you to go about them.

-Argue all you want. In reality, life is a lot easier for men. I'll like to get advanced degrees, build a good career, make good money, bleep responsibly as much as I want, and then get married at 30. This is certainly easier for men.

TisaBone:
Well I'm from Indiana. I was raised by my grandfather, and he told me women could do anything that a man could do. only that they drove too fast. and some of the smartest women he knew (career wise) were dumb when it came to men. and he warned me not to be that way. he told me never to take no ish off a a man. so i dont think that women have it worse than men. Life is what you make it.  Besides, the easiest thing a woman could do is lie and say that a man hit her, and he would immediately go to jail.[size=14pt] if a man hits you, women you dont have to take that. if he hits you, all you have to do is wait until  he is watching tv or playing ps3, then you sneak up behind him and hit him upside the head with something. (preferably a pot or pan, until he is unsconscious)i bet he will never hit you again! And if he cheats on you, you can always take him to the cleaners and leave him with nothing but the drawers on his butt.[/size] So actually, i dont think life is all that unfair to women at all.

If you are in Nigeria, I really dont know what to tell you, because I dont know how things work over there. But there has got to be something you can do to a man who doesn't treat you right. [size=14pt]If a man mistreated me in nigeria, i would probably poison him, or piss in his food. At least that way I would get some sort of satisfaction.

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This is serious!

La Parisienne:
-We have to choose between having a high flying career and having a family.

-We have to choose between marrying a rich man aka bad boy, and marrying a nice guy who might not be so rich.

-We are expected to be mothers, wives, lovers, sisters, housekeepers, career and business women etc.

-We are expected to be awesome in the sack.

And men are supposed to be what? Dull in the sack? I laugh in pidgin! Once there's a mutual loving caring aura surrounding a man and a woman, especially if they are married, selfishness is relegated to the barest minimum, and all they'll think of is how to give effectively to their partners! It's got to be mutual! You are not "expected" to be awesome in the sack, you "should" be awesome in the sack, just as the man "should" be awesome in the sack as well! There is more happiness in giving than there is in receiving ! When you and your man concentrate on giving simultaneously, you'll receive simultaneously! It's that simple, but it requires simple effort not to allow selfishness becloud your sense of reasoning on such matters as to who should give or not!

-We have to accept that our men will always cheat(mostly nigerian men). I really really hate this!!!

-We are paid a lot less than our male colleagues in the same positions.

Like seriously?

-And ofcourse the pressure to get married early is there.
I spoke with one of my aunts today and she asked me if I'm getting married soon. This same woman has a son who's 5 yrs older than me and he's single. He's doing his Phd now and he's busy travelling around the world, having fun. Marriage is not even in his mind.
When I asked her why her son isn't married yet, she said he's a man, he can marry anytime.

This got me thinking. Men are really having it easy, I'd love to be a man. All men do is bleep around and make money, they don't have to make tough choices in life. I'm sad

Like seriously, this comment should be the what tha fcck comment of the day! Men having it easy? How? Where? Are such men really on Earth? All men do is bleep around? Where have you been meeting such dumb arses disgracing manhood? They dont have tough choices to make? Jeeeeeesus Christ! The toughest decisions in a mans life are as regards women! If that is not tough enough, nothing else is tough! Blimey!

All man for himself! I haff talketh mine!

ARareGem:
^Lollest.

Yes o, it's called 'Selective Amnesia'. It usually occurs when an event never took place. Just google it.

^^^
Thunder fire selective Amnesia. . . Amen!