@ OP,

U can go into Car wash business, Restaurants or Gym Centres.

Moreover I'll suggest u diversify your money.

And I can also assist you to generate passive income through Forex Trading (u can start with $1,000), all what u needed to do, is to connect with my trading account known as CopyTrade. U can reach on my email (check my signature).

Shalom.

@Op, Am happy for your financial breakthrough, May you swap higher in abundance.

Could you plz drop your email, I want to refer an unemployment someone (studied Computer Science in school) to you, so that he can begin his Programming Journey also. Which I think it would be easier for him with your guidance on the right courses to take. Thanks.

@OP, plz keep your Federal Job, and start a Business, I suggest u learn a digital skill.

Moreover, I can assist you to help u to create your First Stream of Income, which would be a Passive income (it doesn't need your present)

I trade forex, & let me trade for you, while we share all profits 50-50

I take a minimum of $1,000 Account Capital for starter, then if u are satisfied with the Account growth, then u can increase the Capital.

(Plz note that u are not giving me or sending me any money, u'll create an account with a Broker and deposit the money into your account, then I'll trade & grow the money in your account account, I'll guide u on how to create your FX account with the Broker)

If u are interested, Contact me through my email (Check my signature)

@OP,

I will advise you not to Japa, bcoz the tax over there is nothing to write off...

And Let me assist you on the business side, for u to be making a passive income without u showing up in the business.

I trade forex, & let me trade for you, while we share all profits 50-50

I take a minimum of $1,000 Account Capital for starter, then if u are satisfied with the Account growth, then u can increase the Capital. (Plz note that u are not giving or sending me any money, u'll create an account with a Broker and deposit the money into your account, then I'll trade & grow the money in your account account I'll guide u on this)

If u are interested, Contact me through my email (Check my signature)

Queendera po st=122527343:
Personally, i have never liked the idea of divorce settlement.

Yes. Think whatever you wanna think.

But divorce settlement is to me a fraud. It makes the whole marriage thing a thing that people are now afraid to get into.

No one deserves to lose their wealth simply because they got married.

You don't marry a wealthy man and then in 3 or 5 or even 10 years time feel entitled to half of his wealth.

Yes, let the court settle the matter and let the woman get something from the man based on "compassionate" grounds if she had been a housewife.

But a woman working at the same time should pack her things and move on.

You both spent the time to build yourself. You both had your fun together. You both gave birth.

So why give one spouse the idea that they deserve half of what they probably didn't work for?

This is love being bought and sold.

Marriage has been monetized by certain groups of people and men need to start speaking up.

Look around you, some women in the western world now live on child support and they feel "empowered". Such nonsense.

If you are not financially able to take care of the child why fight for custody?

I LOVE WHAT YOU POSTED, Plz beep me up on my email, check my signature

Hi OP, CAN YOUR HUSBAND LEARN FOREX TRADING?

IF YES, CONTACT ME ON MY EMAIL (CHECK MY SIGNATURE)

Dearlove2me:
The truth is right now, I feel like going somewhere for a while. I feel like I need rest. Somewhere I can forget about all my problems and breathe a fresh air.
My husband has not been honest with me since the beginning of this marriage and I doubt if this is an attitude of a man that loves

He has always been in debt even before I married him. and he wouldn't let me know what he do with the money he keeps borrowing from people. Even my friends I introduced to him, he is owning them and can't pay back.

The bad side is, he borrows and stop picking their calls not respond nicely to them.
He behalves badly to them.
I'm suspecting he's into some kind of addiction that demands money. Maybe gambling but he wouldn't tell me.
He's constantly on his phone.

He is owning loan app everywhere. To the extent that the app had to send hurrible messages to his contact's lists including his bosses, office colleagues and my relatives.
It's so embarrassing and tiring.
He has apologized several times that I should give him time to work on himself to stop an addiction, but he refused to explain what it is. Claiming that I might leave him if I know.
But he has not changed abit.
We are always hungry in this house. No baby food for my 6months old baby, no pampers and everything is total struggle. I quit my job last year but I'll soon start job search once my baby grow a little.
In this house, If I don't look for food, then, we starve, I don't look for means of getting pampers, food, wears,then my baby will suffer, because his daddy is not capable of providing anything for us. It's so annoying.

I have dreams before I married him, but right now, I feel lost. There's no romance, no love, no affection in this marriage anymore, as I wouldn't even let him touch me because of the stress, suffer he constantly brings on us.

Money I raised to start up a business, (340k) I ended up using it to pay for his debt last two months because the people were always coming to embarrass us in the house and neighbors were coming to pleade on our behalf. I had to clear up the loan, yet he couldn't explain what he did with the money.
With that start up capital, I would have been growing by now, but here I am. Still at the zero point.

I'm really tired
I'm so confused here.
What should I do?
What would you advise?

What would you advice in a situation where a husband loses his job due to gambling and decided not to make any effort in search of another job or business or any legal means of making even little money.

He just wakes up in the morning, have his bath, put on the AC and go back to sleep. Only expecting any little thing the wife can cook to eat? He wouldn't pay any bills, provide anything but very humble helping out with house cleaning and washing.

Knowing that the situation is not funny on the wife and two children.

The wife must struggle to make food available no matter how little for the children, because she can't watch the children go hungry.
In a situation like this, when men goes out looking for means of making food available for their children and family, he is comfortable not having anything to offer all the time.
Is this the character of a father and husband that loves?

Is this not enough reason to divorce him?

YOU ARE A STRONG WOMAN!

THEREFORE I WOULD LIKE TO INVEST INTO YOUR SMALL BUSINESS, CHECK MY SIGNATURE AND CONTACT ME ON MY EMAIL (screenshort this your moniker when sending me a message to my email so that I'll know it's you precisely)

staga:
Abroad, time is directly proportional to money. Too many bills, which require you must be up and running to meet your financial obligations.
Also, you will realize that too many things we pray about in Nigeria, are already in place abroad.

2 Peter 1 v 3: [b]His divine power has given us everything we need [/b]for life and godliness through our knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and goodness.

Abroad is where this scripture is come to light. You will realize that God has already done it all for us. Our relationship with Him should actually be on a spiritual level, and not on the basis of prayer to have basic things of life to be provided or answered.

In Nigeria, sometimes I have to pray to God for my freelance business not to be grounded by scarcity of fuel and lack of electricity, making me miss jobs, miss deadlines and risk losing clients.

When I got to Barbados, I found out that these things were all in place. I got a house that had superfast Wifi, 24/7 electricity supply (which is available the whole island), treated water straight from the water board, with a functional solar-powered water heater. Five minutes walk from the beach. Efficient transportation system. ATMs that pay 24/7 with no downtimes whatsoever. Of course, where will you see generator that is blasting fumes and noise your way? The only time I ever saw a police officer was at the COVID testing centres. Not on the roads and definitely not carrying an AK-47 and demanding for bribe. There are countries and there are shithole countries.

Even God must be tired of those always asking him for the basic things He has already put in place for us to harness. He seeks those who come worshipping in spirit and truth, those seeking a relationship and not those seeking his blessings alone.

Hello Mr Staga,

Plz I sent you an email invitation (NAIRALAND), plz accept for further communication.
I also plan to re-locate my family to a good secure Caribbean country with zero racism...


Anticipating for your response.

Thanks.

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Huh

Oh my God

Am not really sure the government cares about their citizens..

Say no to any form of violence!!

Interesting...

The guy is a scammer

Good

Hmm

Wrong motive to the incoming generations...

Making money legitimately would always give you Peace of Mind & inner peace to your soul.