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Karlifate:
Be kind, not foolish.

This tweeter is too deep into the matrix. I hope he eventually heals and gets out. There is nothing wrong with being a nice guy. You are being manipulated not because you are nice but because you are weak and gullible.

Afrobasic:

So many women preying on men's bitterness, low self-esteem, and gullibility in "redpill" online spaces. These women couldn't give two sh.ts about men. And I suspect some of these accounts are managed by men posing as women.

KennethIbe59:
Kings in the house, if I may ask. What are the benefits of Semen Retention.

I just did 170 days--5 months and a half--of semen retention. I would be more than happy to give you a thorough answer. I will save your question and answer it later.

PureFace1:
Nairaland don't have enough information for Redpill.


Visit www.sosuave.com Forum and www.forums.red for more articles on Redpills and they are both international forums. They cover all aspects of relationships with women

forums.red is a club for bitter men.

luminouz:
I have a confession.


Yesterday would have been my first day or time of sleeping with a married woman, if not for the redpill.

So here we go:

I saw her and she looked darn good. We exchanged numbers and talked a bit. She kept talking of her husband and I asked her what dafuq do you want from me if you have that. She said the marriage is one of convenience and not love. I asked her, why not divorce?

She said it wasn't the right time. Ok. Fast forward to yesterday, she was in my area and asked to come over. I agreed and when she entered, she looked real good. Tall, with big ass and all that. She has smoked weed and I could smell it on her breath. We gisted and she kept staring at me, biting her lips. Strangely, my diick woke up and started doing pushups in my boxers. She drew close and hugged me and for a moment, just a moment, a brief flash of her mouth sucking my dick went through my mind and I knew I had to retake control. I drew back and asked her why she was with me. She said she liked my looks and my accent. She said her husband irritated her and she doesn't love him. He needed help and she married him out of pity (for insurance or some shiit). She married him in February and made love with him last two weeks ago.

In my mind, I was like... Thank God for redpill. Any simp.would have 'pitied' her damsel in distress BS story and fuqed her and become entangled in her entanglement. Not me though, not this nigga. I just drew away and told her I had an appointment soon(I was scheduled to go out with my homie, who coincidentally called at that point too) and we would talk or gist later.

She took it in her stride and hugged me before she left. Later that night, she sent me a message that she didn't even wear panties and she was so sure I would fuq her. That I didn't and showed some restraint was fuqin sexy and now, she would do all she can to win me. I sent a smiley. I'm not fuqin with a married woman but she could be useful in other ways.

N.B: For all the single and married men out there, vet your woman biko..e get why. This one puts her ring on all SM platforms. She wore it to my house sef. I would have fuqed her with it, if I wanted to. Yet her darling husband has gone out of state on a trip to hustle for his 'loving family' while his loving wife was frizzing around me hoping to taste my black diick.

You can't love women if you truly know them like I do. Just look at them as adult children and you will be fine.

Women are absolutely not like children. They lack one thing that is fundamental to childhood: innocence.

qbqetell:
Purple pilled men and SIMPs would make you believe redpill is impractical.
They would make you believe it doesn't align with reality.
It is all a lie.
They are scared little men.
They are unable to muster up the courage to exit the matrix, into reality.
They dig into the ground to find all sorts of lies and excuses.
Do not be fooled.
The redpill is a very bitter drug to take, but it is the most healthy.
Take your pill now and live the rest of your life in good mental and psychological health

The redpill is a scam and a fantasy.

heartofcity12:
Someone he should have just hit and run or he’s probably just taking her for a ride.. 🤷🏼

Women love boys because they want control.

heartofcity12:
I’m glad men are speaking up these days. You can’t even sign in on SM anymore without seeing unclad women everywhere.. 🤦

That man is bitter. I hope he eventually heals. This is what the redpill does to many men.

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1991#122459495

Pornography and masturbation are very bad habits, they are delusional, they do not reflect reality, women don't have sexual urges like men, women don't typically furck like pornstars, women need security, women weaponize your lust, women are very manipulative and would make sure that sex with you cost you a lot, you fantasize, you lust, you better slap yourself back to reality, you can never in your lifetime get that harem, sex is hard, getting pussy is extremely difficult, better go hustle and better your life, women respect power not lust and the reality of majority of men is that they will be losers all their lives and will never get power.

I agreed with you up to the part where you said 'pvssy' is difficult, which isn't. After going 5 months and a half on monk mode, I realized that pvssy is not hard, guys are just fake.

Smartb0y:
For all "those" repentant hoes.

It's you against your biology.
If you couldn't hold yourself back before damaging your body,why would you think you can hold yourself back after damaging your body.

Stop deceiving yourselves.

You cannot be saved.

My mother said the same.

DieRich5:

None of these guys is successful.

Karlifate:
There are only 3 things that will universally win you Status in any group:

••• Power 💪

••• Wealth 💰

••• Good Looks 😎

If you wield Power, and have immense Wealth, and you are Good Looking, that will win you Status in literally 100% of groups on the planet. 💯


Your level of Power, determines the level of your Influence.

No, money is not power. That's an evil message.

heartofcity12:
#trp

This guy is a pournstar and a homosexual. That is very far from masculine.

heartofcity12:
..

My mother taught me this. Once a woman has done that, she can't stop. My pathetic self was actually debating her on this. How stupid I was.

chenny360:
That's it... have money or nothing for you..
That's if you want to impress whores ..

Yes. If you want to impress women who have already given their all to other men and didn't heal from it.

Datedoboy:
I had to take time to think deeply on this and i came to this conclusion

Ladies that say the following
1. I can't date a poor man
2. I can't marry a man who can't cater for my needs
3. I can't date a broke guy
4. Who love help?

You see ladies that makes these statements i have studied them for a while and i discovered that over 90 percent of them are not virgins.

A virgin girl won't make these statements cos she will be thinking about love but once a girl has been ran through and dumped by her first lover, she doesn't feel love anymore. She starts saying who love help e.t.c

To her, it's now about money. Just like sluts that stand on the highway, it's men that have money that she hunts showing him what i call balloon love. Love that looks big on d outside but is filled with air.

The only difference is that, why hoes stand on d highways, these ones don't stand. They sit in churches, schools and offices looking for a money man.

This is the danger of marrying an experienced woman. She doesn't love you for who you are. It's about what you have.

And the sad part is that if what you have is gone, she leaves or quietly sleeps with other of her customers under your roof.

In summary, a man cannot get true love from a non virgin woman. The best gift a woman can give you us not her money but her purity but these women that says the 4 things listed above, don't have it.

They say women love conditionally but i say No, in most cases, it's non virgins that do so. Virgins love unconditionally.[sub][/sub]

What an insight! I made the same observation. These same girls talking about material things were not saying that when they were 17 year old virgins. In most cases, they can't receive and appreciate a man's love anymore. Only money do it for them. And since they make the majority of society, it gives the impression that money is the key to women while, in reality, masculinity and authenticity is the key.

Haydens:
IF you keep simping, remember that one day, you'll kiss your bride in the front of her 27 exes, 10 besties who have fvcked and dumped her, her favorite one-night stand guy and her 5 sugar daddies which she introduced as her uncles.

They'll eat your food recklessly like they did to your Wife.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

kachiz:
Well, well

He no get sense.

Or it was all fake from the beginning.

heartofcity12:
Rich simps tho.. big cash out to her.

Many of these celebrities are witches... yes, actual real witches who use magic and suchlike. I wouldn't be surprised if he's under a spell or something. They also cast spells in their concert, their music videos and so on.

heartofcity12:
Never feel pressured to impress hos.. They’ll be the first to laugh and mock you when things go south..

Amazing message, thank you. I am implementing this in my life everyday.

luminouz:
Boss...I don try avoid all this masturbation brouhaha but I have to tell you this.

I'm one of those men who have NEVER masturbated in their lives. It doesn't matter whether girls no dey my side or I have no relationship, I personally find it irritating to beat my own meat. Even if I no get pussy again for the rest of my life, I still won't do it. I understand the need to release stress but you need to control that urge. It's the inability to channel the sexual energy properly that causes either simping or masturbation.

Now, when you combine an alpha frame with a mentality like mine, pussy will always come, whether you like it or not. And when pussy is scarce, you maintain frame and do other things.

My one cent

I admire that you never masturbated. I am fighting against the urge constantly. The longest I went was 170 days, 5 months and a half.

TheDarkGamer:
On the topic of masturbation, think about things psychologically. Porn and masturbation affects your dopamine and reward system in your brain.

Not only is it an addiction for a lot of men on the planet, but you are being rewarded (orgasm) for not achieving the goal your brain thinks it has (actual sex). It also affects the way you think about the opposite sex and you would probably view see them purely as sexual commodities.

Also, question why men feel how they feel before and after masturbation. What is the scientific importance of post nut clarity?

This is a topic that can be expanded on.

Men, understand that when you watch porn you are watching a man fvcking a woman you would like to fvck. You are basically cuckolding yourself. You are training your brain to getting off to seeing another man getting pleasure from a woman you are attracted to.

adedoyinmike:
Next time don't ever invite a girl to your place.Thats what the regulars do.Except your smv is about thrice hers and you can clearly see that she's lusting over you(licking her lips and thrusting her breast towards you subconsciously or she's tongue tied around you looking like she's in a trance or something) Otherwise, first pretend like you have no romantic or sexual interest in her.Then work on her mind and build massive rapport and attraction towards you(During this phase keep your feelings about her and your hands to yourself) and stay mysterious .Once she literally fallen in love with you, start going kino with her.Find reasons to touch her there'll be minimal resistance.She'll encourage it.But still don't display any romantic or sexual interest in her.Subtly hint to her that you're sexually liberated,you're comfortable with sex and you are getting lot of sex.(At this point she's wondering why you not falling for her or hitting on her maybe she's not hot enough for you). Then out of the blues invent a tangible reason for her to come see you(don't hint at anything sexual) She'll jump at the meeting and lead you to what you want herself. While doing all these it is important you have an alpha character/mindset so that you don't ruin it displaying any of those beta traits that turn women off while interacting with her.

The redpill wants men to be fake: pretend to be this, behave like that, do this, show that.

chigomiced:
If you know [b]how easy it's, for women to get sympathy & help from random men, you'll know that dating a woman & spending heavily on her, is you being a mumu man.

Men are ready to spend on your wife, just to knack her.

How much more your girlfriend?
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The bolded only applies to conventionally average to attractive women. Conventionally unattractive women are living a much different life.

Dear Ubunja, please could you do a piece on unattractive women?

These women are forgotten by society and invisible to men. They are, in many regards, like men in female bodies. They don't get those 1000+ guys simping over them. They don't get favors just because they are women. They are not being invited on dates. They don't get princess treatment. They are not getting sex despite craving it. They are even more deprived of love. They are not getting male attention and remember dearly every hint of male attention they manage to get. They cannot relate to the average female experience. But they are here among us in society. After listening many of these women, I got a broader perspective of women and humans. Please Ubunja, if you have time/inspiration, your perspective of unconventionally attractive women would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Here is an online forum for that kind of women: https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/ (If you are not on reddit, open the link on your laptop).

Always show love and care to the Women that choose to be in your life, the women that choose you, the women that are down for you Day and Night Rain or Shine, The women that Respect And value. Show them love because that reassures them they chose right. Never Hate Women only give your Time and attention to the ones that Choose And Value You .

This is mature and wise. The problem is that guys want to love women who didn't choose them. They want respect from women who don't respect them.

Kikiwalle:
...

This man is wise.

Kikiwalle:
Og

This man has a problem. I hope he heals. Would he like other men being on top of his daughter or mother like that?

Maynman:
Guys, Look at what this guy said.

The reason I will only commit to a virgin is because I think she can receive me fully, or at least, better than a non-virgin. Men are givers, women are receivers. A virgin woman is like an empty container. She can be mold and filled to my liking. She can receive and appreciate everything I have to give, the good and the bad. A woman having a body count of 2, 3, or x means that 2, 3 or x guys had put things in it. There are certain things she won't be able to receive from me because of what she received from the other guys. Plus, she may not appreciate it as she may be comparing with what the other 2, 3, x guys gave. And that is an obstruction I would not like to deal with.

I am a man. A loving masculine man. I never fell in love with a woman. And I reserve that love for a woman who never fell for a dick before.


The one and only scenario I can see myself committing to a non-virgin women is if she agrees EXPLICITLY she won't be the only one and I'll be OPENLY polygamous.

ubunja:
hie man,, by "true monogamy" I meant it as an addition to a woman being faithful to one man. Her faithfulness must also extend to rejecting other men's attention ON TOP OF rejecting other men's dicc. Other cultures/religions eg Islam take this literally by having women cover up almost the entire of the body. But I'm not saying this is how it must be. It's only an example. The attention, praise and hyping from a man he loves must be enough for a woman. If a woman feels like she needs extra , then that's not the man for her. Cause he's not enough for her.

A woman's attraction to money and riches is for survival and is instinctual stemming from something hard coded in her genes. Women are the ones who get pregnant and are the primary caregivers of children which forces women to have plans and backup plans for the Survival of their offspring. This instinct is hard coded deeply in every woman and even if a woman has no children, every time she interacts with a man who has money that programming comes online. Money = security. Even sex with a man who has money will be good for women but only because of the psychological implications. Women have the safest, most secure and comfortable sex with rich men, cause in Women's mind they know if anything goes wrong (pregnancy, STI etc) the man has the money to fix the problem. A woman wouldn't even mind to go raw with a rich man, cause if she gets pregnant he has the money to support her. That's the attraction Money has on women. It's for security. Which makes the sex better in a way.

But Don't focus too much on what women do publicly. Yes publicly women are flocking to rich men, but after dark, in the shadows, far away from the public eye - women are always different creatures. Cause ask yourself, Who are these girls getting pregnant for? The big ballers or the broke guys who can't do shít for them? A great many women have shiítty baby daddies. Cause secretly they also messing with loser type men. Women will parade the rich men to satisfy societal expectations while getting their back broken on the daily by losers. Cause losers HAVE NO MORALS AND NEXT TO NO BOUNDARIES AND ANYTHING GOES WITH THEM. That's why women's choice of men when it comes to pure pleasure is with the scum of men. Rich men usually have principles and boundaries and standards which is why they're rich in the first place, they're rigid about how they do things. This is off-putting for women sexually. But women still flock to these men for the LIFESTYLE, ACCESS TO THAT HIGH SOCIETY AND A CHANCE TO EXPERIENCE EXPENSIVE FUN.
But the body game , being fit as a man, will always get a woman's engines roaring at a raw lust level. We're talking ovaries vibrating, vagina tingling, clitoris throbbing. Where interacting with a rich man puts a woman's mind at rest cause the resources are there to fix any problems that can arise from sex (eg pregnancy), interacting with a fit sexy man sets a woman's womb on fire cause her reproductive system is desperate for this man's seed and wants to make a copy of him (ie have his baby).
Which is where the Alpha Fuccs Beta Buccs comes into play: A fit man's sperm combined with a rich man's resources= the best offspring with the best chance of conquering at life. Which is why paternal fraud will always be a big problem cause women just can't seem to override that genetic code.

Now, between pulling women using money and pulling women using a fit body - always aim to pull using your body cause its a more genuine connection and doesn't cost you anything since Body Game is PASSIVE - that is, it's your body doing the work for you. You don't have to spend to get a woman's attention, but your body forces her to pay attention.
Meanwhile, If you're that rare man who has both good money and good looks, then you're the top 1% that is deadly. The combination of Alpha Fuccs Beta Buccs in one man is the holy grail in male/female dynamics. This is the man a woman knows she can't keep. No matter how beautiful she herself is. Such a man belongs to no woman. And women will gladly share him or wait in line for his attention.

I missed these gems Ubunja. I am grateful for your work.

logicalhumour:
Nice post! Lol.

But bro, there are a few things I'll like to say about the bolded.

Firstly, I am not red pilled, and I'm definitely not blue pilled either. In fact, I don't do "pills" at all

But you see, my friend, you said "What we should be doing is how we can lead the women into the right direction..."
I think its time you know that Women choose/chose their path, and they know that they're definitely in the right direction.

Life is all about survival, and women are lightyears ahead of men when it comes to survival strategies. You can't, for example, teach a woman who wants to "whor.e" around not to. Actually, for such woman, whorin.g is actually the right direction for her.

A female author once said "Women do not laugh at men, at best, they're irritated." You can't guide them, what they do is hard-coded in their biology. It is the right thing. In the end, that's how they survive so well. That's how they'll get a man to do all the hard work and die for them and their offsprings.

One great advantage women have over men is that they have a choice — a choice between the life of a man and the life of a parasitic luxury item, of which they choose the later (the parasitic luxury item). There are too few women who would not select the latter. Who are men then to "guide" them? Lol.

The RP stuff you find in this thread are just guys who've realized the scientific fact that they can't "guide" women in the "right" path, and instead have chosen not to be in a relationship with women in a manner that would be detrimental to themselves ( unlike "Simps" )


Finally, as for your point that "What we've done in relating with women is to see women them as nothing more than sexual object...", with what I've said so far, you might realise that women deliberately choose to be "sexual objects", and for good reason: if you had a va.gina, opening it to a peni.s instead of going to toil under the sun would actually be the best option for you. Even women who have already achieved all they can with va.gina power would find it difficult to willingly close the vag. It becomes part of their nature, no wonder some say "Once a whor.e, always a whor.e" Have you ever tried quitting a habit? Let alone a habit passed on to you genetically? Lol. "Women are biological whor.es, and men are biological simps." - me.

See women and men? Just leave them alone. All of them know what they're doing—especially the women. From an evolutionary standpoint, the women are actually the LEAST confused of the pair (unlike what most guys think. Lol)

You can't help them. In fact, trying to "help" them is actually trying "kill" them. They know this, and that's why they won't even take your "help" in the first place. Lol. You either accept these facts, or continue to live in denial.

Thank you so much for this piece.

GreatAchiever1:
I need to say something about this red pill especially as seen on this thread.

We know that the red pill shows you how modern society is in operation, the psychology of women and self improvement, but how we go about with this knowledge especially in regards with the women around us is wrong, and if you are a bible believing christian or at the very least, have the fear of God in you, you tend to agree with me on this.

We know feminism and the woke culture has deceived alot of women but what we are doing also is really no different, What we should be doing is how we can lead the women into the right direction, I know we can't save everyone but the one's that want to be saved should be saved.
What we've done in relating with women is to see women them as nothing more than sexual object because of our lust but they are more than that.
We want to have sex with a lady that we have no good intention for asides sex, when the bible clearly condemns that, what we've done is just to increase the body counts and then we go around bashing these very ladies with body counts when we are also accountable to those numbers thereby giving them reason to say that men are scum.
I'm not saying we should be simping around ladies or become a white knight, but we should be men by accomplishing great things and doing what God has placed in us to be doing and when ladies do come around, we should do the right thing and teach them if they are ready to be taught and not for us to game them on how to get in bed with us.
The conversion of Roosh. V back to christianity should have showned us by now that this gaming thing is really meaningless.
The red pill is amoral they say, true but so is power. But with great power comes great responsibility as spiderman will say because he knows what he wants to use that power for which is good and so should be us with this knowledge of red pill.

I'm not a Christian but I commend the message.

Kikiwalle:
....

These women have hate in their heart.