₦airaland Forum

ProphetJeroboam:
There is something I have noticed which is women tend to show strong support to effeminate and girly men. You see them on the pages of several girly men, egging them on, supporting and patronizing them. Check out Instagram pages of popular effeminate men, their comment section are full of such women. You’ll hear words like “men should embrace their femininity” , they want men to be like these feminine men. In fact the coinage of the words “toxic masculinity “ was invented by women who got uncomfortable with extremely masculine men.

The reason for this is women are agents of chaos, it’s how they thrive, a World without masculine men would be plunged into chaos, what happens in a world like this, the prioritization of the well being of women, so their feminization agenda is all about creating a world where they enjoy the best privileges in a world run by weak men.

Yes many women these days are drawn towards "suspect" men. If you listen to women about what a man should be, you will probably become less and less masculine.

Humbrown23:
Do you know why many men are poor?

They slide into multiple women’s DM to ask, ‘Can I know you better?'. But

how many successful entrepreneurs have you slid into their DMs to ask, ‘Can you mentor me’?

Think with what you have between your ears, not between your legs.

Learn to understand women. The best women are not to be chased. They are to be attracted.

You are chasing women. Women are chasing success. Those are two parallel lines that will never meet.

Wise up. Chase success. When you catch it, women will chase you. How many wives, concubines, or girlfriends did Solomon have before he became king? Zero.

How many did he have after he ascended the throne? 1000. Put first things first.

Focus on a good omen in business, and good women will make you their business

How many of his concubines had guys in the shadows doing the do? How many of his concubines were faithful to him? How many had his best interest at heart?

If a woman doesn't like you at 0 naira she will never like you at a billion naira. Do not become rich expecting that women will like you. The "high value" message is a scam.

She is always in men's faces

She gets too excited around other men

She has male bestie

She goes to girls' nights, parties, etc

theophorus:
Anyone that's not my Wife.

Simple.

MrsTwrite:
Pls we need to topics like, 10 legit ways to make money in Nigeria.
20 ways to make money online, How to empower the youths, Books to read on how to maximize your leadership skills. Etc.
I mean no offense!

Thank you for pointing this out.

meobizy:
Eighteen years of Nairaland. No growth. This same question every six months. SMH.

Your comment caught my attention. Why do you think there hasn't been any growth?

NamelessOGBENI:
The statement make money and girls will start chasing you seems to be a slogan of most hustlers on Nairaland, outside here it's a different ball game.

I've got girls on past exploits and shishi no gum me that time, na now wey man dey hunt for financial stability na him the whole women chasing the moneybag hard.

I dont rate most of their talks sha.

I remember I made a post about it before going monk:
https://www.nairaland.com/7465815/make-money-women-come

Honey.denz:
He was married but hide it from me for seven months we dated with two separate abortions, baba was d originator of lies. From am a consultant in an oil company, (while he was actually a small business owner, shop owner) to am a bachelor still searching for the right woman to marry (while he's married with two kids)

He was the last man I feel mugu for,it was so painful that over 6 of his successors paid dearly for d deciet till I found my gentleman hubby.

SMH

Men, this is why bitter women must be avoided at all costs. A woman who is still sprung on their past lover must not be dealt with, not even for sex.

Ojukwu007:
Wow! You said it all. Nothing remain.

My highest 🚩 was my ex..dressing like a wh0re to my house during her first visit, even when I tried to respect her and not make sexual advances, she eventually initiated it and we made out.

Her skimpy and indecent dress so turned me off. I was so ashamed. At that point, I just knew it was over.

Or she just has a high sexual drive

Vinnie2000:
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Can you explain How, Exactly? 😏

because He SPENT his Money, Time and his Energy (Sperms) on her! 🤔🤷🙂🙂

If that was his daughter he would feel she has been used, because she has indeed been used. She gave her essence and her time away for material things that are probably not here anymore. The guy can always make money. She can't get back her body.

Yes, he used her.

budaatum:
I'd go seek a doctor's help, and if that don't work, I'll discuss with my husband if he'd agree we adopt or we find a sperm donor for me to sleep with to provide him with children that he can not have.

In 2023, you don't need to sleep with a sperm donor to get pregnant with his seed. He can just masturbate in the other room and you manually his sperm into your genitals, no need for physical contact, no need for you to see him. Besides, there are so many technologies that can have you impregnated without having to touch or even see the sperm donor.

Smartb0y:
They don't know how to dress at all.

Wearing baggy clothings, nothing feminine about it. Clothing that are not even the least bit contemporary; they put on clothings that are completely outta style.

That won't get anyone's attention.

There are clothings that'll highlight a woman physique. Those natural curves that gets everyone taking a second glance.

Most complaining are out of shape aka fat ass.

Let's face it, it's always gonna be attraction before interest. There'll always be something physical that gets your attention about her.

Saying stuff like I like how she thinks blah blah blah, basically having high intelligence is never enough.

It's an organic drive that requires organic impulses.

These women are just lazy fat asses.

What makes a man wanna protect,lead and provide is that organic drive between his legs.

Testosterone is a beast,we tend to underestimate it.

It does wonders in a man's body.
That sex they're all complaining about in reddit is the same sex that drives man to protect and provide. The same desire is what drives a man's urge to protect and provide.

They're just poor at vetting ergo why they end up with men that just use and dump their scrunny asses.

Women will never be realistic to the truth or accept taking responsibilities.

Life's not balanced,some people work their asses off just to achieve little while some work little just to achieve alot.

It is what it is, everyone can't have the icing on the cake.

Just take that piece that works best for you and move along.

Life's too short to be complaining.

If all you got from these posts is that thewe women are just "lazy fat asses who don' t know how to dress and love to complain", then you are in a sad position. Hopefully you grow from it.

Kipaji:
When I went through this forum I thought about all the times gir's have shown me attraction in school and in the neighborhood. Girls lusted after me, wanted to spend time with me, wanted to hug me, be physically close/intimate. But I was too cold. Many times, I rejected them without even realizing it. Did they also went home and cried? I don't know, but I wish them the very best. I hope they brush these experiences off their mind, and move on. I hope they find a man they will respect and who will love them.

Thinking about it most girls have treated me so well, admired me, and liked me, treated me like a king... even though I am a nerd (and proudly so).
So all that redpill rhetoric about nerds not getting girls, getting friendzoned, getting "beta-buxed" is BS. There are women who LOVE and LUST after nerds. Guys get beta-buxes not because they are nerds but because they are fake, weak, and ignorant.
Be yourself. If yourself is nerdy then be happy and proud in your nerdiness. You may lose some women, but you won't lose yourself. The redpill pushes men to loose themselves in the hope of getting women.

When I went through this forum I thought about all the times gir's have shown me attraction in school and in the neighborhood. Girls lusted after me, wanted to spend time with me, wanted to hug me, be physically close/intimate. But I was too cold. Many times, I rejected them without even realizing it. Did they also went home and cried? I don't know, but I wish them the very best. I hope they brush these experiences off their mind, and move on. I hope they find a man they will respect and who will love them.

I'm just going to add these last ones.