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Dabronze:
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Men should not even listen to women when it comes to masculinity. Virtually all of them do not know anything about what it means to be become a man.

Dabronze:
Once upon a time in the life of a irredeemable SIMPs

Men do not respect themselves these days. It is possible that this guy loves being humiliated. The woman telling the story on social media is further humiliation but he's still there.

He’s asking her what fun thing they can do , that shows he doesn’t have a direction he wants to take he’s waiting on the woman to make a decision. He should have Told her
“Hey I’m going to my favorite hangout spot come join me there for a drink”

Gentlemen Make sure you are the one leading Anything you are doing with a woman , The Conversation, The location, The Food always lead allow her to choose but always be the leader don’t wait for her to make up her mind, Make up your own mind and allow her to Follow your Made up mind

I agree with the bolded. And I would like to add that you should only lead women/people that want you to lead them. I believe that people choose their leaders, leaders don't choose who they'll lead. The problem is guys want to impose their leadership on women who don't want to receive it from them. They think that money, status, clout, and redpill tactics can override that. They are wrong.

why treat her like trash when she’s cooperative? Does that make sense to you? Doesn’t that show that something is Fundamentally wrong with you? 🤨Ha Na wa o

Thanks for pointing this out.

Niceguy06:
I'll rather treat her like thrash and know why she leaves, than treat her right and wonder why she leaves

As a man, you should love women and treat them right like human beings. Men who treat women like trash need some self-reflection. I suspect they hate themselves, because when you love yourself you only want to love on others. And if a woman can't appreciate and receive that love (which is the case of the vast majority of women) just keep her at a distance and continue your life with love in your heart.
Another problem is that men think love means being a people-pleaser who can't stand on his own, take executive decisions, get rid of people, or disallow disrespect.
You can love while being fully masculine. Just understand that not every body deserves that love and some people are better kept at a distance.

Which kind nonsense be this one you just meet girl you just start to propose love , you see how some of you put yourselves in trouble after you will start blaming women, The girl has started friend zoning you since you have made it so clear you are head over hills in love with her, so she has started using you for your attention as well as the service you provide, from your tone you sound desperate too ,

Now here’s what you’ll do call her Today and tell her truthfully that you like her as she knows already, you are also sexually attracted to Her and you would like to have sex with her Sometime soon Whenever she’s available, Her Response To Your Request will Tell you Everything.

Compliance = She likes you and is feeling you.
Resistance = She doesn’t like you like that

Gentlemen I beg you in the name of God whatever God you serve stop telling Ladies you “LOVE” them from the moment you meet that’s some stupid shît and it will get you in trouble, Ladies tend to Misread things most times because they have met men that said one thing but meant another thing lots of times and you don’t even know the girl too well you are already saying you love her?, what the heck is that? You don’t know how she interprets that word yet because of your horniness and desperation you Start using the word, when all you want is sex you gentlemen need to really have a depth of thought before doing or saying certain things especially to Women , That’s what causes problems and mixed signals, if you want to have sex with a woman have the balls to say so if you want to do otherwise have the balls to say so stop using your indecisiveness to confuse these women it’s Annoying Good day

By "I love you" he means "I want to hit it from the back"

heartofcity12:
Feminism/Equality suddenly flew through the window in times of danger and nature takes its action.. When it’s time to do their feminine roles, they start to claim equality and resort to calling men misogynists.. 🤷🏼

Feminism is a shit test at the global scale. Men should have just ignored it. But many (including myself) took that seriously, which was a mistake.

Any hoe getting attention elsewhere will easily pass this test.

When she's done hoeing around for that one month, she'll come back to the potential husband because he's the retirement plan.

Thank you for pointing this out. Guys think that the redpill can control a thot.

Dabronze:
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Let's take hate out of your heart. Soldiers, we don't have to rejoice in women struggles. Most of them make bad and dump decisions. But that's their life, that's their problem. We don't have to hate them, we don't have to mock them, we don't have to make them feel any type of way. We can wish them the best at a distance. No need to hate.

Dabronze:
The wife material test

This is one of the key reasons I left the redpill. It teaches men to be fake. I had to go months without sex/porn/masturbation/redpill to see that.

Princeadebayo11:
Guy I need your opinion on this matter, there is this girl I met through her sister (my student), we exchanged contact and we started chatting. I propose love to her but she said she didn't have heart to love again. Now she agreed to visit me soon and I have been visiting her often also. Last week she even requested for my assistance which I just helped because of her sister. she is telling me she doesn't have heart to love and yet she kept giving me attention as if we are in relationship. Although I have planned if she visits me soon, I will touch body oo

She has been more than clear enough. She is still caught up on her past lover(s) and can't receive your love. The best thing to do would have been to wish her well and let her go. But, obnubilated by lust and delusion, you still want to deal with her. And when you'll get burnt you will say she's a hoe. This is one of the major benefits of monk mode. You are able to take important decisions with little to no influence of lust. You get a clearer mind and a clearer life.

With that said, that she doesn't want love doesn't mean she doesn't want sex.

imustsaymymindo:
Hmm....Interesting.

I am not sure of your exact reason for going Monk mode, but I believe if your purpose is one that revolves around self-actualization i.e. deep down that is the kind of life you want to live, then you would succeed.

For me, the purpose is everything. I am never a fan of dos and don'ts.

Take, masturbation for example...

Masturbation can ruin your abundance mentality when you masturbate for fun, when it is an addiction, or when you masturbate just because.

Same masturbation can increase your abundance mentality and give you the logic you need in situations when you can lose your frame such as you have got yourself a lay and you are eager, masturbation before meeting your lay could actually set you up in the right frame. Or you are in a relationship with a girl you really love and you are starting to lose your frame, masturbation could help reset you to a temporal state of abundance.

I think when trying to improve masculinity positively, we should learn to use all things as pragmatically as we can. We are not all testosterone, you know. There is still some estrogen and other female hormones in us. And pragmatism involves using them to our advantage. There may be a need to think like a woman, and even act biitchey for the right purpose.

There is no inherent gain of Monk mode. Its gain revolves around your own purpose for venturing just like every other thing. With a purpose that supersedes your personal esteem or bragging rights or trying to bottle up your testosterone, or heartbreak avoidance but one that revolves around self-actualization, I'm sure you'd succeed.

Thank you for your well-thought-out input. Life is not black and white. This dualism comes from Western thought. In African civilizations, we use complex thought not black-or-white thought. And in complexity, we try have a multi-angle perspective and deal with both the good and the bad.
That said, there are two key things I don't agree with you on: masturbation and the inherit benefits of monk mode. First, I don't see masturbating as masculine. Second, monk mode, in and by itself, has inherent benefits (like fasting) including a stronger mind and better ability to focus.

luvyaself95:
full bass dosage of the pills 😊😊😊

I am not redpill anymore. Going 5 months and a half without porn, sex, masturbation, and redpills showed me that the redpill is a scam, a distraction, and an obstruction to joyfulness.

I will help my son being masculine by encouraging him to find, be, and stand for himself, not by teaching him redpill tactics.

Kipaji:
I am going again now. Stronger and more experienced. I'll take at least a full year out of Nairaland and go Monk Mode.
Thank you.

Hi soldiers.

I battled against lust, perversion, and degeneracy for 170 days... and I failed yesterday, on the 171st day. I am here to report.

I had to reach 365 days and from there carry on with a porn-free degeneracy-free lifestyle. Yet, I did not even made it half way. I am disappointed by my performance. The fight was tenacious. It was the hardest journey I have ever undertaken in my entire life. Nonetheless, It made me a stronger and better man with a better outlook of self, men, women, and life.
That said, I am not giving up. I refuse to give up. Lust will not win. Evil will not win. Porn will not win. Degeneracy will not win. I will stand up, re-strategize, and get back stronger and wiser. It is a fight I cannot avoid as a man. It is a fight I embrace, because I choose strength over pleasure.

I wish you the best soldiers.
Stay strong.

Kipaji:
I failed. Miserably.

I tried monk mode and failed.

The fight against one's lust is a tortuous inner battle. This world bombards us left and right with lust triggers. From the media becoming pornofied to women shamelessly teasing online and offline, everything is being sexualized at an uncontrollable and worrying rate. Unfortunately, men were not raise to control their lust. And society will not help with its anti-men, anti-civilization agendas. So, it is exceptional hard for a man nowadays to maintain focus on what matters. As never seen before, almost all men are porn and/or masturbation addicts. Most do not have the drive and discipline to work consistently towards something meaningful. Men are weak and becoming weaker.

I believe that the last barrier against this degeneration of the man is the fabric and substance of his mind and spirit. The man must forge his mind and nurture his spirit to escape the tornado of degeneracy this world is caught into. But, since the inner is influenced by the outer, and vice versa, to regulate the inner, we must also manipulate the outer. So, this fight is double-dimensional. And it is a very hard one. Nonetheless, the expected rewards are definitely worth the struggle. This is why I engaged in this battle.

I keep failing. And I try my best to re-strategize and stand up stronger. I do not want to give up.

I choose strength over pleasure.

I am going again now. Stronger and more experienced. I'll take at least a full year out of Nairaland and go Monk Mode.
Thank you.

One of women's greatest fears in this world.
When she realizes that you know how she sees you while being well cognizant of female nature.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XhLCkc385kw

"NICE women finish last" by China White.
At the end of the day it's all a transaction. And women are very much aware of it.
Sexual intimacy vs Resources.

Dabronze:
The retirement plan kickstart

Yep, chameleon out

Dabronze:
The reason why you shouldn't be a Simp!

🤣🤣🤣🤣

PhillipPHD:
I’m so sorry to say. If you meet a fat girl with smelly pucci, you dicc will naturally be flaccid, except you take viagra.

Once a woman uses lubricant for you, just know that there’s zero attraction. If there was, she’s be dripping even from something as simple as texting or hugging you. Another thing to watch out for is her nipples: if it’s doesn’t get errect, my bro just fashi that girl.

I’m speaking from experience.

Tell us your experience

PhillipPHD:
If she’s unable to get wett naturally for you, then she’s just tolerating you.

Bottomline: if you need lubricants to fucc, you’re a simpp.

And I 100% agree with this. I am never using those stuff in my life.

Meedon:
Focus...

Thanks.

Dabronze:

She would fvck that "creep"

Meedon:
There is nothing hard in it.

How do you do it? With what mindset?

Goodmarlian:
Will youtube pay me directly?

No. You'll need to reach 1000 subscribers and 4,000 watch hours first

- YouTube

- Tutoring

Ubunja, here's a documentary you'll love:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gV2UrJZI8tA

MJBOLT:

never gets old

😂😂

TEAMvido:
For the newbies here It's necessary to only take those who are well versed in the field with experience serious, not some jobeless looser with nothing to his name dropping multiple quotes or laws from the internet he himself can't even comprehend or apply to his lifestyle just to feel relevant. You'll know them with their various bullshit out here.
IGNORE...

Well said. But sometimes a powerful message can come from a "jobless looser" messenger.

heartofcity12:
*hookup=Prostitution

Ah I see. Thanks.

What is "whocup"?

Themainboy22:
I will wake up from the dream.

Op I know you are probably a porn addict or a chronic masturbator, you want us to tell you what to fantasize with.

Repent!.

That's perceptive. Well done.