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ubunja:
this is one of the core truths that turned many men red pill,, while a man hustles in his early years to put his life together, women are having their fun. And when these women are tired they then decide to settle, just in time as hustling guys are getting successful. So now women are ready to settle and men are ready to commit, which is not bad in itself but for the fact that women are serving men secondhand left over coochie but want men's freshly minted coins. That's what men are rebelling against. Its robbery.

Indeed

Martinez39s:
Dear Redpillers,

We should be aware that one trick trolls use is to create alternate accounts to reply and oppose their main accounts. By replying themselves, they further derail the thread, and they have unsuspecting redpillers quoting their alternate accounts to warn them about replying their main trolling accounts. You will notice that these alternates won't stop quoting main the accounts; sometimes they will blantly ignore your warnings and keep replying or they will promise not to indulge the main trolling account, only for them to continue again.

Only tell known redpillers to avoid quoting trolls (especially when it is likely not yet apparent to others that an account is a troll). If redpillers persist in quoting them, don't warn them again or chatise them and never warn them again.

The recent attacks/mischief on this thread have its source from the ashewo thread. Ever since staunch regulars from that thread came here, this thread lost its usual tranquility, fun, savour and smooth flow. Either they are trolling or opposing the red pill, or they are trying to blend in and chase relevance here to massage their egos. Nothing is beneath them and they never give up in their emotional games until they feel satisfied.

All you are seeing here has been cleverly planned way beforehand, and I suspect that it is the effort of a group because their attacks, since the ashewo citizens started coming here, usually come in waves, ie. all of a sudden, you will see two or more people from the ashewo thread and a few relatively new and unfamiliar accounts uniting to argue, troll, oppose, and engage in mischief-making; as their nonsense progresses, you see more of them joining the party. Ignoring them is the best thing.

This is another reason why we must seriously think about how to save this thread before it gets too intoxicated or deleted.

ubunja:
you do have a point, the thread may not be as welcome. Which is all the reason why the thread is needed.
Plus this very thread we're on needs to be backedup somewhere in case it gets deleted. Tech gurus need to make a plan.if I could I would do something to preserve this thread but this web stuff is alien to me.

Yes, please. This thread must be archived or saved somehow.

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This thread helped me read between the lines.

This thread helped me read between the lines.

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From Esther Vilar's The Polygamous Sex. Along with masculinity, authenticity and the capacity of walking away, sexual control is one of the pillars you must rely on when dealing with women.

Don't consider used-up women serious.

I do not respect men who humiliate their male comrades to score points with a woman.

They more interested by the material and social benefits the high value man has to offer than the man himself.

...

In 99% of cases, women know when you are flirting with them. If she doesn't reciprocate early enough, understand that she is not interested or is playing games, and leave.

emmaodet:
Hahahaha



Believe me bro, she will always get a man. She will, no matter what.

There is a funny wise saying in my area - if a man throws out a mannerless woman through the window, before she crashes on the ground, a mannerless man will rescue and receive her.

What a funny saying indeed. Yes, unfortunately there'll always be some simp that would be honoured and proud to take her.

Seriously guys, do you think that women sleep with their male besties? I know some do, but how common would you say that is?

Say no to leftovers.

The dual mating strategy is real guys, don't be the guy who gets the remains at the end.

Would you say that this is an accurate description of husband material?

Husband material vs Hook-up material.
Ubunja has talked about the woman's two hearts in his write-ups. It has been discussed extensively in this forum.
If a woman sees you only as husband material, she should not be considered as wife material.

The financial weight on a man in a relationship.

ubunja:
can you screenshot the video and bring it here so I can go browse it on YouTube.

I'll try to find the video and I will send the the link.

Kipaji:
I consider China White the queen in terms of teaching game too.

Ubunja, please, there something that she said that I'm still trying to get. She said that a woman who works is a LovePeddler. Her argument was that such women constantly receive other men's energy and aura being in their presence at work. Ultimately the woman will start to get more and more intimate with one them (like starting with little flirts) and it will likely lead to cheating. What do you think about this Ubunja?

Wait, I wrote "wȟòŕe" but nairaland changed to "LovePeddler"

ubunja:
okay, here's the YouTube channel I consider the most on point Red Pill Channel at the moment. If you enjoyed Ubunja's Miseducations you'll love this page because this girl is saying the same things I've been saying for ages.

The Lion's Den
https://youtube.com/channel/UCVLFyrU0pdXZyntm8kLhEDg

She's a black girl. Her name is China White. And boy does she bring the heat with her videos. If the Miseducations were videos, they'd be something like this.....

I consider China White the queen in terms of teaching game too.

Ubunja, please, there something that she said that I'm still trying to get. She said that a woman who works is a LovePeddler. Her argument was that such women constantly receive other men's energy and aura being in their presence at work. Ultimately the woman will start to get more and more intimate with one them (like starting with little flirts) and it will likely lead to cheating. What do you think about this Ubunja?

"I'm not ready for a nice guy yet"

Other synonymous expressions:
"I'm not ready for a nice guy yet"
"I'm still young"
"I need to find myself first"

Add yours...

heartofcity12:
Or brother zoned, .. Men friendzone women too tho..

Many women are trying to cash in with the redpill online. Most of them just repeat male content creators. Others are doing it to appear "different" than all those other girls who lie to men and do not care about their issues.
Very very few redpill female content creators are genuine.

heartofcity12:
Some women are addicted to social media like some men are addicted to porn.. Customers usually go for the cheapest item..5 thirsty dudes she mean..

At the end of day, men are partly responsible of modern women's entitlement and oversized ego. If men stop simping on social media (or, even better, leave social media except for business or close family), things will change.

If you have any trouble understanding this, check out Ubunja's miseducations.

A relevant extract from The myth of male power by Warren Farrell that talks about how victims and victimizers are approached depending on their gender. A very insightful read.

heartofcity12:
Both gender is capable of paedophile and perversion.
When i scrolled through the comments, a lot of ppl were blaming the boy for “kiss and tell”, some men were wishing they had teachers like this when they were at his age, reverse the case if it was a male teacher that has done this to a 16 year old girl.. These are the issues..

Women can be pedophiles and predators too.

Martinez39s:
In the US, there are tons of cases of female teachers having something sexual and romantic with their underage male students. It is commonplace, but the double standard is not surprising. In case you don't know, if an underage student impregnates his female teacher, he can be sued for child support by the teacher when he turns 18 and he will be legally obliged to pay. The fact that he wasn't a consenting adult doesn't matter.

The same applies if a girl, or a group girls, rapes you and pregnancy results.

The double standard is real. The seriousness with which a rape case is taken depends highly on the gender of the victim. When it's women raped it's seen as a war crime but for men it's taken as a light incident, sometimes joked about.
Look at picture below and see how the media frames the situation.

I am personally not too sure about this. Would you agree with this statement?