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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 11:37pm On Jun 23, 2022
This discussion reminds me of something I've seen recently in a YouTube video. It was a street interview about sexual fantasies.
The interviewer (a woman) asked a girl (fairly young, I'd say between 22 - 28) about the craziest thing she has done sexually for a man. She said a BDSM session where she was blindfolded and tied up everywhere. The interview asked her if she liked it, she said yes and that they did it many times (it was with an ex).
Then the interviewer asked her if she would do it again. And she said... No. I wouldn't give it much thought in my blue-pilled state, but my redpill sense got activated immediately this thread and Ubunja's miseducations went through my head in a flash.
Her "no" means that even her future husband will not access that sexual side of her. Her husband! As a matter of fact, he may not even be aware of that sexual side as she'll probably display herself as a "good girl" who doesn't know/like those things. But, she has tasted it and liked it. Do you think she will never try to relive the experience in her life? Most likely she will. But she can't ask hubby because he will feel lied to or, even worse, think she's a LovePeddler/slut. So, she'll cheat.
A girl who isn't overtly and excitedly filthy with you, should not be taken seriously (expect, in some cases, if she's a virgin).

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 10:52pm On Jun 23, 2022
Martinez39s:
I get that you are surprised. However, threesòme, with two guys, is actually not uncommon. It is not an extreme or reprobate stuff as far as females are concerned. If such threesòme surprises you then you are in for more surprises and shock when you start finding out the fantasies and sexual cravings of your average girl, even the one you consider a good girl.
It's not the act itself that surprises me (not at all), it is how common it is.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 10:51pm On Jun 23, 2022
Martinez39s:
What is really extreme? What is really porn level? grin To females, it is subjective in many cases. Either they like it or they don't; most things we men consider extreme, perverted, ungodly and "hoè-like" are not seen the same way by females. Besides, thanks to the ubiquity of porn and the perversive reach of social media, many of our girls know many styles and they have discovered styles/kinks that turn them on and want to try out. Not being a professional prostitute/hook up chick doesn't make a females sexual exploration less "perverted."

As I have said
From the female perspective and psyche, having sex with two guys as seen in heartofcity12's picture isn't extreme.

Don't let outward appearance beguile us or make us think otherwise. As I have said, it is not written on the face. It happens that there are guys in churches or mosques who think the Lord is leading them to a particular female, but they don't know the female is doing sex stuffs that they deem very ungodly. Because they are unaware and they conclude on the outward appearance (her decent dressing, good manners in public, background, outward spiritual devotion etc.), the impression persists. It is not written on the face.
I understand you. Thank you for this discussion. We learn everyday.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 10:44pm On Jun 23, 2022
LordAdam16:
Pidgin is our lingua franca. In any case, here is an excerpt. Backed by research.



Nothing further.

-Lord
I know that almost all women (men too, by the way) have wild fantasies. But how many of these fantasies are realised? By how many women? That's where the debate was.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 10:34pm On Jun 23, 2022
Martinez39s:
Though we can end up agreeing to disagree, but it is good that we air our views and compare notes and experiences.

That being said, I will like you to note that the way women and the conventional male mind look at sex are different. Men are the ones that associate morality and ethics with sex and they project this on women due to ignorance.

To women, sex and having their fun is just like drinking water from a tap and there are no shame, morality or ethics females associate with sex; it is strictly enjoyment. Being the solipsistic, emotional and self-centered gender in the intersexual dynamics, they follow their emotions and "wonderful" experiences which they like when it comes to sex, especially when they think they won't get caught.

What is doggy to a female? What is sucking d!ck to a female? What is threesòme with two guys and double penetration to a female? Absolutely nothing! As long as she likes it, she knows can take it, and the secret opportunity is there, she has no problem. It is strictly enjoyment. Morals, ethics, upbringing or religion won't stop her from doing with the sharp guy what turns her on, the only that will stop her in such scenario is if she is not interested (ie. turned on) in the style and doesn't have the kink.

With women, there is nothing like sex styles and kinks for hoès/bad chicks/prostitutes/ slay queens and sex styles and kinks for good girls. Such distinction and classification don't exist with females, they only exist in the minds of naive men due to society upbringing. With females it is either they enjoy it or not, shikena!

This is why all girls are sexual freaks to the guys that turn on and apply game. That's why as a married man if your wife is forming holy holy and refuses to give you doggy claiming it is the stuff of hoès and she picks offence, know that you are being scammed because she will giving it to the guy who turns her on and unleashes the inner hoè.
Indeed, women show their nature to guys that turn them on; especially if they are in a "safe, secret, non-judgemental" setting.

You said that women do not really attach morality to sex and mostly see it as a fun activity. I agree with that. But I'm really surprised by the treesom part.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 8:58pm On Jun 23, 2022
JESHAL:
I went to a Christian boarding school, a girl I had a fling too then in SS2, she went to a Christian University and is getting married today, when I chat her up mehn, the sexual tension, let me not talk much, I'm cutting contact with her for good because I have a no policy on married women but guys I'm telling you virgin or nothing

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 8:39pm On Jun 23, 2022
LordAdam16:
Type "top female sexual fantasies" in Google and you'll see threesomes in most of the top 10 lists. Scientific research shows the same.

The women who are the subjects of those articles and research papers are not different from the Chinaza or Titi or Amina that you know.

A good number of women who look at that pic would want to be the lady if they haven't experienced same in the past.

1 in 100,000. Na opportunity make am no be 3 in 10. And on the list of troubling sexcapades, MFM no even follow. Na 2 guys wen she for gree for at separate times dey collect at the same time.

There is an inner wh*re in most women. Men in general have a hard time internalizing this factoid, unless you you don do things yourself.

Na lack of opportunities dey hold back women. If they go to tertiary institutions, work certain occupations, have lackluster parenting, get unsupervised leeway, meet boys wen sabi, them go display. In today's world, regular, basic bitch*s are exposed to every naughty sh*t that people had to hunt for Karma Sutra for in the past.

Even the virgins. Read their chats and overhear their conversations, you go humble. As boys tk spoil in their multitude, na so gals follow spoil. Abi u feel say gal wen dey watch porn na only missionary she dey watch? Mk una stop dey put gals on pedestal with "exaggerations". Na so you go enter NYSC or dey school or be bachelor with your own pad no see anything press, meanwhile everybody around you dey collect wotoporously. If dem 1 align you, you go feel say na "exaggerations."

Last last, vaj no get meter. He that hath an ear, let him hear...

-Lord
I don't understand pidgin man... Sorry, I can't get you.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 8:37pm On Jun 23, 2022
heartofcity12:
I get it.. Expect anything from any female, virgin or not, some virgins have also done freaky things too. However virgins are still the better pick.. Many females are more sexually experienced than males.. Don’t underestimate what any of them have done or presently doing as we speak, especially in this present days..You can only do your best to vet them and know what you could know, you may not know it all..It is what it is..
Yes, virgins are undoubtedly the better choice. I never questioned that. As a matter of fact, sometimes I wonder how it can even be a debate. It's crazy. There are women out there who try to convince men that there's no advantage choosing a virgin over a non-virgin. Mostly it is to comfort themselves, rationalize their past, prevent blue-pilled simp of realizing the truth, and make them feel better. That's another reason why women must not be taken seriously in these matters.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 8:37pm On Jun 23, 2022
heartofcity12:
I get it.. Expect anything from any female, virgin or not, some virgins have also done freaky things too. However virgins are still the better pick.. Many females are more sexually experienced than males.. Don’t underestimate what any of them have done or presently doing as we speak, especially in this present days..You can only do your best to vet them and know what you could know, you may not know it all..It is what it is..
Yes, virgins are undoubtedly the better choice. I never questioned that. As a matter of fact, sometimes I wonder how it can even be a debate. It's crazy. There are women out there who try to convince men that there's no advantage choosing a virgin over a non-virgin. Mostly it is to comfort themselves, rationalize their past, prevent blue-pilled simp of realizing the truth, and make them feel better. That's another reason why women must not be taken seriously in these matters.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 8:32pm On Jun 23, 2022
Martinez39s:
The picture you posted might be of a girl doing hook up, porn or giving it for free to two sharp guys as she is exploring and indulging her cravings. Whatever way it is, taking and sucking d!cks and doing what the average blue pill guy (or even a redpiller who is yet to see the dark/wild side) considers wild and naughty are very much common, especially in this free generation; however, most guys are unaware.

It is not by seeing her speaking in tongues, doing evangelism, dressing decently, having good manners, rendering a spirit-filled song in the choir, and having a traditional background because guys who have applied the red pill and gone deep in their sexual journey know that it is common for a girl to fùck and suck your diçk on a Saturday and go speak in tongues on Sunday and roll on the floor during ministration and post scriptures and progress in her spiritual walk on WhatsApp. Even hijab wearing muslims and girls of other religions are not left out. A female is first a female before she is religious, same with men.

The main point in your post is that even the hoès and depraved women will still spin such rationalisation and blue pill crap to urge men to ignore their sordid past and take them seriously for relationships. This is a reality.
That's the thing. If you look at sex workers, yes, extreme practices are very common. But, if you look at the average girl you would meet in your neighborhood, though it happens, group sex and other porn-level practices are not that common. What about "sucking d!cks and doing what the average blue pill guy (or even a redpiller who is yet to see the dark/wild side) considers wild and naughty"? Well, I agree they are indeed "very much common".
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 8:22pm On Jun 23, 2022
MJBOLT:
tell me this is sarcasm
It isn't man. Maybe the "1 in 100 000" part, yes. But I just wanted to point out that sometimes we make things appear more widespread than they actually are.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 8:18pm On Jun 23, 2022
heartofcity12:
@ Kipaji follow @unilorinhoestoryy on IG and watch them as they expose themselves on there. You’ll be very shocked to see what they’re doing, those are the ones still being vocal about it, not to talk of those that don’t post about it.. Don’t underestimate what they’re capable of doing..
I'm not instagram so I can't check that page unless I log in. But I can see some of their posts on sweetagram.
It is true that many women out there, even innocent-looking ones, did some of the filthiest things imaginable. My point was that people want to say that this concerns almost every single woman and that's where the exaggeration is. No woman (expect maybe some virgins) is pure yet that doesn't mean that they have had porn-level experiences. It's there but it's not that much common.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 8:09pm On Jun 23, 2022
heartofcity12:
Sarcasm?
No, it wasn't sarcastic. But hey, I'm learning man. Guys can share their perspective and correct me if I'm wrong.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 8:07pm On Jun 23, 2022
JESHAL:
As long as she's not a virgin anything goes
I understand this part perfectly. If the hymen is not there, she may have done all sorts of things. I'm not saying that non-virgins are pure but that we sometimes exaggerate how widespread certain sexual behaviors/practices are.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 8:03pm On Jun 23, 2022
Martinez39s:
It is not an exaggeration. It doesn't seem common because most guys are unaware and the shenanigans of females are usually well hidden. After all, it is not written on the face.

Maybe all females might not have the same kinks and opportunities to explore their hòe side without consequences, but having sex and doing the wild things are very much common. As I have it is not written on the face.
"Having sex and doing wild things are very much common"... Yep that is true, with one man and one woman. But certain practices are not that widespread.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 7:51pm On Jun 23, 2022
Martinez39s:
▪︎ "Only strong men can overlook a woman's past."

▪︎"It takes a strong and brave man to mend a heart he didn't break and raise a child he didn't birth."

▪︎"If you are not a virgin as a man, you don't have the grounds to seek a virgin and chaste bride."

▪︎"Everyone has a past. Don't judge a girl by her past. (What an oloriburuku)."

▪︎"Nothing wrong in paying bride price for nonvirgins."

▪︎"Nonvirgins have more experience and maturity, so they make a good match."

▪︎"Virgins will cheat because they want to explore later, but nonvirgins have seen it all and will be more faithful."

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 7:40pm On Jun 23, 2022
MJBOLT:
A very dangerous past grin
I get the message, but let's be realistic guys. I think that we tend to exaggerate things sometimes. How many girls have had such experiences? 1 in 100 000? You're making it seem more common than it actually is.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 7:32pm On Jun 23, 2022
heartofcity12:
This..
The following part particularly triggered my attention: "And than then post a picture of their bf right after to make themselves not feel guilty."
This emphasizes the fact that with women, it's all about their feelings. If she cheats on you, she can become the best possible wife the following days, get you gifts, do that thing you always asked her to do, post extensively about you on social media, so that in her head she can tell herself that it's her apology/compensation for cheating and feel less bad.
That's another reason why it's important to not project our logical reasoning on women; we must incorporate that it's mostly about their feelings as we analyse women behavior.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 7:17pm On Jun 23, 2022
heartofcity12:
Yeah..
This is one of the lesson this thread helped me understand. When a woman loves likes you and is sexually attracted by you, you don't play by the same rules, assuming there's even any.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji:
luminouz:
Something happened tonight. I was with my married friend and I commented on how his beard looks good on him. I asked him to keep that look then as a matter of courtsey asked the wife what she thinks. She said she likes her man clean shaven o, with everything on low-cut and no beard. The husband said but you never told me to be shaving my beards till today na. Why the sudden interest?

I laughed in my mind. I knew what went down. But lemme throw it to the house. What was the reason the wife made that statement, y'all?
This illustrate the concept of betatization of the married/engaged/committed man. To calm her competition anxiety and ensure the continued exclusive engagement of the man, the woman is ready to prevent the man from increasing his SMV (and sometimes incite its decrease -- "I prefer dad bods darling, I don't care about six packs" ). The problem is, once the man becomes not attractive enough to appeal to other women, he may not be attractive enough to appeal to his own wife/girlfriend. But now, she may be reluctant to ask him to get fit/better looking/etc because it will make her look/feel bad. again. So, she start looking elsewhere for the man that appeal her sexually. Since she is not looking for commitment from that man, she has no problem/anxiety seeing other women gawking at him. As a matter of fact, if she can, she may even help this other guy increase his SMV by buying him new clothes, accessories, gym membership, giving him money here and there. This other guy is the alpha bleeps while her man is the beta bucks (who may have been once an alpha bleeps).

Guys, would you say that my analysis above is accurate?

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 1:25pm On Jun 22, 2022
CaveAdullam:
1. This is true and correct on a basic, evolutionary, instinctual, and animalistic level. Women choose the men they mate with, and these men are mostly sociopaths, brutal, and aggressive because these characters symbolize power, status, and dominance. And since women are weak and need protection, they reward these men by refusing nice guys and men with good values. And rejected men operating from that animalistic point of view will forego their good values and become savages for women and sex.

2. On the flip side, humans have evolved passed that single mode of operation, alongside that underlying evolutionary tendency, they have working brains and are cerebral in many of their actions, meaning that they don't act like absolute brutes all the time, they have well-functioning brains, can think and judge things.


3. And as a result, good values transcend beyond women and sex. It is required for ruling society. It is required for bringing judgment. It is required by society for unity, cooperation, and development. Without these values, society cannot stand.

It is foolishness for a man to forego good values and pollutes himself with the wine of brutes and savages because of women and sex. Such men can't be efficient in their leadership and are fickle.


4. What then should a young man become? He wants women and must win the hearts of his people.

Like the Greek hero, Theseus, he must be rational, have good values, can deliver judgments, and is brutal when it comes to his enemies and evil. Women don't want evil men, but men who are capable of evil doings, as it guarantees their safety. Women also want men with good values as it guarantees their love and care. Society desires these men as only they can reduce chaos, and develop and maintain peace and order. And to sum it up this is the balanced man, civilized savage, or the superman.


DAY 174, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Let the balanced man be a mirror unto you.
Splendid. Thank you for this well-thought-out reply.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 3:07am On Jun 22, 2022
In this world, only a handful of women know what true loneliness really is.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 3:04am On Jun 22, 2022
heartofcity12:
Right
And this below may be the reason good men stopped leading. What do you guys think?

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 2:59am On Jun 22, 2022
heartofcity12:
...
Yes, and it goes beyond social media to any area of life.
It seems that women confuse being a booty call/masturbation material/thing to sleep with with being considered relationship/marriage material. Or, maybe they aren't really confusing things, but just convince themselves that these guys see her as something else than a piece of flesh because it makes her feel better??

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 2:28am On Jun 22, 2022
heartofcity12:
..
One of the prime reason why we must not chase women, especially when it involves sacrificing your dignity, self-esteem or manhood.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 4:09am On Jun 21, 2022
It's our choice. Better be selfish than simpish.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 4:02am On Jun 21, 2022
An extract from the Anatomy of female power by Chinweizu. Men should protect their MEAT as much as a virtuous woman would protect her virginity.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 3:59am On Jun 21, 2022
Love is beautiful. Leave the redpill, mgtow, and all that BS to go and find your soul heart guys. You may be lucky like our guy below wink

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 3:54am On Jun 21, 2022
They are shameless...

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 4:19pm On Jun 19, 2022
ubunja:
mother's Day messages on TV and Radio: "Women are special and face incredible odds to do what they do. God bless our women!"

father's Day messages on TV and Radio: "To all the men playing their role as leaders and protectors, happy father's day to you."

If you can't see a problem with these two messages you're part of the problem.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 4:08pm On Jun 19, 2022
ubunja:
okay,, with virgins the first thing is to give that dicc. Then take it from there. Virgins are always going to be attached to their first. It comes with the territory.

A trend I'm seeing on this thread is if a girl is willing and ready for sex guys will go round and round in circles and give every excuse not to fucc, but if a girl is not interested that's when guys are keen to fucc. It needs to stop. Guys don't play hard to get by passing on sex, it can be a personal choice or to do with standards on the Guy's part, but it doesn't translate as the guy being valuable in the girl's mind. From where the girl's standing the guy is just missing god given chances. If pussy is on the table, take it. But give nothing back. That's how as a guy you create value within yourself. Because now the girl is chasing to equal the score. She just gave the pussy she now needs to get something in return. And she'll keep chasing as long as you don't give anything back. And as long as you're not giving her anything back (love, commitment) she sees you as valuable and hard to get.
It was your miseducations that made this clear for me. It helped me see man-woman relationships in a new light and refined my approach when dealing with them. Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 4:03pm On Jun 19, 2022
A father is irreplaceable in a boy's life. There are things that a boy can only be learned by seeing another man.

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