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heartofcity12:
Who says these girls don’t like sex like guys do. While you’re busy grinding, this is what they’re looking for in their prime..

Cc: Kipaji

Kipaji:
I guess I've really been misunderstood on this issue. I never doubted the perverted mind and ways of women or the fact that they are getting it in dirty. Everything started with MJBOLT's post of a woman being pounded by two guys. I just mentioned that the way we talk about it may suggest that almost all girls that exist have done a party and, at least to me, that's just not true. Martinez posts on this above should clear this confusion.
That said, almost all girls have certainly taught about it. Among those who didn't do it, most just lack the perfect occasion, or are just not turned on by it for whatever reason (nothing to do with morality, people appreciate different things sexually).

heartofcity12:
Who says these girls don’t like sex like guys do. While you’re busy grinding, this is what they’re looking for in their prime..

Cc: Kipaji

Kipaji:
Because women have two hearts, as explained by Ubunja: https://www.nairaland.com/4949684/ubunjas-miseducation-woman-2-hearts

kushme:
Sir Ubunja, please, can you do justice to this?
A female asked me on WhatsApp..

heartofcity12:
Good clapback

Martinez39s:
You are smart. You are spot on. I have thought about this same thing some years back.

If women are given men bodies today and men are given female bodies today, men will see serious red pill, brutal game and selfishness in action. Gynocentrism, romantic love and equal right nonsense will crumble because women know it's all bullcrap even if they champion it. If such exchange can happen, many men will sit up. Good night.

Martinez39s:
Glad we could help. However, don't just blindly believe anything we write. Read them thoroughly, put them to test, and see things for yourself .

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I want to ask you somes question, and I will like your honest answers. This is besides our discussion. Consider the following females, all nineteen years of age:

— Lady A has had sex twelve times in her life and all have been threesomes with two men in each instance.
— Lady B has had sex twelve times in her life and all have been threesomes with one man and another girl in each instance.
— Lady C has had sex twelve times in her life and all have been only missionary and doggy with one man in each instance.
— Lady D has had sex twelve times in her life and all have been only simple missionary with one man in each instance.

My questions are:
(1) Can you sincerely rank these ladies in ascending order according to who your mind perceives as the greatest hoe (ie. from the "least hoe" to "greatest hoe" ) ?

(2) Can you sincerely rank these ladies in ascending order according to who your mind perceives as being more marriageable (ie. from the "least marriageable" to "most marriageable" ) ?

(3) Can you sincerely rank these ladies in ascending order according to who your mind perceives as being the most damaged and spoil (ie. from the "least damaged/spoilt" to "most damaged/spoilt" ) ?

I just want to know your thoughts. Till tomorrow evening.

ubunja:
on women's perversions ,, there's a whole industry dedicated to fulfilling them:
check out this party from Instagram. note the key phrases "unleash your inner freak"
"what's your guilty pleasure"
"ladies only event"
"location revealed after ticket purchase"
"no recording allowed"

can you imagine what is going down there.......

AlphaAlex:
Always Have multiple options when it comes to women Look for a way to make this happen get some game do something to ensure you always have options.


There is a reason you don’t have one pair of shoes or one pair of boxers or any other clothing accessory Heck there’s a reason you don’t have only one pot or piece of cutlery in your House .
We are naturally predisposed as humans to want more than One of whatever we have it’s because it is necessary to always have more than one Even the poorest man on earth would love to have more than one pair of shoes assuming he has only one, So using this logic why should you have only one woman in your life at any point in time ?

If you have only one pair of anything all your life no matter how much you loved it at the beginning you will eventually wear it out and get tired of it and even be disgusted by it at one point so for you to be able to make it last longer for you ,you have to get another.
Just as you have different Shoes for different occasions you should also have different women for different occasions each one playing the role you have given to them as they should, you can have a Favourite (Girlfriend/Wife)Shoe but you cannot use that one shoe for every Task or Journey And rightly so as it is not designed for every task or journey you would decide to embark on as well it may not be available for said Journey. If you can understand this as it applies to both sexes you will live an easier Life

Options Are a Necessity For A man And he Must Exercise them women do this too when they need to but they will never Tell it’s their little secret.

ubunja:
good dicc is about the only thing the sexually emancipated modern woman will submit to. Do you know how to lay the pipe or you just know how to have sex!

Ballzproblemm:
have backup

ProphetJeroboam:
True. Women are willing to break their sexual limit if required. When a guy proposes something sexually adventurous to a woman, most guys think typical responses like “are you sure” “I’ve never done this before” “What if A or B happens” means no or she’s worried , most of this is to protect their image so that the guy doesn’t view them with the slut lens after and also so that they can say “you made me do it”. A firm yes and reassurance by the guy is enough to make them carry on. It’s the reason why women still make sex tapes even though they know women get the most damaging end of a leaked sex tape.

ubunja:
if you're a rich dude and your GF uses you and finishes all your money, is she going to marry your broke self even though she's the one who made you broke? no. never. deal with women how women deal with men.

see, to play the game to perfection always imagine your situation from the point of view of a woman and substitute sex with money ,, everything will be clear.

sajmark:
A woman can reject you because you're too good for her!

Martinez39s:
... typing

Learning the red pill, changing and adapting in this way is what Ubunja referred to as "giving women what they want." It like saying "why waste time trying to make a human eat poison of his own accord when you can give him a delicious meal if your goal is to make the human eat something?" A delicious meal works to achieve your goal and you are giving the human what it wants. This doesn't mean you must go above and beyond to your own detriment or sabotage yourself to please the human or make the human's mindless zombie. The same applies to Ubunja's post about getting sexual success from women. Red pill will never tell you to sabotage yourself or do things to your own detriment because you want women (eg cutting off your limbs, going into debt or getting obese and unmotivated etc); that is simping and simping fails big time. Red pill is against self-sabotage and simping.

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ubunja:
and it all makes sense because women are creatures of emotion they think with their feelings: If somethings feels good it's right, so pleasure, in a woman's world, will never be wrong and never be something to feel guilty about.

Martinez39s:
Glad you finally  understood.

Men, due to upbringing, think certain sex styles/kinks/sex acts are for hòes/bad and spoilt chicks while good and decent girls greatly limit themselves to certain simple and mundane ones. For women, both the good and bad girls, this classification doesn't exist; it is either they enjoy it or not. If they enjoy it and can physically take it, then they have no problem doing it.

The acts, kinks and styles that men for whatever reasons see as extreme, depraved, reprobate, perverted, ungodly and as the stuff of hòes, spoilt chicks & bad chick/slay queens are not seen in the same way by women. If they enjoy it and can physically take it, doing it is just like drinking water from a tap and having harmless fun. This is one of the reasons why some acts men think are uncommon are actually common. This only thing that will stop a woman is if she is not just into it (ie. doesn't enjoy it). Men who don't know this are in for a rude awakening and likely won't get the sexual best from the women they are dealing with.
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CaveAdullam:
Women are attracted to power!

1. As witnessed in the last few pages ("many women don't involve themselves in some weird and wild sexual acts), you tend to lift the exception against the rule or put them on the same level.

2. Now, nothing itself is purely pure in reality, there are always shades of grey in everything. However, there is what is called heuristics: concluding as a result of reoccurring patterns. These patterns form the rule, the exception doesn't obliterate the effect of these rules. For example, the validity of the red pill is a result of the similar testimonies different men from different spheres of life have experienced with women. It doesn't mean that all men have suffered the same fate, but it greatly implies that as a man you may experience these things with women now or later - and it does happen.

3. Women are attracted to power!
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1. As witnessed in the last few pages ("many women don't involve themselves in some weird and wild sexual acts), you tend to lift the exception against the rule or put them on the same level.

ProphetJeroboam:
A blow to the “virginity doesn’t matter squad” here, studies has shown that women have the ability to accumulate DNA from their previous sexual encounters which may materialize as physical traits in their offsprings. Simply put, all that creampies she enjoys during her hoe phase is DNA accumulated that may be represented in her future offsprings. Do with this information what you will.

Something feminists will never talk about. They'll scream everywhere that "when men sleep around they are studs, but when women sleep around they are sluts" to encourage women to be "sexually liberated" without thinking about the consequences. How does sleeping around even benefits a woman in the long run by the way? I only see negatives.

luminouz:
More discussions ain't so needed because what attracted women to the Preacher is Power(or the illusion/facsimile of it). Women love it, are addicted to it. It draws them like bees to honey, flies to shiit and death to life. Women don't even look at the Preacher's body or brains or qualifications or proficiency in English Language. He is to them an illusion of tremendous, supernatural power, as the embodiment of God on earth. If he has the gift of prophecy and a few gimmicks, he cements this godlike impression in their minds.

Now tell me, which woman wouldn't like to fuq a god in human form? That's like the ultimate achievement for any female mortal. Kings, Herbalists also enjoy this godlike respect from women.

Summary: It's all about the Power dynamics

ubunja:
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THE MAN WHO SITS AT THE TOP OF THE SEX PYRAMID.

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AND FINALLY, OVER AND ABOVE EVERYONE, sitting at the very top of the sex pyramid, dominating the sexual hierarchy, chosen and tutored by prostitutes and dealing only with them, is a Man the French call the Maquereau. Or the Mackerel. Who is known in the west as the Mack. But is universally known as the Pïmp.  

Beyond this Man whom prostitutes pick, build and then pay to have sex with, who moves in a world opposite every man's - there's no one. He is the best of the best. The Game in the flesh. PUA and Red Pill philosophy is actually a watered down version of Pímp's game.

But hold on,,,, while there's no one greater than the pímp in the game, while no man is better than him when it comes to women, there's Someone equal to him. Someone who matches him and with whom he shares the top spot. Someone who knows what he knows and who moves how he moves. This Someone inhabits an entirely different world, but that is as filled with women and pussy as the pímp's own world is. Time and again this Someone hits the news for his sexual debauchery and scandals but is judged far less harshly and always given a pass. And it's not surprising that many pímps when they retire, they become him.  

This Someone is the Preacher.  

Outside of the Pímp, no son of Adam dominates women as completely as the Preacher. Besides the pímp no other man understands female psychology as intimately as the Preacherman. 
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Add to that the pímps' penchant for quoting scripture and oftentimes referring to the IZM as the "gospel"; hearing a pímp talk is no different from hearing a preacher preach. 

But it is the pímps who retire to be preachers that is the master stroke. This is an impossibly genius move that takes the pímps from one world of women to another world of women. From pussy to pussy. It's almost as if women escape the pímp on the streets only to meet him at the pulpit. And terrible is the financial and sexual exploitation women have experienced in the hands of the Pulpit Pímp. 

He has more power over their minds and emotions than their own husbands. And they would rather disappoint their husbands than disappoint him. You only have to see how women's faces light up when they talk about the preacher, fondly calling him, "my pastor" or "the dear Man of God". You only have to see the massive female following preachers have. How women vastly outnumber men in their congregations. Then you'll appreciate the scale of the pímping that is afoot against the female gender. Observant men are starting to joke, "if you want coochie, start a church!" It used to be, "If you want money start a church!" 
Now with the nonstop rumors, sex exposés and scandals it's becoming clear that churches are as rich in pussy as they are in money.

ReacherSaidNoth:
This has to be the best post I have come across here.

"Whatever it be, whether art or nature, that has inscribed in us this condition of living by reference to others, it does us much more harm than good. We defraud ourselves out of what is actually useful to us in order to make appearances conform to common opinion. We care less about the real truth of our inner selves than about how we are known to the public."

Montaigne, On Vanity (1580)

Tonnyray:
YOU ARE WISE.
The question is whether many people actually have an authentic self. An inner core that's unchanging despite social ideological and moral vacillations. If women suddenly start desiring/getting wet for lazy, fat slobs your guess is as good as mine what "we" will adopt or morph into as "men" to get sex. SMH.
Thanks again for this quoted stellar take of yours.
I share it 100%.

If women suddenly start desiring/getting wet for lazy, fat slobs your guess is as good as mine what "we" will adopt or morph into as "men" to get sex.

Meedon:
Na waooo who let out this barking dog.

2dice01:
One clown above needs some attention

luminouz:
Please let no one quote that little girl screaming for lollipop up there!!!

N.B: the thread has been hot since yday. LOVE IT

Pukkalolo:
CaveAdullam, you've said alot hardcore things in this thread, and I totally agree with most, if not all of them. I must say, you are pretty much smart guy.

My problem with female shit test is that many guys see it the wrong way.

Yes, Girls test guys alot. In summary, she's shit testing you to find out if you're high quality guy she can mate with. If you pass her test, I guess she'll allow you have access to her sexual companionship.

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Lolz...I accepted her indirect way of apology. After that, we started flowing again. Her respect and attraction for me actually increase more after that incidence. Before I started writing this, she just left my place.

You might say I passed her shit test. But passing her test was not the goal. The goal was walking away from her silly ass once she says or does something I don't like.

Remember guys, Never tolerate bullshit from women. Getting respect is better than getting sex. Put your self-respect over anything else.

Stay blessed brothers.

ProphetJeroboam:
Never taking accountability. What do you expect from a specie that blames Patriachy, hormones and zodiac signs for her decisions. Advise for my g’s, do not attempt to engage in logical arguments or logical reasoning with women, it’s like trying to explain the concept of quantum mechanics to a 6 months old. It’ll be more profitable to spend that time staring at a match stick, waiting for it to light itself, you’ll have a better chance at this than making a woman accept logical reasoning.

ubunja:
and a lot of those things are psychologically damaging. No wonder women out here battling mental health issues and depression. They doing terrible things behind closed doors. Last year a video clip trended in Southy of a girl having a frog removed from her pucc! And you've to ask yourself what was even happening? How did that thing get even there? Like what the actual phuck?! And you have to ask yourself what else is happening that's not being captured on video?! Smh.

The depravity of modern women will make your soul sick. You only have to test these women by pretending you're as depraved as them and you'll see how easy they go with the flow. Speak like one who's already partaking in those lewd activities and you'll see just how enthusiastic they get! Most guys can barely handle a 3sum because of moral limitations,, but for an average girl today a 3sum is actually only the beginning, a doorway really. These women are doing shít like they're demon possessed. You just have to sneak into their private secret groups on social media to hear them discuss their exploits.

Even the so-called innocent good girls are up to no good. Just WhatsApp some good girl using a new number pretending you're some big time player into deep depravity and just see how natural she responds to the depravities.
Which brings us to what Martinez said the other day about men being moral with sex: What we're calling "perversions" because we're moral with sex, women just call it "having fun" because to women sex and morality don't go together. Men have a tendency to feel guilty concerning sex, women don't have such limitations. A man sleeping with a new woman everyday will eventually stop when the guilt gets too much to bear and seek a proper relationship. Women don't have such moral brakes. Women will hoe till death if the situation permits. In fact one of the original aims of feminism was to create such an environment of endless fun, hence the government is used to replace the husband, abortion is made easy and pregnancy can be prevented with the dozen birth control methods engineered. The only problem is that women have PSYCHOLOGICAL limitations to hoering while men have MORAL limitations. Men are physically able, without any external interventions like the pill etc, to hoe till death,, its only their conscience that ends up blocking their fun and forcing them to stop. Whereas women don't have that moral dilemma, only a psychological one where they end up losing the ability to bond with any man and going batshit crazy after a life of steady cum-guzzling. Hence things like soul ties are always talked about concerning women. The psychological effect of hoering is severe for women.

ubunja:
as men we can either scratch our heads trying to make sense of how modern women think and operate, or we can simply assume the persona of the type of man they love dealing with and become that man. If the Player is what women want then we'll be players in our own right. There's two options modern men have: either we force women to change or we give women what they want. And the easiest most realistic option is to give women what they want, ie be what their perverted souls are craving for. Forcing women to be what men want isn't going to work anymore cause government, media, businesses and simps are all fighting on the side of women. The only man a woman will listen to is her father. And red pill guys have long ago made it clear they don't want daughters (there was a thread about this, can someone who remembers it provide the link), daughters are seen as too much of a headache and a disaster waiting to happen, everyone wants a son. Which doesn't make sense, because if we're saying modern women are useless and men are suffering because of this, how then does bringing a son into this messy world benefit you or your son. You're just dooming him to the same struggles you're enduring.

Any who, the point is we can either whine about women or we can adapt and fit into this new reality. Cause its not changing anytime soon. If women go for players at their prime, then, as much as possible, we need to adopt the qualities and mindsets of these players to stay relevant. Being good and being respectable and responsible is not going to do anyone any favours. Cause I can tell you right now the men deflowering women, getting pucc thrown at them and the men being given babies are players. The players are the ones whose genes and bloodlines are getting pushed into the future. Meanwhile the gentleman's dicc is gathering dust in his trousers and his sperm is gathering mould in his balls.
Being a player is trashy and beneath the standards of the average man, but if trashy is what these women want, trashy is what they'll get. The dragon must be unleashed.
Is it not women who raised us to be gentlemen? Is it not our own mothers and aunts who urged us on the path of being responsible men? Its them. Its women. Then putting aside the respectable man and becoming the irresponsible heartless, trashy man is still learning from women. Either way, we're still being shaped by women. No one must say "I can't be this and that just because of women!"
Niggr what you already are, the attitudes and mindsets you're fiercely holding on to, they were fostered on you by women in the first place.

LordAdam16:
Women by nature do not have an incentive to willfully acknowledge not to mention share the wild fantasies they've realized.

They are also the biggest proponents of the argument that having a fantasy does not necessarily mean they'll act it out. As it offers a veritable cop out.

More importantly, to thoroughly work out just how much women engage in their fantasies, it is pertinent to ask, what stops them from actualizing it? In todays age where a ward under a watchful guardian can take a 30 minutes to 3 hour detour to collect at the back of a shop and free/affordable data allow women to engage with all manner of elements, what exactly stops them from acting out a fantasy?

Unlike men who can have fantasies and go years looking for an outlet, babes do not have such restrictions. Unless of course it's a jarring fantasy like non-fatal asphyxiation or pegging a guy. For most fantasies and kinks, there's always someone (or squad) who is willing, heck, who will pay her, to put it to practice.

And she'll keep it to herself. Why should she go broadcasting that she likes to be gangb*nged? Everyone tries to cultivate a positive image. The sisterhood would love to make you believe that most women have never acted out their wild desires. It's just an innocent desire they masturbate to but have/will never put into practice. Ask why? And you get sly responses like, 'What do you take me for'? Instead of the truth, which is that, with the right person and under the right conditions, they're game.

And hell will freeze over before they admit to doing it or planning to, if you'll not be the object of their fantasy. Because accept it or not, most men relate with women based on perception and their image. Even blue-pilled men who are fond of excusing their excesses get PG-13 versions of their sexcapades.

Lastly, and this is crucial to note, in life, hope for the best, but expect the worst. Let a woman surprise you by her unscripted reactions. Discard how she describes or portrays herself. You do not go to an interview in singlet and boxers.

-Lord

Martinez39s:
Nice post!

I want to add something for the sake of contribution. The reasons pro-marriage redpillers like marrying sexually pure virgins or are advised to marry sexually pure virgins isn't because redpillers think a virgin's female nature is different. Of course we know AWALT is the case even for virgins and females emotionally change easily and rapidly with time. However, virgins are required by pro-marriage redpillers for the following reasons:

(1) sexually pure virgins women are the least "evils" in mate selection and choosing them will prevent you from certain unnecessary headaches that come with a woman's past baggages and embarrassing situations resulting from her sordid sexual past. I can explain further if you want.

(2) it's a red pill rule to go for the best you can. Why commit to and provide for a used pusśy when you can get a fresh used and pure one? Why commit to and go for an aged used pusśy when you can go for a young unused one?

(3) Why commit to and provide for something that other men have gotten for free without much effort? Why should you be treated treated differently?

(4) It is a red pill rule to get a woman at her best years. If she won't give you her best years or you didn't have her at her best years, don't take her at her decline. Put yourself first, go for the best and have some self-respect. If you are not yet established to marry a particular female at her best years, let her go to who is ready. When you are ready and established later, pick the one that is in her best years and makes a decent human being.

(5) If you will follow tradition to pay bride price for a woman, let her follow tradition to qualify for your bride price by being a young virgin who is sexually pure, among other things. Traditionalism works both ways. Don't partake in the nonsense of paying full price for hòe. Let simps and blue pill men rot in their stupidity.

(6) men must set good standards and not come cheap. Besides, women would go for the best and wouldn't settle if given the option. Why should yours be different? Men setting good standards and not compromising on it will incentivise more females to sit up to meet up (if they can't find their way around it and exploit loopholes). Though they won't change on the inside and will put in more effort to cover up their shenanigans so they can compete to meet men's standard.