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Ryda:
How you guys come to NL boasting about what you could have kept between you and yourself ehn.

I suppose chop maze but because you don amaze me, I'll eat it some other time.

samueldon:
I just found my stolen phone. Was stolen in Abuja and the police tracked it to kano, called me on Sunday that the phone is on the way back to abuja and I received it on Monday this week.

SpiritFree:
What do you mean fake?

SpiritFree:
Iphone 11 pro max Available neatly used
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Face ID active
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Location: Abuja
Price : 330k
no scratches In very good condition

pharmagba:
I feel very sorry for you, but a man got to be a man
Firstly I don't know the real sickness and precise age of your daughter but one thing you must know is it is not good for a wife to have too much free time as it is a veritable devils workshop you ought to ensure she is working; open a shop for her or impregnate her so she continue baby nursing,

Now to your findings first of all copy it somewhere else like your phone and then confront her with it, play everything to her hearing, pause at intervals to ask her what you've done wrong, please don't be aggressive or angry; control your emotions. Ask her what she has to say.

Let her know it is betrayal, threaten her you will summon a family meeting of both family and see her reaction.
If or not she apologies don't tell anybody either your family or her. NEVER.. It must not come from your mouth.
But make a stand none of her family members should have your respect. They must never come to your house. Don't give reasons, don't pick or answer their calls until you see full repentance in her. which must be after like a year. .it is her family that must bear the brunt and punishment Nothing more

Don't divorce her she is your wife, folly is in the mind of a woman. I know it will definitely leave a scar in your relationship, forgive her still and try to let go, call her from work and be a good father and husband.

jhydosky:
DevGuru. I salute your decision and sincerely wish you goodluck in your marital life. I could relate very well with your story.

But to be blunt, I am pessimistic about your situation because you still don't know the root cause and the motivation. Any mistake done more than once is a decison, the fact that there exist multiple recording files (of different dates and times I believe) proves that already. The disdain these guys have for you and your mum especially is NOT platonic at all. I fear it is deeper than how you are taking it...and it won't just blow away without a jolt. You didn't jolt them enough in my opinion.

Trust me, all the attention and apologies is what Yoruba folks call "Oju aiye". It is mere damage control.

As they say, You can decide whether to step in front of a moving car/train or not but you can't decide the consequence.

It would be foolhardy and most naive of you to believe your marriage will remain the same or your wife won't relate with her family because of this issue.

You squandered your advantage of surprise...
You have just made further plans more discreet or outsourced (in the worst case scenario).
The panicky phone calls and damage control moves suggests plans maybe suspended for now, but should whatever motivation driving this become stronger, be ready for unpleasant bigger surprises.

Also, You need to impress it on your dad to have a manly discussion with her father. It is important.

Lastly, don't ignore the DNA advice. It is for your confidence only.

DenreleDave:
My mother is a mugu.... That he doesn't agree with your opinion in the politics section doesn't deny him any right being here

Who da fvck are my parents to decide who joins this crytpo thread?

Internet diots, be attacking people because thir view doesn't tally... My father is a bastard and I am the son of a bastard , I even brought my hatred to crytpo thread... Imagine

Meister:
In which part of the country will agent fee for 400k apartment be 150k ?

Alfabest07:
which area is that.

Meister:
Is the yearly rent up to 2M ?

Rubbiish:
Personally I would say cryptto is not performing badly so far considering the gravity of FUD currently going on. We are talking about two world power ( Russia & the US(indirectly) trading war talks. It has been FUD back to back, it is not like we are just coming from a bull run. We are yet to do away with omicron covid 19 FUD that started mid november, now war talk. But on another thought, this can also boost the cryptto market, some of the oligarchs in nations directly involve may fear keeping 100% of their funds in USD or any currency in banks for fear of the unknown from nations & may want to resort to holding some in btcce or ethh. Remember cryptto is the best way to always go anonymous when it comes to funds.

My only fear is the man in whitehouse, the cowardly manner with which he pulled US soldiers out of Afghanistan & left weapons worth billions of USD at the mercy of afghan talibans have sent a wrong message to every nation that has been dragging shoulders with the US for supremacy & makes me fear for ukraine. Let it not be they have been led into a trap, because they can't match Russia. We all pray things don't escalate.

Jennyclay:
Hmmm... Indeed you are so depressed.

The good news about your post is that... you have just Discovered yourself and I'm so happy for that. Now Listen to me.

While I was growing up, I have always wanted to be a lawyer because "I talk too much" But that wasn't God's plan for me. I discovered my purpose in life when I was in S.S.1 3rd term.

I went to command secondary school ipaja Lagos (boarding house). Your Junior Waec results determines if you belong to science, commercial or art class. When our results came out and the list were shuffled. I saw myself in science class but I purposely went to register myself in art class.

I was bored in my 1st & 2nd term in art class. no calculation courses apart from mathematics. I was tired of reading long notes without practicals or calculations. I wrote a letter to our commandant stating why I wanna go back to Sci class. Then he approved it.

Today I'm a medical laboratory technician in a prestigious hospital here in Lagos. And I also do business.

Now here is my point: YOU want to be a lecturer/teacher but is that God's plan for you?? Now that you have discovered yourself, kill that mentality of becoming a lecturer/teacher. That's not your purpose in life take it OR leave it. Else you will commit suicide and die for nothing.

@27 You're still young. Work on your confidence, Set a goal, ask yourself where do want to be in next 5 years. Think critically and research about businesses to learn and venture into.

ABOVE ALL, PRAY TO GOD FOR GUIDANCE. Ask God for forgiveness for the rubbish you wrote in your last paragraph.

Sammyklever:
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Reggaemich:
Dream On

chrisja:
Lol... You paid your landlord 30% of your rent after paying him the rent? Wawu...

Tolu181:
as if it fall to 6k, you go buy?

Alfabest07:
that's some strategy i too applied in school, doesn't mean laziness if i can pay an agent to do the work for me while i do my actual daily work bro.
You only met an understanding & good landlord, coz from others experiences, the landlord will collect the agent and agreement by & for himself