The useless CBN governor and his principal the idiotic mannequin in aso rock also want to launch crypto currency . It's gonna be a disaster just like everything that lifeless man has ever touched

Buckeyemedia1:
My guy I make my money in United States Dollars, you want me to be wailing like you? Monday morning I will hit GT Bank to withdraw $100 to verify the new rate to start the week. Don’t hate, congratulate.

dollars indeed you wish, I know what you mean is that you'd go and withdraw your 30k BMC stipend to pay the debts you've accumulated over the previous months . Idîát

authority2006:


Troll, u still dey alive? Hope you get something to eat today?

I never chop o, but you can share whatever you want to gimme to those useless potential almajîrî terrorists in your state they sure need it more than me. Odé

Buckeyemedia1:
Exporters are happy, not everyone is wailing like you. What does your state export to make foreign exchange? It is the duty of the private sector to generate foreign exchange not the government.

Anôther braînless imp, joblessness has ruled over your lifé

thebosstrevor1:


And where did I blame Nigerians

Is the fall in the price of oil also emeiefele fault?

Abeg no carry your frustration near me.

If you don't have any solution, shut up

Blame your brainless faáther buhári for this sh!tshow the guy is f00lish in all ramifications

Stevenbright:



Klass99

All your points are valid.

But like you said, at 22 you were in school! That was the reason why I started with "is she in school"?

All my series of questions why based on two premise: Too available at home that is not gainfully engaged on something reason why the man have access to her when others are not around and two, if she is not schooling, she should get engaged on something and hence be able to save herself from a situation like this in due time.

NOTE:
Please don't compare yourself with her in the sense that your parents were available for you and hence you gradually followed the normal route but in her case, she is said to be an orphan. This should toughened her up and motivate her to be focus and hence get a bit independent as early as possible. You get it right?

Modified:

Klass99 please get in touch with the op and connect with the girl cos I believe you can be of great help to her.

She is a student in NOUN, and she does small chops catering jobs by the side during the weekdays or whenever she's not going for lectures . But she told me the catering jobs only come once in a while .

An idle hand is the devil's workshop, She has been searching for work to no avail even if it's sales girl in order to earn more, it's very complicated sha, I once even advised her to defer her admission for a year at least so that she can be financially capable to handle it.

Laslas everything na money matter, as soon as I get to Lagos I'd be able to see what I can do. Thanks

Tessieade:
Yes there is. 12.5kg , very neat @#18k

12.5kg gas for 18k . Na w

I think a repeat of the treatment that was meted in the f00lani's in central Africa republic will be welcome. Bunch of bâstárds

NLHoodlum:



Pure nonsense.
Where did you write it that she does all these??
A girl attending a University and she has not even a friend with a smart phone?? Then there is something she is not saying or you are not saying.
Must she wait for a shop before she starting a trade she knows about??
Blame rape victims?? You are very hilarious. We don't even know the full story at all.
For all I care I have seen a man beaten when he was accused of rape by a 20 year old girl and guess what?? Yes you guessed correctly, it was a lie. She did it to blackmail the man so stop your bias nonsense and dig deeper into the story, because if it is true she would have shouted out to draw attention while it's happening
My One Kobo

I won't get into an argument with you on whether the rape happened or not, it's gonna be a total waste of time cos we'd be going back and forth on it.

Kobojunkie:
The situation here is simple and it is the same no matter were you stage this on this planet. Two women tolerating rape from a man because of fear of what they might loose if they speak up or do something about the abuse. Fears aren't localized though the societal conditions of those homeless vary country to country. .

This 22-year old woman is probably afraid she might loose the only home she has..I.e. become homeless if she does something about her rape. The Aunt is probably afraid she might loose her marriage, bread winner, and home in this too.

You are here telling her she should record the rape as if it has never crossed her mind before now. She is 22 and so long as she is not mentally retarded can easily walk into a police station to report the rape. So many rape cases are processed in that same Nigeria daily without need for video evidence.

She has yet to do this means she is not ready to do what needs to be done. So the question again is, is she ready to see the abuse end or is she still comfortable in it.

Mr man go and siddown one place. You are not in Nigeria stop saying this abeg, rape of an adult processed in Nigeria without evidence and money . please just mellow if you have nothing to say. Well we can never can tell perhaps you have an "Abba kyari" here in naija we can report the case to maybe he'd take it up from there, cos even in real life how do you convict someone without evidences to backup your claims

Kobojunkie:
Stop making up excuses for the inexcusable!

Is she an retard at that age that she can't stand up for herself? And the aunt... does this run in the family or something?

Stand up for herself how?? If I may ask . Are you insinuating she fight off the man with blows and kick. You and I know it's almost impossible to do that

7thLemonLOVER:
what if she's an introvert, she may not have so much friends but I agree with you that a girl at 22 should have something doing and also be able to confront such situations with a shout except maybe she has been gaining something from it.
Only God knows

Well you are right only God knows I hope to dig deep into the matter when I get to Lagos cos it's obvious that it's not a matter that can be talked over the phone

NLHoodlum:



Oga honestly you are saying nonsense
A grown up girl at 22 is staying with her aunt she learnt no trade, she has no job. do you know if she has something doing all these will not be happening??
if she attends school then she should stay at the hostel.
Saying a 22 year old girl can't stand up for herself is rubbish.
again how sure that's the whole story when you are reading one part of it??
lastly she is supposed to have friends who will have an Android phone that she can use to post her predicaments on facebook to the groups that can help her.
So sir, stop being bias

I can see why you have a useless moniker. For your info she attends NOUN university and they have no hostel accommodation and she does some catering by the side like all this small chops, cakes but since there is no one to sponsor her and open up a shop it's difficult to get customers. That's how you guys blame rape victims it's very wrong.

Dailyparrot:


This lady in question is 22 years now.

Lol.

If at 22, she can't say no to such act and find her way out of the house, then I don't know what to say.

Because, unless the Aunt is against her husband, if she finally records and report the case to the police, she will still leave that house.

It's not that easy bro, she isn't even gainfully employed

SlyDev:
Akeredolu can't have it, he will undermine Yoruba interest. We are seeing the result in Ondo state.... We want pure blood Yoruba man

Y don't you face your sokoto state idiôt

Buhari is a murderer and a killer, I blame the lifeless mannequin for this. Useless president

Nothin wrong in sleeping with a married woman abeg...Nigerians just love making a mountain out of a mole hill. Op ride on jare I dey your back

thebosstrevor1:
Very good decision. May God bless him. He didn't come to this world to come and take up unnecessary responsibilities.

And for those shouting love, is it love that will start printing out cash to take care of jobless family members.

We don't need anîmàls like you commenting here for God's sake. We aren't talking about cows here

Jolomenas:

Sissy no dey rant for here, go to the bush and utter this nonsense

Idiot God punîsh all fulani bâstárds including you . It's time for everyone to brace up for what's coming . A huge jihad will sweep across the south soon.

Jihad is coming, just take a lot look at the arms and ammunition on display here . How do you expect locals to defend themselves with daneguns against such heavy machinery

authority2006:


Stop trolling. Get a life, dude. Vomiting same trash all over nairaland threads. You are irritating

Trolling Kwa?? . Who's trolling this old hag ?. Better go and do something reasonable with your life. I'd keep on exposing the likes of you and your ilk for the whole world to see. Dirty skank

Blastedholligan:
finally gotten the device?

yes I did but my guy needs one too...

Mmadu2:


Bros you're her boyfriend. Borrow her an android phone.

Help her make this to work and both of you would have not only destroyed an adult sex predator that has harmed many innocent girls, you both will become rich.

I wish I know her so I help her see it through and I will only demand 1 million when the court wins her the case.

I would have done that but am currently outside Lagos now..maybe when I return to lag I'd see what I can do.

P.S : Am not her boyfriend , just wanna help a fellow human being

The problem here is that she doesn't have an Android phone to use

Shukushaka:
I was shot multiple times in my dream last night by a police man but it didn't penetrate,I even went to the police station to complain about being shot for no reason. I no even understand the dream. I'm not a cultist and I left school since 2015 and no cultist activities or police brutality around where I live. I no just Understand.

I pity you , you've been shot by spiritual arrows bro. Pray against the spirit of backwardness, stagnancy and untimely death

Hello familylanders, so I brought this topic here cos I know this part of NL is filled with mature people. I met this girl sometime in February and she has become a very good friend to me , we talk alot and I try my best to advice her.

She stays with her aunt because her real mom passed on when she was about 4years old and the relationship between she and her father isn't cordial. Recently she opened up to me about how her aunt's husband has been abusing her sexually the man comes into the house when no one is around and rapes her , she has reported the man to her aunt and the woman seems powerless to do anything about it . I was shell shocked when she told me because I only hear of such stuff from a distance not that it happens to someone I happen to know.

Please I need your advice on how to help her , she is a young lady of just about 22years.

LilMissFavvy:
He should forgive the wife if she is genuinely sorry and repented. The issue should be kept as top secret. He and wife can be splitting the children's bills, or if wife is financially buoyant enough, let her be paying the fees alone, while the man pays rents, other bills etc. Let him accept them, afterall people adopt kids.

God punîsh you...if you are married am sure your kids don't belong to their father

A wicked and very perverse generation , I wonder what angel Gabriel is waiting for

authority2006:


Get a life, you're wasting

E pain am BMC August alert don enter abi?