iamawara:


Guy. U wan follow me argue again? I said "I" "me" "my self" I don't play games that pass 9:00pm I do that for my personal reasons. There are some teams I don't play even when they play Katsina united. That's my own. I don't play PGS I don't play Madrid I don't play Man u, so that's my own stand. When I say "I" you can't change my opinion, that's what I stand on.

Cool then.

Ayaba444:


I asked myself this same question

Chelsea and man utd are unstable.

jolomiurenyi:
any sure 2odd today?

I give you Edinburgh and PSG, though PSG game is tomorrow.

iamawara:


Lol. Any game wey pass 9pm I no dey play am

The time of play is irrelevant. It all depends on who is playing.

I carried Porto and The New saints yesterday and they delivered. Remaining Liverpool today and PSG tomorrow to green.

Goodluck to us.

19985749

Joezinho:
Pls can anyone forecast 5 odds?

I have done that. Check whether your bet9ja is accessible. Its giving me headache here.

I can't miss this sweet 5 odds nah. Any solution?

I can't fund my bet9ja account since yesterday. Anybody facing same problems?

ariefadenning:
Go, read your book and get good grades.
Women will chase you.

That one is a lie. I mean the third part.

oyaskii:
Probably because he's a war veteran and suffering from PTSD

and Comparing with 24 isn't a fair basis.first off we got to see 24 over many seasons and some seasons were actually below par and secondly both shows are of slightly different context.

Bodyguard was brilliant and i still stand by my 9/10 rating, now whether is better than 24 or not is based on individual perspective which everyone is entitled to.

And "The Bodyguard" i know has 6 episodes... how's yours having 8 episode

It was the 6th Episode I watched then which ended with David Burton picking his family in a car. That was the end unless they release subsequent episodes.

Okay then.

Favoritefarmer:

but is it good to start on a truth note.
I date to marry.

When you tell a girl that, most of them will turn to angels or become rigid and lackadaisical which is what you are seeing.

Rather tell her you wish to get to know her or date her.

Kennedyiheme:
Call it crazy but its reality... a successful woman wouldn't want to date down, she wouldn't want to date someone she makes more money than, aslo wealthy men don't want to marry a woman of equal status.. so in reality if you're a woman you cant have both.. you must sacrifice one for the other.. its either you sacrifice family for your career and riches or you sacrifice career for family... its your choice to pick one...

Example of successful of successful nigerian women without husbands and a traditional family...
MOST NIGERIAN FEMALE CELEBS

That's crap you know?..

Omosexy is successful and equally happily married to a flight captain.

oyaskii:
If it's the British Tv show you are talking about then is a solid 9/10.

I have watched this series up to E6 since it has 8 episodes and if I were to rate it, I would say:

7/10
Reason being that the actor is a bit laid back and more like a junkie.

I feel it was his affair with the Home secretary, Julia and his bomb incident scene that made it a bit interesting.

Based on that since "24" is far better than it, I rate Jack Baeur film, 9/10.

Thanks.

nickxtra:
From, these are more professionalized. One can go into private practice after studying some of these broken down courses

Na so e easy? Where will the capital come from?

U

nickxtra:
NUC unbundles Mass Communication Degree into Seven degree awarding programmes while making Mass Communication to become a Faculty.

The seven new Programmes/Departments, to be domiciled in a Faculty of Mass Communication are:

1. Journalism & Media Studies

2. Public Relations

3. Advertising

4. Broadcasting

5. Film & Multi-Media Studies

6. Development Communication Studies

7. Information & Media Studies

This is a great news...better professionals will emerge from 2025!


https://authorityngr.com/2020/01/05/nuc-splits-mass-comm-3-other-degree-programmes/

This is only limiting their chances. Mass communication graduates who assumedly possess these skills are still in job market not to talk of breaking it further.

Racoon:
Congrats nwannem! A nation that rewards merit as it's never based on race, ethnicity, religious inclination or godfatherism.

God bless America.

Z3DY38L8

RiyadhGoddess:
"I’m called to carry the torch and fulfill the work of sharing the gospel..."
I'm committed to tell the world about Jesus!

Sleep On Sir...

Let us with a gladsome mind,
Praise the Lord for He is Kind,
For His mercies shall endure,
Ever Faithful, Ever Sure...

Good Morning and Happy First Sunday In The Year 2020

I can still remember him preaching citing the case of how Zachhaeus encountered Jesus.

He usually paused his sermons with "/ij/".

You will surely be missed Sir.

*salutes.

fergie001:


https://thenationonlineng.net/hisbah-raids-gay-party-arrests-15-homosexuals/

Why is it that the north have more cases of gay practice?

Could it religion induced? Their men hardly shake their women, ordinary handshake o.

I think they are sexually frustrated.

backbone503:


Its complexity lies in its simplicity.

God.

HITdemUP:
War is looming

Run! Run!! Run!!!

A big, big something.


Japa! Japa!! Japa!!!

Dehindepgenius:


My first meeting with my wife's parents was funny as hell. Thank God the old man has a sense of humor. I mistook him for the gardener, he was wearing gloves and trimming flowers when I arrived. I was like 'is your oga around?' He looked me over and said 'are you a clown or you just lack manners?' I realised who he was at that point. Then to worsen thing, at dinner I accidentally knocked a pitcher of water into his soup. My wife looked like she would faint. Today we are best buds. Inside life

See gbege. Why you go eat for first meeting? Ojukokoro

blessingsonflee:
Lastly, no matter how hungry you are , when your father in-law invites you to eat with him say “NO “! . No go think say dem like you na him make he tell you “come chop” . If you do , just know say na your last supper you chop so . Make dem no go tag you as hungry guy-man wey no go fit feed their daughter.

Like seriously?

backbone503:
Anyone coming for my sisters or daughters should be prepared to tell me what motivates/inspires him.

Your question too simple nah.

Greatzeus:

Almost 5 years on Nairaland,have never use any degrading words towards a female here,you will not be the first. Your quote is unnecessary,next time just air your view and move along.

She aired her views and I didn't see any degrading expression.

What she implies is: Stay humble.

Its possible you are not, cos your ego just surfaced over some harmless stuff.

Pavore9:


From Imo. Truth be told, profiles of a man's siblings really count in the scoring during the "assessment"

The reason is that should anything happen, there will be someone or people to fall back on.

pocohantas:
Nice thread OP. Let me add,

How many are you in your family?

If he is the FIRST SON from a family of 10 and the last 3 are still in school. They will assume their daughter has 3 children before she born sef. The inlaws will most likely see her as a competition or stumbling block. It is not easy being married to the pillar of a home.

Your siblings?

Igbo fathers be like "Umunne gi kwanu?"
He doesn't just want to hear "ahu di ha mma", he wants to hear their profile too.

"Oh, my elder brother is a doctor in the US. My younger sister works with FIRS. The one after her is an engineer in Shell"...IMPRESSIVE!

Your daughter has chances of going to the abroad to give birth. Also, when everybody in a family is doing well, phone dey ring, family dey call, you no go dey fear to pick am. Christmas in the villa would be like getaway. Not, umu Remigius mere nka, ha me nka. Ana akoheri.

Where do you base?
Naija parents don't like their daughters going too far, especially Igbos. They want where they can easily come for omugwo. This far distance doesn't include abroad o. Abroad is not far at all.

It will also help them know where their daughter has been going all the while she didn't return home for ASUU strike.

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If you wan see where Naija alpha male humble, take him to your father. E go ask you mumu question for doormot. Should I remove my slippers? You'll be like "baby just enter!!!"

You are so on point. Who wan cast for your father side? Person wey dey ask questions, no dey miss road.

maynation:
Nairaland and wonders be like 5 and 6.

Oga you're not crazy, any other question?

Should he date her?

On a scale of 10, should someone rate "Bodyguard" for me. Thanks.

It's been long I watched series. I am looking at vikings and it seems I have up to 8 episodes of season 6 to catch up.

That season deserves award.

ultimate77:
Hi guys... It's been a while. I hope y'all enjoying the new year and the winter. I practically sleep with my fan on and without cloth, I bath with cold water as well. Before you say I should go to jos and try it, I was born in Jos, plateau state and lived most of my life all in the north.

THIS WILL BE A LONG READ SO BUCKLE UP AND ENJOY THEN PUT MOUTH.

To my story. So I was able to do away with my ex as you guys advised me to 2 years ago. After 3 months of the break-up, I got a good jib and left the city. I wasn't posting any picture on my WhatsApp status neither do I post on Facebook. She was always viewing my status which are usually my poetry write ups. After a year, she called to apologise saying how I an the only best guy for her in the whole world, how I am the only guy who knows how to treat her well. Well, truth of the matter it I tolerated ask her excesses and my guy just asked me to so I can learn how to handle any other woman.

I was celibate for the whole year before she came back begging and my guy asked me not to be rude, I should tell her it's ok, let's try again but I should just watch her for a month. Men and brethren, I was cautious enough not to allow us meet because she not someone you can easily come by and you will go without your JT responding to stimulus.... She had a way of getting my pants down. So I did everything so we don't meet.

So she told be how she had missed me, the love, the care, the outings, the foods I make for her and the sex most of all. She admitted she has within the year dated 2 other guys and still broke up with them. Note: the longest relationship she has had was the one I and she had which lasted for 3 miserable years... But I learnt much lessons so I do not regret.
Refusing to meet her after we agreed, I was giving her excuses that I was busy with work this made her start showing that her attitude again.. I already had become immune to all those behaviours of her. I just ignored her and that was how it slid. I was happy we went silent on each other again.

So, mid last year, I was at work and one of my bosses brought this young beautiful lady to my office and requested that I help connect her to the company's wireless. I didn't even act as if he was talking to me neither did I respond to any of them, on that day, I was so furious about the job I gave my boys to do which they did not complete. So the man asked my colleague to help her do that. I was really not interested in connecting anyone to the network until I resolve the downtime. However, I really don't give face to female young chaps at the company because I know myself.. Someone might just fall in love with me and I can't even deal.

Fast-forward a month later, my colleague has started taking and chatting with the new lady, she actually Came for her industrial attachment. They were always chatting and she'll come visit him in my office during break hours. All the while, I only respond to her greetings but sometimes, I listened to their conversations while working on my system. She seemed to be a great personality as I noticed she barely get angry, each time she speaks, she made sense. She responds to any question you ask her. After 2 months, I asked my guy where the girl is from. He told me. I kept quiet. 2 days later, my colleague told me that the girl said she wanted to learn Java and he told her he doesn't know how to but that I can help her. He brought her to my table and I told her she was going to pay me 50k so I'll teach her all she needs to know. She bargained and we agreed on 40k. She came the first day during break period, I had to interview her and I was amazed at her responses.

Work wouldn't let her concentrate so we cancelled classes till when she's done. A day Came she just came to my office and that was a day for just chats. I led through the conversations and she clearly opened up to me to say.. In her words "you know what? The day that man asked you to connect me to the network, the moment I saw you, I had a very strong feelings for you and since that day I couldn't help it but I was scared you might bounce me. But I said to myself 2 things must happen. It's either I make this guy fall in love with me by my actions or I tell it to him... But you were not just interested." I was smiling. She told me everything she feels... I already had within two days thought of asking to date her and marry her because she possess 80% of all I want in a woman especially her common sense and love for technology.

She had told me she has a guy outside the country who she said want to marry her, she loves him but then, she doesn't know what is going on because she can't seem to get over me and she said she knows it's not infatuation. I knew it wasn't either. I loved the girl like mad within 3 days. I knew I would. After 2 weeks, I told her I want us to date and I want to marry her I know she will too. She couldn't say a word so I let her.. Fact is, she can't stay off my path. I developed strong feelings for her that I could just do anything for her. As the days go bye, it was becoming stronger and stronger.

She decided to start acting weird to see if she's really fooling herself at that point I realised and decided to take a chill pill and have a break.. But after 2 days, we hooked again. Things happened and we finally decided to stay with each other and marry when the time comes. I know I shouldn't beg a woman to marry me as a man but guys, marrying that girl is in my own interest because she will preserve my home and everything that has to do with me. She marrying me too is in her own best interest because she will have a man who is worthy to be called a husband.

Now the challenge is... This guy outside the country is younger than I am and just 2 years older than she is.. She is 23..and I am 7 years older than she is. The guy has built houses, has cars and has a business but not educated as I am, not sensitised as I am.. Just anything academics and social and otherwise.. Most especially I have a profession and yea, he has a business but has achieved more than me.. The lady Has weighed the both of us and is still very confused as she keeps saying both of us are just perfect for her. On her list of 8 guys, she had deleted 6 it's just left the two of us and that she really wish she can delete him but the guy is too good to be deleted like that. She hadn't had sex with him because she said "the guy said they should skip sex till marriage because of how much he loves her" and me in the other hand, I don't have a house built yet, my business is in it's pitching stage and in don't own a car or cars too but that isn't my biggest worries now.

I had told her, before the year ends before she wraps up her 500 level, my business should have been set up and running and since she loves my profession, that will be a plus for her and she will as well know and be proud that she was and is a part of my/our success story. She was sick about the whole thing and finally decided she'll settle for me and I advised she shouldn't tell the guy until he comes back to the country so you guys can talk and you can kindly tell him. Though I feel the pains this guy will go through receiving this news.. But it has to be done.

We now talk more often, as I am planning to marry her this year hopefully after her studies because I am certain the money will be available even to buy her all she needs. She had read my vision and seen a headway and how I strive to make them come alive. She has been quiet supportive with her advice and love. However, at some point, I fear she might just change her mind and return to the guy. You know how inconsistent some ladies can be na. She told me the guy had visited her mum and her elder sister who is married and they all liked him but her father hasn't seen him yet.

My aunt rarely accepts girls I show her but then moment all my family members saw her picture, they all accepted her and asked that I bring her. Me on the other hand, I had only spoken to her mum just ones and that was because I needed to help them do a payment and we've not met. Most of the men at the company are asking the girl to marry them as she shows me the whole conversation.

Guys, at some point I feel she won't leave me at a point I feel threatened by the communications between her and the guy though it doesn't last longer than 5 minutes but we speak like 40minuites over the phone. On free days 2 hours sometimes. And I am not scared that she might leave or maybe that I can't get another. Nada! There are many options but she's number one and I know I love her more than any one else. She has other options too but I can't speak for her.

Guys, anything I can do to secure this girl? Even though I know I got her at angle 90° for now not even 45° because @45° there won't be much distractions. I hope no body comes to tell me to go acquire what the other guy has acquired because I'm in the process.

I just need a few words guys.
Cc lalasticlala
Please help

You have 2 choices.

1. Reconcile her to her abroad boyfriend and get an iv hopefully and come here and post it so that we will wish you get get your own queen.

2. Go and see her parents and do official introduction if you are serious. At this stage, you need to come out open with her people.
I hope you don't open another thread in the future cos ...

bluebay:
I'll suggest you monitor her closely ad lay ambush for them ... For if you report to the authorities at this stage, he will go Scott free coz they will see he wasn't caught red handed . Just keep watching their chat then the day of the action, burst them up ..

That will be dangerous. What if the action day skipped him?